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How does anyone afford to rent alone?

  • 21-04-2016 10:43am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭


    I have spent the best part of 6 years now living in shared accommodation or with friends/girlfriend and before that about 3 years in dorms with other travellers in Australia & Spain and i really want my own place now but rents are mad money!

    I live in North County Dublin and would like to stay local enough but for anything half decent i'm looking at minimum €1000 or more likely €1100+ by the time you factor in monthly bills etc i'm probably around €1400 deep. I mean i do alright, net salary around €2600 p/m but living off 1200 a month seems a bit tight. Just wondering what people thoughts are and if renting alone just isn't really feasible anymore unless you earn top dollar. I currently pay 500 for rent and bills (which i know is a good deal) so the jump up would be quite significant and even now there's still months where i'm skint for the last week of the month.


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  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 18,986 Mod ✭✭✭✭Moonbeam


    Move out of the city or buy a place.
    1200pm after rent and bills is an absolute huge amount to live on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭accensi0n


    net salary around €2600 p/m
    I currently pay 500 for rent and bills
    there's still months where i'm skint for the last week of the month.

    :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,794 ✭✭✭Squall Leonhart


    Personally I could probably afford it, but by afford I mean I could physically pay for it. What was left over at the end of the month would be paltry, and the quality of living in that month would be okaaaay at best. Plus it would completely eliminate any chance of getting any savings together.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,042 ✭✭✭zl1whqvjs75cdy


    Are you saving all the spare cash op? I'm in a similar situation but I'm skinned cause I'm trying to save for a house deposit. If you're not saving wheres all that money going?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,794 ✭✭✭Squall Leonhart


    Are you saving all the spare cash op? I'm in a similar situation but I'm skinned cause I'm trying to save for a house deposit. If you're not saving wheres all that money going?

    It does seem like a huge amount to zip through a month. Even after car expenses, bills, etc, you've gotta be blowing through 1200eur or more a month with nothing to show for it if you're not saving?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,006 ✭✭✭bmwguy


    I bought on my own and am ploughing about 40% of my take home into my house between mortgage, bills, improvements etc.

    I know a mortgaged property is a little bit different in that I am happy to do it but looking to rent on your own is always going to be expensive. I assume you will not consider sharing? Its what 90+% of renters do, the main reason is cost.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭SpaceCowb0y


    Are you saving all the spare cash op? I'm in a similar situation but I'm skinned cause I'm trying to save for a house deposit. If you're not saving wheres all that money going?
    It does seem like a huge amount to zip through a month. Even after car expenses, bills, etc, you've gotta be blowing through 1200eur or more a month with nothing to show for it if you're not saving?

    Being honest i'm terrible with my money which is my own fault. I have a loan repayment and credit card repayment which comes out and a small amount goes to the credit union each month but besides that i'm not too sure where it all goes. I don't even go out all that much. once a week if even but i can spend a fair bit when i do. I do travel quite a bit though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭SpaceCowb0y


    Moonbeam wrote: »
    Move out of the city or buy a place.
    1200pm after rent and bills is an absolute huge amount to live on.

    I don't live in the city, i live in the Fingal area of north county Dublin. Swords/Malahide area. Buying a house is the last thing I want to do. I have zero interest in owning a house right now in my life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭SpaceCowb0y


    bmwguy wrote: »
    I bought on my own and am ploughing about 40% of my take home into my house between mortgage, bills, improvements etc.

    I know a mortgaged property is a little bit different in that I am happy to do it but looking to rent on your own is always going to be expensive. I assume you will not consider sharing? Its what 90+% of renters do, the main reason is cost.


    I'm currently sharing so that defeats the whole purpose, as i said in my original post i've been sharing for so long now I want my own space.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,499 ✭✭✭Carlos Orange


    You need to work out what you are currently spending money on and then decide whether you want to spend less on that and live alone or keep sharing.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Ashbx


    Im living alone in Dundrum and currently paying 1100 in rent (not including bills). Its manageable but bloody well tough! I would be on similar money to you. Ignore people when they ask where your money is going. I know 1200 seems like an awful lot but when you have bills, cars, dogs (in my case), travel expense to and from work, food, nights out....the money goes VERY easily!

    Im lucky if I can afford to save anything at the end of the month. Unfortunately, its just not a way to live so reluctantly I am looking for a housemate now. Would love to live alone but its just not possible anymore :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,240 ✭✭✭mel123


    It doesnt matter what the OP currently spends their money on, they are not asking questions re expenditure.

    OP, on that salary, its going to be very tight for you. Again you factor in rent, broadband, sky tv, gas, electric, possibly bins, possibly water charges, along with what you currently pay out which might be petrol/travel expenses to work, phone bill, your loan, car tax/insurance etc etc, you will be left with very little expenditure to live on afterwards.
    The rental market is gone crazy unfortunately.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,887 ✭✭✭accensi0n


    Ashbx wrote: »
    Ignore people when they ask where your money is going. I know 1200 seems like an awful lot but when you have..

    I don't think that advice is entirely sound. He stated that there are months where his out-goings after rent/bills are most of 2100 after 3 weeks.

    It's worth him tracking his out-goings and making pro/con, trade-off decisions from there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,126 ✭✭✭✭Idbatterim


    I'm currently sharing so that defeats the whole purpose, as i said in my original post i've been sharing for so long now I want my own space.
    if you are already in north county dublin, would moving a bit further out make sense to save more in rent?

    I have the dilemma you do. Simply I would love to live alone, sharing at the moment. There is no gain without pain. I see no point with the current rents of renting indefinitely (as property prices are semi reasonable, unlike the boom where buying was moronic IMO) and LOL at renting a 1 bed where I live. Renting on my own, wouldnt allow me save anything. If I were you , I would simply share, save as quick as possible and buy...

    The value for 1 beds is appalling, sure a 2 bed is only marginally more. I wouldnt ever bother renting in an apartment again either. Get a 3/4 bed house, keep expenses as low as possible while still enjoying a decent quality of life and save save save...

    if you are currently paying E500 for rent and bills, that means by your own estimates you are saving E9600 a year v your predictions for living alone. Two years of that and you would wouldnt be long having the money together for a started home...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Ashbx


    accensi0n wrote: »
    I don't think that advice is entirely sound. He stated that there are months where his out-goings after rent/bills are most of 2100 after 3 weeks.

    It's worth him tracking his out-goings and making pro/con, trade-off decisions from there.

    My apologies, I didn't realise he was only paying €500 now and still spending his wages! Even still, its no-ones business what he does with his extra money. But yes, speaking from experience, it does seems manageable until something comes up like an illness you need doctor/prescription for, your car tax/insurance is due, your hoover breaks and you need to fork out 100 for another one. Things like this you just cant budget for. OP I wouldn't move out until you are sure you can afford it and that's considering an extra 100/200 a month left over just in case something comes up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 710 ✭✭✭MrMorooka


    OP I make slightly less than you at €2400 net, I pay a €1000 rent to live alone, and live quite comfortably. €500 to savings, €100 on bills, maybe €175ish on food, rest on whatever entertainment/other expenses or also to savings at next paycheck.

    Like others have said, it's about priorities. On your wage you can definitely afford it. Do you own a car? You probably can't afford that and to live alone. So it's a lifestyle thing. If I had to have a car or had a child or some other big expense it wouldn't work.

    Personally I wouldn't mind just buying an apartment instead of dealing with the rental market, but 3.5 x €36000 = not enough for a place I would be comfortable committing to for a decade or two. Kind of a pain because I have a huge deposit saved up but it's pointless with the LTI rule(which I do agree with, before anyone says). I guess I just need to get a higher paying job(because that's easy :rolleyes:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,164 ✭✭✭Butters1979


    mel123 wrote: »
    It doesnt matter what the OP currently spends their money on, they are not asking questions re expenditure.

    his question is specifically "How does anyone afford to rent alone?"

    I think people are trying to discuss how much his outgoings are as they seem high.
    Basically there are 2 ways to afford to rent alone. Earn more or spend less on other stuff. So questioning what he's spending money on is completely relevant to the question.

    OP, you mention credit card? It's not my business so no need to tell me. But in general if you owe a lot on your credit card, that's where to start, as it's money down the drain every month.

    You say you're not sure where it's going? When I had this issue of spending too much a few years ago, i did a spreadsheet to keep track of what I was spending and when. I was spending over €100 a month on coffee for example. €150 on credit card interest. I couldn't believe it. In a few months i wiped €500 of my outgoings without sacrificing anything too important to me.

    The first step to controlling something is understanding it. Get a budget going, make decisions based on what you find and stick to it. Even if this does not allow you to rent alone, it will at least allow you to save.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 710 ✭✭✭MrMorooka


    Yes, it's very easy to piss away money on things like getting a chicken fillet roll every day and using the vending machine/nipping to the shop/buying coffee. You end up spending the guts of €10 every single work day on lunch and snacks - that's €200 a month. You need to control that kind of spending if it's an issue for you, since it's 'invisible'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,088 ✭✭✭✭_Kaiser_


    It depends on your stage in life and your circumstances really...

    I live alone, but I moved out of Dublin last year when the rents became ridiculous and so now I commute about 45 mins each way (helped by flexible start times and work from home options)
    But while I make a fair bit more than the OP, I also have a car and young son to support, as well as a personal loan, so taking that all into account I COULD live in Dublin but I would have very little left afterwards.
    I also wouldn't WANT to to be honest - and I say that as a Dub who never thought he'd leave the city a decade ago but did in 2008 and preferred it. Dublin does nothing for me anymore and all my friends moved out in the Good Times anyway so they're all over the place too.

    At least this way I'm halfway between my office and my son and can still buy him and myself nice things as well now and then. A mortgage will probably not happen at this stage anyway regardless of the above as I'm getting old :p so I'll probably save and buy somewhere for cash when I retire (when commuting distances to work aren't important) or emigrate to somewhere nicer :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,126 ✭✭✭✭Idbatterim


    Personally I wouldn't mind just buying an apartment instead of dealing with the rental market, but 3.5 x €36000 = not enough for a place I would be comfortable committing to for a decade or two. Kind of a pain because I have a huge deposit saved up but it's pointless with the LTI rule(which I do agree with, before anyone says). I guess I just need to get a higher paying job(because that's easy )

    but you have a large amount saved, if the property is 200k, you wont meet that LTI criteria, but you dont need to if you have X saved...

    Unless you are getting a great deal on rent or really dont have another choice, deciding not to make some small changes, so that you can get your own place, makes no sense to me...


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  • Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 5,620 ✭✭✭El_Dangeroso


    OP I highly recommend using the app expensify (or some other budgeting app) to log every last penny of your expenditure for one month.

    You can create categories to assign so groceries, eating out, entertainment, alcohol, coffees, magazines etc can all be logged.

    At the end of the month you'll see easily what you can cut back on.

    Even having to log the spending will make you think twice. The first month I used it I ended up with €500 left over at the end of the month that I think just came from thinking twice about impulse buying.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,490 ✭✭✭stefanovich


    Moonbeam wrote:
    Move out of the city or buy a place. 1200pm after rent and bills is an absolute huge amount to live on.


    That's the opposite of huge.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,363 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    OP, I was where you are in my late 20's. I'm in my mid-thirties now and, while my salary has gone up, I'm still struggling to buy a house. I wish I'd had more sense with my money before I had a family. Clear the credit card and loans and start saving 10-20% of your salary every month.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,620 ✭✭✭enfant terrible


    MrMorooka wrote: »
    OP I make slightly less than you at €2400 net, I pay a €1000 rent to live alone, and live quite comfortably. €500 to savings, €100 on bills, maybe €175ish on food, rest on whatever entertainment/other expenses or also to savings at next paycheck.

    Like others have said, it's about priorities. On your wage you can definitely afford it. Do you own a car? You probably can't afford that and to live alone. So it's a lifestyle thing. If I had to have a car or had a child or some other big expense it wouldn't work.

    Personally I wouldn't mind just buying an apartment instead of dealing with the rental market, but 3.5 x €36000 = not enough for a place I would be comfortable committing to for a decade or two. Kind of a pain because I have a huge deposit saved up but it's pointless with the LTI rule(which I do agree with, before anyone says). I guess I just need to get a higher paying job(because that's easy :rolleyes:)

    The banks can make exceptions for clients with good credit history like raising the LTI to 4.5.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 710 ✭✭✭MrMorooka


    Idbatterim wrote: »
    but you have a large amount saved, if the property is 200k, you wont meet that LTI criteria, but you dont need to if you have X saved...

    Unless you are getting a great deal on rent or really dont have another choice, deciding not to make some small changes, so that you can get your own place, makes no sense to me...

    Yes, I suppose you're right. If I continue saving for 3 or 4 more years and my wage remains the same or goes up, and prices are similar to now, I should be able buy a decent 2 bed apartment. I'd be 30 by then. To be honest I somehow didn't realise that, that I can buy a property worth $deposit + $morgage, not just $mortgage..

    Like you say, I suppose I could also go very frugal and live with my parents and save 2 or 3 times more than I do now and build up a very large deposit to buy somewhere sooner than that. But I think for now I am much happier with my lifestyle this way so I will just hold out for as long as I can, and just hope I can manage any rent increases.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 710 ✭✭✭MrMorooka


    The banks can make exceptions for clients with good credit history like raising the LTI to 4.5.

    That's true, but I'd rather plan based on the more common case rather than relying on an exception.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Vahevala


    MrMorooka wrote: »
    OP I make slightly less than you at €2400 net, I pay a €1000 rent to live alone, and live quite comfortably. €500 to savings, €100 on bills, maybe €175ish on food, rest on whatever entertainment/other expenses or also to savings at next paycheck.

    100 on bills.. gosh I wish I had as little bills as that :eek::pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭SpaceCowb0y


    Thanks everyone for the input, all taken aboard and appreciated.

    like i said i know i am bad with my money, it really does seem to just disappear on me each month and its definitely something I need to get on top of.

    That said, i hate this idea of i need to save to buy a house. Honestly i don't want to buy a house and i hate that everyone in this country thinks its a must. I don't know if i ever want to be tied to a mortgage and be stuck in the one place forever but at the same time i have to live somewhere.

    Looks like i'll be stuck in a shared accommodation situation forever or at least until i win the lotto!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,480 ✭✭✭thierry14


    Vahevala wrote: »
    100 on bills.. gosh I wish I had as little bills as that :eek::pac:

    I love these 40 a week on food posts.

    How do they do it :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 710 ✭✭✭MrMorooka


    Vahevala wrote: »
    100 on bills.. gosh I wish I had as little bills as that :eek::pac:

    Actually, I am underestimating it, now that I actually check.

    Meteor is €30, Virgin is €50, BGE is €50, so my bills are actually ~€130. Obviously, I don't have a car or any debt. I paid contents insurance upfront for a year so it's not really a monthly bill.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,681 ✭✭✭Vahevala


    MrMorooka wrote: »
    Actually, I am underestimating it, now that I actually check.

    Meteor is €30, Virgin is €50, BGE is €50, so my bills are actually ~€130. Obviously, I don't have a car or any debt. I paid contents insurance upfront for a year so it's not really a monthly bill.

    ah ok. I pay Virgin 146 on its own lol!

    I think because I am eating healthier, most of my money goes on that! lol.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭SpaceCowb0y


    i should probably clarify 500 on rent and bills means:

    1 room in a share house for a month with TV and Electricity

    I still have a car which i need to run, tax and insure. as well as the credit card and loan and phone bill. I worked it out before and my outgoings not including food for a month as it stand is around €850/900

    i then manage to wax the rest on whatever.

    Obviously if i get my own place there will be other bills to consider. bins/water/gas etc on top of the rent. Seems living alone is a lost cause the more i think of it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    Thanks everyone for the input, all taken aboard and appreciated.

    like i said i know i am bad with my money, it really does seem to just disappear on me each month and its definitely something I need to get on top of.

    What you could try is taking a fixed amount of money out of an ATM and try to make it through the week on that. It's very easy to fritter money away when you're just using a plastic card and dipping in and out of an ATM at will.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 710 ✭✭✭MrMorooka


    Obviously if i get my own place there will be other bills to consider. bins/water/gas etc on top of the rent. Seems living alone is a lost cause the more i think of it.

    It's not possible for you because you have the car costs, it's as simple as that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,094 ✭✭✭SpaceCowb0y


    MrMorooka wrote: »
    It's not possible for you because you have the car costs, it's as simple as that.

    FML. yeah i was afraid of that.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 390 ✭✭VisibleGorilla


    With a salary of €40,000+ you should be able to live alone.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    MrMorooka wrote: »
    It's not possible for you because you have the car costs, it's as simple as that.

    How so? I earn roughly the same as the OP and live alone. I have a mortgage so I've extra bills a renter won't have. I also run a car. It is eminently doable but you have to keep an eye on your outgoings and do some budgeting. For anyone, and not just our OP, keeping an expenditure diary can be an eye opener.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,966 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    What you could try is taking a fixed amount of money out of an ATM and try to make it through the week on that. It's very easy to fritter money away when you're just using a plastic card and dipping in and out of an ATM at will.

    Thats good advice and a good place to start. Another thing to think about OP, there are on average 22 days of work a month. The days you go to work are the days you are likely to spend more money, often just out of boredom so watch what you spend on your days of work.

    For example, if you have the standard filling station chicken fillet roll and a bottle of water every working day for 5 euro, then your monthly spend on chicken rolls is 110 euros in a month.(5 x 22)

    Likewise, if you always have your skinny latte on the way into work from the coffee shop on the corner, with the conservative estimate of 2.50 for the coffee then it becomes 55 euros a month on coffee.

    Now obviously, you need to have lunch and maybe you need a coffee in the morning, but if you buy the ingredients in the supermarket and make it yourself at home, you can have your lunch every day for 1-2 euro a day maximum. Saving you 70+ euros a month.

    I find the more money I have at my disposal the more I will spend. So have a savings account you can put money into, and don't go "Whatever I have at the end of the month I'll save", because using that approach you won't have anything at the end of the month. Instead put 10 or 20 percent into your savings account when you get paid, and when you make a saving in the month, like the chicken roll savings above, put that saving into he savings account. You'll be amazed at how it starts to add up. After a while you will be saving 3 or 400 a month and you can then decide to either stay as you are and keep saving, or look for your own place, knowing you can now afford much closer to the rent than what felt possible before.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,794 ✭✭✭Squall Leonhart


    syklops wrote: »
    I find the more money I have at my disposal the more I will spend. So have a savings account you can put money into, and don't go "Whatever I have at the end of the month I'll save", because using that approach you won't have anything at the end of the month. Instead put 10 or 20 percent into your savings account when you get paid.

    Bingo.

    Put your savings away immediately when you get paid and look at what you've left and make your living choices off of that number and just forget all about your savings pot.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,404 ✭✭✭✭sKeith


    MrMorooka wrote: »
    Personally I wouldn't mind just buying an apartment instead of dealing with the rental market, but 3.5 x €36000 = not enough for a place I would be comfortable committing to for a decade or two. Kind of a pain because I have a huge deposit saved up but it's pointless with the LTI rule(which I do agree with, before anyone says). I guess I just need to get a higher paying job(because that's easy :rolleyes:)


    MrMorooka.

    Example: If you wanted to buy apartment for 200k on salary of 36k you would need a deposit of 74k. The ltv would be 63%. The repayment over 30 years would be 600 per month. you would need to save more to cover 1% stamp duty + solicitor fees. Its possible, even with lti you mention. Just figure it out. Moving home would make it possible the quickest but it huge sacrofice.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,794 ✭✭✭Squall Leonhart


    sKeith wrote: »
    MrMorooka.

    Example: If you wanted to buy apartment for 200k on salary of 36k you would need a deposit of 74k. The ltv would be 63%. The repayment over 30 years would be 600 per month. you would need to save more to cover 1% stamp duty + solicitor fees. Its possible, even with lti you mention. Just figure it out. Moving home would make it possible the quickest but it huge sacrofice.

    The thoughts of trying to pull together a 74K deposit...
    :eek::(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,063 ✭✭✭Greenmachine


    Going to sound like a bore will throw out a few generalizations here cross out any that don't apply. Here where your money could be going.

    Starbucks coffee on the way to work. €3 each morning *5 = €15 * 48 = €720
    Lunch in work/ Subway/ Costa Etc. €7 each day * 5 = €35 * 48 = €1680
    Takeaway once per week .................€12................................*48..€ 576
    Grocery .................per week €60.................................*48 €2880
    (great potential here to spend a lot in some small expensive shops in conveniences stores)
    Pints and a takeaway once per month ... €70........................****12 €840
    Taxi home..........................................€25..............................*12 €300

    Thats about €6400 of expenses right there potentially. What about clothing, do you give your self a monthly clothing budget or just buy clothes whenever?
    In a house share some of the minus are have to change the best laid plans at the last minute. That strip-loin, you plan on cooking after work, Oops Raul; your flatmate forgot to tell you he planned to tell you he was entertaining friends tonight.
    You want to change electricity provider to get a better deal, better hold a meeting with the other housemates. etc etc. No chasing housemate up for their share of the rent. No old food in the fridge and no wondering whose turn it is to clean the shower. Plenty of advantages to going it alone.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,449 ✭✭✭✭pwurple


    sKeith wrote: »
    MrMorooka.

    Example: If you wanted to buy apartment for 200k on salary of 36k you would need a deposit of 74k. The ltv would be 63%. The repayment over 30 years would be 600 per month. you would need to save more to cover 1% stamp duty + solicitor fees. Its possible, even with lti you mention. Just figure it out. Moving home would make it possible the quickest but it huge sacrofice.

    The thoughts of trying to pull together a 74K deposit...
    :eek::(
    But the 200k of repayments are aok?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,861 ✭✭✭Irishcrx


    Thanks everyone for the input, all taken aboard and appreciated.

    like i said i know i am bad with my money, it really does seem to just disappear on me each month and its definitely something I need to get on top of.

    That said, i hate this idea of i need to save to buy a house. Honestly i don't want to buy a house and i hate that everyone in this country thinks its a must. I don't know if i ever want to be tied to a mortgage and be stuck in the one place forever but at the same time i have to live somewhere.

    Looks like i'll be stuck in a shared accommodation situation forever or at least until i win the lotto!

    I think a lot of young single people have that view on buying property, but the truth is the majority of them will change that tune down the line when they end up settling down 'falling in love; having a family etc...suddenly they then want the benefits that comes with buying your own property , it's a sound financial decision also weather you buy early or late, the fact is you'll pay less in a mortgage than in rent by a decent margin and personally I hated having to move out of a property and finding a new place to live I wanted some structure and I was very early twenties (21) and single when I bought my house , it was a long term decision I made to start setting myself up and Im really glad I did now. I still had a lot of fun through my twenties if anything it benefited me and gave me a lot of freedom.

    But for me anyway, I like being able to do thing's with the house , I like that those thing's are my decisions and not a landlords...I like picking out new kitchens with my girlfriend , painting them what colours I want...picking out furniture...installing a decking and chilling out there in the summer with my other half and son...

    Maybe I was 29 before my time , but there is definate benfits to owning a property down the line and especially with the rental market the way it is now..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,787 ✭✭✭✭keane2097


    YNAB would be a good place for OP to start.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 43 Sheep in a field


    Rent is indeed very expensive. I don't know how more people don't end up roughing it in tents. Camping for a weekend is one thing..no wonder homelessness is on the rise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Ashbx


    How so? I earn roughly the same as the OP and live alone. I have a mortgage so I've extra bills a renter won't have. I also run a car. It is eminently doable but you have to keep an eye on your outgoings and do some budgeting. For anyone, and not just our OP, keeping an expenditure diary can be an eye opener.

    In my experience, my friends who own their own house are paying a lot less on mortgage payments than what I am paying on rent. I know it obviously depends on certain circumstances but three of my friends who own their own houses (in tallaght, rathcoole and rathmines and I live in Dundrum) are all paying significantly less than I am.

    Its the saving for the deposit that's the issue!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    Ashbx wrote: »
    In my experience, my friends who own their own house are paying a lot less on mortgage payments than what I am paying on rent. I know it obviously depends on certain circumstances but three of my friends who own their own houses (in tallaght, rathcoole and rathmines and I live in Dundrum) are all paying significantly less than I am.

    Its the saving for the deposit that's the issue!

    Perhaps, but there are also costs involved with the maintenance of a house which someone who rents won't be facing into. Anyway, my point is that if the OP gets better at handling his money and wants to live alone, it is possible. It depends how badly he wants it though. He said he travels a lot. If he does, then that may be something he'll have to dial back on.

    Edit :I agree about the deposit. I house shared to get the money together for buying a house. I was happy to live there because it was a means to an end and I wanted to buy a house. The OP has different aspirations :-)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 992 ✭✭✭MrDerp


    The biggest barrier to living alone is that you're competing with couples for the same properties, driving up the price of 1 beds. 2 people on 20k will net more money than 1 person on 40k due to tax credits etc, and will be willing to put more of their overall net pay into renting a nice place.

    I never lived alone before I moved in with my now wife, because I found the cost too difficult to justify, and I wouldn't have been spending anything like the OP on entertainment.

    There's some good advice on this thread, now is the time of your life to get saving and try to have 10K banked for if/when you meet someone and want to buy a place together down the line. It's very hard to build up a deposit, especially now, if you're only starting to save when you feel ready to settle down.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Ashbx


    Perhaps, but there are also costs involved with the maintenance of a house which someone who rents won't be facing into. Anyway, my point is that if the OP gets better at handling his money and wants to live alone, it is possible. It depends how badly he wants it though. He said he travels a lot. If he does, then that may be something he'll have to dial back on.

    Edit :I agree about the deposit. I house shared to get the money together for buying a house. I was happy to live there because it was a means to an end and I wanted to buy a house. The OP has different aspirations :-)

    Oh totally agree. I mentioned in my original post that you always needs to set aside a couple of quid for when things break! Defo a pro to renting in that sense. Something breaks....just call the landlord! :)


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