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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    and do you have children? Asked John Hooligan TD to a civil serpent during a job interview.
    The punch line of this joke involves a €7k pay-out from the wrc.
    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/i-was-trying-to-put-her-at-ease-civil-servant-awarded-7k-after-john-halligan-asked-was-she-married-during-interview-36301419.html

    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    Why should your marital status matter?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,006 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    and do you have children? Asked John Hooligan TD to a civil serpent during a job interview.
    The punch line of this joke involves a €7k pay-out from the wrc.
    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/i-was-trying-to-put-her-at-ease-civil-servant-awarded-7k-after-john-halligan-asked-was-she-married-during-interview-36301419.html

    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    No, it’s not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,719 ✭✭✭✭_Brian


    and do you have children? Asked John Hooligan TD to a civil serpent during a job interview.
    The punch line of this joke involves a €7k pay-out from the wrc.
    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/i-was-trying-to-put-her-at-ease-civil-servant-awarded-7k-after-john-halligan-asked-was-she-married-during-interview-36301419.html

    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    Mad question to ask and anyone who interviews regularly would know well enough to stay clear of personal and family issues.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,297 ✭✭✭✭Jawgap


    Opened this expecting it to be chore sex/pua/agricultural revolution guy :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,022 ✭✭✭jamesbere


    Bit of a joke of a ruling really, people are so over sensitive nowadays that I pity our future generations


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    im marrid an i have a kid
    hes a boy
    i love him and talk about him at every opportunity
    ill show gou photos and of him being cute

    it has no place of discussion in my job interviews


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,314 ✭✭✭✭branie2


    too personal, if you ask me


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 761 ✭✭✭GerryDerpy


    You are not allowed to ask any questions that will help you get to know the person sitting in front of you. Only questions that can be responded to with bull crap lies are allowed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,751 ✭✭✭✭For Forks Sake


    Tigger wrote: »
    im marrid an i have a kid
    hes a boy
    i love him and talk about him at every opportunity
    ill show gou photos and of him being cute

    it has no place of discussion in my job interviews



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger




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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,881 ✭✭✭Peatys


    jamesbere wrote: »
    Bit of a joke of a ruling really, people are so over sensitive nowadays that I pity our future generations

    I'm offended by that. Give me 7k


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,596 ✭✭✭Hitman3000


    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    No it's not. It had absolutely no relevance to the position other than the applicant was a woman.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,420 ✭✭✭splinter65


    and do you have children? Asked John Hooligan TD to a civil serpent during a job interview.
    The punch line of this joke involves a €7k pay-out from the wrc.
    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/i-was-trying-to-put-her-at-ease-civil-servant-awarded-7k-after-john-halligan-asked-was-she-married-during-interview-36301419.html

    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    No it’s not relevant at all, what difference does it make to anyone if a job applicant is married with children?
    Why do you think it’s relevant ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,866 ✭✭✭✭bear1


    and do you have children? Asked John Hooligan TD to a civil serpent during a job interview.
    The punch line of this joke involves a €7k pay-out from the wrc.
    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/i-was-trying-to-put-her-at-ease-civil-servant-awarded-7k-after-john-halligan-asked-was-she-married-during-interview-36301419.html

    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    He could ask any other question to put her at ease, what are you hobbies? Did you go on holidays this year?
    He hadn't the right to ask it especially as he said himself he shouldn't be asking.
    Was it worth a payout? Probably not.
    Also depends if potentially this affected her ability in getting the position.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,235 ✭✭✭✭Cee-Jay-Cee


    While I agree that the question should not have formed any part (formally or informally) in the interview, I think it’s ridiculous that she was awarded €7500 because of it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,350 ✭✭✭Cortina_MK_IV


    and do you have children? Asked John Hooligan TD to a civil serpent during a job interview.
    The punch line of this joke involves a €7k pay-out from the wrc.
    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/i-was-trying-to-put-her-at-ease-civil-servant-awarded-7k-after-john-halligan-asked-was-she-married-during-interview-36301419.html

    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    The snake.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,825 ✭✭✭LirW


    Meanwhile I'm asking myself if Donal Skehan will do a live instagram video when his baby falls out of his wife.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,057 ✭✭✭.......


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,360 ✭✭✭I love Sean nos


    John Hooligan TD to a civil serpent
    Childish nonsense.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,888 ✭✭✭Atoms for Peace


    Its ridiculous that personal questions should now be outside the pale. It would be nice if people were hired with some regard to their disposition and personality. Fair enough if the answer was used to discriminate the applicant in some way, but there seems to be no evidence of this, rather it was common icebreaker type of question.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,888 ✭✭✭Atoms for Peace


    Childish nonsense.

    Freudian auto correct.:P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,719 ✭✭✭✭_Brian


    jamesbere wrote: »
    Bit of a joke of a ruling really, people are so over sensitive nowadays that I pity our future generations

    But it’s not a joke, it’s one of the specific 9 grounds for discrimination in the workplace.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭maudgonner


    Its ridiculous that personal questions should now be outside the pale. It would be nice if people were hired with some regard to their disposition and personality. Fair enough if the answer was used to discriminate the applicant in some way, but there seems to be no evidence of this, rather it was common icebreaker type of question.

    But the WRC found that she was discriminated against, so by your own definition 'fair enough', eh?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,208 ✭✭✭bottlebrush


    maudgonner wrote: »
    But the WRC found that she was discriminated against, so by your own definition 'fair enough', eh?

    did she get the job or not?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,068 ✭✭✭pauliebdub


    The guy is a complete and utter idiot, he even looks like a clown that has taken off his make up. He should pay the 7 k himself. Those kind of questions have no place in the interview process, it's irrelevant whether she has kids or not and it's a question he would never have asked a man.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,068 ✭✭✭pauliebdub


    did she get the job or not?

    No she didn't.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,140 ✭✭✭✭expectationlost


    and do you have children? Asked John Halligan TD to a civil servant during a job interview.
    The punch line of this joke involves a €7k pay-out from the wrc.
    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/i-was-trying-to-put-her-at-ease-civil-servant-awarded-7k-after-john-halligan-asked-was-she-married-during-interview-36301419.html

    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    this is the full adjudication http://www.lrc.ie/en/Cases/2017/October/ADJ-00005366.html


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,208 ✭✭✭bottlebrush


    pauliebdub wrote: »
    No she didn't.

    wonder if the successful candidate was married/has children or otherwise


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,554 ✭✭✭valoren


    He looks like Robert De Niro playing Albert Einstein.

    8%20NEWS%20II%20Dail%2020%20TB_8.jpg


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 944 ✭✭✭s15r330


    Tigger wrote: »
    im marrid an i have a kid
    hes a boy
    i love him and talk about him at every opportunity
    ill show gou photos and of him being cute

    it has no place of discussion in my job interviews

    Ugh, I went to college with someone like that and avoided them for those exact reasons.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,059 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    Is this the same guy who is going to North Korea to solve the worlds nuclear problems with mullet head?.

    OMG.

    I doubt he would have asked the same question of a male candidate now would he?

    Plus ca change, et plus rest la meme chose. Go and translate it you philistines!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,218 ✭✭✭bobbysands81


    jamesbere wrote: »
    Bit of a joke of a ruling really, people are so over sensitive nowadays that I pity our future generations

    The job this lady was applying for is a role that requires a lot of extra attendance, late nights and a lot of travel in Ireland and abroad.

    I believe that the inference in Halligan’s question was that he viewed her being a mother as a negative and something that could get in the way of the carrying out of all the extra duties that would be required of her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,676 ✭✭✭strandroad


    Any HR professional would know that you can't ask questions related to possible discrimination grounds, such as ethnicity, family status, religion, sexuality etc. unless you can prove that they are directly related to the nature of the role. Hallinan should have been stopped after the first question by the HR person present.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,676 ✭✭✭strandroad


    The job this lady was applying for is a role that requires a lot of extra attendance, late nights and a lot of travel in Ireland and abroad.

    I believe that the inference in Halligan’s question was that he viewed her being a mother as a negative and something that could get in the way of the carrying out of all the extra duties that would be required of her.

    The correct and fair way of exploring it in an interview is to describe the workload and travel required and to ask if the candidate could commit to it and if there are any reasons they couldn't.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,973 ✭✭✭RayM


    Is this some kind of reference to me not being married?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,943 ✭✭✭CalamariFritti


    So who gives a f*** whether it was appropriate or slightly wrong or whatever it was. Are we seriously saying its such a bad thing to do to be sprawled all over the media and the 'victim' be given 7 grand? Seriously?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,880 ✭✭✭DeanAustin


    pauliebdub wrote: »
    The guy is a complete and utter idiot, he even looks like a clown that has taken off his make up. He should pay the 7 k himself. Those kind of questions have no place in the interview process, it's irrelevant whether she has kids or not and it's a question he would never have asked a man.

    But it’s okay for you to comment on his appearance in those sorts of degrading terms?

    I love how people try to hold everyone else to a higher standard than they hold themselves.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,676 ✭✭✭strandroad


    So who gives a f*** whether it was appropriate or slightly wrong or whatever it was. Are we seriously saying its such a bad thing to do to be sprawled all over the media and the 'victim' be given 7 grand? Seriously?

    It's probably their one monthly salary.
    It was a very senior post with specialised hiring, you were down to your last three candidates. Because you were dumb, you are found in breach of the rules against one of them. You have effectively denied them their fair chance. You're not going to rerun the process (you've already hired another candidate), you can't consider them for an equivalent role opening since it's a once off post, so you're compensating them for the chance they lost due to your breach. Again most likely one month's wages at their level.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,314 ✭✭✭✭branie2


    For the record, I'm not married, and I don't have kids


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,559 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    and do you have children? Asked John Halligan TD to a civil servant during a job interview.
    The punch line of this joke involves a €7k pay-out from the wrc.
    https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/i-was-trying-to-put-her-at-ease-civil-servant-awarded-7k-after-john-halligan-asked-was-she-married-during-interview-36301419.html

    Surely it's a reasonably question if your applying for a job.

    What's reasonable about it?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,278 ✭✭✭kenmc


    Who pays the 7k? Him, or his employer, us?

    Daft fcukin twat, in this day and age the dogs on the street know you can't ask that sort of question. In my place we can't even ask in small talk if they had far to come or how they got to the interview in case we accidentally hear they live in (bad area) and don't hire them... despite their address likely being on their cv or application.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 369 ✭✭Ineedaname


    He admits he shouldn’t ask it but did so anyway and didn’t ask any of the other candidates.

    What a moron. Even basic common sense should tell you that you can’t ask something like that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 369 ✭✭Ineedaname


    kenmc wrote: »
    Who pays the 7k? Him, or his employer, us?

    Daft fcukin twat, in this day and age the dogs on the street know you can't ask that sort of question. In my place we can't even ask in small talk if they had far to come or how they got to the interview in case we accidentally hear they live in (bad area) and don't hire them... despite their address likely being on their cv or application.

    He was in official capacity as a minister so the tax payer foots the bill.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    s15r330 wrote: »
    Ugh, I went to college with someone like that and avoided them for those exact reasons.

    lke what


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,244 ✭✭✭munsterlegend


    Could he not just have looked at her wedding ring finger?! As for the kids ask what kind of phone she has. Oh that's a great phone was thinking about getting one myself.usually people have a photo with the children as a screensaver. Maybe even the husband/wife!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,022 ✭✭✭jamesbere


    Peatys wrote: »
    I'm offended by that. Give me 7k

    No bother, would you accept lira


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41 DeirdreDee


    strandroad wrote:
    It's probably their one monthly salary. It was a very senior post with specialised hiring, you were down to your last three candidates. Because you were dumb, you are found in breach of the rules against one of them. You have effectively denied them their fair chance. You're not going to rerun the process (you've already hired another candidate), you can't consider them for an equivalent role opening since it's a once off post, so you're compensating them for the chance they lost due to your breach. Again most likely one month's wages at their level.


    An Executive Officer in the Civil Service, even with the Private Secretary Allowance, gets nowhere near €84k per annum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,886 ✭✭✭✭Roger_007


    Are you allowed to ask about leisure activities?
    If you are, you would soon hear all about activities with their kids, if they have any.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,511 ✭✭✭✭PARlance


    What an idiot. Who doesn't check Fbook or the likes in advance to find these things out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,563 ✭✭✭dd972


    Male, Poor and unattractive, married?

    Of course not.


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