Dealing with enablers

Persephone kindness

We should possibly learn what the education scheme is before we pass judgement.

Nyssa

Nyssa wrote: »

Thanks for your insight-it's food for thought. I have spoken with many counsellors and they have said she's a classic enabler.

I'd be wary of any "expert" who applies labels to people who they have no contact with at all. I doubt a qualified psychologist would do it.

I am not sure about the whole "identifies as gay" and "in education with travellers and immigrants" lines as well. You sound uncomfortable with both. Maybe he is gay, instead of identifying as gay?

Glenster

Persephone kindness wrote: »

We should possibly learn what the education scheme is before we pass judgement.

That would take too long and my knee is jerking now.

Without knowing what the state education scheme is (medicine in TCD?), how old he is, whether he's still on the game, any of that. I say burn him.

Kimbot

MOD - Moved from After Hours.

Big Bag of Chips

I'll close this moved thread, OP, as you had already started the same one here.

In future you can request a mod move your thread to the appropriate forum rather than reposting it.