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my 12 year old son has a moustache what can i do

  • 22-01-2015 09:21PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 252 ✭✭


    See above. He's very conscious of it and is getting teased at school. What can I do


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,882 ✭✭✭Saipanne


    Get him a hat.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,234 ✭✭✭Dr. Kenneth Noisewater


    Er....Buy him a razor.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 252 ✭✭sonnyblack


    Saipanne wrote: »
    Get him a hat.

    Sod off troll


  • Posts: 5,334 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    sonnyblack wrote: »
    See above. He's very conscious of it and is getting teased at school. What can I do

    It's not unusual at that age. What I did with each of my son's was buy them a small electric shaver (round heads).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 252 ✭✭sonnyblack


    Er....Buy him a razor.

    Very smart doctor. I know that is an option but is he too young to shave at 13. Does anyone have a child in a similar situation?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,462 ✭✭✭✭WoollyRedHat


    Teach him how to shave, what are your other options?

    If you don't, he'll just stupidly try and shave it off himself and that's a bad idea if he doesn't know what he's doing. Speaking from experience...
    sonnyblack wrote: »
    Very smart doctor. I know that is an option but is he too young to shave at 13. Does anyone have a child in a similar situation?

    He's not to young to shave at 13 if he's growing a moustache in the first place.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,085 ✭✭✭SpaceTime


    He'll just have to start shaving. It was the exact same for me at that stage.
    Not a big deal really, and everyone else will catch up before long.

    He's not 'too young to shave'. Hormones kick in and beard grows, it happens around then there's no particular 'correct time' for it.

    Just buy him a decent electric shaver, make it into a positive experience for him and give him a bit of support!

    To be honest, the cheap / small ones are much less effective and may irritate skin and he's going to need one anyway in a few months.

    It's a completely normal, natural developmental phase. My only advice is don't make a big deal out of it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,730 ✭✭✭Sheep Lover


    Sellotape across the top lip and rip it off really quick?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,591 ✭✭✭ahnowbrowncow


    sonnyblack wrote: »
    Very smart doctor. I know that is an option but is he too young to shave at 13. Does anyone have a child in a similar situation?

    He has aged quickly in the last 5 minutes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 897 ✭✭✭seamusk84


    I shaved at 12 as had whispy hairs like a moustache. No big deal like.

    Get him an electric razor. Job done.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,234 ✭✭✭Dr. Kenneth Noisewater


    sonnyblack wrote: »
    Very smart doctor. I know that is an option but is he too young to shave at 13. Does anyone have a child in a similar situation?

    No he's not too young to shave. I was shaving at that age. As long as you teach him to shave safely he'll be grand. Just another rite of passage for any young man!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,820 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


    At least its not your 12 year old daughter.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,462 ✭✭✭✭WoollyRedHat


    At least its not your 12 year old daughter.

    Heh, a boy named sue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,623 ✭✭✭googled eyes


    Just shave him/teach him to shave. My dad had to show me at 12/13. But it was always something I hated so once I could grow a beard I did.

    At this age he shouldn't have to do it very often.
    If he's self conscious about it then its the best thing to do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,607 ✭✭✭✭yabadabado


    if he is growing a tache he isn't too young to shave.Whats the big deal about shaving at that age?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 380 ✭✭macyard


    Just buy an electric if you think he is too stupid to use a blade. I was shaving my legs around that time not to hard to use a razor.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,820 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 caffaddict


    Wear a novelty mustache and nobody at school will notice the actual one.

    In seriousness, buy him an electric razor - the two or 3 circular head ones..that's all you need for that type of light hair


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 491 ✭✭robocode


    Teach him to shave, and remind him the others are only teasing him because they're jealous and that everyone knows Tom Selleck is cool


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,832 ✭✭✭heldel00


    My teenage sister had to make many costly visits to Dublin years ago to get her ronnie sorted so thank god your son can take the relatively easy option of shaving.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,100 ✭✭✭Starscream25


    You mean he has a Ronnie


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,117 ✭✭✭Hitchens


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,548 ✭✭✭RedXIV


    I shaved for the first time at 12, got away with once every few months for the first 2 years!

    I'd love to be like that again :( 5 o clock shadow 20 mins after a shave now :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,792 ✭✭✭2Mad2BeMad


    Don't buy him an electric razor

    show him how to shave properly , tell him not to do it too often unless he feels like he needs to.

    I shaved twice a week from the age of 13, I am now 21 and nearly have to shave everyday because of this
    the facial hair gets thicker the more you shave it and grows back faster

    teach him properly, 1 set should last him almost a year at his age, maybe longer

    also its very common for any young lad around that age to start shaving, but like I said make sure you make it clear to him to not over do it unless he plans on wanting to shave everyday for the rest of his life :L or unless he wants a beard


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,117 ✭✭✭Hitchens


    2Mad2BeMad wrote: »
    the facial hair gets thicker the more you shave it and grows back faster
    not so


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,113 ✭✭✭shruikan2553


    If he has facial hair he has 2 options. Keep it or shave it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,301 ✭✭✭✭gerrybbadd


    Tell him to print this, and put it on his school books and inside his locker...

    0d68be8f9640f69614cb48530e734135.jpg

    You've heard of this thing called puberty, I'm sure? What age were you when you started to shave? There's no "too young" at 13. If the facial hair has started to grow, there's O two ways about it. Keep it or shave it. That simple.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,623 ✭✭✭googled eyes


    Facial hair doesn't grow thicker or fast if you shave. That's just an old wives tale. Its your genes if your going to be hairy or not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,545 ✭✭✭TheChizler


    2Mad2BeMad wrote: »
    I shaved twice a week from the age of 13, I am now 21 and nearly have to shave everyday because of this
    the facial hair gets thicker the more you shave it and grows back faster
    I can't state how much of a commonly believed myth this is.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,925 ✭✭✭✭challengemaster


    2Mad2BeMad wrote: »
    Don't buy him an electric razor

    show him how to shave properly , tell him not to do it too often unless he feels like he needs to.

    I shaved twice a week from the age of 13, I am now 21 and nearly have to shave everyday because of this
    the facial hair gets thicker the more you shave it and grows back faster

    teach him properly, 1 set should last him almost a year at his age, maybe longer

    also its very common for any young lad around that age to start shaving, but like I said make sure you make it clear to him to not over do it unless he plans on wanting to shave everyday for the rest of his life :L or unless he wants a beard

    Myths, myths everywhere!
    Shaved hair lacks the finer taper seen at the ends of unshaven hair, giving an impression of coarseness. Similarly, the new hair has not yet been lightened by the sun or other chemical exposures, resulting in an appearance that seems darker than existing hair.
    In a somewhat more recent study five healthy young white men agreed to explore how repeated shaving impacts human hair regrowth. Each volunteer shaved one leg weekly for several months while leaving the other leg as a control (likely opting to wear long pants during the study period). The study, published in 1970, found no significant differences in the hair width, coarseness or rate of growth. That type of data jives with what dermatologists see in their practices, says Melanie Grossman, a dermatologist based in New York City. “Women shave their legs all the time. They would be like gorillas if the hair was coming back thicker or darker,” McMichael agrees. “Plus we would never have to think about hair loss on our heads if cutting the hair shaft would make it come back thicker.”

    Hair growth is linked with development and subsequently hormones. It has sweet fúck all to do with shaving, "shaving too often", or the type of razor you use.


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