Singles thread.

eternal

tomwaterford wrote: »

He doesn't work?? Like ever?


Sure could be worse like...maybe he's on the certs

I don't know what certs are.

Trebor176

LexieOnRale wrote: »

Green isn't my colour T!! I can't wait to be a ride again! the tide wouldn't take me out right now, Mr L told me to get it fixed because he's the one that has to walk around with me

Oh, but you are a ride, Lexie

tomwaterford

eternal wrote: »

I don't know what certs are.

Sick certs-signed off by the doctor if you've bad back/heart complaints?

eternal

tomwaterford wrote: »

Sick certs-signed off by the doctor if you've bad back/heart complaints?

No he doesn't. He just couldn't be arsed. Sure I've chronic illness and I still try. There's no excuse in my opinion.

Autosport

LexieOnRale wrote: »

Aw man how did you miss it!!! I've posted about it constantly lol.
I'm very very brunette. Tried dye my hair grey. Hairdresser bleached it, it turned copper, and then he put a yellow toner on orange hair so it actually turned green. THE STATE! Of it.

Oh no, what kind of hair dresser would try and dye it all in the one go, it takes ages to do something like that, I know all about hair dyes as I've nearly been every colour under the sun

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I know, I was snapping!!! I went back into him and said look my hairs green and he goes "it's not that bad"! I have spent a fortune on treatments because my poor hair is fried to bits!

Autosport

eternal wrote: »

No he doesn't. He just couldn't be arsed. Sure I've chronic illness and I still try. There's no excuse in my opinion.

Is it a deal breaker for you?? I couldn't be with someone who couldn't be bothered

eternal

Autosport wrote: »

Is it a deal breaker for you?? I couldn't be with someone who couldn't be bothered

Me neither.

tomwaterford

eternal wrote: »

No he doesn't. He just couldn't be arsed. Sure I've chronic illness and I still try. There's no excuse in my opinion.

He told you this on a dating site :eek:

Sure anyone can turn their life around I've a cousin who was unemployed with a looong while and met this wan off tinder after giving up smoking and getting a job in the hast year or so....delighted for him

eternal

tomwaterford wrote: »

He told you this on a dating site :eek:

Sure anyone can turn their life around I've a cousin who was unemployed with a looong while and met this wan off tinder after giving up smoking and getting a job in the hast year or so....delighted for him

I don't have the time to wait around for someone to get their life together. Fair play to your cousin though.

tomwaterford

eternal wrote: »

I don't have the time to wait around for someone to get their life together. Fair play to your cousin though.

Why the rush...it's surly worth a date...he could be just downplaying the good points....even at least break up the weekend


Like I had WANs tell me before they'd not be interested as I didn't go to collage properly/get a degree....like doesn't bother me...like I know heaps who've degrees and never worked!

No point in working if it's making you unhappy IMO

I didn't go to college because of fear of how I'd be treated there, but I still did as much as I could in my own time. Despite that, I sometimes think that some people look down on me for not going.

Hugo Stiglitz

Karsini wrote: »

I didn't go to college because of fear of how I'd be treated there, but I still did as much as I could in my own time. Despite that, I sometimes think that some people look down on me for not going.

Nonsense! I'd respect someone even more for taking it upon themselves to learn skills on their own.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

Meh, as long as a guy has ambition. I have two friends, a couple, who don't work and I get so frustrated. Rent allowance, medical card, dole, they're talking about having kids. That attitude pisses me off. Get up and work for it. Anyone can fall on hard times but when people can't be bothered to change, is when I've a problem with it

LexieOnRale

LexieOnRale wrote: »

Meh, as long as a guy has ambition. I have two friends, a couple, who don't work and I get so frustrated. Rent allowance, medical card, dole, they're talking about having kids. That attitude pisses me off. Get up and work for it. Anyone can fall on hard times but when people can't be bothered to change, is when I've a problem with it

Definitely. I couldn't just "not work", it's so soul destroying to me.

eternal

It's not about college. Sure I worked in a trade most of my life. I don't look down on him but I don't see the point in meeting him. College is expensive. I bought just one book today and it cost me 46 euros.

Hugo Stiglitz

Karsini wrote: »

Definitely. I couldn't just "not work", it's so soul destroying to me.

I'd love not to work! But more in a winning the lottery kinda way.

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I always joke about not working/being a kept woman, but even going for dinner or to the cinema, he'll pay for the tickets, I'll get the food. He gets dinner tonight, I get it the next night. Despite being together so long, I'm still fiercely independent and would hate to be relying on someone else for money.

eternal

Any date I go on I pay for half of everything. I think it's only fair.

Autosport

College isn't everything and it's so expensive too. I'd never look down on someone for not going and it's not for everyone.

Trebor176

I would never look down my nose at someone, due to their education or career or lack of a career and no college. If they're good, decent people, it's all that matters. I was only saying to someone earlier that I can't stand snobbery in any form. People that look down their noses at others are obviously quite insecure, or lead sad lives. Money isn't everything, even though it would be nice to have enough to buy a house, etc.

I have some friends that don't work for different reasons. They are quite happily getting on with their lives, and rightly so. God knows why people might not have jobs. No, it's not always due to being lazy. It could be down to various factors, such as an illness or disability.

eternal

I am insecure but I don't look down on him. You said your friends are happy, this guy isn't happy. I don't see us having anything in common plus he has a drug problem. Some people are too sick and all that and I appreciate it. Different people want different things.
This is my seventh year studying. I must be mad.

Trebor176

eternal wrote: »

I am insecure but I don't look down on him. You said your friends are happy, this guy isn't happy. I don't see us having anything in common plus he has a drug problem. Some people are too sick and all that and I appreciate it. Different people want different things.
This is my seventh year studying. I must be mad.

It doesn't sound like something I'd recommend pursuing, to be honest. I think it's best to find someone else.

MrVestek

eternal wrote: »

It's not about college. Sure I worked in a trade most of my life. I don't look down on him but I don't see the point in meeting him. College is expensive. I bought just one book today and it cost me 46 euros.

You can get most of these books online for free. Just sayin'.

Most of them have been ripped to PDF or eBook format.

Is it legal? Mehh.... does it save you cash on stupidly overpriced texts?

Yes.

eternal

I'll have a look.
You never answered my PM you tease. Tell me where I find the books too if you wish.

chrysagon

the sexual tension here..unreal.... crank up the air conditioning

Hugo Stiglitz

chrysagon wrote: »

the sexual tension here..unreal.... crank up the air conditioning

Damn fine smell of stank in here!

chrysagon

it only stnked when I walked here...forget to wipe my feet..sorry

Hugo Stiglitz

chrysagon wrote: »

it only stnked when I walked here...forget to wipe my feet..sorry

No hassle, C. It can happen to any of us.

How's our main man there?

chrysagon

I don't know hugo but im fine thanks

hows all your way..weekend treating you ok?