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Live to be 100 and fade out or Die young and Satisfied

  • 16-08-2014 4:13pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 272 ✭✭


    Which one would you prefer or which one are you aiming for right now?

    Why would you want to live to be 100? Do you play it save and boring

    Do you fear old age and dying alone. Feel that life should be enjoyed and dread being old disabled and wetting yourself while nurses man handled you


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    A long as possible. As healthy as possible.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,059 ✭✭✭WilyCoyote


    Die young and leave a good looking corpse. Wehey!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭The Diabolical Monocle


    1 young and satisfied please.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,642 ✭✭✭MRnotlob606


    young handsome and smart thank you,


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Imma go with old and satisfied.

    Thanks :D


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 177 ✭✭Last_Minute


    By the time i am 80 they will have technology to make me younger and live forever so i'm not really worried.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,516 ✭✭✭wazky


    As long as I can before I lose my mind and the control of my bowels and I will be happy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 953 ✭✭✭donegal__road


    stem cell technology will mean increases in longevity. The person that will live to 150 is alive today.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,894 ✭✭✭UCDVet


    I've known a few people, mostly guys, mostly between the age of 15 and 25 who buy into the idea that their life is so 'fast paced' and that it's glamorous in some way. Mostly though, they just have little to no direction in life and abuse various drugs.

    I'm not really sure what satisfaction they're getting. It just seems more like an excuse. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate drugs/alcohol/bad food as much as the next guy - but you don't need to get completely smashed 3-4 nights per week to be 'living'. And honestly, it seems pretty repetitive/unfulfilling to me. Another weekend, another pub, another club, kinda seems the same after a while.

    Now sure, if you're talking about being an amazing professional athlete or something, where you've got this amazing life regular people can only dream of, but you die young - maybe. But that doesn't apply to anyone I know.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,056 ✭✭✭_Redzer_


    Die young, no questions about it.

    I've never had notions of living into old age and I'm happier for it cos I get to do whatever I want -even the stupid shīt that'll inevitably get me killed


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 49 Faux Socialist


    I often think about this when reading motorcycle articles and riding my bike. I think trading in a few years is a good deal considering the rewards.
    I can't see myself been a content 90 year old man anyway.
    A life without risk, is a life not lived.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,383 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    It's better to burn out than to fade away, my my hey hey.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,358 ✭✭✭Into The Blue


    Doesn't matter what anyone says on this thread.. once the grandkids come along, it'll all change.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,582 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    Birneybau wrote: »
    It's better to burn out than to fade away, my my hey hey.

    Re-record not fade away, re-record not fade away...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    I don't particularly want to be old and past it either, even the thought of turning 30 in 4 years time gets me down but what can you do. Some people say you become more comfortable and confident in yourself as you age, you get more settled and secure in life.

    So I think I'd like to try and make old age.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,305 ✭✭✭Cantremember


    Dying satisfied makes it sound like there's a FB list somewhere that you have to have done before you're "satisfied". No one dies satisfied I think: we all did things which we wish we hadn't. If you define satisfaction as doing the "list" how many are going to die satisfied? Have you sailed singlehandedly from the Canaries to the Caribbean? Have you founded a company that employs thousands? Have your inventions changed lives or have your words changed lives for the better? What's satisfaction? Cue the Rolling Stones.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,383 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    Once you are spiritually awakened Autumn is as beautiful as spring.

    YEAH, BUT, WINTER IS COMING.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,202 ✭✭✭amacca


    If its possible to satisfy me then I'll be happy to die…….I'd find that option much more appealing than hanging around dissatisfied for for ages

    However if its a choice between being dissatisfied either way then I'll take a long life so I can plot an adequate revenge on all who have crossed me and contributed to my dissatisfaction. I'll get you good world.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    As someone who is over 70 very active, very satisfied, heathly, fit and enjoying all kinds of activities, I think the OP has a very restricted view of the choices in life. You can die alone, lonely and unsatisfied at a young age or you can live life to the full everyday and still live to a ripe old age. I know people in their thirties who live life carefully and boringly and others who are retired and live very active lives.

    What was the question again?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,959 ✭✭✭gugleguy


    Cue the Rolling Stones.
    Mick Jagger was asked, at the height of the Stones' fame what he would feel like when he was 70. Well, the answer well and truely speaks for itself...:cool::):):)


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 49 Faux Socialist


    Who's to say living life to a ripe old age is an achievement anyway?

    And who's to say living life to old age isn't your punishment for not taking the risks or opportunities which were afforded to you through out your life?

    It's not the years in your life that count, it's the life that in your years.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,127 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    As long as possible once I've got good health.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    Who's to say living life to a ripe old age is an achievement anyway?

    And who's to say living life to old age isn't your punishment for not taking the risks or opportunities which were afforded to you through out your life?

    It's not the years in your life that count, it's the life that in your years.

    You do realise you can take all the risks and opportunities that you can in life and still live to a ripe old age? What is all this nonsense that it's one not the other about?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 49 Faux Socialist


    You do realise you can take all the risks and opportunities that you can in life and still live to a ripe old age? What is all this nonsense that it's one not the other about?

    Its a proven fact that fortune favours the brave which can only mean that a life in brave pursuit is the most fulfilling of all lives.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 49 Faux Socialist


    One thing I can't tolerate are old people when they say to me ''Oh I wish I had the years you have in you now, I would do things a lot differently'. I hate it because anyone can always turn around and say ''Well if you lived the life you always wanted to live but didn't, how do you know you would of lived to be the old fart you are now? I know why, because you chose the easy path in life and this is your reward.''


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    Its a proven fact that fortune favours the brave which can only mean that a life in brave pursuit is the most fulfilling of all lives.

    Nobody is disagreeing with that. But where does that fit in to living to a ripe old age? It still stands that you can have a very fulfilling life and still have a long life. The two are not mutually agreed exclusive.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    One thing I can't tolerate are old people when they say to me ''Oh I wish I had the years you have in you now, I would do things a lot differently'. I hate it because anyone can always turn around and say ''Well if you lived the life you always wanted to live but didn't, how do you know you would of lived to be the old fart you are now? I know why, because you chose the easy path in life and this is your reward.''

    I don't know what elderly people you talk to but please be assured we are not all like that. There are plkenty of young people who also lounge around regretng not having done things, have time to correct that, and yet still do nothing with their lives.
    Your portrayal of older people as "old farts" sums up your attitude , so I'll leave you to it at that.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 49 Faux Socialist


    I don't know what elderly people you talk to but please be assured we are not all like that. There are plkenty of young people who also lounge around regretng not having done things, have time to correct that, and yet still do nothing with their lives.
    Your portrayal of older people as "old farts" sums up your attitude , so I'll leave you to it at that.

    Well they would only know that from past experience. Risk consists of not knowing the outcome, if everyone new the outcome of everything, then what rewards would exist for anyone?

    It's about stupid as me saying, ''Oh I wish I new last nights lotto numbers, I would be a lot richer today!'' DAFT!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,305 ✭✭✭Cantremember


    Its a proven fact that fortune favours the brave which can only mean that a life in brave pursuit is the most fulfilling of all lives.

    It's not a proven fact. It's a cliche. It's a proverb. To claim that there is some logical corollary from your premise which therefore establishes one life as "most fulfilling" is without foundation. One mans meat is another's poison. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. More proverbs.


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Regional West Moderators Posts: 60,969 Mod ✭✭✭✭Gremlinertia


    Brave does not equal stupid which means not all brave folk are necessarily putting themselves at risk i would guess.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,568 ✭✭✭candy-gal1


    Live till 100 definitly, I mean longevity of your life gives you the time to complete everything youve wanted to do in life in your own time and more possably, without feeling rushed etc, thats just my 2cents though :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    Well they would only know that from past experience. Risk consists of not knowing the outcome, if everyone new the outcome of everything, then what rewards would exist for anyone?

    It's about stupid as me saying, ''Oh I wish I new last nights lotto numbers, I would be a lot richer today!'' DAFT!

    I think you need to re- read what I posted, as that makes no sense whatsoever. Who said anything about hindsight?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,780 ✭✭✭Frank Lee Midere


    A lot of candidates for the Darwin Award here today.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 495 ✭✭nails1


    WilyCoyote wrote: »
    Die young and leave a good looking corpse. Wehey!

    At 25 I seem to be getting better looking with age, I can only imagine how good I'll look when I'm 100


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,383 ✭✭✭✭Birneybau


    nails1 wrote: »
    At 25 I seem to be getting better looking with age, I can only imagine how good I'll look when I'm 100

    Yeah, and if you're a bloke your balls will be HUGE!


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 93,581 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    Ask me again in 500 years


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,059 ✭✭✭WilyCoyote


    kowloon wrote: »
    Re-record not fade away, re-record not fade away...

    Here you are Junge:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,148 ✭✭✭orchidsrpretty


    As long as I'm healthly I'd like to live as long as possible. I've seen people in their 60s suffering from dementia etc and basically being as independent as a baby so that's no life as far I can see. A lot of elderly related illness render life pretty pointless if I'm honest. What's the point of being alive if you can't even remember your own name?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,507 ✭✭✭Buona Fortuna


    Dying satisfied makes it sound like there's a FB list somewhere that you have to have done before you're "satisfied". No one dies satisfied I think: we all did things which we wish we hadn't. If you define satisfaction as doing the "list" how many are going to die satisfied? Have you sailed singlehandedly from the Canaries to the Caribbean? Have you founded a company that employs thousands? Have your inventions changed lives or have your words changed lives for the better? What's satisfaction? Cue the Rolling Stones.

    +1

    All those that want to leave this existence in some glorious fireball, what about all of those people that rely and need you. That need might be financial, emotional, companionship, love, whatever, or have you just lived this vainglorious life alone?

    A number of people have said above that the two are not mutually exclusive. Edmund Hillary lived to 88; de Valera was 93. Living a life that is full, stimulating and courageous does not also have to be short.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,582 ✭✭✭✭kowloon




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,933 ✭✭✭smurgen


    Satisfaction is fleeting,I say live til 100.also I'm gonna be dead for a good while,I ain't in any rush to the grave


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,059 ✭✭✭WilyCoyote


    smurgen wrote: »
    Satisfaction is fleeting,I say live til 100.also I'm gonna be dead for a good while,I ain't in any rush to the grave

    Fleeting? It's been around since the mid 60s:



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,028 ✭✭✭✭--LOS--


    what's to say you can't have both? :)

    auld and healthy preferably. Not happy with my life so far, so I definitely want to stick around for it to get better which I know it will, coz thiiiiiingssss can only get betterrrrrrrrr...........


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,720 ✭✭✭Sir Arthur Daley


    Viagra is busting this one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,513 ✭✭✭bb1234567


    As someone who is over 70 very active, very satisfied, heathly, fit and enjoying all kinds of activities, I think the OP has a very restricted view of the choices in life. You can die alone, lonely and unsatisfied at a young age or you can live life to the full everyday and still live to a ripe old age. I know people in their thirties who live life carefully and boringly and others who are retired and live very active lives.

    What was the question again?

    Im already worried about thought of ageing and I'm not even 19...as odd as that is...but your post made me really happy ,and I hope I'm living a life like yours at 70!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,059 ✭✭✭WilyCoyote


    kowloon wrote: »

    Must say kowloon, although just as skeletal as ol' rubber lips, this guy really can move - including an out-of-body-experience-shimmy. :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,059 ✭✭✭WilyCoyote


    As someone who is over 70 very active, very satisfied, heathly, fit and enjoying all kinds of activities, I think the OP has a very restricted view of the choices in life. You can die alone, lonely and unsatisfied at a young age or you can live life to the full everyday and still live to a ripe old age. I know people in their thirties who live life carefully and boringly and others who are retired and live very active lives.

    What was the question again?

    Where are my meds? :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,870 ✭✭✭✭Generic Dreadhead


    Wasted opportunity to use the "Poll" option really this whole thread is


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    Short and satisfied. People say life is short, it ain't, it's long and often boring.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    bb1234567 wrote: »
    Im already worried about thought of ageing and I'm not even 19...as odd as that is...but your post made me really happy ,and I hope I'm living a life like yours at 70!
    No need to worry YET. You're not fully grown. After approx 21 your body starts to age and decay though.


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