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How to chat up a girl ?

  • 16-08-2014 04:20AM
    #1
    spongebob89
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 565 ✭✭✭


    Im a mid 20s fella thats come out of a very long term relationship and I'm struggling to meet another girl its like iv forgetting how to "chat up" a girl.

    I find I can only talk to girls that I already know i.e. In college etc I can have very comfortable conversations with them, but for me to spark up a convo with a random girl out in a club is just hard for me, a lot of girls seem to be stuck up and not even turn ya away in a friendly way.. and unfortunately I think this is the only way I will meet someone because theirs not many girls that I already know

    So whats a good way to talk to girls in noisy clubs when their friends are hanging over her shoulder


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  • #2
    Papaya148
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 8 ✭Papaya148


    spongebob89 wrote: »
    Im a mid 20s fella thats come out of a very long term relationship and I'm struggling to meet another girl its like iv forgetting how to "chat up" a girl.

    I find I can only talk to girls that I already know i.e. In college etc I can have very comfortable conversations with them, but for me to spark up a convo with a random girl out in a club is just hard for me, a lot of girls seem to be stuck up and not even turn ya away in a friendly way.. and unfortunately I think this is the only way I will meet someone because theirs not many girls that I already know

    So whats a good way to talk to girls in noisy clubs when their friends are hanging over her shoulder

    Take a look at rsdnation.com. Lots of good advice there. Don't think you'll get great advice here, you'll be told to join clubs or so.e thing ridiculous which merely treats the symptom, not the cause.

    Most importantly you need to change yourself from the inside first, learn to accept yourself, make your own amusement your priority, never try to impress women, it's a huge turn off.

    Have clear and firm personal boundaries, take the lead, take charge, learn to bring out your natural masculinity. Make a woman laugh at herself when chatting her up, learn empathy, see the unique individual that each woman is when interacting with them. Be playful and have fun.


  • #3
    Lucyfur
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,513 ✭✭✭✭Lucyfur


    MOD

    Hi there OP,

    Unfortunately us women aren't of single mind. The way I wish to be chatted up may not be to the liking of another woman. If you could familiarise yourself with the forum charter, that'd be great :)

    Lucy.


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