Hi

mikeala

Hi looking to make friends to go out with meals ,pubs I'm widowed aged 50 all my friends married need to get out weekends go have fun with other women in similar positions ,starting over sort off

sullivlo

mikeala wrote: »

Hi looking to make friends to go out with meals ,pubs I'm widowed aged 50 all my friends married need to get out weekends go have fun with other women in similar positions ,starting over sort off

Mod
I have locked your other thread as it's easier to give advice in one place.

It's not clear exactly what it is that you want from boards - are you looking for advice on how to make friends? If so, there is lots of advice here: http://touch.boards.ie/thread/2057647597/1/

However if you're looking to use boards as a way to meet people, you'd be better off posting in the private forum - access info is listed in the charter.

If you want me to edit the thread title (or move the thread to the private forum), let me know.

mikeala

sullivlo wrote: »

Mod
I have locked your other thread as it's easier to give advice in one place.

It's not clear exactly what it is that you want from boards - are you looking for advice on how to make friends? If so, there is lots of advice here: http://touch.boards.ie/thread/2057647597/1/

However if you're looking to use boards as a way to meet people, you'd be better off posting in the private forum - access info is listed in the charter.

If you want me to edit the thread title (or move the thread to the private forum), let me know.

h

Hi yea I'm just looking around for other women to go on nights out with if you could put it somewhere lively the other one you suggested nothing happening there at all thanks

sullivlo

mikeala wrote: »

h

Hi yea I'm just looking around for other women to go on nights out with if you could put it somewhere lively the other one you suggested nothing happening there at all thanks

Mod
Please see our section in the charter on meet ups:

Private Meetup Forum

We have a Ladies Lounge private meetup forum - the thinking behind this is that details of where a group of women will be at a given time and place should not be public for all to see.

We will still continue to organize tLL beers in the main forum but as these are larger events the chances of something going wrong is significantly reduced.

Here are the rules to gain access:

1) If you are a lady with more than 100 posts, please PM one of the moderators of The Ladies Lounge: You will find their names at the bottom right of the forum page.

2) If you are a lady with less than 100 posts, please PM one of the moderators of the Ladies Lounge as above, but include a front facing photo of yourself holding a piece of paper that says "I am (username) and I request access to tLL private meetup forum" This is to ensure that we are only allowing women in. Photos will not be posted to the forum - it's not a popularity contest.

3) If you are a gentleman, I am afraid that we are not allowing you access at this time.

4) This private forum can also be used for debate on issues where only women can participate.

The private forum is also not the most active, however it's more appropriate than here for such a thread.

/mod

From a personal point of view, there genuinely was some great advice about meeting people in the thread I linked in my previous post. The range of people who post in the ladies lounge is massive - in age and location. Off the top of my head I know of posters in France, Malta, Scotland and America, they're unlikely to be much use to you.

I am 30. Whilst I have friends of all ages, I don't particularly enjoy mad nights out. Hence my suggestion of offline ways to meet people too - such as girl crew on Facebook, meetup.com and pre-organised activities (sports, book clubs, night courses).