Out of Sight/Out of Mind and See No Evil/Hear No Evil with Exes

Pocket Money

amdublin wrote: »

Have you blocked her on social media and deleted her number op?

May/June. It's time to move forward.

Yep

Not checked since Wednesday I do believe and my weekend is completely full up as well as starting a new job next week so things might be looking up

hawley

Can I ask why you feel way better after finding out who her new partner is? I'm glad that you are feeling better btw.

leggo

Pocket Money wrote: »

The reason I know she knows I check is because we broke up a few years ago and both admitted to each other we consistently kept tabs on each other but as we're stubborn people, we'd never go further than a bit of online creeping. I'm sure she's looked me up just like I look her up. That doesn't make it right, I completely agree, especially if I'm trying to get back on track and trying to stop letting it get to me or affect my mentality or outlook on life.

Sorry, I was going off this. But then I scanned the thread again and saw you said you got back together six months later. I get you now.

Pocket Money

hawley wrote: »

Can I ask why you feel way better after finding out who her new partner is? I'm glad that you are feeling better btw.

Just a couple of things- it’s with a colleague who is on her team in work/ I always believe in not sh*tying on your own doorstep- classic rebound and commenced weeks after me and her were through, he does a lot of drugs and she was openly critical of him to me and to other colleagues in the past, and I’m not gonna lie, and I don’t want to sound arrogant because I’m not, but I think she can do better and has downgraded.

But again, priority is focusing on me, and it’s Day 4 without looking her up, and all of you who contributed to this thread have helped me so far so thank you

TheBoyConor

Pocket Money wrote: »

It is a recent break up! May/June!

That's friggin months ago, man.

Tbh, this might not be popular in some sectors here but imo what OP needs is go out on a few one night stands to get her out of his head. Not even a rebound, just a simple ons or 2. That's what I did after a break up a few years ago that I was upset about. I'm fine now.

I get what you're saying about her downgrading. My ex downgraded too and I felt it to be a strangely satisfying feeling.

amdublin

Pocket Money wrote: »

Yep

Not checked since Wednesday I do believe and my weekend is completely full up as well as starting a new job next week so things might be looking up

Good job