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NI Marriage Equality - Needs to be an election issue for the DUP. Not just petitions.

  • 07-04-2016 9:27am
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,040 ✭✭✭


    I'm just watching this as an occasional visitor to Northern Ireland, but I'm a bit frustrated with the very apolitical approach being taken when it comes to marriage equality.

    Unless this turns into a very big election issue for the DUP or unless their share of the vote reduces substantially, they'll just continue to block the legislation. All the online petitions in the world will fall on deaf ears. They're hard-line religious conservatives and I can't really see that ever changing.

    People have to look at more than just the border issue and the Unionist vs Nationalist arguments when voting and more people need to engage.

    Only 54.5% voted in assembly elections in 2011.

    I can fully understand why many people may be turned off by the political system up there but, if the turnout is low the then the tail wags the dog and you'll end up with these Bible Belt and sectarian politics driving the agenda.

    It would seem to me that the single biggest thing that would have an impact would be mobilising socially progressive unionist and people who might not be aligned either way and encouraging them to register and vote for anyone other than DUP, preferably parties with a progressive social policy outlook!


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Their use of a petition of concern to overturn the majority vote in favour of same sex marriage was very low.

    A petition of concern is a mechanism specifically designed to shield communities from political abuse in Northern Ireland and it was grossly misused last November.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,040 ✭✭✭12Phase


    Yeah it was a fairly serious misuse of the mechanism and I think that probably needs to be investigated as it will turn what is a valuable system into a joke.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Good article about petitions of concern

    Well the election is due in a month and the DUP have made their position clear, they have said they will continue to block same sex marriage in their 2016 manifesto and while they have the majority of MLAs (38) they can make good on that threat.

    DUP2.jpg

    About 2 weeks ago this video made by a 15 year old with same sex parents asking his MLA to explain why he voted to block marriage equality went up on youtube. It is articulate, well reasoned and puts forward a powerful message about accountability and discrimination. Fair play to him.



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,104 ✭✭✭Niemoj


    Hopefully come May the DUP is absolutely obliterated. The North last had elections in 2011 I believe and so much has changed since then that I hope that people's opinions and indeed who they vote for has changed too!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,040 ✭✭✭12Phase


    Very unlikely unfortunately. People vote along the sectarian divide and the turnout is typically very low.


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    That's such a shame because this poll was conducted just after the ROI marriage referendum and it showed high support for marriage equality in NI.
    The poll found that people living in Greater Belfast are more likely to back gay marriage than those living in other areas of Northern Ireland - at 75% versus 63% respectively.

    It must be difficult for LGBT members of the unionist community knowing the government and elected representatives are not supportive, but you vote for them anyway because that's the way it is.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,040 ✭✭✭12Phase


    It's a broken system though. Most votes up there are still cast on issues of national identity, not policy. I suspect the DUP's LGBT stuff is 'riding in' on that rather than being a major voting issue.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Sinn Fein are looking to put it front and center of their manifesto. Not sure how much good that will do now, it's the final week before the vote.

    Belfast Telegraph article

    Latest opinion poll predicts that DUP and Sinn Fein will slightly increase holdings at the expense of SDLP and Independents.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,620 ✭✭✭Rick_


    Interesting on that little screenshot of the DUP's manifesto they say they want to bring another law in line with the rest of the UK, but don't want to bring marriage equality in line with the rest of the UK. So, they want to be like the rest of the UK, but only the parts that suit them. :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,040 ✭✭✭12Phase


    A la carte unionism ...

    It seems to me they're actually trying to be part of a UK that ceased to exist in about 1950 when it comes to some of their policies.

    On social issues like this, they seem to be far more in line with aspects of the US Republican Party than the UK political mainstream.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,541 ✭✭✭Leonard Hofstadter


    12Phase wrote: »
    A la carte unionism ...

    It seems to me they're actually trying to be part of a UK that ceased to exist in about 1950 when it comes to some of their policies.

    On social issues like this, they seem to be far more in line with aspects of the US Republican Party than the UK political mainstream.

    It's very odd indeed. Most people in NI actually do favour marriage equality irrespective of the sectarian divide. Northern Ireland is certainly a more socially conservative country than anywhere else in the UK or Ireland, but it's not the provincial backwater the DUP would like to think it is.

    They say they want to be like the rest of the UK, but they don't really. Sure the whole furore about the flags was another example, what was proposed with the flags would actually have brought NI in line with the rest of the UK but no the DUP didn't want that. A la carte Unionism would be a better way to describe it. They don't have much time for the English up there either, it's more of a bond with the Scots they have more than anything in my experience, and even then, Scotland has moved on too what with over 40% of their population still wanting independence from the rest of the UK.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    In an interview with BBC last week Arlene Foster said that the DUP will use a 'petition of concern' to stop any attempts to change the law regarding the definition of marriage in Northern Ireland (no surprises there) but she also said that Internet trolls were influencing her decision on this,
    If activists want to have a conversation about where they are coming from, do they seriously think they are going to influence me by sending me abuse?

    No, they are not going to influence me by sending me abuse - in fact, they are going to send me in the opposite direction and people need to reflect on that.

    http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-northern-ireland-37791366

    She has also said that many gay people in Northern Ireland don't want marriage redefined and are happy to live in a civil partnership (probably true) but as a result the whole debate has become a 'storm in a teacup'.

    Video extract of the interview in this link,

    http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-northern-ireland-37798592

    I find her comments very surprising, particularly coming from a political leader. As first minister she is tasked with looking after all citizens of Northern Ireland, not just the ones she approves of. The complete unwillingness to debate the issue and the valid threat to use petitions of concern to counter the majority of MLAs that support same sex marriage must be a particularly hard slap in the face of any gay person in NI who does want to marry their partner. Looks like this issue will be held in limbo for at least another 5 years.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    I find her comments very surprising, particularly coming from a political leader. As first minister she is tasked with looking after all citizens of Northern Ireland, not just the ones she approves of. The complete unwillingness to debate the issue and the valid threat to use petitions of concern to counter the majority of MLAs that support same sex marriage must be a particularly hard slap in the face of any gay person in NI who does want to marry their partner. Looks like this issue will be held in limbo for at least another 5 years.

    I don't find it surprising given the history of her party and indeed Northern Ireland.

    http://notchesblog.com/2014/09/16/ian-paisley-1926-2014-and-the-save-ulster-from-sodomy-campaign/

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 13,101 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    The DUP are a bunch of bigots. They'll never change. Sad to be an LGBT person in NI who wants to marry their same-sex partner.

    The DUP detest the gay community.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Petition of concern and DUP veto effectively gone. 1 step closer for marriage equality in NI.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,166 ✭✭✭lottpaul


    Petition of concern and DUP veto effectively gone. 1 step closer for marriage equality in NI.

    Hopefully so but on BBC today it was reported that Jim Allister of the TUV has said he would sign a petition of concern to block marriage equality. That would mean that just 1 UUP (or other MLA) would be needed to reach the 30 votes needed to trigger the veto. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 730 ✭✭✭SILVAMAN


    That's like asking an Arab country to recognise the state of Israel.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    lottpaul wrote: »
    Hopefully so but on BBC today it was reported that Jim Allister of the TUV has said he would sign a petition of concern to block marriage equality. That would mean that just 1 UUP (or other MLA) would be needed to reach the 30 votes needed to trigger the veto. :(

    Yeah and only 1 UUP candidate said he would support it. With Mike Nesbitt gone it looks to me like the liberal minded UUP could potentially be sidelined. However overall it does weaken the Unionist conservative stranglehold on the issue. As I said - a step closer - maybe not the final step needed yet.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,541 ✭✭✭Leonard Hofstadter


    Well given how much closer SF and the DUP now are in terms of the number of seats, I'd imagine SF will insist upon certain things off the DUP that they couldn't get before otherwise they will allow direct rule. I would hope, given how much of an issue they've made of it recently, that equal marriage will be one of those things - they've also mentioned the Irish Language Act as well as something that they want.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,989 ✭✭✭✭Peregrinus


    SILVAMAN wrote: »
    That's like asking an Arab country to recognise the state of Israel.
    Ah, but three Arab countries do recognise Israel, including Egypt, which is the most populous Arab country of them all. Never give up hope!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 910 ✭✭✭BlinkingLights


    SF could simply make it impossible to form a government if this is blocked again and it would fall over to another election in few weeks that would likely cause DUP's vote to fall further if the whole thing was just about a homophobic stance.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    SF could simply make it impossible to form a government if this is blocked again and it would fall over to another election in few weeks that would likely cause DUP's vote to fall further if the whole thing was just about a homophobic stance.
    I think there are other stumbling blocks too plus a lot of the DUP voters support their stance!

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 910 ✭✭✭BlinkingLights


    I think there are other stumbling blocks too plus a lot of the DUP voters support their stance!

    A majority of the NI population don't though. It could get very weird.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    SF could simply make it impossible to form a government if this is blocked again and it would fall over to another election in few weeks

    I don't think any party can do that indefinitely, wouldn't that just end in direct rule?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 910 ✭✭✭BlinkingLights


    I don't think any party can do that indefinitely, wouldn't that just end in direct rule?

    It happened before. From 2002 until 2007. Northern Ireland barely has had a decade of continuous devolved government. This one could really be a big test of whether it's capable of self governance without resorting to irreconcilable political differences.

    It would be incredibly stupid as they'd entirely lose their voice as Brexit ploughs ahead.


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 13,101 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    The sad and depressing thing is that the polarised nature of politics in NI along religious/tribal lines means that inter-tribal fighting and one upmanship will always trump much more pressing and important economic and social concerns for the province. As long as SF and the DUP remain the largest political parties up there this won't change.

    Sad but sadly true. Instead of focusing on the the fallout of Brexit and what it could mean for NI, the DUP and SF are more concerned with tit for tat sniping at each other. This is to the detriment of NI and reflects a deeply immature political environment.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Former NI health minister Jim Wells (DUP), who previously opposed lifting the ban on MSM blood donations, has threatened to split the DUP if there is any agreement with Sinn Fein on the issue of same sex marriage in Northern Ireland. I'm kind of surprised that there are murmurings about it in the first place but I think, given their showing in the last election, they have to make some hard choices if they want to retain their position.

    Unsurprisingly this dinosaur is throwing a tantrum.

    Belfast Telegraph


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 34,679 CMod ✭✭✭✭CiDeRmAn


    Hi, quick question that popped into my head and this forum and thread seems to fit the bill

    Who on earth do Northern Irish unionists, who happen to be LGBTQ, vote for?
    There isn't, from what I can see, a "liberal" party that embraces the union in Ulster at all, yet there must be a demographic that's disenfranchised as a result.
    On the republican side both major parties appear to be LGBTQ friendly in their outlook, but the unionist side seems bereft of LGBTQ representation.
    The Alliance party?
    Is this the only answer I wonder?

    If this is derailing the thread, feel free to delete.
    Thanks!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    CiDeRmAn wrote: »
    Hi, quick question that popped into my head and this forum and thread seems to fit the bill

    Who on earth do Northern Irish unionists, who happen to be LGBTQ, vote for?
    There isn't, from what I can see, a "liberal" party that embraces the union in Ulster at all, yet there must be a demographic that's disenfranchised as a result.
    On the republican side both major parties appear to be LGBTQ friendly in their outlook, but the unionist side seems bereft of LGBTQ representation.
    The Alliance party?
    Is this the only answer I wonder?

    If this is derailing the thread, feel free to delete.
    Thanks!

    Alliance/SDLP/Green Party/PUP/Progressive independent unionists or they just stay UUP/DUP possibly even TUV. There are a lot lgbt voters who would still vote DUP or UUP. UUP has had a few prominent gay members too such as current Cllr Jeffrey Dudgeon (Norn Irons David Norris) and David Trimbles adviser Steven King.
    .

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 34,679 CMod ✭✭✭✭CiDeRmAn


    Thanks for that


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Can't see marriage equality happening anytime soon with DUP now putting Tories in power.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Pride flag flying outside Stormont house on August 4th, authorised by NI secretary James Brokenshire :)

    _97213491_pacemaker_pride_flag_flies_at_stormont_house_03.jpg


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 433 ✭✭Lmklad




  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 13,101 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    That's great to hear. No doubt the DUP bigots were there protesting as well, as they always do. But I have a question - why were the Gardai marching in Belfast? Surely NI is not their jurisdiction.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    That's great to hear. No doubt the DUP bigots were there protesting as well, as they always do. But I have a question - why were the Gardai marching in Belfast? Surely NI is not their jurisdiction.

    I'd imagine it's part of a cross-border initiative to foster good relationships.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,989 ✭✭✭✭Peregrinus


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    That's great to hear. No doubt the DUP bigots were there protesting as well, as they always do. But I have a question - why were the Gardai marching in Belfast? Surely NI is not their jurisdiction.
    So? You don't need to have the status of a police officer to participate in a Pride parade.

    Officially, most likely, they would have been invited by their opposite numbers in the PSNI and they would be there as guests. A Garda contingent marching in a pride parade in NI is no different than a PSNI team playing in a football game in the Republic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 433 ✭✭Lmklad


    The Deputy Chief Constable of the PSNI invited U.K. forces and the Gardai.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    I think it was a subtle showing of solidarity for the Gardai who are not allowed march in uniform in pride parades here in the Republic

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 433 ✭✭Lmklad


    That's the thing Joey, Gardai would still need permission from here to go up there. Guess things are changing here too.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Talks between Sinn Fein and the DUP with a view to forming a government have ended in failure. The reason is due to an inability to agree on a number of key issues, including same sex marriage
    Michelle O'Neill (SF)
    Over the last 10 months, the focus of these negotiations has been on the delivery of rights which are the norm everywhere else on these islands...

    Many of these rights are fundamental parts of the Good Friday and other agreements. They are for the benefit of all sections of society and threaten no-one...

    Furthermore, marriage equality, language rights, the Bill of Rights and the right to coroners inquests are supported by a majority in the assembly and in wider society.

    http://www.newstalk.com/Westminster-moves-to-impose-budget-on-Stormont


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    A bill is being debated in Westminster today that states if the Stormont assembly is not up and running g by October 21st then Westminter can legislate same-sex marriage in Northern Ireland to bring it in line with the rest of the UK re ssm

    Hopefully this will pass.

    https://www.rte.ie/news/ulster/2019/0708/1060814-same-sex-marriage-ni/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,872 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    It passed!
    Same-sex marriage and abortion to be legalised in North if no power-sharing by 21 October https://jrnl.ie/4717703

    Very exciting!


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Delighted, let's see if the DUP start making concessions to Sinn Fein in order to get Stormont up and running so they can ban this.

    My money says they won't, they'll take it on the chin because they can say they never voted for it, Britain did :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,156 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    But Sinn Fein won't agree to form a new executive if it leaves it open to a DUP veto on this issue!!!!

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 481 ✭✭mr.anonymous


    Very happy to see this. If not for us, for how much it'll piss the DUP off.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    2 days before bonfire night too


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71,136 ✭✭✭✭L1011


    But Sinn Fein won't agree to form a new executive if it leaves it open to a DUP veto on this issue!!!!

    DUP are three short to veto this and the UUP have said they won't help them.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,022 Mod ✭✭✭✭wiggle16


    Delighted, let's see if the DUP start making concessions to Sinn Fein in order to get Stormont up and running so they can ban this.

    My money says they won't, they'll take it on the chin because they can say they never voted for it, Britain did :D

    Agreed, but the image of Arlene Foster having a complete sh*tfit over the predicament she now finds herself in is just so.... satisfying.

    I hope she has an awesome 12th of July :cool:


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Nothing like the thought that LGBT people might be getting one over on them to get the DUP back to work

    They're already looking for ways to sabotage the legislation by tabling their own amendments to the bill
    Three DUP Lords – Lord Morrow, Lord Browne of Belmont, and Lord McCrea of Magherafelt and Cookstown – have tabled an amendment on marriage “requiring the Secretary of State to issue statutory guidance supporting freedom of expression and freedom of conscience in educational institutions in relation to beliefs about the definition of marriage”.

    This would allow businesses and organisations to discriminate against same-sex couples by not letting them avail of their products or services.

    Peers Lords Cormack and Trimble have tabled a second amendment which extends the deadline to April 10, 2020.

    Baroness O’Loan and DUP Lord Hay of Ballymore have tabled an amendment which states that the secretary of state for Northern Ireland must conduct a consultation with Members of the Legislative Assembly (MLAs) in Northern Ireland before taking any action.

    https://www.buzzfeed.com/hannahalothman/peers-derail-same-sex-abortion

    I presume this is the same Lord Trimble who is in the papers right now saying how he had done a personal U-Turn on his opinion of LGBT marriage since his daughter just married her partner

    https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-northern-ireland-49004816


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,380 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Only 3 weeks to go :)


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