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You're not going to London next week?

  • 15-10-2016 10:36pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,264 ✭✭✭✭jester77


    So, this question was asked during a meeting where I work, and half the group said yes and the other half said no. Yet, no one is actually going.

    If you were asked this question, and you were not going, would you answer yes or no?

    You're not going to London next week? 29 votes

    Yes
    0% 0 votes
    No
    100% 29 votes


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 26,567 ✭✭✭✭Fratton Fred


    jester77 wrote: »
    So, this question was asked during a meeting where I work, and half the group said yes and the other half said no. Yet, no one is actually going.

    If you were asked this question, and you were not going, would you answer yes or no?

    I'm not, no.

    Not until the week after.

    WTF is this about?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,108 ✭✭✭Roger Mellie Man on the Telly


    feck off i'm watching motd


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,230 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    What's this in reference to jester?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22 AvBBrother


    Yes, I'm not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,778 ✭✭✭4Ad


    Not, I'm yes...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,264 ✭✭✭✭jester77


    Context is not so important, just some conference that is in London next week and we were asked who was going to be there for it. Turns out none of us are going.

    But we were asked "You're not going to London next week?" and half the group said yes and the other half said no.

    Just curious as to how people would answer such a question if they were not going. Would you say yes to confirm the statement, or no to say you are not going.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    "Nope"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,112 ✭✭✭CelticRambler


    Correct. What made you think I was?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    You're not serious OP?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,624 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    No I am not.

    You can't really say 'yes I am not going'.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22 AvBBrother


    Just did.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,624 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    Touche.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,438 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    I'm going out of this thread. This thread is weird.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,150 ✭✭✭kumate_champ07


    legit 1st world problems


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,373 ✭✭✭✭foggy_lad


    jester77 wrote: »
    Context is not so important, just some conference that is in London next week and we were asked who was going to be there for it. Turns out none of us are going.

    But we were asked "You're not going to London next week?" and half the group said yes and the other half said no.

    Just curious as to how people would answer such a question if they were not going. Would you say yes to confirm the statement, or no to say you are not going.

    I'd reply by asking if that was a question or statement? or by simply saying that was fine because I wasn't going anyway.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,684 ✭✭✭✭lawred2


    I'd say...

    Nope not going


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,770 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    I would answer Yes I am not going to London, as I am going to Austin.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,071 ✭✭✭user2011


    Okay thanks for letting me know.

    Agreed, weird, very weird thread.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,130 ✭✭✭Surreptitious


    Have ya nawthin else to be thinking about????


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,909 ✭✭✭Gwynplaine


    "He's not there is he?"
    "You wouldn't give me a fiver would you?"


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,709 ✭✭✭✭Cantona's Collars


    Are coke,hookers and beer allowed as expenses?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    "Why would I be going to London next week?"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,980 ✭✭✭Lucy8080


    You left out an option.

    " I am,Yeah."

    Just to add to the confusion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Harvey Normal


    I would say no I'm not to that question. Yes I'm not sounds weird although it's probably correct.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 159 ✭✭poeticjustice


    endacl wrote: »
    I'm going out of this thread. This thread is weird.

    So you're not staying?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,130 ✭✭✭Surreptitious


    So you're not staying?

    He is going to London.


  • Posts: 31,118 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Yes, I'm not going!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,759 ✭✭✭degsie


    Where's London?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭Fred Swanson


    This post has been deleted.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,624 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    Capital of the stupidest nation on earth.

    Are you sure it's in US.


  • Posts: 31,118 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    meeeeh wrote: »
    Are you sure it's in US.
    Yes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,207 ✭✭✭The King of Moo


    "I'm not, no" would be the most common and comprehensible answer.

    "Yes" would be confusing because it could mean "Yes, I'm going to London," or that you agree with the person's statement that you're not going to London.

    A simple "no" would also be confusing, as it could be interpreted as disagreeing with the statement, which would therefore mean you were going to London.

    So "I'm not, no" is best as it's clear.

    Good night.


  • Posts: 17,378 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    As an esl teacher, this exact thing came up for me before in a really good class. The whole class said "yes" so I tried to correct them.

    I don't actually know which is correct but I'll definitely pull up this vote if it ever happens again. Kids with egos complain a lot when they think the teacher is wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,759 ✭✭✭degsie


    meeeeh wrote: »
    Are you sure it's in US.

    Are you sure it's not in the US?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,076 ✭✭✭✭LordSutch


    jester77 wrote: »
    You're not going to London next week?

    So, this question was asked during a meeting where I work, and half the group said yes and the other half said no. Yet, no one is actually going.

    If you were asked this question, and you were not going, would you answer yes or no?

    No I'm not going next week either, but I will be over before Christmas to visit friends.

    I presume you're talking about an anti with Brexit march? or is there another gig in Town? What's happening in London next week?


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  • Posts: 17,378 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    LordSutch wrote: »
    No I'm not going next week either, but I will be over before Christmas to visit friends.

    I presume you're talking about an anti with Brexit march? or is there another gig in Town? What's happening in London next week?

    He's asking about the grammar. If you're not going, do you say "yes" or "no"..


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,908 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    English doesn't have a 'doch' so should avoid negative questions. There's no point in phrasing a question this way unless you know the answer is negative and you actually mean 'why are you not going?'

    Presumably the tone of the question implied 'just confirming that you're not going'

    That said, the person asking the question and everyone who said yes should all be executed.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Monroe Delightful Shot-putter


    English doesn't have a 'doch' so should avoid negative questions. There's no point in phrasing a question this way unless you know the answer is negative and you actually mean 'why are you not going?'

    Presumably the tone of the question implied 'just confirming that you're not going'

    That said, the person asking the question and everyone who said yes should all be executed.
    I was just gonna reply doch :(

    I suppose you'd have to go beyond y/n and say correct / I'm not going or similar


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,779 ✭✭✭✭osarusan


    No, I'm not.

    But there are languages, such as Japanese, in which it is natural to reply with "yes, I am not" because the Yes agrees with the negative form of the question.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,394 ✭✭✭Pac1Man


    This all sounds very pretentious.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,440 ✭✭✭The Rape of Lucretia


    The correct answer is 'no'. And this would be most people's instinctive answer to it in this case. It is only when people think about it, or it is asked in a theoretical way or test as in the office situation above, that some people start to think about it, and are misled by a false logic and end up answering yes. If they were truly asked it a real situation, they also would likely have answered no even if they answer yes in your office sampling. The test as done in the op is not a true test and the result misleading.

    The 'question' is not really a question. It is the asking for confirmation of the askers guessed answer to the implied question 'are you going to London next week?'. That questioning element being conveyed only in the tone of voice and not the grammar, and the asker guessing/assuming already that the answer is 'No, I am not going to London'. By saying 'no', the answerer is using a shorthand to confirm that that same statement that was put to them is what they would answer to the implied question, the remainder of which would also be 'no, I am not going to London', or, 'no, Im not' which enforces the clarification.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 214 ✭✭wetlandsboy


    Somewhat analogous to this was the question posed in the referendum on the abolition of the Seanad a number of years ago, where a Yes vote was not a Yes to keep the Seanad, but rather it was a Yes for its abolition. I reckon that a substantial number of voters were confused and voted incorrectly.


  • Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 1,331 ✭✭✭J.pilkington


    I take it it was the OP who asked the confusing question (judging by their confusing opening post)


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I'll go if nobody else is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,489 ✭✭✭SnakePlissken


    jester77 wrote: »
    So, this question was asked during a meeting where I work, and half the group said yes and the other half said no. Yet, no one is actually going.

    In that case those of you who answered no should be taken out to the office car park and shot with super soakers filled with piss


  • Posts: 31,118 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Somewhat analogous to this was the question posed in the referendum on the abolition of the Seanad a number of years ago, where a Yes vote was not a Yes to keep the Seanad, but rather it was a Yes for its abolition. I reckon that a substantial number of voters were confused and voted incorrectly.
    In the Brexit referendum, they avoided that ambiguity by stating the answer to be "remain" or "leave", so here the answers could have been "keep" or "abolish".


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,466 ✭✭✭blinding


    Yes I am not going....

    But yeah..no...I am already in London .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    meeeeh wrote: »
    No I am not.

    You can't really say 'yes I am not going'.

    It's a negative question, so the correct answer (if you are not going) is Yes.

    Yes, I am not going to London next week.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    I was at a union meeting many years ago where a vote was called on a proposal such as "We will not pass the other union's pickets".

    The vote was taken and later it emerged that people not wishing to pass the pickets had voted No while others feeling the same had voted Yes.

    Negative questions are best avoided.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,381 ✭✭✭✭Father Hernandez


    My brain hurts from this thread..


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