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Best place to report concerns about a creche

  • 28-07-2014 12:11pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,624 ✭✭✭


    As the title suggests, I'm wondering where the best place to report concerns about a creche would be. A friend of mine has told me he is concerned about overcrowding and the ratio of staff to kids in the creche he uses but he hasn't a clue where to go with his concerns. Has there been any new monitoring or reporting systems set up since the scandals last year?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,807 ✭✭✭✭Orion


    The HSE would be the regulatory body. Contact the pre-schools department.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,624 ✭✭✭Little CuChulainn


    I figured the HSE but it's such a large organisation it's hard to be sure you're concerns will be brought to the attention of the right person. I was hoping there might have been something recent set up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 621 ✭✭✭detoxkid


    I figured the HSE but it's such a large organisation it's hard to be sure you're concerns will be brought to the attention of the right person. I was hoping there might have been something recent set up.

    Try your local county or city childcare committee. Don't think they monitor creche but they will def know who does


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 440 ✭✭bisset




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 Anon345


    Tell your friend not to expect too much from the HSE.
    They are chronically understaffed and even when they do find issues, they seem to have limited sanctions that they can bring.
    It's more common to hear of a restaurant being closed than a crèche being closed.

    Our son was forgotten in an internal bathroom from which he could not get out, with the lights off, for three hours 25 minutes in one of the chain crèches last November.
    They found him by accident when looking for another child's teddy.
    The HSE investigation decided that there should be a repeat inspection for that crèche in a few months time.
    Staff involved were moved to another branch of the chain.
    No action taken against the crèche management or owners despite breaches of ratios.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,181 ✭✭✭2xj3hplqgsbkym


    Oh my god that is horrendous, the poor child.how did you find out? You must have been so angry that nothing was done about it.

    The system obviously needs a major overhaul and more staff.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 Anon345


    One of the creche managers found him 5 minutes before I arrived to collect him.
    She was still in a state of shock but didn't give me any indication that it might have been longer than a few minutes. I couldn't imagine a child being forgotten about for more than a few minutes. But all his friends were standing around staring at him, his eyes were very puffy and he was hoarse.

    Anger set in later when the creche called in regional management that evening and wouldn't confirm to us how long he'd been there, even though we were telling them on the phone how long he was there. He's 3. so he was able to tell us what happened, We confirmed this with other parents within a few minutes.

    When we were looking at the CCTV ourselves in their office a few days later we noticed the minder touching the wall before she left. When I asked if she'd turned off the lights, one of the managers said she might have been leaning against the wall to pick up something from the floor. So I insisted on going back to the room and at that point on the wall was the light switch for the bathroom. So we got more angry at that point.

    We also got angry when we asked the creche for the CCTV footage after the HSE investigation had completed, only to be told that they had deleted the footage a few days after the completion because they thought it wouldn't be needed any more.

    We would also have our concerns about the independence of the HSE investigation, considering that one of the owners of the creche is on the board of 2 Irish hospitals.

    We tried to contact the Minister for Children, Frances Fitzgerald, but apart from the initial standard reply, she never contacted us.

    But we mainly felt really sad and sorry for our boy, for what he must have gone through.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,105 ✭✭✭cocoman


    Anon345 wrote: »
    One of the creche managers found him 5 minutes before I arrived to collect him.
    She was still in a state of shock but didn't give me any indication that it might have been longer than a few minutes. I couldn't imagine a child being forgotten about for more than a few minutes. But all his friends were standing around staring at him, his eyes were very puffy and he was hoarse.

    Anger set in later when the creche called in regional management that evening and wouldn't confirm to us how long he'd been there, even though we were telling them on the phone how long he was there. He's 3. so he was able to tell us what happened, We confirmed this with other parents within a few minutes.

    The creche initiialy told us the lights were on. When we were looking at the CCTV ourselves in their office a few days later we noticed the minder touching the wall before she left. When I asked if she'd turned off the lights, one of the managers said she might have been leaning against the wall to pick up something from the floor. So I insisted on going back to the room and at that point on the wall was the light switch for the bathroom. So we got more angry at that point.

    We also got angry when we asked the creche for the CCTV footage after the HSE investigation had completed, only to be told that they had deleted the footage a few days after the completion because they thought it wouldn't be needed any more.

    We would also have our concerns about the independence of the HSE investigation, considering that one of the owners of the creche is on the board of 2 Irish hospitals.

    We tried to contact the Minister for Children, Frances Fitzgerald, but apart from the initial standard reply, she never contacted us.

    But we mainly felt really sad and sorry for our boy, for what he must have gone through.
    "I cried and cried but nobody came. I think she locked me in because I was bad."

    Sounds awful. Hope the little guy was ok.
    I didn't think that there would be locks on kids toilets in creches. Time to get a new creche (if possible).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,948 ✭✭✭Sligo1


    O my gosh Anon, that's just awful! I hope ur little fella is ok now and is not too traumatised by it. Poor wee fella :(


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 656 ✭✭✭NipNip


    That was not an oversight.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 752 ✭✭✭Xdancer


    Anon that's horrific. The poor little guy!

    Did you change crèche after that?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 680 ✭✭✭icescreamqueen


    NipNip wrote: »
    That was not an oversight.

    I agree, there isn't a hope that no one in the crèche didn't notice your child missing for that long. Even his little friends would have noticed and said something. Especially if he was with other 3 year olds.

    How horrible for you and your precious little angel. I can't imagine how you must have felt hearing about what happened.

    There seriously needs to be a huge overhaul of childcare in Ireland. It needs to be more like primary education in terms of professionalism and training of staff and proper crèche buildings and facilities. If that had happened in a school, there would have been a massive investigation and the staff would have been accountable.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 680 ✭✭✭icescreamqueen


    Just re reading this because it annoyed me so much. Perhaps you should contact The Ombudman for Children to make a complaint against the crèche? They should be a neutral agency, if one exists in Ireland.

    I just hope it nevers happens to another child again. I just can't imagine what you went through :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 566 ✭✭✭Rose35


    Poor little man, this kind of stuff makes me so angry and so sad for the little child, hope he is ok xx


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 Anon345


    Thanks all for your kind comments.

    It happened in November last year and we changed the creche immediately. They had been cutting staff ratios to the minimum to save costs for some time and we'd hung on for the sake of him keeping his friends in the group. When this happened to him, a lot of his friends also left.

    The reason it happened was the same as for many airplane crashes. Multiple system failures that had been happening individually and not addressed, coincided that day for a really bad result. Management were constantly doubling up as minders to maintain staffing ratios, with the end result that the managers weren’t managing all of the time. I have since heard, that this occurred at other branches also.
    A few months earlier when I collected him, he was in a strange top and trousers, so short and tight that 2 inches of midriff were exposed. I pointed it out to his minder, and she said that he had an accident going pee after his nap. He had his nap in a younger room so the minder there put on spare clothes from that room. But his own minder didn’t notice all afternoon. When we got home we found pink princess pull ups on him, even though he’d been potty trained for over a year at that stage. We complained to the crèche at the time and told them we thought it happened because of staff ratios being too low/on the limit but we remained in the crèche.

    On the day he got locked in, they were short staffed again. So his group were being shared with one other group. That morning when I got in, they were packing some children out to the play area even though they never go out at that time. Just to try and keep ratios legal, because they knew I counted every day. He was the only from his room having a nap that day, so he joined another group who went to a special nap room at the end of a long corridor, away from the other rooms in the crèche. From the CCTV we can see that when he woke up, he asked the minder to go to the toilet and she pushed open the doors to the toilet. The toilet is an internal toilet with 2 sets of heavy fire doors. You push them to get in, and pull them by handles to get out from the inside. The handles to open them are over 1 and a half metres off the ground, out of reach of any of the children in the crèche. So he was effectively locked in, but it’s important to point out that the minder didn’t turn any locks. The other kids had by now woken up, and so the minder was now over the ratio and had to call for help. When I pointed out from the CCTV that 1 girl was minding 10 children, they said that the same ratios don’t apply if the children are asleep. We were astonished to hear that. The childcare industry must lobbied the HSE strongly for that and other exceptions in the regulations. When help arrived, they brought the children back to their rooms and the nap minder turned off the bathroom lights before she left. Again, our view is that because she was under such pressure with so many children that her brain quite simply blanked out that our son was in there. We have never thought that it was deliberate, nor that she would be capable of doing something like that. I suspect she feels quite bad about what happened although we attribute zero blame to her. It was a one off mistake, the same as many of us do in our work. If there had been 2 minders there, it would not have happened.

    His regular minder, the same one who didn’t notice the small clothes a few months earlier, assumed he had been brought back to the other half of the group, even though he had been with her before his nap. The other half of the group didn’t know anything. When his regular minder was going home she brought her remaining children to the other room. She didn’t notice then that our son wasn’t there. Nor did the minders do any checking of numbers. She still works in another branch of that crèche.

    He came through it very well. We were extremely lucky that a good friend of ours is a child psychiatrist and within an hour of us finding out what happened she was advising us what to do. Lots of reassurance, don’t ask any questions about it because he then has to relive it each time. But if he does talk about it, take the time to address any questions he had. Stress and restress that it was not his fault, but instead a very bad accident and that his minders weren’t minding him. Explain how he’s now a hero for the other kids that they’ve put new handles on the doors so they won’t get locked in like he did. It was just as well we had our friend, because the crèche put us in touch with a counsellor who specialises in drugs and alcohol addiction.

    Another good friend is a barrister also gave us equally valuable advice; not to bother taking any legal action against the crèche. A big company with deep pockets will drag it out in court for a long time and it will end up becoming our focus for years with probably very little satisfaction in the end. We never considered suing them, but we would have liked if some of their directors had been sanctioned by the HSE for endangering children for the sake of profits. So we passed it on to the HSE who investigated, and that was, well, that. We tried to forget about it and get on with our lives, which by and large we have. Whenever our son passes the old crèche, he’ll say “that’s my old crèche where they locked me in”. But not in a sad voice, like it’s something exciting that happened to him. Small children can be so brave and resilient.

    We’d forgotten about it until recently when a friend said our son’s case was mentioned on the recent RTE Prime Time show. We watched it on RTE Player and saw the text “Child left in bathroom for a long period of time” and thought that a little strange. The main cases on the program were of children being missing for periods of 15-20 minutes. Anyone watching the program would assume the child was in the bathroom for a similar length of time. No, he was missing in a dark room for over 11 times longer than the other cases discussed on the program. We tried to find out from RTE why they didn’t specify the time for that incident and they said that “The Child and Family Support Agency, summarise complaints rather than give full details.” RTE never said though how they got the details for the other cases on the program. We asked if they would like to know how long "a long period of time” was, but they said that we would have to disclose our identity to them first, which we thought wasn’t worth the potential downside of media publicity.

    So the end result is Creche 1 – 0 Parents, HSE referee locked in the boot.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 731 ✭✭✭ene


    having worked in one the the main creche chains in dublin i saw this regularly, management allow too many children to attend a session with the excuse that one of the managers will slot in the numbers.

    the manager then leaves every 2 minutes to do something in the office, so you end up with extra children and no help

    from working in the chain i was in we heard the name of the chain that anon is talking about and from what i have heard over ratio rooms are a regular occorance as the creche functions on many smaller rooms with less children then one main room.

    this means that one staff member would be left in the morning and evenings with responsibility for too many children.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 656 ✭✭✭NipNip


    This is ridiculous. I've had my fair share of 2 nightmare childminders and 1 'creche'. You figure it out within weeks though! I have also had the pleasure of fabulous childminders and one unbelievable creche.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 680 ✭✭✭icescreamqueen


    I'd love if you could send me the name of the crèche via PM. Just so I won't send my baby there!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 Anon345


    I'd love if you could send me the name of the crèche via PM. Just so I won't send my baby there!

    PM sent


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 82 ✭✭All4shopping


    Anon345 wrote: »
    PM sent

    Also would love this if you wouldn't mind, crèche hunting at the moment


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 Anon345


    Also would love this if you wouldn't mind, crèche hunting at the moment

    PM sent too


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 731 ✭✭✭ene


    Also would love this if you wouldn't mind, crèche hunting at the moment

    i think if you are looking for a creche it is important that you feel you can arrive unannounced at any time, that during show arounds it doesn't feel forced.

    at the creche where i worked when a prospective parent arrived we were told to make sure we were doing a good activity and it was really fake. it even went so far as the management had toys they took out that looked good that were only taken out at show arounds.

    that the activities are child focused and not just 'painting' children learn it all different kinds of ways and shouldn't be forced to paint in the lines at such a young age


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,230 ✭✭✭Merkin


    Your poor little tot Anon, what an upsetting incident :(

    I think I'd be inclined to go to the press about it. It's just totally unacceptable and he could have come to harm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    That is just so so awful :( I am back to work soon and looked at childcare options a few weeks ago for our 7 month baby. I just knew creche wasn't for us. I interviewed a lot of minders who currently work in a crèche and they told me all about those ratio :rolleyes:
    If baby is under 1 the ratio is meant to be 3 babies to 1 worker. One creche has 11 babies to 3 workers every day. Another girl told me that on a number of occasions she was left by herself with 9 babies!!!!! She said she used to go home and cry every night :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,749 ✭✭✭Flippyfloppy


    Not to quote your whole posts anon, but I find it surprising that the managers actually step into the rooms!

    I worked in a busy chain crèche during the Celtic tiger times, and the managers would not help out for love nor money if we were short. At times there could be 4 or 5 'managers' on site (the place was top heavy with management)

    They had no relief staff, used to just swap staff from other branches around. Many a time my group was split up all over the place for the day while I went to another branch to keep numbers up. Which didn't make too much sense because then my branch would be coming up short too :/


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    God, reading this makes me so grateful to have a creche that I can trust - much as I complain about the insane cost of it!

    Over the past few weeks I've ended up turning up for drop-offs/collections at various random times throughout the day, and there are always plenty of staff there (definitely at least one for every three babies, although it often seems the ratio is even lower than that.) They really seem to know every single child inside out. My son has his own unique feeding and napping schedule, and that's absolutely not a problem - they let the babies figure out their own routine, and work around each individual child's routine, rather than try to put them all for naps at the same time etc. I get a diary home at the end of each day filled in with every detail of his day, nappies and feeds, how much tummytime he had, anything new he was doing, what games he was playing and what stories were read, etc. He does all kind of things that I'd never really do with him at home - for example, he's only seven months old, and they already have him painting (and he came him with blue paint on his hands and feet to prove it! :D ) The staff are lovely and seem to genuinely adore the babies.

    He'll be an only child for a long time, so it's really invaluable that he's getting such great interaction with other babies - he's come on so much since starting there, and I've definitely no regrets about sending him there. I was worried after watching the Primetime show about creches - I think I was pregnant at the time it was on - but this creche is nothing like that. He gets so much individual attention, but loads of interaction with his little "friends" too, and so much stimulation - it really is the best of both worlds!

    There are some great creches around, but I can see how people would be put off the idea of a creche from reading some of the horror stories. :( It's a pity that a few dodgy places can give the rest of them a bad name!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 Anon345


    ...
    There are some great creches around, but I can see how people would be put off the idea of a creche from reading some of the horror stories. :( It's a pity that a few dodgy places can give the rest of them a bad name!

    It's good that you have a creche you can trust and one would hope that there are only a few dodgy ones.
    That is what we believed after the first Prime Time programme.
    We thought that because we were in a different branch of one of the chains featured, that the chain management would be taking extra care to increase staffing and avoid any further bad publicity.

    There were 150 children in that creche at the time of "the incident" as the creche referred to it.
    16 of those were in our son's room. We have friends with children in other rooms. None of them were made aware of what happened.
    The parents in our room were told that our son was "left in a bathroom unattended for a period of time". They were not told how long, and the other details in the story were sufficiently sanitised that if I had been one of the other parents, I would not have been overly concerned.
    So around 145 of those 150 parents would not regard that creche as dodgy.

    Of the people who have read this thread, one knows the creche, and 2 more have asked for the name. All the others who have read this, if they were asked next week if creche X was dodgy, they could not say it was, not knowing which one it was.

    It's in the creches' interests to keep all of these stories out of the public domain. The fewer stories we hear, the fewer creches we think are dodgy.

    But having read so many accounts from people who have worked in the industry for much longer than we have been involved, we have formed the opinion that truly great creches are the exception rather than the norm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    Anon345 have you moved your little lad to a new crèche?

    I don't like crèches myself for babies no matter how many people tell me how great they are :) I know some people swear by them (including my neighbour) and viewed two to appease my mum but they were just not for me. Parents pay mega bucks per month but the staff only get paid €8.65 per hour. I interviewed a manager of a crèche in south county dublin who got €9.10 per hour. She had those fetac qualifications. I don't know how they do their jobs tbh Even with the ratios of 1:3 (babies) and 1:5 (wobblers) in my opinion they are overworked and underpaid. I vaguely remember that prime time programme where one creche had a turnover of €100,000 per month!! That is a lot of children.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 Anon345


    We have moved and are much happier. It's more expensive but we can see what we're getting for the extra cost. The staff are much more engaged and interested than in the previous creche.
    It's still not perfect however. When we were making our enquiries we were asking about staff turnover as we saw this as a useful indicator. We asked what percentage of staff were there longer than 2 years and we were told over half. Within 2 months however, both managers had left, as well as 2 of the 4 minders in his room. All for different reasons. One of the girls in the room was a big loss, she had very clear ideas about how things should be and provided a lot of stability after our son's experience in the previous creche. Since then 3 more minders in the room have left. Thankfully, one of the minders is still there; he's brilliant, very warm and dependable.
    But all in all much happier.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    God that is shocking, Anon. My heart goes out to you and your little man.
    My son's crèche is very small (16 children registered, and there are rarely 16 there at the same time).
    They have an open toilet/changing area (the small toilet and changing table are not in full view) so the toddlers can go in and out by themselves. I never knew why it was like that, but after reading your story, I understand.


  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    I work in the area of childcare inspection visits, so would have an good knowledge of what to look for in a creche.

    I was recently searching for myself, and was shocked at some of the creches we seen. I cannot understand how anyone could send their there.

    one large chain had the space and ratio for 9 babies but there were 11 cots squeezed into the room - go figure!!

    it was like a baby factory!! another stank, and was filthy, after reading their HSE report i couldnt understand why it was left open. 22 pages of non-compliance issues and this place was recommend to us but a lot of different people.

    Out of the 5 crèches we went to only 2 asked what our babys name was!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,682 ✭✭✭deisemum


    That is truely shocking Anon, I think you should go to the media with it as the HSE only pay lip service otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,731 ✭✭✭uli84


    Anon, that's unreal! may I get the name of the creche too, please? thanks


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,284 ✭✭✭Chattastrophe!


    John Mason wrote: »
    I work in the area of childcare inspection visits, so would have an good knowledge of what to look for in a creche.

    I was recently searching for myself, and was shocked at some of the creches we seen. I cannot understand how anyone could send their there.

    one large chain had the space and ratio for 9 babies but there were 11 cots squeezed into the room - go figure!!

    it was like a baby factory!! another stank, and was filthy, after reading their HSE report i couldnt understand why it was left open. 22 pages of non-compliance issues and this place was recommend to us but a lot of different people.

    Out of the 5 crèches we went to only 2 asked what our babys name was!!!

    Wow. That's the kind of place I'd be terrified of. It's the preconception I had of creches - basically, baby factories, where babies are all crammed in together and made to eat, sleep etc all at the same time.

    I think they have four baby nap rooms in my kid's creche, each with 3-4 cots, but I get the impression that they rarely actually have to have two babies in the same room at the same time. Because they're all on different schedules, also they adjust the lighting and music in the rooms depending on what each baby prefers (I asked that he naps in a well-lit quiet room, as its what he's used to, other babies need a dark room, maybe a CD.)

    It sounds weird, but one thing I love about the creche is all the noise there! There are always babies laughing and playing and messing - and crying too, but I like that! I was afraid of him ending up in some creche where the babies are treated like little robots. It's normal for babies to cry sometimes - and anytime I see them crying, they're already being attended to - my fear was the sort of place where babies aren't bothered crying, because they know it won't help. :( And from what I hear, such places do exist!

    Anyone working there that I've dealt with, they know my son and his likes and dislikes inside out - impressive, as it's a really big creche, something like 100 kids in total (including montessori and after school care.) I'm always impressed that they know my name, too, as I very rarely do the drop-offs and collections.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,318 ✭✭✭Vel


    Just something I am curious about for those of you who aren't comfortable with the idea of creches but use childminders are childminders inspected by any bodies? Just like in a creche, how do you really know what they are doing with your child all day, what kind of standards they have and if there are any issues that come to light how can they be dealt with? I have 3 kids and we have been using our creche for the past four years, since our oldest was one. The yougest two attend 2 days a week, we can drop in whenever we please and we find it fantastic nad have never had any issues worth noting. I sometimes feel people trumpet this idea that somehow a childminder is a better/safer option than a creche and that all sorts of things go on at creches when the parents aren't there, but the same could equally be said for childminders in my opinion.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,318 ✭✭✭Vel



    It sounds weird, but one thing I love about the creche is all the noise there! There are always babies laughing and playing and messing - and crying too, but I like that! I was afraid of him ending up in some creche where the babies are treated like little robots. It's normal for babies to cry sometimes - and anytime I see them crying, they're already being attended to - my fear was the sort of place where babies aren't bothered crying, because they know it won't help. :( And from what I hear, such places do exist!

    I get this! Our kids are in quite a small creche but it has a real little buzz about it, a great atmosphere and it's an environment I like my kids being in.

    Discussion has taken place on the bad creches, like the example you mention about but I also wonder about childminders! My worst fear would be my little ones being stuck in front of a tv all day while the childminder does other things around their house, or given rubbish food that I wouldn't know about. I can attend my kids creche at lunchtime and see exactly what they are eating. It would be less likely I could do the same at a childminders.

    I'm guess I'm just playing devil's advocate a bit here as I often hear creche bashing by people whose kids attend childminders. There is no right or wrong choice and what will work for one family may not work for another but I wish people weren't so quick to pass judgement on other people's childcare choices so readily.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29 Anon345


    uli84 wrote: »
    Anon, that's unreal! may I get the name of the creche too, please? thanks

    PM sent


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,729 ✭✭✭Millem


    We have a minder, I was looking for a home from home set up. He will go on school drop offs and pick ups, pretty much the same days as here. With his naps added in he will only have a couple of hours for play as I work short days. I think you just go with your gut, myself and our minder are on the same wave length and would have very similar views, backgrounds and would want the same for our children. Her own two boys are very well behaved etc. My plan is childminder for the first two years then he will go to a montesorri that is attached to a school all going well.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,948 ✭✭✭Sligo1


    Vel wrote: »
    Just something I am curious about for those of you who aren't comfortable with the idea of creches but use childminders are childminders inspected by any bodies? Just like in a creche, how do you really know what they are doing with your child all day, what kind of standards they have and if there are any issues that come to light how can they be dealt with? I have 3 kids and we have been using our creche for the past four years, since our oldest was one. The yougest two attend 2 days a week, we can drop in whenever we please and we find it fantastic nad have never had any issues worth noting. I sometimes feel people trumpet this idea that somehow a childminder is a better/safer option than a creche and that all sorts of things go on at creches when the parents aren't there, but the same could equally be said for childminders in my opinion.

    I would say some people may prefer a childminder as they might have some control over the ratio the minder minds? Esp if the childminder minds the child/children in the parents home. I'd say its highly unlikely to have one childminder minding 10 children which I've heard can sometimes happen in crèche?

    This is coming from someone who hasn't used a crèche or a childminder tho... So I have no for or against either... It's just an educated guess more than anything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,064 ✭✭✭Rachineire


    Anon345 wrote: »
    Tell your friend not to expect too much from the HSE.
    They are chronically understaffed and even when they do find issues, they seem to have limited sanctions that they can bring.
    It's more common to hear of a restaurant being closed than a crèche being closed.

    Our son was forgotten in an internal bathroom from which he could not get out, with the lights off, for three hours 25 minutes in one of the chain crèches last November.
    They found him by accident when looking for another child's teddy.
    The HSE investigation decided that there should be a repeat inspection for that crèche in a few months time.
    Staff involved were moved to another branch of the chain.
    No action taken against the crèche management or owners despite breaches of ratios.

    I felt sick reading this- your poor boy. It makes me so angry that they could try and cover up something like this! I hope your little boy is ok.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57,374 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    Shocking/terrifying ordeal for that little lad. Not surprising unfortunately. I hope he is doing well now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,989 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    Anon,
    That was an awful thing to happen in an environment where you expect everything to be A1. I feel so sorry for your son. Hopefully he got over it and there were no lasting effects on him.
    The creche appear to have gotten off relatively scot free on this incident.

    As well as the initial query from the OP on where one can report issues, I wonder is there somewhere where you can see verified complaints/issues/sanctions against a creche?
    I know there are reports that are published but I'm not too sure how easy these are to get through.

    We've a minder for the majority of our minding and use a creche now and again for a few half days here at there.
    We are blessed with our minder and in fairness the creche we use is A1 also.
    You need to get a great service from these providers based on the cost paid.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    kippy wrote: »
    Anon,
    ...
    You need to get a great service from these providers based on the cost paid.
    Not just on the cost paid, but on the responsibility and trust we put into them too.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,989 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    Not just on the cost paid, but on the responsibility and trust we put into them too.

    Of course.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57,374 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    kippy wrote: »
    Anon,
    That was an awful thing to happen in an environment where you expect everything to be A1. I feel so sorry for your son. Hopefully he got over it and there were no lasting effects on him.
    The creche appear to have gotten off relatively scot free on this incident.

    I wouldn't expect it to be A1 in a creche. It's many young children being looked after for 8-10 hrs a day by a limited number of staff. So much opportunity for mistakes and issues and failings. No matter how committed some of the staff are they cannot be A1.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,989 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    walshb wrote: »
    I wouldn't expect it to be A1 in a creche. It's many young children being looked after for 8-10 hrs a day by a limited number of staff. So much opportunity for mistakes and issues and failings. No matter how committed some of the staff are they cannot be A1.

    Well that's true and fair however,

    Locking a child in a bathroom, with the lights off, for over 3 hours without anyone noticing, for example, is worth more than a slap on the wrist to the organisation that allowed that to happen.
    It's well below the standard you'd expect.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57,374 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    kippy wrote: »
    Well that's true and fair however,

    Locking a child in a bathroom, with the lights off, for over 3 hours without anyone noticing, for example, is worth more than a slap on the wrist to the organisation that allowed that to happen.
    It's well below the standard you'd expect.

    That case is bad, agreed. But stuff like that doesn't surprise me in a creche environment. There have been cases where children have died whilst in the care of a creche. Wasn't a young boy (maybe 2) found dead at a pool in a park whilst out on a walk with a creche? That happened a year or two ago.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 566 ✭✭✭Rose35


    walshb wrote: »
    I wouldn't expect it to be A1 in a creche. It's many young children being looked after for 8-10 hrs a day by a limited number of staff. So much opportunity for mistakes and issues and failings. No matter how committed some of the staff are they cannot be A1.

    Well I expect an A1 service from my creche otherwise I wouldn't have dropped off my son there this morning!!!!! They have never claimed to give less than an A1 service if they did then I would have taken my business elsewhere.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57,374 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    Rose35 wrote: »
    Well I expect an A1 service from my creche otherwise I wouldn't have dropped off my son there this morning!!!!! They have never claimed to give less than an A1 service if they did then I would have taken my business elsewhere.

    Best of luck with that. I suppose an A1 service is a subjective term. Depends on what a parent would class as acceptable care.

    A1 as regards creche care may not be A1 as regards a parent's expectation.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57,374 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    I was one who thought that the Prime Time programme from a year ago or thereabouts was over stated and sensationalized. Sure, there were issues, but the programme was way OTT in its criticisms.


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