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Marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction

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  • 22-04-2015 6:54pm
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    Registered Users Posts: 256 ✭✭AlphaRed


    Lets remember without distortion what we are really voting about. The Yes Campaign has hijacked the referendum by relabeling it "Marriage equality". They are taking the concept of equality which is of great importance to everyone and like a beer commercial are attaching it to the positive emotions and importance people feel about equality.

    If you don't do what they say you are against equality and so, a bad person. This is sheer propaganda. We have seen in history how propaganda has been used to manipulate the masses.

    Please take the time to fully analyse what that sentence means "marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as to their sex". There is no mention of equality in that sentence. That concept has been added by the yes campaign. They are asking you to make a logical leap, because there is no real connection with equality.

    Be a true independent thinker. Think of the implications for society and think about the roots of the yes campaign and what it actually has to do with our society. Don't base your decision on emotional but on a rational and deep understanding of the issue.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 980 ✭✭✭Greyian


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    Think of the implications for society...

    Why don't you tell us what some of these implications are?


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,995 ✭✭✭Sofiztikated


    AlphaRed wrote: »

    Please take the time to fully analyse what that sentence means "marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as to their sex". There is no mention of equality in that sentence.

    That sentence is, in essence, the definition of equality. No distinction, no difference, seen as equal.


  • Registered Users Posts: 256 ✭✭AlphaRed


    That sentence is, in essence, the definition of equality. No distinction, no difference, seen as equal.

    You made an unconnected abstraction. You say "in essence" no, that's a mistake, that's the unconnected logical leap. They have nothing to do with each other.


  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 24,602 Mod ✭✭✭✭CramCycle


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    Be a true independent thinker. Think of the implications for society and think about the roots of the yes campaign and what it actually has to do with our society. Don't base your decision on emotional but on a rational and deep understanding of the issue.

    Done, I have decided to vote yes, as there is no reason to vote no if I listen to your view


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,938 ✭✭✭galljga1


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    Lets remember without distortion what we are really voting about. The Yes Campaign has hijacked the referendum by relabeling it "Marriage equality". They are taking the concept of equality which is of great importance to everyone and like a beer commercial are attaching it to the positive emotions and importance people feel about equality.

    If you don't do what they say you are against equality and so, a bad person. This is sheer propaganda. We have seen in history how propaganda has been used to manipulate the masses.

    Please take the time to fully analyse what that sentence means "marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as to their sex". There is no mention of equality in that sentence. That concept has been added by the yes campaign. They are asking you to make a logical leap, because there is no real connection with equality.

    Be a true independent thinker. Think of the implications for society and think about the roots of the yes campaign and what it actually has to do with our society. Don't base your decision on emotional but on a rational and deep understanding of the issue.

    Quite simply adding this simple sentence will extend the right to marriage to all regardless of sex. How can that not be about equality?


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  • Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 28,793 Mod ✭✭✭✭oscarBravo


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    You made an unconnected abstraction. You say "in essence" no, that's a mistake, that's the unconnected logical leap. They have nothing to do with each other.

    You're just blithely stating that, but if you're going to claim that being able to do something without distinction as to sex doesn't mean equality - a perfectly reasonable reading of the words - you'll have to explain that claim.

    Well, of course you won't have to, but you'll need to if you want your argument to be taken seriously.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    You made an unconnected abstraction. You say "in essence" no, that's a mistake, that's the unconnected logical leap. They have nothing to do with each other.

    Just like the no side with children then?

    Equality - the state of being equal, especially in status, rights, or opportunities.

    Currently same sex couples can't marry while opposite sex couples can. With the referendum same sex couple will be able to avail of the same rights, status and opportunities as opposite sex couples.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,938 ✭✭✭galljga1


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    You made an unconnected abstraction. You say "in essence" no, that's a mistake, that's the unconnected logical leap. They have nothing to do with each other.

    Extending the right to marry to a group currently excluded has nothing to do with equality? Please explain.


  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Politics Moderators Posts: 14,486 Mod ✭✭✭✭johnnyskeleton


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    Please take the time to fully analyse what that sentence means "marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as to their sex". There is no mention of equality in that sentence. That concept has been added by the yes campaign. They are asking you to make a logical leap, because there is no real connection with equality.

    They were going to call it the "Modify Article 41 to ensure that the family remains the primary unit of society while respectfully and fairly removing any suggestion that marriage can only be between a man and a woman, thus ensuring that the law can provide for two men or two women to marry each other should they wish" campaign, but "marriage equality" is a bit snappier.

    The marketing department is to blame I suspect.
    Be a true independent thinker. Think of the implications for society and think about the roots of the yes campaign and what it actually has to do with our society. Don't base your decision on emotional but on a rational and deep understanding of the issue.

    I think the implications for society are positive. Marriage will move towards a union of love and away from the idea that two people get together to have kids and are stuck with each other.

    I also dont think that there is anything wrong with applying a bit of emotion to it as well as rational analysis. I wouldnt deprive friends of mine happiness in the real world because their union doesnt fit into the idealised one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,193 ✭✭✭Mark Tapley


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    Lets remember without distortion what we are really voting about. The Yes Campaign has hijacked the referendum by relabeling it "Marriage equality". They are taking the concept of equality which is of great importance to everyone and like a beer commercial are attaching it to the positive emotions and importance people feel about equality.

    If you don't do what they say you are against equality and so, a bad person. This is sheer propaganda. We have seen in history how propaganda has been used to manipulate the masses.

    Please take the time to fully analyse what that sentence means "marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as to their sex". There is no mention of equality in that sentence. That concept has been added by the yes campaign. They are asking you to make a logical leap, because there is no real connection with equality.

    Be a true independent thinker. Think of the implications for society and think about the roots of the yes campaign and what it actually has to do with our society. Don't base your decision on emotional but on a rational and deep understanding of the issue.

    Its all semantic games and smoke and mirrors with you. Tell us all about your rational understanding of the issue.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 20,823 ✭✭✭✭FixdePitchmark


    I think people should look at article 41

    http://www.irishstatutebook.ie/en/constitution/index.html#article41

    Whilst most reasonable people agree with equality - the article of the constitution it is going into - the change is actually in breach of the concept of the article.

    This idea - is totally flawed.

    It will be passed. But this idea that people are bigoted and homophobic if evening voicing concern, has seriously been damaging to the cause.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    I think people should look at article 41

    http://www.irishstatutebook.ie/en/constitution/index.html#article41

    Whilst most reasonable people agree with equality - the article of the constitution it is going into - the change is actually in breach of the concept of the article.

    This idea - is totally flawed.

    It will be passed. But this idea that people are bigoted and homophobic if evening voicing concern, has seriously been damaging to the cause.

    Considering this has made it this far you will have to assume nobody has any idea what your discovery is unless you tell them.


  • Registered Users Posts: 20,823 ✭✭✭✭FixdePitchmark


    Considering this has made it this far you will have to assume nobody has any idea what your discovery is unless you tell them.

    Well it is under The Family to start.

    Read 41.

    It protects female in The Family role.
    It protects The Family
    The State must protect this - yet is entering a modification to the article not compatible with "natural" family.


    All a bit flawed. (IMO)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    Well it is under The Family to start.

    Read 41.

    It protects female in The Family role.
    It protects The Family
    The State must protect this - yet is entering a modification to the article not compatible with "natural" family.


    All a bit flawed. (IMO)

    It is a bit flawed, plenty about mothers, nothing about fathers. Highlights how much updating the constitution needs to be brought up with today.

    It doesnt define the "natural family". The only thing it says about natural is
    The State recognises the Family as the natural primary and fundamental unit group of Society

    There are families which include same sex couples. Families which arent getting protection as stated here.
    The State, therefore, guarantees to protect the Family in its constitution and authority, as the necessary basis of social order and as indispensable to the welfare of the Nation and the State.

    This bit is just outdated. Men and women can be within the home to provide support. I bet this one was used as why women shouldnt be allowed to work once married.
    In particular, the State recognises that by her life within the home, woman gives to the State a support without which the common good cannot be achieved.
    The State shall, therefore, endeavour to ensure that mothers shall not be obliged by economic necessity to engage in labour to the neglect of their duties in the home.
    The State pledges itself to guard with special care the institution of Marriage, on which the Family is founded, and to protect it against attack.
    Very vague, how does one attack marriage? Im sure some people will claim letting same sex couples get married but for it to be an attack wouldnt proof of damage be required? Marriage will be the same with just a more open admission policy. Anyone who is currently married or will get married won't notice a difference.

    And the rest is just divorce, which is a bit strange as couldn't divorce be seen as an attack on marriage? I bet that one was used for the divorce referendum.


  • Registered Users Posts: 20,823 ✭✭✭✭FixdePitchmark


    Yes totally out of date.

    That is why it doesn't fit in with constitution at all.

    The Family - to me anyway , what the family means here is clear to most. Anyone who wants to be truthful about this , understands the intention of 41.

    If you want to redefine family - go for it. But - this referendum does not fit in with The Family - as article 41 is clearly intending.

    Would be amazed if a good legal brain , makes this amendment unconstitutional.

    Daftness of the higher order. A male couple can not be considered equal as to what is described in 41.

    All a bit foolish.

    Anyway.

    Will be passed.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    Yes totally out of date.

    That is why it doesn't fit in with constitution at all.

    The Family - to me anyway , what the family means here is clear to most. Anyone who wants to be truthful about this , understands the intention of 41.

    If you want to redefine family - go for it. But - this referendum does not fit in with The Family - as article 41 is clearly intending.

    Would be amazed if a good legal brain , makes this amendment unconstitutional.

    Daftness of the higher order. A male couple can not be considered equal as to what is described in 41.

    All a bit foolish.

    Anyway.

    Will be passed.
    Hence a referendum to mention that a marriage can be 2 people of any gender. The reason this is being made a referendum is because it could be contested that what they meant was a man and a woman getting married if added as legislation. .

    Neither do unmarried couples and yet nobody questions considering them as family.


  • Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 28,793 Mod ✭✭✭✭oscarBravo


    A male couple can not be considered equal as to what is described in 41.
    Just so we're clear: you're saying that the sexism enshrined in the constitution is so important that we should deny same-sex couples the right to marry in order to avoid diluting that sexism in any way?

    If that's not your argument, perhaps you could explain exactly what it is.


  • Registered Users Posts: 20,823 ✭✭✭✭FixdePitchmark


    oscarBravo wrote: »
    Just so we're clear: you're saying that the sexism enshrined in the constitution is so important that we should deny same-sex couples the right to marry in order to avoid diluting that sexism in any way?

    If that's not your argument, perhaps you could explain exactly what it is.

    But this is a vote on our consititution.
    If you think all the consititution needs updating, I agree. But if you agree with it or not - The Family as described in Article 41 - is not compatible with this referendum.

    This is the wrong referendum (IMO)

    Two men can not have a child "naturally".

    The family is the support of this reality , it requires a unique position. For legal - taxation - housing and protection issues.

    Anyway - will pass , but flawed.

    Yet, if you vote no - you are homophobic, a biggot, a right win religious nut :confused:


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,756 ✭✭✭CelticRambler


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    Be a true independent thinker. Think of the implications for society and think about the roots of the yes campaign and what it actually has to do with our society. Don't base your decision on emotional but on a rational and deep understanding of the issue.

    Watching from the sidelines, without a vote, I've been increasingly irritated by the inclusion of the word "equality" in this debate. The fundamental concept of marriage is and always has been about inequality.

    If the two parties are "equal" there's no point in marriage because they can happily co-exist without any legal framework telling them what to do. The social construct was developed as a way of formalising a partnership between individuals/families/tribes that were different not the same.

    Listening to the recent debates as a non-participant, though, I find myself rolling my eyes considerably more at the "Yes" arguments, most of which seem to be based on being "able to express love in the most profound way possible". :confused:

    As the song says, what's love got to do with it? Feck all, if you can get a divorce whenever you want, so why the desperation to join that unhappy club?


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,019 ✭✭✭bopper


    Listening to the recent debates as a non-participant, though, I find myself rolling my eyes considerably more at the "Yes" arguments, most of which seem to be based on being "able to express love in the most profound way possible". :confused:

    As the song says, what's love got to do with it? Feck all, if you can get a divorce whenever you want, so why the desperation to join that unhappy club?

    Why would somebody wanting to get married because they're in love make you roll your eyes though? That sounds like quite a cynical point of view if you genuinely think that love has little to do with marriage.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 25,458 ✭✭✭✭Timberrrrrrrr


    But this is a vote on our consititution.
    If you think all the consititution needs updating, I agree. But if you agree with it or not - The Family as described in Article 41 - is not compatible with this referendum.

    This is the wrong referendum (IMO)

    Two men can not have a child "naturally".

    The family is the support of this reality , it requires a unique position. For legal - taxation - housing and protection issues.

    Anyway - will pass , but flawed.

    Yet, if you vote no - you are homophobic, a biggot, a right win religious nut :confused:

    There are couples all over Ireland (man married to a woman) who due to differing circumstances cannot have a child naturally, should they be forced to separate? Should couples be forced to take fertility tests before a wedding to ensure they are able to have kids?


  • Subscribers Posts: 41,286 ✭✭✭✭sydthebeat


    "Without distinction" means the inability to distinguish

    Which means must be treated equal.


    I cannot fathom why it's difficult to comprehend that


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,548 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    But this is a vote on our consititution.
    If you think all the consititution needs updating, I agree. But if you agree with it or not - The Family as described in Article 41 - is not compatible with this referendum.

    This is the wrong referendum (IMO)

    Two men can not have a child "naturally".

    The family is the support of this reality , it requires a unique position. For legal - taxation - housing and protection issues.

    Anyway - will pass , but flawed.

    Yet, if you vote no - you are homophobic, a biggot, a right win religious nut :confused:
    The article clearly states family but there is no definition of what family is. Therefore it can be assumed, for not only this purpose but childless straight couples and other adopted children, that family is open to interpretation and includes a range of scenarios. Two men nor two women can't have a child with each other naturally. That doesn't necessarily mean that any adopted children aren't family, or that they themselves are not a family unit.

    OP, did you just make an account specifically to make these types of threads in every forum you can?


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,756 ✭✭✭CelticRambler


    bopper wrote: »
    Why would somebody wanting to get married because they're in love make you roll your eyes though? That sounds like quite a cynical point of view if you genuinely think that love has little to do with marriage.

    Because it doesn't. Marriage is a legal contract - it's all about rights, responsibilities, finance, inheritance, etc. Love is an (irrational) emotion - you can't draw up any law or constitution that "protects" it, so anyone who uses that as a justification for their decision doesn't understand what they're voting for.

    On the flip side, if you sincerely love someone, you don't need any priest, registrar or Jedi Master to authorise it. There are too many people these days - mostly the younger generations - who seem completely indoctrinated with the Hollywood/celebrity version of romantic love - quick infatuation, then rush off to married and hope it lasts more than a couple of years.

    FWIW, I think the Catholic Church (and all the quasi-church "No" campaigners) are just as bad as the "Yes" camp, allowing couples pretend they're practising Catholics, paying lip service to the pre-marriage course, just so they can have a nice setting for their service.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,648 ✭✭✭desertcircus


    AlphaRed wrote: »
    Lets remember without distortion what we are really voting about. The Yes Campaign has hijacked the referendum by relabeling it "Marriage equality". They are taking the concept of equality which is of great importance to everyone and like a beer commercial are attaching it to the positive emotions and importance people feel about equality.

    If you don't do what they say you are against equality and so, a bad person. This is sheer propaganda. We have seen in history how propaganda has been used to manipulate the masses.

    Please take the time to fully analyse what that sentence means "marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as to their sex". There is no mention of equality in that sentence. That concept has been added by the yes campaign. They are asking you to make a logical leap, because there is no real connection with equality.

    Be a true independent thinker. Think of the implications for society and think about the roots of the yes campaign and what it actually has to do with our society. Don't base your decision on emotional but on a rational and deep understanding of the issue.

    Was it really too much to ask that having asked people to think about the meaning of the words " without distinction", you'd do the same yourself? Or bother explaining anything beyond "the word equality isn't in the amendment so it's definitely not about equality and I'm definitely not just desperately flinging random garbage at the Yes side in the hope that it confuses and frightens enough of the electorate to prevent gay marriage"?


  • Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 28,793 Mod ✭✭✭✭oscarBravo


    But this is a vote on our consititution.
    If you think all the consititution needs updating, I agree. But if you agree with it or not - The Family as described in Article 41 - is not compatible with this referendum.
    You avoided the question.

    Article 41 (specifically and solely 41.2) enshrines sexism in the constitution. I'll accept that there is a tension between this embedded sexism and the proposed equality amendment, but your argument appears to be that it's more important to preserve the sexism than to introduce equality.

    Again: can you either explain why this is important to you, or explain how I'm misunderstanding your position?
    This is the wrong referendum (IMO)
    What would the right referendum be?
    Two men can not have a child "naturally".
    Nor can an infertile couple. The referendum has nothing to do with children.
    Yet, if you vote no - you are homophobic, a biggot, a right win religious nut :confused:
    ...or just someone who appears to be unable to clearly articulate his argument against the proposal.


  • Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 28,793 Mod ✭✭✭✭oscarBravo


    Marriage is a legal contract - it's all about rights, responsibilities, finance, inheritance, etc. Love is an (irrational) emotion - you can't draw up any law or constitution that "protects" it, so anyone who uses that as a justification for their decision doesn't understand what they're voting for.
    Basically, what you're saying is that there is no connection between love and marriage; the two are completely orthogonal concepts with no relationship between them.

    As "no" side arguments go, that's got to take some sort of award.


  • Registered Users Posts: 20,823 ✭✭✭✭FixdePitchmark


    There seems to be a dishonesty from the yes side.

    They fail to acknowledge - that a man and a women in a union is the intention of The Family. Expecting people to throw the baby out with the bathwater - because love is great. Is all a bit flawed for me.

    If it is necessary to change the definition of Family - go do that. But the entire thing is daft.

    Anyway - drive on with your referendum. But , your not fooling some with this "equality - you homophobe line "

    A family as intended in constitution is protected - rightly for the benefit of society. This should be respected by all equally. Not undermined for a personal cause
    .


  • Registered Users Posts: 7,548 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    There seems to be a dishonesty from the yes side.

    They fail to acknowledge - that a man and a women in a union is the intention of The Family. Expecting people to throw the baby out with the bathwater - because love is great. Is all a bit flawed for me.

    If it is necessary to change the definition of Family - go do that. But the entire thing is daft.

    Anyway - drive on with your referendum. But , your not fooling some with this "equality - you homophobe line "

    A family as intended in constitution is protected - rightly for the benefit of society. This should be respected by all equally. Not undermined for a personal cause
    .

    But where is family defined?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    They fail to acknowledge - that a man and a women in a union is the intention of The Family.
    According to the constitution, "The Family" is based on marriage. It doesn't mention the words "man", "woman", or "intention" anywhere in relation to marriage.

    The intention of marriage according to the constitution is to create a family. The Irish constitution does not define "The Family" as a married couple and their children.
    A married couple with or without children are "The Family" as far as the constitution is concerned, so claiming that there's any kind of impact or link with children is at best ignorant and at worst deliberate dishonesty on your part.

    The purpose of this referendum is to ensure that all couples can avail of marriage and create a family (consisting of two people united), regardless of gender.

    Nothing more.

    In your opinion perhaps marriage is about having babies, but constitutionally it's not.


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