Emigrating to the United States

mrhoppy

So I've been mulling over this for a bit, and I've come to the conclusion, after long periods of thought about it, that I want to emigrate to the United States. I feel there is no opportunity for me in Ireland, and I feel like I'd simply be doing myself a disservice by staying here. Anyone have any opinions/advice on this?

nocoverart

sugarman wrote: »

What was wrong with the answers in your last thread?

Perhaps Op should emigrate to Mullingar?

mrhoppy

sugarman wrote: »

What was wrong with the answers in your last thread?

I'm trying to reconcile staying here but can't. A lot of people seemed to be asking questions instead of giving answers, not what I was looking for.

mrhoppy

nocoverart wrote: »

Perhaps Op should emigrate to Mullingar?

Sure what good would that do?

Lyle Lanley

You'll need to be a little more specific. Comes across like you're a complete dreamer..

What qualifications have you got? What industry do you work in? What part of the states? What sort of visa are you thinking?

If you're just going cause you want to leave Ireland there are easier places to get into legally.

mrhoppy

Lyle Lanley wrote: »

You'll need to be a little more specific. Comes across like you're a complete dreamer..

What qualifications have you got? What industry do you work in? What part of the states? What sort of visa are you thinking?

If you're just going cause you want to leave Ireland there are easier places to get into legally.

I have no intention of remaining in the EU if that’s what you’re saying

J Mysterio

Lyle Lanley wrote: »

Comes across like you're a complete dreamer..

And im pretty sure Trump shutdown the dreamer program.

mrhoppy

J Mysterio wrote: »

And im pretty sure Trump shutdown the dreamer program.

Please tell me you’re not attempting to be serious

doolox

The US has very restricted entry requirements for foreign workers. An employer has to demonstrate that he cannot find a suitably qualified US citizen to do the work required. This is becoming harder to get a visa for by many US companies.

I know that some engineering and software graduates used to get taken on by the parent company of the Irish subsidiary I used to work for but this is happening less frequently because the company sets up facilities in the workers home country because it is cheaper to do so. Modern internet comms make it easier to have many different nationalities collaborating in many different locations in real time as if in the one building. Only large hardware and civil eng projects require relocation of employees and often only highly skilled and rare talents are relocated as it is becoming very costly to do so.

The US is becoming very challenging to live in, high rentals in NY city, San Francisco and the likes are higher than Dublins and the cost of living on food, healthcare and living essentials are also higher. Motor insurance and Health cover are now higher than Irelands in many States and taxes are higher. High local and State taxes mean many people are fleeing high tax States for low tax States. There is also higher rates of crime and race hate violence to contend with. In California many towns have huge problems sourcing enough water for ordinary things like washing, cooking and drinking and it costs a lot. Irish Water is a doddle in comparison. Other States have high risks of floods, storms and natural disasters we do not get in Ireland on the same scale.

In the States holidays are a lot less than Ireland and Social Welfare is very basic compared to Irelands. Many jobless are bussed 60 - 100 miles to minimum wage jobs at their own expense making an 8 hr day into a 12 hr day when the 2hr commute is added ( Busses are very slow in the US). Many States and most people have a very militantly negative view of Welfare and you will not find it pleasant. Without citizenship the only option will be a flight home or deportation if you can't afford it. Many States operate welfare payments in food stamps to prevent people buying other stuff like drink or cigarettes such is the level of control of Welfare spending.

In order to make a go of the US you will have to be very well prepared to not only work long and hard but also to be able to defend your work accuracy , output and effectiveness against stiff competition and hostile criticism at all times. Stuff we do in Ireland such lates after a heavy drinking session or carelessness with company property or casualness in front of customers will result in instant dismissal especially if you are a recent immigrant with little or no rights or protection. Since Trump got in illegal working and undocumented arrangements are much more risky and probably non existent for new travellers. Many people are being turned back by an ever more vigilant and hostile Immigration Service unless you can prove you have a two-way ticket and enough money to live for the planned time of your stay. The days of getting a refund on your return leg of the ticket in order to cheaply dissappear into the US are over and the Immigration guys will be on your trail in the event of an overstay. Some people have been refused re entry even years after short overstays even on recent holidays.

I have known people who worked illegally in the States and were suddenly deported after years of building up a house and savings and a life over there and now they cannot access their money or their house and it will take them years to sort out the mess and rescue something from it all. Many of them are on the dole here in Ireland and in dire poverty because of Trumps anti immigration stance. The fun times are over in Uncle Sams backyard.

mrhoppy

doolox wrote: »

The US has very restricted entry requirements for foreign workers. An employer has to demonstrate that he cannot find a suitably qualified US citizen to do the work required. This is becoming harder to get a visa for by many US companies.

I know that some engineering and software graduates used to get taken on by the parent company of the Irish subsidiary I used to work for but this is happening less frequently because the company sets up facilities in the workers home country because it is cheaper to do so. Modern internet comms make it easier to have many different nationalities collaborating in many different locations in real time as if in the one building. Only large hardware and civil eng projects require relocation of employees and often only highly skilled and rare talents are relocated as it is becoming very costly to do so.

The US is becoming very challenging to live in, high rentals in NY city, San Francisco and the likes are higher than Dublins and the cost of living on food, healthcare and living essentials are also higher. Motor insurance and Health cover are now higher than Irelands in many States and taxes are higher. High local and State taxes mean many people are fleeing high tax States for low tax States. There is also higher rates of crime and race hate violence to contend with. In California many towns have huge problems sourcing enough water for ordinary things like washing, cooking and drinking and it costs a lot. Irish Water is a doddle in comparison. Other States have high risks of floods, storms and natural disasters we do not get in Ireland on the same scale.

In the States holidays are a lot less than Ireland and Social Welfare is very basic compared to Irelands. Many jobless are bussed 60 - 100 miles to minimum wage jobs at their own expense making an 8 hr day into a 12 hr day when the 2hr commute is added ( Busses are very slow in the US). Many States and most people have a very militantly negative view of Welfare and you will not find it pleasant. Without citizenship the only option will be a flight home or deportation if you can't afford it. Many States operate welfare payments in food stamps to prevent people buying other stuff like drink or cigarettes such is the level of control of Welfare spending.

In order to make a go of the US you will have to be very well prepared to not only work long and hard but also to be able to defend your work accuracy , output and effectiveness against stiff competition and hostile criticism at all times. Stuff we do in Ireland such lates after a heavy drinking session or carelessness with company property or casualness in front of customers will result in instant dismissal especially if you are a recent immigrant with little or no rights or protection. Since Trump got in illegal working and undocumented arrangements are much more risky and probably non existent for new travellers. Many people are being turned back by an ever more vigilant and hostile Immigration Service unless you can prove you have a two-way ticket and enough money to live for the planned time of your stay. The days of getting a refund on your return leg of the ticket in order to cheaply dissappear into the US are over and the Immigration guys will be on your trail in the event of an overstay. Some people have been refused re entry even years after short overstays even on recent holidays.

I have known people who worked illegally in the States and were suddenly deported after years of building up a house and savings and a life over there and now they cannot access their money or their house and it will take them years to sort out the mess and rescue something from it all. Many of them are on the dole here in Ireland and in dire poverty because of Trumps anti immigration stance. The fun times are over in Uncle Sams backyard.

I would be emigrating legally and working as hard as I could to become a citizen, never to return to Ireland if I can help it. Plus, Ireland has practically zero influence on the world stage, anything we do here is irrelevant and has no mening except to perpetuate being, in essence, a loser. We do not do anything worthwhile here, and I don’t want to be part of that.

Peregrinus

mrhoppy wrote: »

I would be emigrating legally . . .

How do you propose to do this? Do you think you qualify for an immigrant visa and, if so, which visa?

mrhoppy

Peregrinus wrote: »

How do you propose to do this? Do you think you qualify for an immigrant visa and, if so, which visa?

Apply (and hopefully get) a green card, be resident in the US for five years, take the US naturalisation test, and do whatever else is necessary. I would have to have a prospective employer in the US willing to sponsor me, or one of my relatives who is a citizen there already.

It’s an I-551 by the way

mrhoppy

Peregrinus wrote: »

How do you propose to do this? Do you think you qualify for an immigrant visa and, if so, which visa?

Regardless, I would be doing anything and everything in my power to move out of Ireland - quite simply there is nothing for me here

Peregrinus

Well, if you're in a position to obtain a Green Card, I don't see any problem. You can obtain one and go.

What exactly are you asking us? To approve of your decision?

hefferboi

You’re a dreamer.

mrhoppy

Peregrinus wrote: »

Well, if you're in a position to obtain a Green Card, I don't see any problem. You can obtain one and go.

What exactly are you asking us? To approve of your decision?

I'm asking for some reconciliation to stay here, of which I can find none

Peregrinus

mrhoppy wrote: »

I'm asking for some reconciliation to stay here, of which I can find none

You're asking us to argue you out of your decision? Why would we do that?

The reasons you offer for migrating are:

"I feel there is no opportunity for me in Ireland . . ."

"Ireland has practically zero influence on the world stage . . ."

"We do not do anything worthwhile here, and I don’t want to be part of that."

Obviously, you know your situation better than we do, so if you feel there is no opportunity for you in Ireland, we're not really in a position to contradict you. And, anyway, even if there are in fact opportunities available to you in Ireland, if you don't perceive them they might as well not be there.

As for Ireland's influence on the world stage and Ireland not doing anything worthwhile, I'm not sure I agree with you, but I don't think that matters. If what we do in Ireland does not seem worthwhile to you, it makes little difference to you whether it seems worthwhile to me.

I get the sense that you want to be part of a bigger and more globally visible community than Ireland, and you feel that the US is that community. You should go for it! What have you got to lose? At worst, you face disappointment if, when you get to the US, you find yourself still as dissatisfied as you are here. But, even then, at least you'll have given it a shot.

If you don't go, you'll never know whether you made the right decision. If you do go, at least you'll know.

Lyle Lanley

mrhoppy wrote: »

I have no intention of remaining in the EU if that’s what you’re saying

Ok, what about the Carribbean? Or depending on your age, Canada.

South America somewhere either?

mrhoppy

Peregrinus wrote: »

You're asking us to argue you out of your decision? Why would we do that?

The reasons you offer for migrating are:

"I feel there is no opportunity for me in Ireland . . ."

"Ireland has practically zero influence on the world stage . . ."

"We do not do anything worthwhile here, and I don’t want to be part of that."

Obviously, you know your situation better than we do, so if you feel there is no opportunity for you in Ireland, we're not really in a position to contradict you. And, anyway, even if there are in fact opportunities available to you in Ireland, if you don't perceive them they might as well not be there.

As for Ireland's influence on the world stage and Ireland not doing anything worthwhile, I'm not sure I agree with you, but I don't think that matters. If what we do in Ireland does not seem worthwhile to you, it makes little difference to you whether it seems worthwhile to me.

I get the sense that you want to be part of a bigger and more globally visible community than Ireland, and you feel that the US is that community. You should go for it! What have you got to lose? At worst, you face disappointment if, when you get to the US, you find yourself still as dissatisfied as you are here. But, even then, at least you'll have given it a shot.

If you don't go, you'll never know whether you made the right decision. If you do go, at least you'll know.

I think it does all come down to perception and viewpoints to be fair.

You would be absolutely right when you say I'd like to be part of a bigger, more globally visible (and impactful) community. I have always felt like I'm part of a laid-back, nonchalant populace that takes nothing seriously and is too incompetent to actually have an impact on the world. Again, I want no part of that.

the_syco

mrhoppy wrote: »

I feel there is no opportunity for me in Ireland

Why do you think it'll be different in the US?

doolox wrote: »

The US is becoming very challenging to live in, high rentals in NY city, San Francisco and the likes are higher than Dublins

In San Fran, earning $80,000 is barely surviving, as the rent can costs can be that high!

mrhoppy wrote: »

Please tell me you’re not attempting to be serious

The "dreamers" are what the Irish illegals (who overstayed their visa) are referred to in the USA.

mrhoppy wrote: »

I'm asking for some reconciliation to stay here, of which I can find none

You gave no reasons why it'll be better over then, and no explanation why your life sucks here.

mrhoppy wrote: »

A lot of people seemed to be asking questions instead of giving answers, not what I was looking for.

I'm assuming that they wanted to know why moving makes everything better?

mrhoppy

the_syco wrote: »

Why do you think it'll be different in the US?

Better economy, nicer people, and actual opportunities to excel at things. Irish people don't excel at anything except being superficial and pretentious. For scope, I have a few American friends. I have no Irish ones, and there's a reason for that.

the_syco wrote: »

In San Fran, earning $80,000 is barely surviving, as the rent can costs can be that high!

Dublin just became more expensive to live in than Abu Dhabi, Central London and Silicon Valley (for some ridiculous reason). Please tell me how it's any better to live here?

the_syco wrote: »

The "dreamers" are what the Irish illegals (who overstayed their visa) are referred to in the USA.

Fair enough, my bad

the_syco wrote: »

You gave no reasons why it'll be better over then, and no explanation why your life sucks here.

Better over there: look above

Life sucks here:
-> Incredibly superficial and pretentious people
-> No opportunity for someone looking to be more than an average joe
-> No opportunity for someone looking to excel at anything - the Irish excel at nothing
-> No proper recreation - explains our drug and alcohol problem
-> No influence or impact on the world whatsoever

the_syco wrote: »

I'm assuming that they wanted to know why moving makes everything better?

They've got a false and unwarranted sense of Irish patriotism, with no reason or explanation for it whatsoever. Being Irish is nothing to be proud of.

CelticRambler

mrhoppy wrote: »

-> No influence or impact on the world whatsoever

American farmers drive tractors; the tractor, invented by an Irishman.


The American navy drives submarines; the submarine, invented by an Irishman.


Two examples of the Irish having some impact on the world. I could give you a dozen more, but it seems like the only way you'll figure out just how much inflence Ireland has on the rest of the world's population is by getting out of your discomfort zone, so go for it and good luck.

lawred2

mrhoppy wrote: »

I would be emigrating legally and working as hard as I could to become a citizen, never to return to Ireland if I can help it. Plus, Ireland has practically zero influence on the world stage, anything we do here is irrelevant and has no mening except to perpetuate being, in essence, a loser. We do not do anything worthwhile here, and I don’t want to be part of that.

How will you be emigrating legally? What is your skillset?

Panrich

mrhoppy wrote: »

I have no intention of remaining in the EU if that’s what you’re saying

Have you considered the UK? It has the advantage of proximity.

J.pilkington

Mrhoppy may enigrate to the us on a short term visa but once that’s up I don’t see any employer wanting to sponsor them due to their sour attitude and lack of work ethic / hunger and they will be back to Ireland again.

Or maybe mrhoppy won’t enigrate, will instead continue to blame everyone else for their unhappiness and run down Irish people and in 5 more months will post another thread.

Peregrinus

Ireland definitely punches above its weight in terms of global impact, particularly when it comes to fields like literature, but the US is a vastly bigger, more powerful and more wealthy nation, and in absolutely terms has much more impact on the world than Ireland does. If it matters to the OP to be part of a big, powerful and wealthy nation, well, this is a no-brainer.

As for the US having a "better economy", well, it depends on what you mean by "better". It has a bigger economy, certainly. But, in terms of the welfare/happiness of citizens, there are some problems. The US economy is characterised by high (and growing) levels of inequality, with the result that real wages for ordinary US workers have grown by only 10% since 1973, whereas in Ireland they have doubled in the same period. And, while the OP points to our "drug and alcohol problems", he can hardly be unaware that the US is in the grip of an opioid crisis such that more people die each year from opioid abuse in the US than die in either car accidents or firearms incidents. The two problems are possibly linked; one theory is that the opioid crisis is a response to people's attempt to escape despair and hopelessness at being trapped in widespread long-term social and economic stagnation.

So, yeah. It's possible that the OP is seeing the US through rose-tinted spectacles, grass on the other side of the fence, etc, etc. Plus, to the extent that his lack of opportunity in Ireland is connected with his own circumstances and/or background, it's possible that those circumstances/background may go with him to the US.

Still, as I said above, what has he got to lose by trying? He's in a situation that at the moment he finds unsatisfactory; he needs to break out of that; he thinks going to the US will do that for him; and he certainly seems to be motivated to give it his best shot there. Yes, when he gets there he may find that some things are not quite as different from here as he assumes, and some things are actually worse but, still, he is better off being in a situation where he is motivated to give it a go than being in a situation of which he despairs. If the worst comes to the worst he can always come home again.

CelticRambler

lawred2 wrote: »

How will you be emigrating legally? What is your skillset?

Shhhhh. He doesn't like being asked questions! :pac:



But a quick search will show that he did his Leaving a year ago and is (unhappily) studying electronic engineering in ITT.


Which, as it happens, has a working arrangement with my local IT-equivalent in France, where electronic engineering students have the opportunity to work with the global aeronautical engineering companies based in the town (fluent English a standard requirement). But we had that discussion already, so that's obviously not the kind of "get out of Ireland and do something ambitious" that mrhoppy's looking for ...

lawred2

Scratching my head at no proper recreation? What does that mean? Surely recreation is what you make of it yourself and Ireland objectively has a million and one things to be doing.

If you can't find anything to do here you won't find anything to do anywhere else.

lawred2

CelticRambler wrote: »

Shhhhh. He doesn't like being asked questions! :pac:



But a quick search will show that he did his Leaving a year ago and is (unhappily) studying electronic engineering in ITT.


Which, as it happens, has a working arrangement with my local IT-equivalent in France, where electronic engineering students have the opportunity to work with the global aeronautical engineering companies based in the town (fluent English a standard requirement). But we had that discussion already, so that's obviously not the kind of "get out of Ireland and do something ambitious" that mrhoppy's looking for ...

I'd have jumped at that chance

Wanderer78

Ireland is doing just fine op, it has its faults, but so does every other country. We re generally a very peaceful country compared to others, yes the cost of living is truly dreadful, particularly in large cities, but it's probably worse in other countries. I'd imagine America is very difficult to live in for most people, but you may get lucky, so best of luck.

Subcomandante Marcos

the_syco wrote: »

In San Fran, earning $80,000 is barely surviving, as the rent can costs can be that high!

In SF and the peninsula being below $100k per year = being "lower income".
The cost of living there is insane. People queue for hours to interview for tiny studios and the privileged to pay up to $2400 a month + parking and utilities for them.

Unless I was on google money I wouldn't even dream of relocating to SF.

Fr Tod Umptious

OP there is feck all soceital difference between Ireland and lots of the US.

So you will find a lot of the smae things that piss you off in Ireland also pissing you off in the US.

But it's a great country and you should try hard to get a chance to live there.

It's a great country to work in, you get well paid for the work you do.

I actually found that there was very little difference between working in IT in Ireland and the US. The work levels and quality of work were just as good in Ireland as they were in the US. But in the US ones good work effort was more appreciated, recognised and rewarded.

Apply for the DV visa in October, and every October, or get a good degree and a few years work experience and look for a company to sponsor you for a H1B

Cushie Butterfield

mrhoppy wrote:

I would have to have a prospective employer in the US willing to sponsor me, or one of my relatives who is a citizen there already.

Do you realise that unless your US Citizen relative is your spouse or parent you could be waiting twenty years or more for your priority date? If it’s a parent they’d want to start the process before you turn 21. If they wait until after you’re 21 you’d be in a different category & your waiting time would increase enormously.

What skills/qualifications do you have/intend to have that will give you a fighting chance of a US employer considering going to the expense & effort of petitioning for you?

I realise that you don’t want to be questioned, but often being questioned on ideas that you have helps to separate dreams from reality.

ectoraige

mrhoppy wrote: »

I think it does all come down to perception and viewpoints to be fair.

You would be absolutely right when you say I'd like to be part of a bigger, more globally visible (and impactful) community. I have always felt like I'm part of a laid-back, nonchalant populace that takes nothing seriously and is too incompetent to actually have an impact on the world. Again, I want no part of that.

Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

realdanbreen

mrhoppy wrote: »

Better economy, nicer people, and actual opportunities to excel at things. Irish people don't excel at anything except being superficial and pretentious. For scope, I have a few American friends. I have no Irish ones, and there's a reason for that.

I'm probably going to regret asking, but what do you think is the reason why you have no Irish friends?

lawred2

mrhoppy wrote: »

I think it does all come down to perception and viewpoints to be fair.

You would be absolutely right when you say I'd like to be part of a bigger, more globally visible (and impactful) community. I have always felt like I'm part of a laid-back, nonchalant populace that takes nothing seriously and is too incompetent to actually have an impact on the world. Again, I want no part of that.

wtf are you on about? seriously!

Pelvis

OP opportunities don't magically fall from the sky in American. If you see no opportunities for yourself here then that's not going to change suddenly in the U.S.

TBH OP, you sound a little bitter. Doesn't seem like things are happening for you here, no Irish friends, your ridiculous description of Irish people (I assume you are Irish??? Irony) no doubt borne out of an inability to make friends (it's everyone elses fault!). Your objectively incorrect opinion that there is no opportunity to excel here.

You pave your own path OP.

tomatofruit

i think there is a flight from Ireland to America later today, id say you would make that if you put the skates on

whomitconcerns

Pretty sure this guy is taking the Mick at this stage. Op you just did your leaving cert and you say you know Ireland and Irish people and we are no good at anything.... You do know some of the most successful people in the world are Irish? You do know that the European heads of most global tech companies in Europe are Irish? You realise one of the world's favourites credit card processing devices was founded by Irish people... Etc etc...

Dr. Kenneth Noisewater

We're a bunch of incompetant losers with no ambition or influence.

Why do you even want our opinions, OP?!

J Mysterio

mrhoppy wrote: »

I think it does all come down to perception and viewpoints to be fair.

You would be absolutely right when you say I'd like to be part of a bigger, more globally visible (and impactful) community. I have always felt like I'm part of a laid-back, nonchalant populace that takes nothing seriously and is too incompetent to actually have an impact on the world. Again, I want no part of that.

Piss of so.

dog tired

If you find out how to emigrate to America, can you let me know please? Because it's a dream for me but at least I realise that.

There was a reply earlier on about family sponsoring you. How does that work? Can a cousin or an aunt sponsor you?

dog tired

My advice is get the Canadian working holiday visa, you get a two year visa and go to Toronto or Vancouver which is close to the American border and you can make trips over to America.

MattressRick

mrhoppy wrote: »

Better economy, nicer people, and actual opportunities to excel at things. Irish people don't excel at anything except being superficial and pretentious. For scope, I have a few American friends. I have no Irish ones, and there's a reason for that.




Dublin just became more expensive to live in than Abu Dhabi, Central London and Silicon Valley (for some ridiculous reason). Please tell me how it's any better to live here?




Fair enough, my bad





Better over there: look above

Life sucks here:
-> Incredibly superficial and pretentious people
-> No opportunity for someone looking to be more than an average joe
-> No opportunity for someone looking to excel at anything - the Irish excel at nothing
-> No proper recreation - explains our drug and alcohol problem
-> No influence or impact on the world whatsoever




They've got a false and unwarranted sense of Irish patriotism, with no reason or explanation for it whatsoever. Being Irish is nothing to be proud of.

You're wrong but you'll find out that your attitude will follow you to America, if you even get in, and you'll be just as unhappy there. The problem is you, not us!
What work have you done, and hope to do, that's got limited opportunities here?

Somedaythefire

OP sounds deeply unhappy. I don't think emigrating to the US will sort that out.

the_syco

mrhoppy wrote: »

Better economy, nicer people, and actual opportunities to excel at things. Irish people don't excel at anything except being superficial and pretentious. For scope, I have a few American friends. I have no Irish ones, and there's a reason for that.

I'm living in Toronto now. There is a difference between people here and in Ireland, but it's generally more a difference of strangers in Ireland, and strangers in Toronto, as opposed to people you know.

My point is; once you know the person, the difference isn't really there.

mrhoppy wrote: »

Dublin just became more expensive to live in than Abu Dhabi, Central London and Silicon Valley (for some ridiculous reason). Please tell me how it's any better to live here?

Dublin is only more expensive to live in, as there is a housing shortage, and no houses are being built. It seems anywhere in America that has more jobs, it's more expensive to live there.

mrhoppy wrote: »

-> No opportunity for someone looking to be more than an average joe

You'll find that the average joe only has average qualifications and average money. Unless you have money, you won't get far.

mrhoppy wrote: »

-> No opportunity for someone looking to excel at anything - the Irish excel at nothing

You can excel in Ireland; but you'll find those that excel can often be the pretentious people you dislike.

mrhoppy wrote: »

-> No proper recreation - explains our drug and alcohol problem

In Ireland, the drug problem doesn't affect you for the most part.

In America, I'd recommend moving to a state where you can get a concealed carry license, and perhaps get a 1911 with FMJ rounds for when the drug problem encounters you, or your family.

mrhoppy wrote: »

-> No influence or impact on the world whatsoever

If you want to influence the world, join the Irish defense forces, and you'll impact the world each time you put your life in danger protecting someone in a foreign country.

mrhoppy wrote: »

They've got a false and unwarranted sense of Irish patriotism, with no reason or explanation for it whatsoever. Being Irish is nothing to be proud of.

American patriotism is on another level compared to Irish patriotism!

HDMI

mrhoppy wrote: »

Apply (and hopefully get) a green card, be resident in the US for five years, take the US naturalisation test, and do whatever else is necessary. I would have to have a prospective employer in the US willing to sponsor me, or one of my relatives who is a citizen there already.

It’s an I-551 by the way

Just to give you some heads up on the timeframe for family sponsored visas. I received my IR1 visa about a month ago, my wife is American and has been living in Ireland for 14 years. The process is really tough and I was actually refused initially at the embassy stage because my wife had been out of the US so long.

I eventually got my visa after satisfying what the embassy needed. Now when it comes to my kids there are from my first marriage but I am married to my US wife 10 years so she can sponsor my kids as her own. For my 18 year old we would need file an I-130 before she is 21 or she would age out. The process takes about 12-15 months, she is going to start college here and decide next year if she wants me to apply for her. My 24 year old has aged out and the process would now take 5-7 years to get her a visa. Oddly if the situation was reversed and she was trying to sponsor us it would only take about a year. For each of those visas including medical I wouldn't get much change out of two grand for each application.

Brother or sister's, aunts or uncles trying to sponsor you will find out very easily that it's just not worth going through the process for you because you would be in such a low visa category. So as has been mentioned maybe 20 years. It seems to be a common belief that having a family member in America gets you a guaranteed visa straight away, the shock when they find out the reality. Plenty of immigration forums about, I recommend visajourney. To get in through family you need parent, two grand and 12-15 months wait time. With a parent and under 21 your in the immediate family category over 21 and its family preference category and a much longer time.

Oddly it's my 24 year old that would like to move and it's sad trying to explain she does not count as immediate family for a visa application.

Best of luck in what you decide to do with your life, but research research research.

dennyk

the_syco wrote: »

In America, I'd recommend moving to a state where you can get a concealed carry license, and perhaps get a 1911 with FMJ rounds for when the drug problem encounters you, or your family.

Hollow-points, not FMJ. Makes bigger wounds and goes through fewer of your neighbors' walls when you miss (remember that American houses are generally made out of sawdust and glue, not concrete and masonry; over-penetration is bad, mmmkay?). Also, don't be one of those people that try to "conceal" carry a full-frame 1911; get yourself a Beretta Nano or a Glock G43 or something, or if you must have a .45, go for a Sig P250 or a Walther PPQ.

mrhoppy

whomitconcerns wrote: »

Pretty sure this guy is taking the Mick at this stage. Op you just did your leaving cert and you say you know Ireland and Irish people and we are no good at anything.... You do know some of the most successful people in the world are Irish? You do know that the European heads of most global tech companies in Europe are Irish? You realise one of the world's favourites credit card processing devices was founded by Irish people... Etc etc...

LC finished last year jus sayin

The Irish have got such a casual outlook on life that they seem to have stopped expecting things to be done well, or in some cases, at all. Yes, the Irish are very relaxed. But they don’t excel at anything, or care about doing so. That’s more what I mean.

Panrich

mrhoppy wrote: »

LC finished last year jus sayin

The Irish have got such a casual outlook on life that they seem to have stopped expecting things to be done well, or in some cases, at all. Yes, the Irish are very relaxed. But they don’t excel at anything, or care about doing so. That’s more what I mean.

What nationality are you yourself?

mrhoppy

Pelvis wrote: »

OP opportunities don't magically fall from the sky in American. If you see no opportunities for yourself here then that's not going to change suddenly in the U.S.

TBH OP, you sound a little bitter. Doesn't seem like things are happening for you here, no Irish friends, your ridiculous description of Irish people (I assume you are Irish??? Irony) no doubt borne out of an inability to make friends (it's everyone elses fault!). Your objectively incorrect opinion that there is no opportunity to excel here.

You pave your own path OP.

You’re right - things “aren’t happening” for me here, explaining why I seek to emigrate.

Give me a solid, valid reason that I can’t counter as to why anyone should even consider staying here and I may see where you’re coming from. Maybe it’s just from my own experience, which explains the difference in perception, but honestly and genuinely for me I see no reason to stay