Stigma attached to going to the gym

MrBizzles

I work in an office on a project team, yesterday we finished off a project that we had spent months on. To celebrate the project leader decided to buy us all cakes from the local bakery. One of the girls was put on the cake getting duties,She went around the whole team taking everyones cake request..when she got to me she just assumed i wouldnt want cake..her exact words were "you wouldnt want any cake would ya??" & she was dead serious about it..gave me the your getting no cake look

I go the gym quite regulary & to be quite frank about it, im in fairly good nick. other people on the team who are carrying a bit of timber, they were getting there cake & eating it..no questions asked. Now im not one of these lads who looks at food packs for saturated fats/carbs etc or who doesnt sink pints of a saturday night because of the calories they contain..i train 4 days a week & eat /drink what i want

I wanted cake & lots of it..Now i did get my cake in the end, but only after i was subjected to shock & awe...people were saying you will have to stay in the gym for an extra hour tonight...what??? Even when i was eating my cake it felt a bit like people were looking at me thinking i cant believe hes having a bit of cake. I had worked hard for that cake, months of overtime & working Saturdays & here I am getting questioned about my cake

Has anyone else been a cake victim simply because they look after themselves? Or you been the victim of the reverse scenerio where your carrying a bit of timber & people just assume your mad for cake?

Cakes purchased:
Apple slice..my choice, had to fight for it though
A bun..which in my view isnt a cake & should not have been bought
Danish pastry
Big chocolate cake
Box of jam doughnuts

Dravokivich

They simply didn't know what they were commenting on. Typical of many project teams really!

Hande hoche!

Have you been telling absolutely everyone that you have been going to the gym? That may be a factor.

Red Kev

^

Did you have tea or coffee with it?

Hande hoche!

More importantly what type of cake was it?

hansfrei

Project manager huh? Did he get the ride off that xxyoxx burd ?

super_furry

Ah yes, a first world problem at it's finest.

kjl

Tell the truth, you just started this thread so you could say you go to the gym.

OhThatsGreasy

Bring me cake and I'll give you my tuppence worth!

I get looks off people when talking about simple and basic areas such as the benefits of a good diet and healthy eating. Bring weights and protein into the equation and people think you're a raging roid-head.

Rod Serling

MrBizzles wrote: »

...Has anyone else been a cake victim...

Excellent post

General General

Doesn't timber mean shtiffy?

Artful_Badger

Maybe you should join a support group and go through this terrible time with other cake victims.

Any way you look at it though its hardly stigma attached to going to the gym because someone assumed you wouldnt want to eat junk.

BraziliaNZ

You must be really hot OP, PM me pics of your body pls!!!

Agricola

OP, this is you isnt it!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5z4A_cjw7KU

That's why they don't offer ya cake!

I am pie

Maybe they just think you're a bit of a tool and didn't want to give you any cake.

MrBizzles

Hande hoche! wrote: »

Have you been telling absolutely everyone that you have been going to the gym? That may be a factor.

No i never mention it, i do bring my gym bag into work & i do have a t shirt that has the word GYM across it that ive worn on casual days..Theres also a lad called Jim that works for a company id be in contact every day but other than that theres no mention gym from me

Hande hoche!

MrBizzles wrote: »

No i never mention it, i do bring my gym bag into work & i do have a t shirt that has the word GYM across it that ive worn on casual days..Theres also a lad called Jim that works for a company id be in contact every day but other than that theres no mention gym from me

Fair enough, now what variety of cake was it?

gracehopper

OP, you can't have your cake and it it too you know. It's either the gym or the cake......next please

tmc86

I've experienced similar when I was hitting the gym & fitness hard (eased off lately) but I would have been going 5 times a week and eating a very clean diet, the faces on some people when you eat something out of routine.

It's bizarre, when going to the gym as regularly as you are people shouldn't think twice before offering something like cake because you earn it and can eat what you choose.

If anything they should be looking at those carrying the "timber" and asking them if they really want it!

The most infuriating moments though have actually been from friends when you take a night off or skip a gym session and they smugly poke a dig at you saying "oh wow you're not going tonight" with a wry smile as if they expect you to be a robot in a routine. At the end of the day they're just trying to re-assure their own lack of exercise, I've often ended up going to the gym then just to wipe that smile off of their smug face (which in itself may be a bit sad but in an optimistic view it provides some good motivation!)

Dyr

yeah Hot Fuzz was a good film alright

hansfrei

Hande hoche! wrote: »

Fair enough, now what variety of cake was it?

This is going to turn into one of those "I found a locked safe" type threads. Wild speculation as to the type, flavour, toppings, and filling to follow.

Hazys

Do you even lift, bro?

How would they know you go to the gym unless you tell them? Unless you are shirtless in the office.

People know I work out only because between the hours of 2-4 I'm shirtless walking around the office...gotta let the guns breathe or they could over heat and that's just dangerous

Hande hoche!

hansfrei wrote: »

This is going to turn into one of those "I found a locked safe" type threads. Wild speculation as to the type, flavour, toppings, and filling to follow.

I reckon black forest gateau, would be very disappointed if it was a madeira.

MrBizzles

I got an apple slice..one girl got a bun, who gets the opportunity of a free cake & gets a bun? Its not everyday the company buys us cake & she goes & picks a bun, i dont even think she should have been allowed hae the bun as im pretty sure buns dont fall under the cake genre.. Waste of a free cake opportunity

Can anyone clarify that a bun is not a cake as i wouldnt be an expert in the cake field

Duckworth_Luas

Was her name Glados because there is no cake in the end!

Theresalwaysone

Dont try to understand Fat People, theres no point. Fat people are morally decrepit. Leave them be.

Enjoy your cake and judge them silently.

salacious crumb

A bun is an immature cake. I'm not sure an apple slice qualifies as a cake either to be honest. I've never seen a fully grown one though.

Artful_Badger

MrBizzles wrote: »

I got an apple slice..one girl got a bun, who gets the opportunity of a free cake & gets a bun? Its not everyday the company buys us cake & she goes & picks a bun, i dont even think she should have been allowed hae the bun as im pretty sure buns dont fall under the cake genre.. Waste of a free cake opportunity

Can anyone clarify that a bun is not a cake as i wouldnt be an expert in the cake field

See you're just victimizing this person because of your ignorance in relation to cakes. Of course its a cake and if she wants a bun she should be allowed have a bun.

MrBizzles

Artful_Badger wrote: »

See you're just victimizing this person because of your ignorance in relation to cakes. Of course its a cake and if she wants a bun she should be allowed have a bun.

It made no sense to me..she had a scone for breakfast..why would anyone want to follow that up with a bun..there more or less the same thing

Artful_Badger

MrBizzles wrote: »

It made no sense to me..she had a scone for breakfast..why would anyone want to follow that up with a bun..there more or less the same thing

A scone and a bun are worlds apart. A scone is essentially bread, a bun is cake. And a bun is on the same level as an apple slice. If you're going the whole hog you go pastry, cream slice, eclaire etc. A bun or apple slice is wanting something sweet but not really treating yourself to the finer options.

Artful_Badger

salacious crumb wrote: »

A bun is an immature cake. I'm not sure an apple slice qualifies as a cake either to be honest. I've never seen a fully grown one though.

Full grown apple slice is an apple tart.

hansfrei

Would a curry chicken pie count as a cake? If you really liked them?

Lyaiera

hansfrei wrote: »

Would a curry chicken pie count as a cake? If you really liked them?

If you can stick a candle in it on your birthday it counts as a cake.

salacious crumb

Artful_Badger wrote: »

Full grown apple slice is an apple tart.

This sexualisation of minors has gone too far. Too far I tells ya.

MrBizzles

My main gripe is that just because a person is in good shape & looks after there body they could essentially end up missing out on things..for example say someone in the office wins a selectiom box this Christmas & they dont want it, there giving it away..by the cake logic shown yesterday i dont stand a chance of getting that selection box, wont even been considered for it cause theres an assumption that all i eat is chicken breasts & broccoli. If there was a chicken breast/broccoli selection box id get that no problem though

sheesh

Mr bizzles you are obsessed with your phsique and you like to rub everyone nose in it.

today you got your
*takes off glasses
just desserts

YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

razorblunt

MrBizzles wrote: »

I work in an office on a project team, yesterday we finished off a project that we had spent months on. To celebrate the project leader decided to buy us all cakes from the local bakery. One of the girls was put on the cake getting duties,She went around the whole team taking everyones cake request..when she got to me she just assumed i wouldnt want cake..her exact words were "you wouldnt want any cake would ya??" & she was dead serious about it..gave me the your getting no cake look

I go the gym quite regulary & to be quite frank about it, im in fairly good nick. other people on the team who are carrying a bit of timber, they were getting there cake & eating it..no questions asked. Now im not one of these lads who looks at food packs for saturated fats/carbs etc or who doesnt sink pints of a saturday night because of the calories they contain..i train 4 days a week & eat /drink what i want

I wanted cake & lots of it..Now i did get my cake in the end, but only after i was subjected to shock & awe...people were saying you will have to stay in the gym for an extra hour tonight...what??? Even when i was eating my cake it felt a bit like people were looking at me thinking i cant believe hes having a bit of cake

Has anyone else been a cake victim simply because they look after themselves? Or you been the victim of the reverse scenerio where your carrying a bit of timber & people just assume your mad for cake?

Send that to @everydaysexism account on twitter. If they dont post it, try it again leading them to believe your female ...instant RT.

salacious crumb

Are you not built enough to bring the pain to all these motherf*ckers and just take the damn selection box?

razorblunt

sheesh wrote: »

Mr bizzles you are obsessed with your phsique and you like to rub everyone nose in it.

today you got your
*takes off glasses
just desserts

YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

She must have been a tart.

Lyaiera

razorblunt wrote: »

Send that to @everydaysexism account on twitter. If they dont post it, try it again leading them to believe your female ...instant RT.

I'd say it's a couple of characters too long for a twitter post.

Tiddlypeeps

Maybe she felt bad about tempting you? If I knew someone was looking after themselves (eating well, gym etc) then I would feel bad tempting them. I think there is nothing worse than when I am trying to do the whole eating healthy and exercising thing and someone comes along with free cake so if the roles were reversed I would feel bad offering the the cake.

It could also be simple begrudgery but if that were the case then surely the person would find more pleasure in watching you succumb to the temptations the rest of us mere mortals regularly struggle with.

hansfrei

Was yer wan hot? Did you tell her "instead of the nice cake I'll give you a good stuffing? "

hansfrei

Er... Or a creampie?

WoollyRedHat

I am pie wrote: »

Maybe they just think you're a bit of a tool and didn't want to give you any cake.

Shut up and let me eat you!!!

cruiser178

• MrBizzles wrote: »

  No i never mention it,

MrBizzles wrote: »

• i do bring my gym bag into work

• i do have a t shirt that has the word GYM across it.

• Theres also a lad called Jim that works for a company id be in contact every day with my t shirt on and my gym bag over my shoulder

but other than that theres no mention gym from me

Wonder where they would have got that big idea from

wazky

I usually detach my stigma before I go to the gym, gets in the way.

WoollyRedHat

Whoever has casual clothing that tries to subtly but firmly indicate that yes, I do work out, wanna see me flex? deserves the stigma of having no cake or worse. ( food wise, relax!)

Burn that t-shirt if you have any dignity

jimgoose

MrBizzles wrote: »

...carrying a bit of timber...

Is this like "getting wood"??

Karl Stein

Every notice how some fat people dress like cake?

Aglomerado

Charlie Rock wrote: »

Every notice how some fat people dress like cake?

Cake Jumper.

tmc86

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