advice

aidanki

Hi ladies,
Posting this here as I don’t know the correct answer and maybe there isn’t one.
First off Im a male early thirties and im not a sleazy nasty type or anything like that. Im actually v successful career wise and not altogether bad looking, im fit and tall and thin, and im not nasty to women either
However I was always v quite and shy and never made any real friends, had a v strict upbringing and kinda pressed an opt out button regarding group activities. and regarding approaching women hmmm rarely do I dare TBH, Im not sure what Im afraid of, I guess I don’t have the gift of the gab…….and am afraid of appearing like a fool………
However Ive recently woken up and decided im going to make the effort………if I don’t well ill stay alone won’t I.
So say someone comes up to you in a pub that you have given the eye to, extends his hand and says Im XXXX nice to meet u…………whats the best topic of conversation to move forward with……….?

topics to stay away from- weather, work

hope this post doesn't offend anyone, that wasn't my intention

Pat Mustard

'Get ya coat luv, you've pulled'.

Hi OP.

I'm sorry but that's not what this forum is for or about. Please have a read of the charter.

Thank you.