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County or country first?

  • 06-03-2016 12:03am
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    So, how do you identify yourself? By reference to your county/locality...or country?

    For me it's always Kerry first. When abroad, when asked where I'm from, apparently I always say "Kerry...in Ireland"...or so my wife tells me, I can't say it's conscious. But when I think about it, I think I get more defensive about Kerry than Ireland. It's not that I struggle with Irish identity, it's just that I can't pretend to have a close affinity for, say, people from Dublin or Donegal.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,973 ✭✭✭RayM


    It's not that I struggle with Irish identity, it's just that I can't pretend to have a close affinity for, say, people from Dublin or Donegal.

    Yes, people who come from different parts of a tiny island are wildly different from each other...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,195 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    I've toult 'oo before, I'll tell 'oo agin - my mother and father were two Kerry min! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,988 ✭✭✭jacksie66


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,431 ✭✭✭MilesMorales1


    Northsider bud.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,195 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    jacksie66 wrote: »
    Limerick. Munster. Ireland. Europe. Northern Hemisphere. Earth. Solar System. Milky Way. Local Group. Local Supercluster. Universe.

    Bally bastards!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 195 ✭✭toptom


    Good man, for me im first and foremost a Tipp man, Us rural folk have a unique culture and lifestyle so i know what you mean about Dublin. I find folk from the east and north to be a totally different breed to us in munster or the midlands


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,907 ✭✭✭✭Kristopherus


    So, how do you identify yourself? By reference to your county/locality...or country?

    For me it's always Kerry first. When abroad, when asked where I'm from, apparently I always say "Kerry...in Ireland"...or so my wife tells me, I can't say it's conscious. But when I think about it, I think I get more defensive about Kerry than Ireland. It's not that I struggle with Irish identity, it's just that I can't pretend to have a close affinity for, say, people from Dublin or Donegal.

    I think you have healyraeitus:D.


  • Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 976 ✭✭✭beach_walker


    Depends whom I'm talking to tbh. Most people in the UK can piece together I'm Irish without me explicitly saying so :D So when asked where I'm from by them I say "Galway, tis on the west coast". 80% of the time they'll reply with something alluding to the "Galway Girl" song, I'll smile and nod... and die a little inside.

    With those from farther afield I'll simply say I'm Irish and wait for the praise and glory which we've been led to believe we should expect.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 869 ✭✭✭Icemancometh


    Depends whom I'm talking to tbh. Most people in the UK can piece together I'm Irish without me explicitly saying so :D So when asked where I'm from by them I say "Galway, tis on the west coast". 80% of the time they'll reply with something alluding to the "Galway Girl" song, I'll smile and nod... and die a little inside.

    With those from farther afield I'll simply say I'm Irish and wait for the praise and glory which we've been led to believe we should expect.

    Until a few years ago I would have said county first (Dublin). Since then I've worked and lived all over Ireland and I feel a bit different now. So it's country first for me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 641 ✭✭✭howardmarks


    Good Jesus


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,549 ✭✭✭maryishere


    Dublin, Ireland. I once met someone in America who did not know where Ireland was.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,117 ✭✭✭✭Junkyard Tom


    Ireland first. Always.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,761 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    I put planet Earth first, then continent, then country, then county, then parish and finally my townsland that I live in which I love dearly.


  • Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 976 ✭✭✭beach_walker


    RobertKK wrote: »
    I put planet Earth first, then continent, then country, then county, then parish and finally my townsland that I live in which I love dearly.

    What about your own beloved galaxy?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,104 ✭✭✭Niemoj


    Irish people are nearly always so proud of where they're find, case in point would be the boundary reviews. People going mad so that the county they're from, their identity isn't changed.

    Personally speaking I'd say Carlow, Éire as I'm too proud a Carlovian to just say Éire!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,705 ✭✭✭✭Tigger


    Ireland
    I was born in Dublin from a Cork father I work in Mayo and live in Sligo
    I'm cosmopolitan me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,429 ✭✭✭topmanamillion


    Ireland
    The county thing is a mad notion that I completely fail to grasp.
    How can anyone identify with geographic boundaries drawn up by English nobility? The funniest thing about the county system is the GAA is its biggest supporter.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Ireland
    The county thing is a mad notion that I completely fail to grasp.
    How can anyone identify with geographic boundaries drawn up by English nobility? The funniest thing about the county system is the GAA is its biggest supporter.

    I don't disagree, hence I referred to "county/locality" in the body of the OP. So being from South Kerry, I completely identify with people in West Cork too, as much as any person from North Kerry, county was a more convenient reference than "people within an hours drive". But East Cork...different world.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,521 ✭✭✭✭mansize


    Outside Ireland: Ireland
    Within Ireland: Offaly


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    RayM wrote: »
    Yes, people who come from different parts of a tiny island are wildly different from each other...

    I think of Bere Island as a small island. But the people from the east and west end are different...maybe not wildly but different.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,563 ✭✭✭dd972


    There's probably Corkonians who go by street :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,770 ✭✭✭The Randy Riverbeast


    mansize wrote: »
    Outside Ireland: Ireland
    Within Ireland: Offaly

    This, except a different county. I'm not that unlucky.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,873 ✭✭✭✭Arghus


    Country.

    I don't think anyone I've met outside of Ireland cared remotely what county I come from. Most of them wouldn't even have heard of it. Fair enough if you want to be proud of your own backyard, but I think it means a lot more to us than it does to anyone else!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 94 ✭✭maroondog


    Country first then county mainly. Only in the UK would ya maybe say your county. Or often if your away to rugby matches like maybe Cardiff like at World Cup they'd wonder what Province your from. In UK you'd find they'd have good knowledge enough of alot of county names.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 263 ✭✭Rattser


    The vast majority of foreigners wouldn't have a breeze if you just told them what county you're from. So, Ireland. And if they still look confused, the island beside the UK/England.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,109 ✭✭✭Electric Sheep


    Lets be totally irish and say townland first.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,521 ✭✭✭✭mansize


    This, except a different county. I'm not that unlucky.

    Clearly our loss... 😒


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 195 ✭✭unjedilike


    Abroad, you have to gauge who's asking you where you're from. By saying Ireland you run the risk of them embarrassing you with "no d'uh, where in Ireland?" Either way I lose as nobody, especially in the US, knows where Monaghan is.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,378 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm


    Healy-Rae voter


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 422 ✭✭LeeLooLee


    unjedilike wrote: »
    Abroad, you have to gauge who's asking you where you're from. By saying Ireland you run the risk of them embarrassing you with "no d'uh, where in Ireland?" Either way I lose as nobody, especially in the US, knows where Monaghan is.

    And many people in Ireland think Monaghan is in Northern Ireland.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,915 ✭✭✭The flying mouse


    Always say Ireland then Dubalin.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Galway first.

    People may slag Ireland in front of me but if you go after Galway we will dance :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 26,658 ✭✭✭✭OldMrBrennan83


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    When someone abroad asks you where you're from, they clearly mean the country. It's just petty provincial buffoonery to start with anything but your country.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Arghus wrote: »
    Country.

    I don't think anyone I've met outside of Ireland cared remotely what county I come from.

    Oh I agree.

    But I do. Much as I guess someone from the Basque region in Spain might say there first. It doesn't matter if the person asking isn't sure where it is, it says something about the loyalties of the person saying it.


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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    When someone abroad asks you where you're from, they clearly mean the country. It's just petty provincial buffoonery to start with anything but your country.

    There seems to be a lot of focus on the "where are you from" question. It wasn't meant to be an analysis of answering question posed by people abroad, merely an example of what I unconsciously answer and where my loyalty lies.

    I don't think of it as provincial buffoonery, no more than identifying with people from Donegal or Fatima Mansions might be nationalist buffoonery.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    I'd say Irish first if asked by a foreigner, Dublin if asked by a local(or a Brit as they'd generally pick up on the Irish thing, but would be asking for specifics). I'm not of Culshie stock so don't think in counties really.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 713 ✭✭✭Edward Hopper


    English first, then general area of country and what cities and towns Irish people may know. So I have mileages worked out for London Manchester and Birmingham!


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    Wibbs wrote: »
    I'd say Irish first if asked by a foreigner, Dublin if asked by a local(or a Brit as they'd generally pick up on the Irish thing, but would be asking for specifics). I'm not of Culshie stock so don't think in counties really.

    If I ever meet you, my second question will be "... and where in county Dublin?" ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    I meet a lot of foreigners in my work. When they ask where I am from I tell them Ireland.
    If they probe further I will advise them I am from Sligo and give them the fun fact that Sligo is the actual centre of the universe.


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    If I ever meet you, my second question will be "... and where in county Dublin?" ;)
    Theres a county Dublin you say? Well I never… :D

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,544 ✭✭✭Samaris


    I'll say Ireland first (well, particularly with foreigners, depends how it's phrased by Irish people - half of them seem to think I'm either American or English). Although I do tend to phrase county as "I grew up in Waterford, on the south coast/in the south-east". Didn't really realise I was doing that until I thought of it, but my family are fairly mixed in terms of where they were born and raised, so I've never really felt "from" anywhere in particular :D Grew up in Waterford, wasn't born there, both were pure chance, so I feel no particular pride or real interest in the fact.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,691 ✭✭✭failinis


    Since I moved to the UK, most people would know its Ireland so I would say the nearest city and they often have no idea where Derry (or Londonderry) is so I just shrug and say the north west.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    Definitely country first as an identity. I usually go Town next if someone wants more detail.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,740 ✭✭✭the evasion_kid


    Dublin...not the greatest fan of country folk, learnt that the hard way abroad.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 26,658 ✭✭✭✭OldMrBrennan83


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,028 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    dublin will suffice for the UK and most continentals


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,691 ✭✭✭failinis


    Patww79 wrote: »
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    No, I am from Donegal but right by the border.
    I assume most people would know about the city nearest (Derry) than a small townland.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,275 ✭✭✭Your Face


    I don't really care about counties or allegiances but don't like it when some inbred is making aggrandizements about the status of whatever county or province they are from.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,985 ✭✭✭WesternZulu


    I lived in the UK for many years and although they'd know straight away where in Ireland you were from they struggled with anything outside Dublin.

    So when they asked where I was from and I answered Mayo they had no idea, then when you said it's near Galway they looked no more enlightened.

    Moral of the story is that outside of Ireland no-one knows anything about our counties and where they are!


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