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How dominant are you?

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    #62
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Alaskimo-cake wrote: »
    I prefer to be dominated :cool:

    pm sent....cliché i know but i couldn't think of anything else.

    And a bit of felching for gents!


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    #63
    Saralee4
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,077 ✭✭✭Saralee4


    my teapot is orange wrote: »
    I'm very non-dominant. I don't want to dominate others. But I am equally adamant that nobody will dominate me. Some dominant people are quite surprised by the second bit. They put me in the quiet, easy to push around category, and almost get angry when I refuse to conform, like they are entitled to obedience from me, it's the natural order of things or something.

    Yes i think some people assume the lack of need to dominate is a weakness and define you as subordanite as if you must be one if not the other.

    Their need to dominate makes them want to obtain your obedience. Because you dont try to dominate them, it confuses them and angers them because you have more power as you dont need to dominate or be dominated. The more extreme, the more black and white thinking.

    The more dominant the person feels they need you to be, the more they try to push you to be a subordanite.


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    #64
    j80ezgvc3p92xu
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    I am the most dominant athlete to ever lace up his boots and step into the ring.


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    #65
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Saralee4 wrote: »
    Yes i think some people assume the lack of need to dominate is a weakness and define you as subordanite as if you must be one if not the other.

    Their need to dominate makes them want to obtain your obedience. Because you dont try to dominate them, it confuses them and angers them because you have more power as you dont need to dominate or be dominated. The more extreme, the more black and white thinking.

    The more dominant the person feels they need you to be, the more they try to push you to be a subordanite.


    It's an equality of different characters. It works when everyone is happy in their role.


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    #66
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Saralee4 wrote: »
    Yes i think some people assume the lack of need to dominate is a weakness and define you as subordanite as if you must be one if not the other.

    Their need to dominate makes them want to obtain your obedience. Because you dont try to dominate them, it confuses them and angers them because you have more power as you dont need to dominate or be dominated. The more extreme, the more black and white thinking.

    The more dominant the person feels they need you to be, the more they try to push you to be a subordanite.



    Real dominance is not dependent on someone else's submission . A real submissive nature is not dependent on someone else being dominant. I guess it's self identification and what you are comfortable with.

    I don't have the need to obtain submission to feel empowered in being dominant.

    You never take advantage of people's natures. That goes for bottoms and middles too. Topping from the bottom can be just as domineering.


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    #67
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Lyra Inexpensive Knife wrote: »
    I am the most dominant athlete to ever lace up his boots and step into the ring.

    Fair play!


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    #68
    Saralee4
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,077 ✭✭✭Saralee4


    LadyFenghuang wrote: »
    It's an equality of different characters. It works when everyone is happy in their role.

    Yes but everyone will never be happy and you cant have one without the other unless you have a group where all people who dont want to dominate others and dont want to be dominated.


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    #69
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Saralee4 wrote: »
    Yes but everyone will never be happy and you cant have one without the other unless you have a group where all people who dont want to dominate others and dont want to be dominated.

    No you don't understand. That's ok. I need them to want it....it's no good otherwise. You gotta be the right type.

    It's no good otherwise.


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    #70
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    Saralee4 wrote: »
    Yes but everyone will never be happy and you cant have one without the other unless you have a group where all people who dont want to dominate others and dont want to be dominated.

    It's only a few it works with. That is what gives certain relationships their intimacy.


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    #71
    Saralee4
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,077 ✭✭✭Saralee4


    LadyFenghuang wrote: »
    Real dominance is not dependent on someone else's submission . A real submissive nature is not dependent on someone else being dominant. I guess it's self identification and what you are comfortable with.
    g.

    You will have two dominants up against one another, one will be forced into submission.

    you can have a group of submissives where one needs to take some control.

    Depends on the extremes. I wouldnt say i fit into either on a spectrum probaly middle ground shifting slightly between the two.


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    #72
    ThinkProgress
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    I tend to dominate when around random people... or at least never allow myself to be dominated.

    But if you know me well enough, it can be possible to get past my defense. I'm really a big softy when I trust people. Especially if I like and respect you! (which is quite rare) :P

    Anyone else totally think this was about sex? :D


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    #73
    Saralee4
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,077 ✭✭✭Saralee4


    ThinkProgress wrote: »
    I tend to dominate when around random people... or at least never allow myself to be dominated.

    But if you know me well enough, it can be possible to get past my defense. I'm really a big softy when I trust people. Especially if I like and respect you! (which is quite rare) :P

    Anyone else totally think this was about sex? :D

    Of course everything comes down to sex in the end haha :)


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    #74
    LadyFenghuang
    Closed Accounts Posts: 853 ✭✭✭LadyFenghuang


    ThinkProgress wrote: »
    I tend to dominate when around random people... or at least never allow myself to be dominated.

    But if you know me well enough, it can be possible to get past my defense. I'm really a big softy when I trust people. Especially if I like and respect you! (which is quite rare) :P

    Anyone else totally think this was about sex? :D

    IT BETTER BE.

    It's interesting.

    Men and women can prefer totally different roles in the bedroom to life. A lot of hyper masculine men prefer to be bossed but not any other part of life. And vice versa for women. A certain aspect of themselves is either dominant or submissive.

    I think sometimes for people who are very ...hard in life ...the way they show softness to someone is submission.


    The same for some women.


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    #75
    Son Of A Vidic
    Registered Users Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    keithclancy wrote: »
    I have a mate who pisses all over the place when at peoples houses

    Will you let it rest. I said I was sorry.


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    #76
    Massimo Cassagrande
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    I make everyone I meet kneel and smell my bum.


    Alright, I don't, but sure everyone lies on the internet, right?


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    #77
    agent graves
    Registered Users Posts: 354 ✭✭agent graves


    How exactly would someone show their dominance? Is it taking the leadership role or something like that?


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    #78
    Junkyard Tom
    Registered Users Posts: 10,117 ✭✭✭✭Junkyard Tom


    I'm so dominant that I sometimes beat myself up for stepping out of line.


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    #79
    smurgen
    Registered Users Posts: 6,933 ✭✭✭smurgen


    I don't know.im fairly good as in I make people feel comfortable enough that the tell me all sorts.not sire if that's dominance.i don't dominate anyone in the tradition sense ie.intimidation or emotional manipulation tho


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    #80
    ThinkProgress
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    agent graves wrote: »
    How exactly would someone show their dominance? Is it taking the leadership role or something like that?

    Yea, it's something like that... also goes by the name "doggy style". ;)


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    #81
    efb
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0kqobQRcUo


    usually dom, depends on the guy


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    #82
    [Deleted User]
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    I think people who ponder about how dominant they are should not be left near guns and schools.


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    #83
    suicide_circus
    Registered Users Posts: 19,802 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    efb wrote: »
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0kqobQRcUo


    usually dom, depends on the guy

    Huh...Always took you for a power bottom


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