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Just 40 and still unsettled :)

  • 03-02-2015 7:43pm
    #1
    Warrior1916
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28 ✭


    I am a graduate of UCD, I have travelled the world, I own my own house and have a great career however I have issues staying in a job for more than 3 years and also a relationship for more than a year.....

    I have had more dates via internet dating that a calendar at this stage....the men I meet all seem nice but then I find something wrong with them....some are Himbo's, alcoholics, Mammies boys or separated with crazy ex's ......

    I find most men are not great sexually and the ones who are I don't have a mental or emotional connection with.....am I mad and destined to be the aunt who never got married / had children?


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  • #2
    fits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,779 ✭✭✭✭fits


    Maybe, but is that such a bad thing? I have heaps of friends like you (only probably, minus a house) and they all have good lives. It is very very difficult to meet someone these days. Just keep pursuing your interests and having a rich life, and maybe somebody will come along. And if they don't well that should be ok too. I know most of us would prefer to be in a relationship but nobody has a 100% perfect life.


  • #3
    nuckeythompson
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 939 ✭✭✭nuckeythompson


    think you answered your own question there, maybe too many previous partners. This works both way, I myself have too many and the more I had the harder it is to settle into a long term relationship. funnily enough have the same issue with jobs


  • #4
    nuckeythompson
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 939 ✭✭✭nuckeythompson


    nuckeythompson wrote:
    think you answered your own question there, maybe too many previous partners. This works both way, I myself have too many and the more I had the harder it is to settle into a long term relationship. funnily enough have the same issue with jobs


    oh and I now realise that being single ain't that bad at all


  • #5
    fits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,779 ✭✭✭✭fits


    I like the articles on here

    http://www.thebookoflife.org/match-com-breaks-up-marriages/


  • #6
    Warrior1916
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28 ✭Warrior1916


    It is nice to see that I am not alone....I just keep being chatted up by 28 year old guys.....or married ones ;(


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