The brutality of the male libido

Feels Good Man · 10-01-2018 1:02am #1

"For most of history, we’ve taken for granted the implicit brutality of male sexuality. In 1976, the radical feminist and pornography opponent Andrea Dworkin said that the only sex between a man and a woman that could be undertaken without violence was sex with a flaccid penis: “I think that men will have to give up their precious erections,” she wrote. In the third century A.D., it is widely believed, the great Catholic theologian Origen, working on roughly the same principle, castrated himself."

So what do you think boys and girls? Is male sexuality inherently violent and oppressive? My libido is indeed brutal but I can tell you all the women I have been with (and there has been plen-tee) were grateful for it.

My opinion is that this Stephen Marche guy is the epitome of the self hating, feminized, western male who feels personal guilt for the behavior of losers like Weinstein. Pathetic.

Put it this way, I don't think Syrian migrants feel guilty for desiring sex with beautiful women.

/2017/11/25/opinion/sunday/harassment-men-libido-masculinity.html

Duck Soup · 10-01-2018 1:08am

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/25/opinion/sunday/harassment-men-libido-masculinity.html

jamesbere · 10-01-2018 1:08am

For some bizarre reason I thought that said dildo. That would of been a totally different thread

Feels Good Man · 10-01-2018 1:09am

Duck Soup wrote: »

2017/11/25/opinion/sunday/harassment-men-libido-masculinity.html

Cheers for posting the link. I can't do it as I'm a new user.

Fourier · 10-01-2018 1:09am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

My libido is indeed brutal but I can tell you all the women I have been with (and there has been plen-tee) were grateful for it.

"I'm mad good in bed" is an excellent way to begin any discussion, e.g.

"When is male nudity justified in film, being sick hung I have difficulty taking an objective view of the matter."

qwerty ui op · 10-01-2018 1:11am

you have 4 kind of guys:
1.very horny
2.kinda horny
3.Little horny
4. no horny
I blame 1 & 2 the kinda and very guys

Noveight · 10-01-2018 1:15am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

Just putting across the point that every woman I've been with has craved rough, dominant sex.

And the lads?

Sonics2k · 10-01-2018 1:18am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

"For most of history, we’ve taken for granted the implicit brutality of male sexuality. In 1976, the radical feminist and pornography opponent Andrea Dworkin said that the only sex between a man and a woman that could be undertaken without violence was sex with a flaccid penis: “I think that men will have to give up their precious erections,” she wrote. In the third century A.D., it is widely believed, the great Catholic theologian Origen, working on roughly the same principle, castrated himself."

So what do you think boys and girls? Is male sexuality inherently violent and oppressive? My libido is indeed brutal but I can tell you all the women I have been with (and there has been plen-tee) were grateful for it.

My opinion is that this Stephen Marche guy is the epitome of the self hating, feminized, western male who feels personal guilt for the behavior of losers like Weinstein. Pathetic.

Put it this way, I don't think Syrian migrants feel guilty for desiring sex with beautiful women.

/2017/11/25/opinion/sunday/harassment-men-libido-masculinity.html

Yeah, so basically as soon as someone includes this woman in any discussion on either feminism or masculinity, they've basically done the equivalent of Godwinning.

Fourier · 10-01-2018 1:19am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

Just putting across the point that every woman I've been with has craved rough, dominant sex.

Right, taking this half way seriously the male libido is not inherently brutal, as it is not constantly used brutally. Hunger can make us brutal for example, in times of famine, but eating an apple isn't an inherently brutal act.

That the male libido leads some men to brutal acts just puts in a list of biological urges which overrides empathy for others for some people.

Only some woman "crave" rough dominant sex, so again it's not some built in component.

GingerLily · 10-01-2018 1:20am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

Just putting across the point that every woman I've been with has craved rough, dominant sex.

I can imagine you'd only attract a certain kinda women alright.......

Day Lewin · 10-01-2018 1:24am

Male primates are more aggressive than the females, in most species: just as in many other mammals.
There is actually a reason why stallions, boars, rams, bulls etc are castrated - because they are just too impulsive and skittish when entire.
I'm not suggesting that human males should be treated likewise - but it does point to a widespread characteristic of males.
That having been said, they're ok in the right hands ;-)

qwerty ui op · 10-01-2018 1:28am

GingerLily wrote: »

I can imagine you'd only attract a certain kinda women alright.......

honestly, I find sounder more decent women like it rough

kylith · 10-01-2018 1:37am

I think that the idea that the male libido is brutal is damaging. Giving young men the impression that their libido is something violent and uncontrollable can't be good for them, or their attitudes to sex.

Feels Good Man · 10-01-2018 1:43am

Fourier wrote: »

Right, taking this half way seriously the male libido is not inherently brutal, as it is not constantly used brutally. Hunger can make us brutal for example, in times of famine, but eating an apple isn't an inherently brutal act.

That the male libido leads some men to brutal acts just puts in a list of biological urges which overrides empathy for others for some people.

Only some woman "crave" rough dominant sex, so again it's not some built in component.

It's a lot more than 'some'. Rape is one of the biggest female fantasies.

Junkyard Tom · 10-01-2018 1:44am

Oi fink you is talkin' bollocks mate. (Alfie Solomons' voice)

Joe prim · 10-01-2018 1:46am

I have made sweet love to literally nearly hundreds of beautiful, sloe-eyed women, and errr.....that's it really, pretty much.

Tom Mann Centuria · 10-01-2018 1:51am

Junkyard Tom wrote: »

Oi fink you is talkin' bollocks mate. (Alfie Solomons' voice)

Not Dick Van Dyke plucky chimney sweeps voice?

qwerty ui op · 10-01-2018 1:52am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

It's a lot more than 'some'. Rape is one of the biggest female fantasies.

and what put that notion in you're head?

OnDraught · 10-01-2018 1:52am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

Put it this way, I don't think Syrian migrants feel guilty for desiring sex with beautiful women.

Why would you put it that way? Are you suggesting they shouldn't? Or that you shouldn't? Or that nobody should?

Tom Mann Centuria · 10-01-2018 1:53am

Op is Swiss Tony.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBw-aEixWuo

Feels Good Man · 10-01-2018 1:58am

qwerty ui op wrote: »

and what put that notion in you're head?

Google it now and you'll find plenty of articles. The success of 'romance' novels. A guy analysed the search habits of Pornhub user and found that rape and rough sex was some of the most popular genres for women.

OnDraught wrote: »

Why would you put it that way? Are you suggesting they shouldn't? Or that you shouldn't? Or that nobody should?

Arabs comes form macho cultures unlike the western 'man' who wrote this article.

greencap · 10-01-2018 2:00am

qwerty ui op wrote: »

and what put that notion in you're head?

he is correct. you can google the stats. women fantasize about that about 4-5 times more frequently than men.

that said i think op is on that whole tired alt-right 'everyones a cuck except me' trip.

it was the talk of syrians mixed with the talk of feminism that hints at this.

the feminist quote is unsurprising, they're bat**** and should be ignored and left to ramble.

Feels Good Man · 10-01-2018 2:04am

kylith wrote: »

I think that the idea that the male libido is brutal is damaging. Giving young men the impression that their libido is something violent and uncontrollable can't be good for them, or their attitudes to sex.

I agree and it may lead to self hate and perpetual virginity for some. I would hope though that most men don't and won't ever feel guilty for doing what God made them to do.

OnDraught · 10-01-2018 2:04am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

Arabs comes form macho cultures unlike the western 'man' who wrote this article.

They do in their holes. Straight Arabs walk around arm in arm. They spend more time preening and posing than anyone in Ireland. You should come to an Arab country sometime and you would get the fright of your life if that's what you think.

Feels Good Man · 10-01-2018 2:06am

OnDraught wrote: »

They do in their holes. Straight Arabs walk around arm in arm. They spend more time preening and posing than anyone in Ireland. You should come to an Arab country sometime and you would get the fright of your life if that's what you think.

French men kiss each other on the cheek, doesn't make them gay.

OnDraught · 10-01-2018 2:07am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

French men kiss each other on the cheek, doesn't make them gay.

No but it doesn't make them macho either.

What makes you think Arabs are macho?

Is it possible you are intimidated by them. Look up to them. Fear but respect them?

Feels Good Man · 10-01-2018 2:09am

OnDraught wrote: »

No but it doesn't make them macho either.

What makes you think Arabs are macho?

The male dominance of their culture. The live in, literally, a patriarchy.

tomwaterford · 10-01-2018 2:11am

Feels Good Man wrote: »

French men kiss each other on the cheek, doesn't make them gay.

They also eat horses,snails and frog legs.....fcuk knows what else they put in their mouths :eek:

>>joke before any actual gay posters get offended

bodice ripper · 10-01-2018 2:11am

Male dominance gets the OP wet.

Feels Good Man · 10-01-2018 2:12am

bodice ripper wrote: »

Male dominance gets the OP wet.

I like how your username backs up what I'm saying.

bodice ripper · 10-01-2018 2:14am

Feels Good Man wrote:

I like how your username backs up what I'm saying.

What about my massive jabs?

The brutality of the male libido

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