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would you give your life to save a child who wasn't your own?

  • 16-04-2015 9:36pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,434 ✭✭✭


    At school once we were presented with burning building and sinking boat" scenarios where we were asked who would we save from a list of people like pregnant women, children. The elderly etc. or just save ourselves, it was like a test of character and morality. One thing that was brought up is that children should be saved first and foremost as they have more to live for and have had little life experience in comparison for those from older age groups.

    In a situation where a child's life was threatened, and ONLY you were around to intervene, say a hostage situation, or any situation where one of you will surely die, would you take a bullet for said child, even though they are a mere stranger to you?

    It's an emotional one definitely, but my heart says that I would.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,358 ✭✭✭Into The Blue


    Of course


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,554 ✭✭✭bjork


    No, **** them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,951 ✭✭✭Simi


    Sure


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,642 ✭✭✭MRnotlob606


    I would save them and sell them to santa.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,017 ✭✭✭johnny osbourne


    yes


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,424 ✭✭✭Merrion


    Yes if it were to happen instinctively - probably no otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,342 ✭✭✭Filmer Paradise


    bjork wrote: »
    No, **** them

    My first reaction too!

    Still, you never know till you're in the situation....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,510 ✭✭✭Gerry T


    No way, I have 2 kids depending on me. A child can be easily replaced, say the endangered child was 4, it would only take 5 yrs to replace.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,382 ✭✭✭AndonHandon


    If I had no connection, no. But I would try to save them if I could.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,628 ✭✭✭Señor Fancy Pants


    Scene safety.....SCENE SAFETY!!!!!

    I'd do my best not to die but I doubt it's what I'd think about in that millisecond. I'd like to think I'd do the right thing at the right time but who knows.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    If you had your own children would you give your life to save that of a child you don't know, leaving your own children without a parent? I think not...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,370 ✭✭✭Knasher


    Sure, I'm always the hero when asked these types of questions on the internet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 769 ✭✭✭Frito


    I don't have my own children and I probably wouldn't. I don't wanna die!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,120 ✭✭✭Tails142


    No, I hate children


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,687 ✭✭✭✭Penny Tration


    Nope. I don't want to die. I'd rather the child were to live, too, but if it were a choice, I'd save myself.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I don't know if I could live with the knowledge that I could have done something but chose not to.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,434 ✭✭✭Robsweezie


    And here I was expecting tons of PC "of course I would" responses, but no..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Dave_The_Sheep


    Robsweezie wrote: »
    And here I was expecting tons of PC "of course I would" responses, but no..

    This place is so edgy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,389 ✭✭✭NachoBusiness


    When I was younger, no - but now I would, as I have less to live for and a child has so much to.

    If I happened upon the following girl's abduction (or any like it) I know I'd risk my life to help.

    http://www.rte.ie/news/2015/0416/694603-man-confesses-killing-nine-year-old-girl-in-france/

    Not that I think I'm alone, I'm sure many would do the same.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 65 ✭✭mushu


    I think I would instinctively. My husband was a security guard a few years ago in a big shopping centre and was hit by a van (speeding shoplifters making a getaway) when he ran & pushed a toddler out of harms way. Husband was lucky & only got a glancing hit from the side of the van but the child would have been hit dead on and had no chance.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,750 ✭✭✭fleet_admiral


    No. I would have no hesitation giving my own life up for my son though


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,973 ✭✭✭RayM


    Robsweezie wrote: »
    it was like a test of character and morality.

    I think it's more a test of instinct than anything. I really hope I'd unthinkingly dive in and save the child. I'm not sure I actually would though...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    No, I have responsibilities. Like to my geraniums. And to my cats.

    Anyway, other people's kids are a pain.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,400 ✭✭✭✭Turtyturd


    Nope, although I'd give up another kids life to save mine.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 167 ✭✭hopgog


    A child more the likely not unless I knew the parents where upstanding people. I wouldn't give my life for some scum kid off an estate.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Dave_The_Sheep


    hopgog wrote: »
    A child more the likely not unless I knew the parents where upstanding people. I wouldn't give my life for some scum kid off an estate.

    Make sure you give that kid the aul twenty questions before deciding, to be sure. Wouldn't want to make a mistake and end up accidentally not saving some mansion-raised sprog.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 167 ✭✭hopgog


    Make sure you give that kid the aul twenty questions before deciding, to be sure. Wouldn't want to make a mistake and end up accidentally not saving some mansion-raised sprog.

    You can usually tell the scum by looking at them. Same if they where fat I wouldn't bother trying either.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 262 ✭✭qt3.14


    How do you know the child you're about to save isn't the next Hitler? You could be saving millions of Jews by letting the child die. The really brave thing to do would be kill them yourself. Just to be sure.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,353 ✭✭✭Cold War Kid


    It's "were", not "where".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,473 ✭✭✭Wacker The Attacker


    hell no.

    little johnny is getting his sorry little ass drowned


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,433 ✭✭✭NomadicGray


    I'd find a way to save us both and bang the kids mother and probably get a medal too


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,828 ✭✭✭✭PARlance


    It's "were", not "where".

    ^^^^
    There's a Kid getting left behind


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭sam34


    No, of course not


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,434 ✭✭✭Robsweezie


    To add to the OP, if you had no kids and no binding responsibilities, what about it then?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,656 ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    Robsweezie wrote: »
    At school once we were presented with burning building and sinking boat" scenarios where we were asked who would we save from a list of people like pregnant women, children.
    In a situation where a child's life was threatened, and ONLY you were around to intervene, say a hostage situation, or any situation where one of you will surely die, would you take a bullet for said child, even though they are a mere stranger to you?

    There's a huge difference between the two scenarios described though. The first, of course there is risk involved, but there are some odds of you both walking away from it. The second situation, the kid is in danger, you take a bullet for the kid, and 5 seconds later, the kid is back at square one, in danger again.

    The first scenario, if I thought there was any chance at all, then yes, I'd give it my all to try and save the kid (and myself). Maybe die trying, but at least I had a chance to begin with.

    The second, probably not, particularly if it's not my own kid. Sorry, i kinda like myself and i'd be much happier if i kept on living. And knowing my luck, the kid would probably grow up to be the next Hitler anyways.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,828 ✭✭✭✭PARlance


    Do we get a chance to clear our browser history?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,035 ✭✭✭goz83


    Depends on the childs nationality and post code


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,022 ✭✭✭jamesbere


    These questions are kind of pointless because no one know's how they will instinctively react under a life or death situation. You might save the child or you might use the child as buoyancy aid to keep yourself alive.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    No, certainly not for a child I don't know. The guilt would nearly kill me afterwards though so maybe it'd be best I just took the bullet.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,524 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    I don't know if I could live with the knowledge that I could have done something but chose not to.


    Aye, I'd be the same as this. I couldn't simply let a child perish when I know they could have lived if I had to give my life instead. I wouldn't be able to live with myself.

    In saying that, if it were a sinking ship, there'd be no point in lobbing a child into freezing cold water where they were likely to either die of shock on hitting the water, or die five minutes later of hypothermia. In that case I'd simply stay with the child, because like above, I wouldn't be able to live with the death of a child on my conscience if I didn't.

    To be perfectly honest, I feel the same way about it if it were an adult in that situation, the end of the day we're talking about another human being here, and in any circumstances I couldn't live with the death of another human being on my conscience.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,524 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    jamesbere wrote: »
    These questions are kind of pointless because no one know's how they will instinctively react under a life or death situation. You might save the child or you might use the child as buoyancy aid to keep yourself alive.


    Maaaan that's cold :pac:



    Wouldn't work anyway because dead bodies don't provide much bouyancy, they sink once the lungs fill up with water, and then it takes some time before they float to the surface again (bacteria release gases - body floats).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 498 ✭✭Mallagio


    I don't think you have any time to think of this when it's happening and if you have any good in you, you'll try your best to save anyone.

    Whether you die or not is not something you have time to consider imo.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,342 ✭✭✭Filmer Paradise


    goz83 wrote: »
    Depends on the childs nationality and post code

    Good point.

    I'd also draw the line if it was a fat child.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,022 ✭✭✭jamesbere


    Maaaan that's cold :pac:



    Wouldn't work anyway because dead bodies don't provide much bouyancy, they sink once the lungs fill up with air, and then it takes some time before they float to the surface again (bacteria release gases - body floats).

    You've tested it out so :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,117 ✭✭✭✭Junkyard Tom


    Robsweezie wrote: »
    And here I was expecting tons of PC "of course I would" responses, but no..

    I have a question for you. How exactly would answering in the affirmative be 'Political Correctness'?

    Take your time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 56 ✭✭Noobascious


    It's yes or no. Do a poll


  • Posts: 13,712 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My head says No, you should only concede your remaining days for a good cause.

    My better sense says Yes, a child has more fruitful promise, and more fruitful promise again for your having added your days unto his. O do not wallow in your excess of life.

    I hope I would say Yes, Yes! (and his heart was going like mad, and Yes I said Yes I will: Yes")


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,872 ✭✭✭strobe


    Are they hot?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 172 ✭✭Steve_Carella


    No. I prefer being alive to being dead. Shoot the kid and hurry up. I'm starving, I wanna get a burger on the way home.


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