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Parish Priest.

  • 22-01-2015 10:23pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,592 ✭✭✭✭


    What do you call you local priest?
    Father seems odd these days and quite often people don't know their first names.

    It's a bit of a quandary wrapped in a dilemma.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,628 ✭✭✭Señor Fancy Pants


    kneemos wrote: »
    It's a bit of a quandary wrapped in a dilemma.

    Is it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,040 ✭✭✭paulbok


    Brother Shebubu


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,154 ✭✭✭✭Neil3030


    Father, unless requested otherwise. I disagree with just about everything the organisation stands for, but they spent 7 years earning their title so fair is fair.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,592 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Is it?

    Yes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,190 ✭✭✭✭sammyjo90


    kneemos wrote: »
    Yes.

    I'd have to disagree with you there


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,628 ✭✭✭Señor Fancy Pants


    kneemos wrote: »
    Yes.

    Really?

    I prefer chicken wrapped in bacon.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,592 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    Really?

    Uh huh.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 306 ✭✭SweetChaos


    Hiya Peado hows it going?

    I dont know I dont go to church so I dont mix with the clergy


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,190 ✭✭✭✭sammyjo90


    Really?

    I prefer chicken wrapped in bacon.

    Cannibal!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,628 ✭✭✭Señor Fancy Pants


    kneemos wrote: »
    Uh huh.

    *squints eyes* Reeeaaallllly?


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 528 ✭✭✭Jake Rugby Walrus666




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,816 ✭✭✭Baggy Trousers


    kneemos wrote: »
    What do you call you local priest?
    Father seems odd these days and quite often people don't know their first names.

    It's a bit of a quandary wrapped in a dilemma.

    PP.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,423 ✭✭✭Merrion


    kneemos wrote: »
    What do you call you local priest?

    That would be an ecumenical matter... ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 981 ✭✭✭Stojkovic


    Padre Paedo.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,816 ✭✭✭Baggy Trousers


    Neil3030 wrote: »
    Father, unless requested otherwise. I disagree with just about everything the organisation stands for, but they spent 7 years earning their title so fair is fair.

    http://www.catholic.com/tracts/call-no-man-father


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,106 ✭✭✭catallus


    I find "Your Lordship" is commensurate with his position in the community.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,943 ✭✭✭smcgiff


    Neil3030 wrote: »
    but they spent 7 years earning their title so fair is fair.

    They earn a doctorate in divinity (by the way, anyone read Terry Pratchett?) sorry, I digress... Father is not the academic award AFAIK, but a religious term.

    I wouldn't feel the need to address a muslim cleric as Imam


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,088 ✭✭✭Nib


    SweetChaos wrote: »
    Hiya Peado hows it going?
    Stojkovic wrote: »
    Padre Paedo.
    Stay classy.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,443 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    kneemos wrote: »
    What do you call you local priest?
    Father seems odd these days and quite often people don't know their first names.

    It's a bit of a quandary wrapped in a dilemma.


    "Father"?

    How is it odd? Calling the parish priest by his first name is certainly odd, unless you mean "Father Michael" or whatever, I've heard that a few times, never heard anyone refer to a priest by their first name unless they were the person's parents. I call my local female priest "Reverend".


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,144 ✭✭✭DVDM93


    Priest cùnt.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,665 ✭✭✭Tin Foil Hat


    Neil3030 wrote: »
    Father, unless requested otherwise. I disagree with just about everything the organisation stands for, but they spent 7 years earning their title so fair is fair.

    Normal people don't use their titles outside of a professional setting. Even then not always. I call my doctor, Frank, for example. If the guy who works in the pointy building wants to interact with me like a normal human being, then he can tell me his first name like a normal human being.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 776 ✭✭✭seventeen sheep


    I dunno, Sean? Isn't that what most priests are called?

    I've an uncle priest called Sean, my dad and all his other siblings call him Father. I find that bizarre. I call him Sean because it's his name. He's not my father so I won't call him that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,943 ✭✭✭smcgiff


    I dunno, Sean? Isn't that what most priests are called?

    I've an uncle priest called Sean, my dad and all his other siblings call him Father. I find that bizarre. I call him Sean because it's his name. He's not my father so I won't call him that.

    Yes. Unless your name is Peter Murphy it's just wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,592 ✭✭✭✭kneemos


    "Father"?

    How is it odd? Calling the parish priest by his first name is certainly odd, unless you mean "Father Michael" or whatever, I've heard that a few times, never heard anyone refer to a priest by their first name unless they were the person's parents. I call my local female priest "Reverend".

    Thought protestant religions always referred to their clergy by name.

    Calling your priest father infers subservience and I thought was out dated at this stage.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    John.

    I call the Guard Stephen and my old headmaster Tom.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭chrysagon


    i dont call him..full stop


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,835 ✭✭✭✭cloud493


    Simon. Or when I refer to him when talking to other people, father simon. He's a pretty sound dude.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,199 ✭✭✭hollster2


    ..........................:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭mad muffin


    I call the local priest, dad.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,622 ✭✭✭Ruu


    Father or Father Ray.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,443 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    kneemos wrote: »
    Thought protestant religions always referred to their clergy by name.


    I dunno that many protestants really to ask, never came up I guess, and the priest has no problem with it or I'm sure she'd have mentioned it by now...

    Calling your priest father infers subservience and I thought was out dated at this stage.


    Nah, never really thought of it as subservience, just out of respect for the fact that he's a priest really. Someone mentioned earlier that they call their doctor by his first name, I wouldn't do that either, I just call him 'Dr. ...'

    Made the mistake of calling my consultant 'Dr. ...' once, he just told me he wasn't a doctor, no big deal really.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 760 ✭✭✭Desolation Of Smug


    Not very often, generally. G'way to feck.


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    Neil3030 wrote: »
    Father, unless requested otherwise. I disagree with just about everything the organisation stands for, but they spent 7 years earning their title so fair is fair.

    THey haven not earned the title with me :)

    A bit tongue in cheek but in america you can put the word revernd before your name and never have to pay for it or confirm it.

    But in the real world normally when someone introduces themselves as "Father" something I later just call them "Mr." something - and I have never been questioned on it. Actually 100% of the time when I failed to buy into the "father" thing the guy just responded with "oh just call me X" where X was micheal or peter or whatever

    6 post? Ive lost track already dammit!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,436 ✭✭✭c_man


    kneemos wrote: »
    What do you call you local priest?

    "The next Pope"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 203 ✭✭irish coldplayer




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,213 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    Well, how do you address anyone whose name you don't know ?

    Story bud in allz in anywayz... Is civil but not too forward.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,147 ✭✭✭PizzamanIRL


    I call him bruv.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,459 ✭✭✭Chucken


    I genuinely don't know the priests name. There used be 2 here but I think there's only one now. I know the Dean (C.O.I) by first name though. Gary. :)
    He has the most wonderful South African accent...


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,575 ✭✭✭AlanS181824


    Father.... I guess.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 356 ✭✭RebelSoul


    A dickhead


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,784 ✭✭✭DeadHand


    SweetChaos wrote: »
    Hiya Peado hows it going?

    I dont know I dont go to church so I dont mix with the clergy

    Catholics in Ireland don't "go to church".

    Quite a few still go to mass.

    The clergy appear in places other than churches.

    Unnecessarily kicking the clergy isn't brave, edgy or original anymore. It's easy, cliched and safe. Many who do were/would have been as docile as lambs around the clergy when they dominated public life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,784 ✭✭✭DeadHand


    I'll always address a Catholic priest as "Father". That's his title.

    I don't see it as an expression of faith or subservience. I'm prone to neither.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 356 ✭✭RebelSoul


    DeadHand wrote: »
    Catholics in Ireland don't "go to church".

    Quite a few still go to mass.

    The clergy appear in places other than churches.

    Unnecessarily kicking the clergy isn't brave, edgy or original anymore. It's easy, cliched and safe. Many who do were/would have been as docile as lambs around the clergy when they dominated public life.

    Stop... It's not smart what you are doing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,754 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Merrion wrote: »
    That would be an ecumenical matter... ?

    You address me by my porper title, ya little bollix!

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,472 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    DeadHand wrote: »
    Catholics in Ireland don't "go to church".

    Quite a few still go to mass.

    The clergy appear in places other than churches.

    Unnecessarily kicking the clergy isn't brave, edgy or original anymore. It's easy, cliched and safe. Many who do were/would have been as docile as lambs around the clergy when they dominated public life.

    lesson learned here. Going to go back to the bowing and the scraping.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,080 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    Normally Father, shur it's only a title.

    I seem to know a lot of priests currently and I call them by their first name as I'd see them when they are in civilian clothes.


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 21,899 Mod ✭✭✭✭Brian?


    How does one spot a "parish priest" these days, unless one attends mass? I can honestly say I've been living in the same town for 2 years now and I've never seen a priest wandering about.

    Do they camouflage themselves as normal now?

    If I met one I'd call him "horse", the way I call everyone else horse.

    they/them/theirs


    And so on, and so on …. - Slavoj Žižek




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 518 ✭✭✭FluffyAngel


    Brian? wrote: »
    If I met one I'd call him "horse", the way I call everyone else horse.


    i can see how that would work in the bedroom ,all i have to do now is remove the image from my head


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,966 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    Is it?

    Ive not had a dilemma of this gargantuan scale since "Daddy or chips"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,596 ✭✭✭hairyslug


    Around my way, we call call him Da


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