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Out of Sight/Out of Mind and See No Evil/Hear No Evil with Exes

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  • #32
    Pocket Money
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12 ✭Pocket Money


    amdublin wrote: »
    Have you blocked her on social media and deleted her number op?

    May/June. It's time to move forward.

    Yep

    Not checked since Wednesday I do believe and my weekend is completely full up as well as starting a new job next week so things might be looking up :)


  • #33
    hawley
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,623 ✭✭✭hawley


    Can I ask why you feel way better after finding out who her new partner is? I'm glad that you are feeling better btw.

    Communication was the greatest fatality



  • #34
    leggo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    Pocket Money wrote: »
    The reason I know she knows I check is because we broke up a few years ago and both admitted to each other we consistently kept tabs on each other but as we're stubborn people, we'd never go further than a bit of online creeping. I'm sure she's looked me up just like I look her up. That doesn't make it right, I completely agree, especially if I'm trying to get back on track and trying to stop letting it get to me or affect my mentality or outlook on life.

    Sorry, I was going off this. But then I scanned the thread again and saw you said you got back together six months later. I get you now.


  • #35
    Pocket Money
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12 ✭Pocket Money


    hawley wrote: »
    Can I ask why you feel way better after finding out who her new partner is? I'm glad that you are feeling better btw.


    Just a couple of things- it’s with a colleague who is on her team in work/ I always believe in not sh*tying on your own doorstep- classic rebound and commenced weeks after me and her were through, he does a lot of drugs and she was openly critical of him to me and to other colleagues in the past, and I’m not gonna lie, and I don’t want to sound arrogant because I’m not, but I think she can do better and has downgraded.

    But again, priority is focusing on me, and it’s Day 4 without looking her up, and all of you who contributed to this thread have helped me so far so thank you :)


  • #36
    TheBoyConor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,283 ✭✭✭TheBoyConor


    Pocket Money wrote: »
    It is a recent break up! May/June!

    That's friggin months ago, man.

    Tbh, this might not be popular in some sectors here but imo what OP needs is go out on a few one night stands to get her out of his head. Not even a rebound, just a simple ons or 2. That's what I did after a break up a few years ago that I was upset about. I'm fine now.

    I get what you're saying about her downgrading. My ex downgraded too and I felt it to be a strangely satisfying feeling.


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  • #37
    amdublin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,653 ✭✭✭✭amdublin


    Pocket Money wrote: »
    Yep

    Not checked since Wednesday I do believe and my weekend is completely full up as well as starting a new job next week so things might be looking up :)

    Good job


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