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Name a Strength and a Weakness

  • 12-03-2016 10:37PM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,559 ✭✭✭


    Name a strength, talent or gift you have.
    ~and~
    Name a weakness or something you would like to work on (it can be related to the strength or completely different).

    Which was easier to name, the strength or the weakness? (I'd lay odds we, as women, can instantly come up a thousand flaws but not so many strengths... and comparison robs us of our joy - don't ya hate that?")

    ..................................................................................

    I shall start....

    I can be a supportive friend.
    But I don't take as much care of myself as I do others.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,012 ✭✭✭stop animal cruelty


    Loyalty

    Too senseitve


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,559 ✭✭✭B00!


    I am strong

    ...and weak, all at the same time


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    Strength: I'm a stubborn motherfcuker. Nothing is out of my reach in my own mind. If I set my mind to something, I will give it 150% and smash the hell out of it.

    Weakness: Negative thinking. It's a lot better now than a couple of years ago, but I'm brutal for talking myself out of things, doubting myself, convincing myself I'm shyte. That and chocolate. Me and chocolate can't be in the same room.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,981 ✭✭✭ElleEm


    I am very strong because of my positive outlook.

    My willpower sucks. Food is too delicious!


  • Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 7,441 Mod ✭✭✭✭XxMCRxBabyxX


    Strength: When it comes to it I can deal with most tough situations and tend to have a good attitude towards them. I've often been told that I'm very strong and brave.

    Weakness: Instead I struggle with stress and a very negative mindset and will create problems when there are none at all. These are the times that I'll start crying irrationally and work myself up into a panic.

    It's amazing how the one brain can act in such different ways. Whilst not officially diagnosed, my counselor has expressed concerns that I have anxiety issues.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Strength would be I'm kind

    Weakness is not enough confidence in myself


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,559 ✭✭✭B00!


    strength: I can do just about anything I'm asked

    weakness: I have a tendency to avoid just about everything too


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    B00! wrote: »
    strength: I can do just about anything I'm asked

    weakness: I have a tendency to avoid just about everything too

    Same as this actually! I'm great at taking direction - tasks or challenges that will benefit other people (EG work projects, organizing events etc) and I'm definitely your woman.

    However things that are good for ME and me only and I'm brutal. I'll set myself tasks and deadlines and ignore them all coz "sure no-one is counting on me/I'll start next week".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,512 ✭✭✭baby and crumble


    Strength: I have lots of patience. Piles of it.

    Weakness: I don't always stand up for myself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,624 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    Weakness: I can be a bitch
    Strength: I can be a bitch.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,662 ✭✭✭Milly33


    Ohhh I could be here forever..

    Strength - I don't care about silly things or you can rely on me
    Weakness - I don't think much of myself


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    Heartening that almost everyone has the same weakness. <3

    Strength: Smart as you like.
    Weakness: Constantly forgetting that I'm just an ape, bombing it around the universe on a rock.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,559 ✭✭✭B00!


    Strength: I see and appreciated everyone else's beauty, talent, worth...

    Weakness: But I compare my worst inner flaws to everyone's outward (seeming) perfection... and degrade myself. I wonder if many women do this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,662 ✭✭✭Milly33


    It is amazing as mentioned before how women see themselves.. Everyone else is great and we try to be great outselfs but we just knock ourselves!!! Ladies ye all rock


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,134 ✭✭✭Lux23


    Terrible listener but great multi-tasker.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 444 ✭✭scarbouro


    Strength : kind hearted, can be relied on, bubbly and confident around people.

    Weakness : too sensitive at times, an overthinker, lack motivation sometimes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,559 ✭✭✭B00!


    I am a great believer in Love

    ...but I refuse to date :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 192 ✭✭honey79


    Strength - I'm very kind

    Weakness -I have a self destruct button


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1 Username is not available


    I had a job interview recently, had to name my greatest strength & greatest weakness. Like the OP said, I had no problem coming up with plenty weaknesses but naming my greatest strength was difficult.

    I am very easy going, have never lost my temper or really fought with anyone.
    But I'm not good at talking about my feelings & sometimes I can overthink things & get too much in my own head.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,043 ✭✭✭Shelga


    Strengths: I'm a good listener. I usually prefer to listen to other people's issues than talk about my own. Not because I'm lacking in confidence or anything, I just like listening to people. I'm also pretty good at putting myself in other people's shoes, and chatting away to/breaking the ice with all sorts of different people.

    Weaknesses: I'm very impatient with other people, eg if I think a friend is making a mistake. I can also be judgemental and intolerant- nothing too bad but if I had to name something! :pac:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,208 ✭✭✭Lady is a tramp


    Strength - I'm always told I'm very resilient. I bounce back again and again like a very bouncy thing!

    Weakness - I'm too impulsive at times. Working on controlling that though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22 Whattimeisit


    Strength: I'm resilient and very loyal

    Weakness: I get it hard to say what I mean sometimes and just agree to keep people happy


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 547 ✭✭✭loalae


    Strength: I am very good at understanding and analysing people and their motivations.

    Weakness: I take any hint of criticism or implied criticism way too seriously and agonise over it indefinitely.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,089 ✭✭✭Lavinia


    S: really have to think about this, as it is so easy to name weaknesses - like, where even to stop... but strengths.. endurance maybe.. phoenix syndrome..

    W: to name just one? procrastination e.g. self-sabotage


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Strength: Focus and single-mindedness, capable of intense concentration for prolonged periods.

    Weakness: Single-minded and focused to the exclusion and neglect of everything else when in the zone.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,652 ✭✭✭CaraMay


    Strength: I have emotional and mental strength I never would have believed possible

    Weakness: not minding myself physically


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,559 ✭✭✭B00!


    strength: well capable

    weakness: am quiet about it... and being too quiet makes people believe you arent capable of anything so they have a tendency to want to take over (like today).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,843 ✭✭✭Day Lewin


    Strength: I am intelligent.

    Weakness: Am cowardy custard, afraid of everything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,256 ✭✭✭metaoblivia


    Strength: Not afraid to march to my own tune
    Weakness: I'm too much of a control freak - uptight!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,559 ✭✭✭B00!


    strength... I like being a strong, independent person.

    weakness... I am tired and weak alot of the time anymore.


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