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Slapped growing up

  • 12-09-2014 7:41pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46


    Ok I was raised by my dad like all children I misbehaved sometimes
    My dad's discipline method was to slap my backside with wooden spoon
    Anyone else have this done by their fathers or do you consider it was inappropriate it occurred between age 5 and 10 I'm now 38


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,427 ✭✭✭Morag


    Corporal punishment was acceptable up until the late 80s.
    I doubt there is anyone over the age of 30 who didnt get hit as punishment, be it the wooden spoon, or a belt or a hand.
    I am close to you in age and both my parents used corporal punishment on me but stopped when I was 10 as they did some parenting classes, and the rest of my sibling have little to no memory of such punishments.

    I would not use such punishments on my own children at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,817 ✭✭✭Addle


    I'm in my mid 30s and was slapped by my parents as a child, when I was bold.
    I don't ever think about it.
    I definitely don't think it was inappropriate.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,653 ✭✭✭✭amdublin


    Mid 30s and slapped by my mother a lot. She also used to do a bit of a grab and a squeeze of the upper arm if you were bold.
    Not only did she slap my sibs but would've slapped my cousins also if they misbehaved.
    Can't remember specifics but think my dad would've slapped on occasions also.

    Personally I think a little slapping wouldn't go astray in child rearing today.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,646 ✭✭✭✭Sauve


    Hi OP,

    As you have a similar thread in another forum, I'm going to close up this one. It's not permitted on boards to have the same thread open in different forums.

    Thanks,
    Sauve.


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