Bit of advice needed please...

LegacyUser

So the girlfriend of well over 3 months ago broke up with me around 2 months ago out of the blue due to going to different colleges. Was in absolute bits up until recently when I half started to forget about it. It was a pretty rough breakup, something I had not anticipated and am still trying to get over it. We have been talking the odd time ever since but whenever I talk to her I feel myself getting more attached which I don't want to be but whenever I try not to talk to her for a few days I end up caving in and texting her. Now we haven't seen each other in the past month or so but she suggested meeting up some night this week to catch up. I accepted her offer without thinking too much about it but I'm starting to have second thoughts about it. The last thing I want is to get attached to her again and end up getting hurt. The last thing I want is to go through something like that so soon after the end of the relationship.

Any suggestions about what I should do would be greatly appreciated.

kylith

My advice is to text her one last time cancelling the meeting and asking her not to contact you again, then delete her number and block her on social media.

What she is doing is very cruel. You cannot move on from her until you cut contact to allow you to grieve for the relationship properly and move on from it.

LegacyUser

Tell her she broke up with you so you've moved on and you don't want to be friends. Harsh but it's what she needs to hear she is being selfish and using you.

BetsyEllen

kylith wrote: »

My advice is to text her one last time cancelling the meeting and asking her not to contact you again, then delete her number and block her on social media

+1

No contact is the only way to go and I'm telling you that from experience.
It is the ONLY way!