Trying to Conceive 2016 onwards Chat Thread

Scousemouse83

Emmal14 wrote: »

Good luck to everyone glad to see we are all a pro active bunch! And doubly glad to hear others have positive experiences of sharon! I found her lovely! Our biggest obstacle at the moment appears to be me and my inability to dilate.

She is great. Glad you found her helpful, very hard to find a good gynaecologist. Fingers crossed for us all.

Liam McPoyle

I probably shouldnt say but.

We weren't able to resist doing a test.

We got a little blue +!!!!!!



We reckon about two weeks gone or so, she had an appointment booked with her gp for next Tuesday anyway as she was freaking out a bit about not conceiving and wanted to go and chat to her. Going to get one of the digital tests tomorrow.

Feeling overjoyed and absolutely bloody terrified, and a little bit weepy for the child we lost.

Emmal14

Scousemouse83 wrote: »

She is great. Glad you found her helpful, very hard to find a good gynaecologist. Fingers crossed for us all.

Most definitely! Think its vaginismus is what she suspects I have but she didn't explicitly say more focused on getting the physio end sorted to make sure its that and not an extra thick hymen. When are you due back to her scouse?

fits

Saul T Nutzz wrote: »

We got a little blue +!!!!!!

Ooh it must be scary and exciting. fingers crossed for you both!

Ruailebuile

Saul T Nutzz wrote: »

I probably shouldnt say but.

We weren't able to resist doing a test.

We got a little blue +!!!!!!



That's fantastic news, fingers and toes crossed for you both. Keeps the hope alive

Scousemouse83

Emmal14 wrote: »

Most definitely! Think its vaginismus is what she suspects I have but she didn't explicitly say more focused on getting the physio end sorted to make sure its that and not an extra thick hymen. When are you due back to her scouse?

I'm not with her until I need her really. Had the implanon removed and she wanted us to try and see how we get on. As the effects of the implanon aren't to known. But I'll be back to her in s couple of months anyway. She has a fab temprement.
The physio and plan she has given sound like a great start.

Scousemouse83

Saul T Nutzz wrote: »

I probably shouldnt say but.

We weren't able to resist doing a test.

We got a little blue +!!!!!!



We reckon about two weeks gone or so, she had an appointment booked with her gp for next Tuesday anyway as she was freaking out a bit about not conceiving and wanted to go and chat to her. Going to get one of the digital tests tomorrow.

Feeling overjoyed and absolutely bloody terrified, and a little bit weepy for the child we lost.

Congrats great news!

StarBright01

Saul T Nutzz wrote: »

I probably shouldnt say but.

We weren't able to resist doing a test.

We got a little blue +!!!!!!



We reckon about two weeks gone or so, she had an appointment booked with her gp for next Tuesday anyway as she was freaking out a bit about not conceiving and wanted to go and chat to her. Going to get one of the digital tests tomorrow.

Feeling overjoyed and absolutely bloody terrified, and a little bit weepy for the child we lost.

Brilliant news congrats!

StarBright01

Just reading back through the last few posts, good on you all lots of great proactively going on! Once we get to the six month mark will definitely be going down that route too of making an apt with a fertility clinic. Ruaile buile great to know you didnt have a long wait for apt!

Toots

Saul massive congratulations! Delighted for you and your wife!! I think it's natural for it to be a little bittersweet so if you need to shed a few happy/sad tears go ahead. Wishing you both a very healthy happy pregnancy

Toots

I've been temping religiously this cycle, and for some reason fertility friend thinks I ovulated 6 days ago (3 days after my period finished) based solely on temps. Haven't had any other signs of ovulation so it'll be interesting to see if it's right. :-/

StarBright01

Toots wrote: »

I've been temping religiously this cycle, and for some reason fertility friend thinks I ovulated 6 days ago (3 days after my period finished) based solely on temps. Haven't had any other signs of ovulation so it'll be interesting to see if it's right. :-/

I know what you mean about temping religiously toots. I got my LH surge Tuesday so dtd for those 2 days. Then my temperature went from 36.17 yesterday to 36.58 today so going on that basis I guess I've already ovulated. It's so hard to know! I'm new to this temping business!! Just wondering whether I should try again today? OH is a bit knackered though he says!

Toots

Lol, well I'd always be of the opinion that an extra shag couldn't hurt

Ruailebuile

Toots wrote: »

Lol, well I'd always be of the opinion that an extra shag couldn't hurt

Haha totally agree Toots

Scousemouse83

Another bfn today. 5 weeks since the implanon removal, and 17 dpo. Just want Af so u can start properly.
Thinking of a new reflexology/homeopathic regime so will be looking into that tomorrow.

Ruailebuile

Scousemouse83 wrote: »

Another bfn today. 5 weeks since the implanon removal, and 17 dpo. Just want Af so u can start properly.
Thinking of a new reflexology/homeopathic regime so will be looking into that tomorrow.

Ah sorry to hear that, hopefully AF will appear soon so you can focus on the next cycle.

Scousemouse83

Ruailebuile wrote: »

Ah sorry to hear that, hopefully AF will appear soon so you can focus on the next cycle.

Thanks
Just want to start the cycle properly. Feel like this month was a waste. We didn't dtd enough for sure so onwsrds to the next month!

Ruailebuile

Scousemouse83 wrote: »

Thanks
Just want to start the cycle properly. Feel like this month was a waste. We didn't dtd enough for sure so onwsrds to the next month!

Yeah I hear you, we're on a mission to have lots of action this month!

geez

We aren't dtd enough either my oh doesn't always find it easy with the added pressure def not mentioning a word this month!!

Scousemouse83

Ruailebuile wrote: »

Yeah I hear you, we're on a mission to have lots of action this month!

Yeah was so focused on the opk, plus shift work! Defs going to have to relax and go with it!

Scousemouse83

geez wrote: »

We aren't dtd enough either my oh doesn't always find it easy with the added pressure def not mentioning a word this month!!

Yeah mine didn't like that aspect either plus he was wrecked and full of a cold!

Ruailebuile

Scousemouse83 wrote: »

Yeah mine didn't like that aspect either plus he was wrecked and full of a cold!

Yeah it's a lot of pressure on both sides really, I'm going to try and relax this month too and just dtd frequently but not on a schedule.

Scousemouse83

Ruailebuile wrote: »

Yeah it's a lot of pressure on both sides really, I'm going to try and relax this month too and just dtd frequently but not on a schedule.

Yep definitely agree. Tough all round. Going to do the same here. Oh thinks everything, i.e reflexology/homeopathic approaches are not needed until we've been trying for a good while. Hard to know what to do.

Toots

My hubby didn't react too well to the pressure either. Seeing as my cycles are so long and I can't predict when I'm going to ovulate, we had a chat and decided to just do the no pants dance every second day regardless, and then if I do ovulate suddenly, we won't miss it. Also it means less pressure on the OH cos he won't know if I'm ovulating or not.

Scousemouse83

Toots wrote: »

My hubby didn't react too well to the pressure either. Seeing as my cycles are so long and I can't predict when I'm going to ovulate, we had a chat and decided to just do the no pants dance every second day regardless, and then if I do ovulate suddenly, we won't miss it. Also it means less pressure on the OH cos he won't know if I'm ovulating or not.

That's a fab approach, we can't due to shifts dtd every other day. Have to come up with an alternative solution.

geez

My oh also thinks I'm freaking out and should stop suggesting acupucture etc even though I have endo thinks it will happen when the time is right but it's soooo hard! We are all great!

Scousemouse83

geez wrote: »

My oh also thinks I'm freaking out and should stop suggesting acupucture etc even though I have endo thinks it will happen when the time is right but it's soooo hard! We are all great!

Yep mines the same, wants to relax for a few more months, but I'd rather get the ball rolling with homeopathic treatments as I can start now!

Ruailebuile

Scousemouse83 wrote: »

Yep mines the same, wants to relax for a few more months, but I'd rather get the ball rolling with homeopathic treatments as I can start now!

Mine OH was pretty relaxed too at the start (and sure it would happen pretty quickly) but then last month started to take it more seriously and then was very willing to go further. I find it great to be able to discuss things here so I don't have to be constantly talking to him about what we should do.

Ruailebuile

geez wrote: »

My oh also thinks I'm freaking out and should stop suggesting acupucture etc even though I have endo thinks it will happen when the time is right but it's soooo hard! We are all great!

I think acupuncture or any alternative therapy is a great idea even for overall well being. I looked into them but the cost put me off as I just don't have to money to invest in it at the moment as they all seem to recommend a course of a few months.

Scousemouse83

Ruailebuile wrote: »

Mine OH was pretty relaxed too at the start (and sure it would happen pretty quickly) but then last month started to take it more seriously and then was very willing to go further. I find it great to be able to discuss things here so I don't have to be constantly talking to him about what we should do.

That's great you are both on the same page. I'm sure mine will be once I'm more regular after coming off contraception. It's so fab as with Google you sometimes feel like your going mad, plus not telling my friends means you could be talking about it endlessly with the hubby's