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Mam, mum or mom?

  • 06-04-2014 12:03pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,129 ✭✭✭


    You're irish, it's mam ffs! Mom or mum just sounds so wrong when used with a paddy accent. I reserve the right to use 'mother' on a Sunday.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,574 ✭✭✭falan


    Who really gives a s*it?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 817 ✭✭✭Ann Landers


    coolbeans wrote: »
    You're irish, it's mam ffs! Mom or mum just sounds so wrong when used with a paddy accent. I reserve the right to use 'mother' on a Sunday.

    Mammy for me. But people can call their folks whatever they like! :confused:


  • Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,631 ✭✭✭✭antodeco


    Your mam loved what I was calling her last night!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,223 ✭✭✭orangesoda


    i say mammy myself


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,082 ✭✭✭gg2


    Mammy


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,708 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    Mum. Mam or ma just sounds like something out of fair city


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    Not that it matters as long as you Iove and respect her but there have been at least 3 identical threads on this in AH already.

    Try again!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,318 ✭✭✭✭Menas


    Not that it matters as long as you Iove and respect her but there have been at least 3 identical threads on this in AH already.

    Try again!

    This could be the mummy of all threads.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,019 ✭✭✭KilOit


    From Tallaght so i say Maaaaaaa!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,681 ✭✭✭bodice ripper


    Mom.


    But then, she is American, so Mam would sound weird.


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  • Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 7,441 Mod ✭✭✭✭XxMCRxBabyxX


    I always called her mum. I was banned from calling her mam, ma, mammy etc anyway!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,641 ✭✭✭✭Elmo


    Mammy on occasion
    Ma sometimes
    Mam most of the time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,299 ✭✭✭✭The Backwards Man


    Auld doll.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,687 ✭✭✭✭Penny Tration


    I call her by her first name most of the time. Mam occasionally


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 764 ✭✭✭floutingmaxims


    Ma usually.

    Mother if i'm about to give out to her about something :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 504 ✭✭✭Zed Bank


    Mammy on notable special occasions. Mam 99% of the time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,329 ✭✭✭✭Cienciano


    To all the people who say "mammy" or "daddy" even though you're adults: you're freaks.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,489 ✭✭✭Yamanoto


    coolbeans wrote: »
    Mom or mum just sounds so wrong when used with a paddy accent.

    'Cos all Irish accents are the same, right?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,524 ✭✭✭✭Gordon


    Ma'am.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,641 ✭✭✭✭Elmo


    Cienciano wrote: »
    To all the people who say "mammy" or "daddy" even though you're adults: you're freaks.

    It's a country thing, most country people say Mammy.
    Gordon wrote: »
    Ma'am.

    Respect. You call your Da Sir?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,442 ✭✭✭Sulla Felix


    Mum, always has been, always will be.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,734 ✭✭✭J_E


    Mom. Would never call her mam or mammy, just feels weird, a bit cheap and childish to me.


  • Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 26,403 Mod ✭✭✭✭Peregrine


    Either mammy or ma.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 497 ✭✭akura


    Mum most of the time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 817 ✭✭✭Ann Landers


    Cienciano wrote: »
    To all the people who say "mammy" or "daddy" even though you're adults: you're freaks.

    If I called them anything different, it wouldn't be right. It's not what they're called. Don't know why anyone would find it strange to call them what you've always called them and grew up calling them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,573 ✭✭✭pajor


    My mum becomes violent with the use of any other word.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,641 ✭✭✭✭Elmo


    Poll required OP :)

    Lots of violent Mothers around.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 451 ✭✭Rocket19


    People need to get over the fact that not all Irish people say "Mam"!!
    There's this attitude that if you say "Mum" or "Mom", it must mean you're a wannabe or a big D4 head.

    I grew up in S. Dublin, and most people do not say "Mam". It wouldn't even occur to me to say "Mam".
    I would say Mum or Mom interchangeably, and that's normal for me. It's not about trying to appear 'posh' or god forbid, English :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,428 ✭✭✭Talib Fiasco


    I call her Lois



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    Sadly my parents aren't with us anymore, but we always called them Mammy & Daddy. Personally, I always found it to be a more affectionate way of addressing my parents. But each to their own.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,633 ✭✭✭TheBody


    Mammy all the way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,619 ✭✭✭LaVail


    margaret


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,088 ✭✭✭SpaceTime


    I'm shocked that the op forgot Mammy and Ma!

    All my older Dublin relatives have 'Me ma' and 'Me da'.

    I know one old Cork Couple, with kids in their 50s, who call eachother "Mammy" and "Daddy'

    Not sure if it's cute or disturbing!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,313 ✭✭✭✭Sam Kade


    Does anyone call their mother momma? I know a man in his late 40's who still calls his father dada :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,805 ✭✭✭juice1304


    Its "Me MAAAAAAaaaaaaaaa"


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 817 ✭✭✭Ann Landers


    Incidentally, I love the breath of different names people have for their grandparents in this country, they're often highly imaginative. :)

    My paternal grandmother wouldn't let her first batch of grandchildren call her anything other than her name, as she didn't consider herself old enough to be a grandmother in her early 40s. Well, you were, Gran, like it or not! :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,088 ✭✭✭SpaceTime


    Cork people refer to their parents as "The old lady / the old lade" and "the old man"...

    If I refered to my mom/mam as 'old' there would be serious consequences...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    My parents aren't old though, both under 60


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,088 ✭✭✭SpaceTime


    My mam has been 36 for years... (Since the late 80s ..)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,903 ✭✭✭frozenfrozen


    mhammo when said at higher volumes. mammy, mudder, maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, annette.

    ive never called my father 'dad' weird aul double standard I hold


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,513 ✭✭✭whupdedo


    I call her by her Christian name more often than not, but occasionally I call her mam


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 817 ✭✭✭Ann Landers


    SpaceTime wrote: »
    Cork people refer to their parents as "The old lady / the old lade" and "the old man"...

    That's everywhere in Ireland. Was a huge no-no in my family, though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,313 ✭✭✭✭Sam Kade


    My daughter called her grandfather nanoosh and her grandmother more nana. Haven't a clue where nanoosh came from.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,088 ✭✭✭SpaceTime


    One of my cousins younger kids keeps calling one granny 'fatty granny' and the other is just ' granny'...

    They've had to talk her about it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,293 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    coolbeans wrote: »
    You're irish, it's mam ffs! Mom or mum just sounds so wrong when used with a paddy accent. I reserve the right to use 'mother' on a Sunday.

    Mum for me, in an English accent.

    :P


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,088 ✭✭✭SpaceTime


    Mint Sauce wrote: »
    Mum for me, in an English accent.

    :P

    You have to try Mummy! In a very perky prim upper class London accent to really disturb the Irish mammy after spending a week in London :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,313 ✭✭✭✭Sam Kade


    efb wrote: »
    My parents aren't old though, both under 60

    My grandfathers were born in the 1800's :eek: 1874 and 1891 to be exact.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,329 ✭✭✭✭Cienciano


    Elmo wrote: »
    It's a country thing, most country people say Mammy.
    It's also a serial killer I wear dead hookers faces as a mask thing.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Do not get me started on the "mom" thing and yes it is a recent thing in urban areas.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,088 ✭✭✭SpaceTime


    A few friends of mine have continental mammies

    So quite a few 'Maman' and 'Mama' and Papa etc etc


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