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The death notices in the back page of the paper

  • 29-08-2015 6:26pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,068 ✭✭✭


    Is this just an irish thing? Never really took much notice in other countries papers...does your local paper do it


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 216 ✭✭FallSilently


    Me local paper AND me local radio. Sure everyone one loves death here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,592 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Ardal O Hanlan had a show about it the other night.
    Old folk seem to get it.Not sure of the attraction myself.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,373 ✭✭✭✭foggy_lad


    Keep an eye on the deaths in the next while, the Labour party will be getting a mention!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,452 ✭✭✭✭The_Valeyard


    foggy_lad wrote: »
    Keep an eye on the deaths in the next while, the Labour party will be getting a mention!

    Just back from the protest are we?



    But yeah, its a very popular Irish things. "You will never guess who has passed away"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,766 ✭✭✭Bongalongherb


    foggy_lad wrote: »
    Keep an eye on the deaths in the next while, the Labour party will be getting a mention!

    And no Bereavement Grants either for them bastards.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,380 ✭✭✭✭namloc1980


    Nope it happens in many countries. Another one of those "Only in Ireland" things that actually happens the world over.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,946 ✭✭✭indioblack


    Specialun wrote: »
    Is this just an irish thing? Never really took much notice in other countries papers...does your local paper do it
    On the radio, too - and the internet.
    I found it invaluable when, sadly, relatives in Ireland died. I could organise myself to get over there - had to, mainly because they have this annoying habit of burying people so quickly.


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 12,514 Mod ✭✭✭✭byhookorbycrook


    No everyone has access to online sites such as rip.ie. The paper/local radio are invaluable for older people. As communities become more fragmented ,word of mouth doesn't work like it did years ago.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,247 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    If enough people care about you they put it on the front page too :-)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,766 ✭✭✭Bongalongherb


    I can imagine my death on the paper... Crazy marijuana smoking person commits suicide via choking on a smoke-pipe ornament in shock of the news that every single citizen of Ireland has turned gay... The only last straight person on this Island the poor man thought he was. May he rest in a peace-pipe.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    Most national broadsheet newspapers do it also not just locals. It's something the undertaker will arrange.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,380 ✭✭✭haveringchick


    The better quaility broadsheets in the UK have been doing it longer than we have, and every single newspaper in small town US plus some national dailies


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 216 ✭✭FallSilently


    I can imagine my death on the paper... Crazy marijuana smoking person commits suicide via choking on a smoke-pipe ornament in shock of the news that every single citizen of Ireland has turned gay... The only last straight person on this Island the poor man thought he was. May he rest in a peace-pipe.

    WTF did I just read?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,379 ✭✭✭donegaLroad


    I was out in Niagara on the Lake in Southern Ontario a couple of years ago.. it is a big retirement area in Canada. Out of curiosity I checked the death notices in the local paper and first thing I noticed was everyone's age was listed, and the other thing I noticed was there were very few deceased people under the age of 90.

    I remember wondering is it that people look after themselves a lot better in Canada, or is it a better health service, or a combination of both?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,766 ✭✭✭Bongalongherb


    WTF did I just read?

    The shock and awe titillating the normal brain function can be quite a shock at times. Don't mind me, I was typing when I was only supposed to be pondering. A whole new meaning of letting the fingers do the walking.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78 ✭✭nathang20


    Where I live, like most cities.. you tend to take life and death, with a single breath. My next door neighbour died 2 weeks ago. It wan't until today 29/08/2015, that I realised he died. I don't know what is more scary? knowing a neighbour passed away!, or the fact a nice neighbour passed away. I think the latter, in every context is more applicable!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,484 ✭✭✭Chain Smoker


    I was raised in a house where the whole day seemed to revolve around listening to death notices on the radio. If some name came up that my parents weren't sure whether they knew or not, they'd know within minutes after the broadcast by whether my aunt calls to make sure they know they've to go to suchandsuch's removal/funeral.

    We used to do a daily news thing each morning in school, I had been so brainwashed into thinking the deaths were the only news that mattered that my daily contribution became the deaths. I'd take down as many names as I could from the radio each morning and read them out to the class.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    When I was a young fella one of my jobs was to do a runner to the church to get mass cards signed.
    It seems like I was doing that every week for years....cant imagine my parents knew that many people who died. But we did have a shop in a provincial town so perhaps sending mass cards to people you vaguely knew was the thing to do?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,938 ✭✭✭galljga1


    I can imagine my death on the paper... Crazy marijuana smoking person commits suicide via choking on a smoke-pipe ornament in shock of the news that every single citizen of Ireland has turned gay... The only last straight person on this Island the poor man thought he was. May he rest in a peace-pipe.

    Methinks Bong has been on the herb a tad too long.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,133 ✭✭✭FloatingVoter


    Menas wrote: »
    When I was a young fella one of my jobs was to do a runner to the church to get mass cards signed.
    It seems like I was doing that every week for years....cant imagine my parents knew that many people who died. But we did have a shop in a provincial town so perhaps sending mass cards to people you vaguely knew was the thing to do?

    I imagine your parents were selling pre-signed mass cards. A useful service for nitwits like me who'd know how to find a shop but not when or where to go to get a card signed


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,127 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    For as long as I can remember they were always inside the front cover of our paper. Only recently have they been moved to the back.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,487 ✭✭✭Right Turn Clyde


    I was out in Niagara on the Lake in Southern Ontario a couple of years ago.. it is a big retirement area in Canada. Out of curiosity I checked the death notices in the local paper and first thing I noticed was everyone's age was listed, and the other thing I noticed was there were very few deceased people under the age of 90.

    I remember wondering is it that people look after themselves a lot better in Canada, or is it a better health service, or a combination of both?

    There could be any number of factors involved. First up is the fact that they could afford to retire to an area like that in the first place. That immediately raises questions about their educational background, the prevalence of sports in their schools/colleges and the type of healthcare that they could afford throughout their life.

    Then there's the very nature of retirement villages in general. I suspect the average age of people in that area is already unusually high.

    I don't doubt that they may look after themselves better, or that Canadian healthcare is better than Ireland's, but an affluent retirement village is a rather unique environment.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,202 ✭✭✭colossus-x


    I just hope I never become 'interested' in the deaths of people I hardly know, as I get older.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,330 ✭✭✭✭Cienciano


    namloc1980 wrote: »
    Nope it happens in many countries. Another one of those "Only in Ireland" things that actually happens the world over.

    I knew a guy from Cavan that was convinced Ireland was the only country in the world with roundabouts


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 426 ✭✭custard gannet


    Here's one somewhat related. That I have always been curious about

    [url]Http://www.Dailymail.Co.Uk/news/article-3214201/wreaths-shaped-like-cannabis-leaves-armed-police-standby-crowds-line-streets-salford-s-assassinated-mr-big-paul-massey-laid-rest.Html[/url]

    This guy died last month. Why in England can it take upwards of four weeks to hold funeral?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,133 ✭✭✭FloatingVoter


    Here's one somewhat related. That I have always been curious about

    [URL]Http://www.Dailymail.Co.Uk/news/article-3214201/wreaths-shaped-like-cannabis-leaves-armed-police-standby-crowds-line-streets-salford-s-assassinated-mr-big-paul-massey-laid-rest.Html[/URL]

    This guy died last month. Why in England can it take upwards of four weeks to hold funeral?

    If the body is held up in post-mortem due to a death in suspicious circumstances. This was a gangland hit - the police initially did a shoddy investigation. Conspiracy theories are already loose about who killed the deceased. Also to allow emotions to die down and avoid potential gang violence.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,133 ✭✭✭FloatingVoter


    Cienciano wrote: »
    I knew a guy from Cavan that was convinced Ireland was the only country in the world with roundabouts

    ..as I am convinced Ireland is the only country in the world with a Cavan.


  • Posts: 31,118 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    ..as I am convinced Ireland is the only country in the world with a Cavan.
    No https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cavan,_South_Australia ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,379 ✭✭✭donegaLroad


    There could be any number of factors involved. First up is the fact that they could afford to retire to an area like that in the first place. That immediately raises questions about their educational background, the prevalence of sports in their schools/colleges and the type of healthcare that they could afford throughout their life.


    Then there's the very nature of retirement villages in general. I suspect the average age of people in that area is already unusually high.

    I don't doubt that they may look after themselves better, or that Canadian healthcare is better than Ireland's, but an affluent retirement village is a rather unique environment.

    Large number of retired military people live there.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    I listen to the death notices on local radio first thing in the morning. If they don't call out my name I get up.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    I imagine your parents were selling pre-signed mass cards. A useful service for nitwits like me who'd know how to find a shop but not when or where to go to get a card signed

    Nah, it was not that kind of shop.:)
    And I always had to fill in the name of the deceased in the priests book and put my parents names in the 'from' column.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,946 ✭✭✭indioblack


    Here's one somewhat related. That I have always been curious about

    [URL]Http://www.Dailymail.Co.Uk/news/article-3214201/wreaths-shaped-like-cannabis-leaves-armed-police-standby-crowds-line-streets-salford-s-assassinated-mr-big-paul-massey-laid-rest.Html[/URL]

    This guy died last month. Why in England can it take upwards of four weeks to hold funeral?



    From my experience, it's about a week here in England.
    Again, from my experience, it's two or three days in Ireland.
    Always meant that when relatives died over there I had to get a move on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,487 ✭✭✭Right Turn Clyde


    Large number of retired military people live there.

    That makes it even more interesting.

    An average of 90+ at the time of death is a fascinating statistic. I'd really love to see a detailed breakdown of the various demographics involved.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,751 ✭✭✭✭For Forks Sake


    I listen to the death notices on local radio first thing in the morning. If they don't call out my name I get up.

    Sounds like a lad I used to work with, he used to peruse the notices in the Indo religiously to make sure he wasn't mentioned. Used to refer to is as the runners and riders.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭Fred Swanson


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  • Posts: 31,118 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    That makes it even more interesting.

    An average of 90+ at the time of death is a fascinating statistic. I'd really love to see a detailed breakdown of the various demographics involved.
    WWII produced an enormous number of veterans who would be in their 90's now, perhaps the rationing and enforced fitness regime played a part as in fewer fat & unfit people in the village.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,133 ✭✭✭FloatingVoter


    Irish people die abroad every hour of every day. When Irish people are murdered abroad it gets attention. You'd find the NY Times would be carrying a piece tomorrow if a US citizen gets killed in Dublin today. Not if he has a heart attack.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭Fred Swanson


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,547 ✭✭✭Agricola


    I was raised in a house where the whole day seemed to revolve around listening to death notices on the radio. If some name came up that my parents weren't sure whether they knew or not, they'd know within minutes after the broadcast by whether my aunt calls to make sure they know they've to go to suchandsuch's removal/funeral.

    Same with my folks when they got to retirement age. I suppose when you havent much else on to fill your day and a lot of people you know are beginning to clock out, it would make sense to keep track of the deaths with military efficiency. Plus, its a good social outlet since most old people arent going on the batter every weekend. We love an aul funeral in Ireland too it has to be said.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,133 ✭✭✭FloatingVoter


    RTE have been busy reporting on the shocking continued existence of the PIRA (nobody else gives a damn) - not people falling down stairs. Unless they fell in a comical Darwin Award kind of way.
    Car crashes highlight road safety and edumacate our young folk that doing doughnuts at 140 KPH on empty roads can still kill you.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,313 ✭✭✭✭Sam Kade


    Specialun wrote: »
    Is this just an irish thing? Never really took much notice in other countries papers...does your local paper do it

    In other countries they secretly bury the dead and still pretend that they are living :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,133 ✭✭✭FloatingVoter


    Sam Kade wrote: »
    In other countries they secretly bury the dead and still pretend that they are living :rolleyes:


    We've been known to flytip the odd granny and keep claiming the pension for 20 or so years. 'tis what she'd have wanted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,313 ✭✭✭✭Sam Kade


    We've been known to flytip the odd granny and keep claiming the pension for 20 or so years. 'tis what she'd have wanted.
    There was a worker in the local post office that kept drawing 4 old age pensions for people after they had died, wasn't that good of him? The same fella used to nose around people with new houses to make sure they had a TV licence.


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