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Harassment by residents committee

  • 26-08-2013 8:20pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8


    Hi all,

    Looking for some advice. A residents association was recently set up in our estate. The majority of the houses in the estate are rental, so the owners are not there to look after lawns etc (so its is more of a house owners association than residents association). When the association went and got quotes for lawn cutting, the only company willing to take this job on would only do so on the basis that they would cut all front lawns (they did not want to keep track of who was to have their lawn cut and who was not to have it cut). As we are full time residents, are willing to cut our own front lawn and were cutting it up to this point, we said that we were not willing to pay somebody for something we are willing to do ourselves. As the contribution was supposed to be voluntary, we did not think this would be a problem. There was nothing in the legal documentation of the house purchase saying we had to pay an annual fee.
    However, since then, we have been doorstepped by a particular member of this committee several times. He is quite arrogant towards us and went as far as naming and shaming us (in a not very nice way) at a residents meeting for non payment. He also sent a text around to other residents about a car I have outside my house, giving out the registration and asking for information about the car owner, which I would imagine he knew was mine or if he didn't know, could have found out very easily without texting 70 or so house owners. I did not get the text, but it was passed on to me!
    At this point, I am feeling quite harassed. I refuse to pay money so that non-residents can have their lawns looked after while they are not there.
    Any advice on how I should handle this?
    Thanks!


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Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,390 ✭✭✭markpb


    Ignore him and he'll probably get bored and move on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 littleme2013


    have tried ignoring him, but this is going on three years and getting worse.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,411 ✭✭✭ABajaninCork


    A solicitor's letter might do the trick...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,250 ✭✭✭✭bumper234


    have tried ignoring him, but this is going on three years and getting worse.

    On your phone there will be a record function. Record EVERY conversation you have with him. If he comes to your door then video him he will soon stop coming near you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14 jackieo2008


    I am in a similar situation. Struggling to keep our heads above water the past few years as there is only one of us employed. Simply cannot afford to pay for something like this and like littleme2013, am quite prepared to do this myself. While our immediate neighbours are understanding at to our predicament, the residents assoc. is not and have also named us publicly (gave name and house number) as non paying. So, the whole place thinks we are cheapskates, whereas in reality, we haven't got the money for luxuries such as paying somebody else to cut our grass.

    Would love to hear any ideas on how to get them to leave us alone!! and also don't want to be known as "the people who sent the solicitors letter" in the estate.

    Do they have any right to demand money and "name and shame" people


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 littleme2013


    Is it illegal for him to be doing this ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,411 ✭✭✭ABajaninCork


    AFAIK, the resident's committee is bang out of order, and can't do this. Like I've suggested - would a solicitor's letter telling them to cease and desist be helpful?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 littleme2013


    How much should it cost for a cease and desist letter ? Can I also legal tell the guys who cut the grass to stay off my property ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,250 ✭✭✭✭bumper234


    How much should it cost for a cease and desist letter ? Can I also legal tell the guys who cut the grass to stay off my property ?

    They cannot slander you this way and yes they cannot trespass on your property.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,907 ✭✭✭✭Kristopherus


    Is it illegal for him to be doing this ?

    Yes imo. You are entitled to your good name.,


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14 jackieo2008


    If sending a solicitors letter was an option, would you have to prove slander ? I was named and shamed at a meeting and I would doubt it is in the minutes!
    I always though that naming people for non payment of voluntary charges was not allowed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,078 ✭✭✭questionmark?


    OP somebody calling to your door requesting money that you don't owe and sending texts slandering your name sounds more like harassment/intimidation. Have a word down your local Garda station to see if they will do anything before speaking to a solicitor.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,771 ✭✭✭michael999999


    Is it illegal for him to be doing this ?

    Can you not knock on he's front door, and ask him to stop mentioning your name and sending text messages about you.

    Maybe you turning up at he's house may get him thinking!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 littleme2013


    He doesnt live here. He only turns up at summer time and he goes back to where he came from for the rest of the year.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,175 ✭✭✭kieran.


    If this is a residents association/committee and not a legal formed management company the have no rights to force you to pay anything. The company cutting the grass has no right to enter your propertyand is basically trespassing when they do so.

    However I'm guessing the estate still needs to be maintained and the residents association is only doing what they think is right for the estate. The best solution in my opinion is not to send legal letters but instead attend the next meeting and make the point that it is unacceptable for the committee to be forcing people to accept the current situation and that an alternative must be sought.

    I have been a member of my own estates management company and now residents association, if your not there to raise and argue your case at the meetings then you cant give out about the decisions been made at them. After all it is YOUR resident assocation.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,771 ✭✭✭michael999999


    kieran. wrote: »
    If this is a residents association/committee and not a legal formed management company the have no rights to force you to pay anything. The company cutting the grass has no right to enter your propertyand is basically trespassing when they do so.

    However I'm guessing the estate still needs to be maintained and the residents association is only doing what they think is right for the estate. The best solution in my opinion is not to send legal letters but instead attend the next meeting and make the point that it is unacceptable for the committee to be forcing people to accept the current situation and that an alternative must be sought.

    I have been a member of my own estates management company and now residents association, if your not there to raise and argue your case at the meetings then you cant give out about the decisions been made at them. After all it is YOUR resident assocation.

    Not everyone has the time or interest to be in a resident committee.

    Its he's choice, and he shouldn't be bullied by a few residence who like the sound of there own voice and are full of there own self importance.

    If he wants to cut he's own lawns, let him be!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,175 ✭✭✭kieran.


    I totally agree about his own lawns...... but what about the rest of the estate it needs to be maintained/managed and somebody has to do the work and pay for it too. :confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,381 ✭✭✭✭Paulw


    kieran. wrote: »
    I totally agree about his own lawns...... but what about the rest of the estate it needs to be maintained/managed and somebody has to do the work and pay for it too. :confused:

    That's what the council are for. If there is no legally formed management company, then there is no legal obligation to pay a cent. It is the responsibility of the council to ensure that common areas are cut. You just need to chase your local public representatives. You are already paying for this work to be done, via the household charge and then the property tax.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 littleme2013


    For the record I am female. I agree with paying something but not 350 euro's for a 60 house estate and the fact that I am paying for 3/4 of the people who only live here less than 3 months of the year and also the fact he has called to the door demanding money , sent letters in a name and shame policy more than once and is now sending texts to other people about me and also talking about me and others by name at their meetings ? What am I to do ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,874 ✭✭✭padma


    They named and shamed you. Next meeting arrive on a horse. Walk in. Stand up. Tell them about the intimidation and harrassment. Warn them if it keeps up you'll be keeping the horse outside in your garden. Let them then worry about the costs of their houses plummeting.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,175 ✭✭✭kieran.


    Unless he is in a council estate which it does not sound like there is no responsibility on the the council to maintain the open spaces. If there is no management company I can presume that the estate has been "Taken in Charge" by the local authority. Under this process the estates roads, sewerage lighting is taken in charge by the council however the responsibility for cutting the grass are not taken on by the council this procedure is detailed in the Roads Act 1993.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 littleme2013


    Mabe this is not a bad idea, I may try to get a white van and a bit of carpet to put on his lawn also. But seriously do I just go to the local Garda station and make a complaint or do I go and get a cease and desist ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭debabyjesus


    Go to the next meeting and ask to speak. Let everyone know whats happening with this guy harassing you and that you intend to take action if it continues. Make it clear that you are capable of maintaining your own property and wont be paying into any group maintenance contract.

    Any decent people there will respect you for speaking your mind. Do you really care what the rest think?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 825 ✭✭✭LFC Murphy


    Paulw wrote: »
    That's what the council are for. If there is no legally formed management company, then there is no legal obligation to pay a cent. It is the responsibility of the council to ensure that common areas are cut. You just need to chase your local public representatives. You are already paying for this work to be done, via the household charge and then the property tax.


    As chair of our association I have to point out that this is no longer the case..... councils will only maintain lights, roads, sewer and lights... The grass is the residents responsibility. I know this as I have been fighting for the council to take our estate in charge for 4 years now..

    With regards the caller, I would say that these sorts are in every association (we have a similar person, who I had to tackle as he nearly caused our landscaper walking off site this summer). Best to be polite and yes attend the next meeting to outline your grievance. Please don't tarnish us all with the same brush, we are trying to keep our estates looking tip top.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 littleme2013


    I agree there is a lot to be said for a tidy clean estate, but the charge is outragous and when tackled by other people at meetings who had got a lot cheaper quotes they said no that they wanted to stick with this guy who is the dearest out of the whole lot of them. My concern at this stage is what do I do legally at this stage go to the Garda first and make a formal complaint but this will go no where as the guy doesnt live here until the summer months. So do I go legal ? and if so how much roughly does this cost ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,859 ✭✭✭Duckjob


    Go to the next meeting and ask to speak. Let everyone know whats happening with this guy harassing you and that you intend to take action if it continues. Make it clear that you are capable of maintaining your own property and wont be paying into any group maintenance contract.

    Any decent people there will respect you for speaking your mind. Do you really care what the rest think?

    ^this

    He sounds like a classic bully, and the only way to deal with bullies is to confront them.

    If he's carrying on like that you can be sure he's getting on other people's wrong side as well, so if you challenge him and put him in his place you might find you get more support from other residents than you expect.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 7,771 ✭✭✭michael999999


    Go to the next meeting and ask to speak. Let everyone know whats happening with this guy harassing you and that you intend to take action if it continues. Make it clear that you are capable of maintaining your own property and wont be paying into any group maintenance contract.

    Any decent people there will respect you for speaking your mind. Do you really care what the rest think?

    And tell them that if your forced to pay for cutting your own grass, you will have to set up a scrap collection area on your front lawn to fund it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 941 ✭✭✭The Phantom Jipper


    I agree there is a lot to be said for a tidy clean estate, but the charge is outragous and when tackled by other people at meetings who had got a lot cheaper quotes they said no that they wanted to stick with this guy who is the dearest out of the whole lot of them. My concern at this stage is what do I do legally at this stage go to the Garda first and make a formal complaint but this will go no where as the guy doesnt live here until the summer months. So do I go legal ? and if so how much roughly does this cost ?

    Sounds sketchy enough. You'd almost think he had a financial interest in the company and was trying to send a bit of business their way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,175 ✭✭✭kieran.


    For the record I am female. I agree with paying something but not 350 euro's for a 60 house estate and the fact that I am paying for 3/4 of the people who only live here less than 3 months of the year and also the fact he has called to the door demanding money , sent letters in a name and shame policy more than once and is now sending texts to other people about me and also talking about me and others by name at their meetings ? What am I to do ?

    €350 per year is mad money for a 60 house estate unless there is a formal/ornamental garden. Our Estate is 46 houses and cost approx 2500-3000 per year for grass cutting, maintaining the planted areas and painting fences etc...... Naming you for non payment at meetings, I cant see anything wrong there as he is just reporting the facts


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 774 ✭✭✭debabyjesus


    I agree there is a lot to be said for a tidy clean estate, but the charge is outragous and when tackled by other people at meetings who had got a lot cheaper quotes they said no that they wanted to stick with this guy who is the dearest out of the whole lot of them. My concern at this stage is what do I do legally at this stage go to the Garda first and make a formal complaint but this will go no where as the guy doesnt live here until the summer months. So do I go legal ? and if so how much roughly does this cost ?

    Why hide behind a solicitor? Going legal doesnt make sense to me unless you make your position clear in public first and they still harass you for payment afterwards. Have you addressed a meeting already?


  • Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,910 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    Have you spoken to him at all?

    Who agreed that everyone would pay this fee? Was everyone in the estate consulted and agreed to it, or was there a discussion where other options were put forward? Was it just decided on by a select few, and others not given an option? Do you go to the meetings?

    Have you told him you are not going to pay, and the reason for not paying?

    To be honest, it sounds like a very messy, unworkable agreement anyway, and I'd guess you're not the only one who hasn't paid. Are you the only one who has been named and shamed?

    I think before you go to the guards or a solicitor your first port of call should be the either the residents association committee, or him directly. Try to sort it out first before being "that" couple!

    It's always difficult in situations like this, and committees like this seem to always attract one power hungry, "sergeant major" type... I don't envy your position.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,741 ✭✭✭jd


    the only company willing to take this job on would only do so on the basis that they would cut all front lawns (they did not want to keep track of who was to have their lawn cut and who was not to have it cut).

    First time I've heard of a resident's committee organising the cutting of front lawns. Common areas yeah, but front lawns :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    Are you confusing a residents committee with a management comosny , OP?

    And are you talking about people's lawns only, or common green areas?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,373 ✭✭✭✭foggy_lad


    jd wrote: »
    First time I've heard of a resident's committee organising the cutting of front lawns. Common areas yeah, but front lawns :confused:

    The residents association have been persuaded to choose the dearest company for grass cutting and they would only do the work if all residents front gardens were included (most likely to bump up the costs). I would go to a meeting and ask this person directly in front of all there what connection he has with the company that he chose to cut the grass.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,831 ✭✭✭Markcheese


    padma wrote: »
    They named and shamed you. Next meeting arrive on a horse. Walk in. Stand up. Tell them about the intimidation and harrassment. Warn them if it keeps up you'll be keeping the horse outside in your garden. Let them then worry about the costs of their houses plummeting.

    Possible but a bit drastic .... And what are you going to do with the horse after it's eaten yr little bit of grass :)

    Slava ukraini 🇺🇦



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,378 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm


    kieran. wrote: »
    €350 per year is mad money for a 60 house estate unless there is a formal/ornamental garden. Our Estate is 46 houses and cost approx 2500-3000 per year for grass cutting, maintaining the planted areas and painting fences etc...... Naming you for non payment at meetings, I cant see anything wrong there as he is just reporting the facts

    He's not simply stating facts otherwise he could also state facts such as that the sky is blue and water is wet. What he is doing is harassing and attempting to bully the op into a scheme when the op has already indicated he will not take part.

    I'd attend the meeting to make my point and also say that any following harassment such as the text will result in a visit to the solicitor.


  • Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 14,910 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    Btw... Any rental property that I lived in we were responsible for maintaining the lawns.

    I never heard of hiring a contractor in to cut every lawn in an estate..... What ever happened to the young entrepreneurs going around offering to cut the grass for a fiver?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,831 ✭✭✭Markcheese


    foggy_lad wrote: »
    The residents association have been persuaded to choose the dearest company for grass cutting and they would only do the work if all residents front gardens were included (most likely to bump up the costs). I would go to a meeting and ask this person directly in front of all there what connection he has with the company that he chose to cut the grass.

    If a lot of the owners on the estate aren't full time residents then it would suit them to have a company to keep front lawns cut , but wouldn't mean that it suits you or other resident owners...

    Slava ukraini 🇺🇦



  • Administrators Posts: 54,424 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


    This thing where the grass company refused to do the work unless all lawns were included is confusing me.

    Is the grass cutting market so lucrative at the moment that a grass cutter will turn down business if it's not inclusive of every lawn in an estate? :confused:

    I have a hard time believing that to be true. I also don't believe for a second that keeping a list of which houses are to be cut in the scheme and which aren't is difficult.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 192 ✭✭bonzer1again


    If it's not a question of the amount and more an issue of the harrasment...why dont you pay some of the neighbours kids to cut your lawn....preferably a kid belonging to someone on the committee.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,578 ✭✭✭Slutmonkey57b


    Op, this man cannot name and shame you for non payment because you are under no obligation to pay anything.

    Like others have said, collect evidence, video him, attend the next meeting and state if the harassment does not stop you will go to the police. Solicitors are expensive, the police are free. This man is intimidating and harassing you. Don't put up with it and don't appease him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,316 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    Goto the next meeting, and let it be known that should the harassment continue, you'll have no other option but to file harassment charges against the committee that he is representing. Divide and conquer.
    Sounds sketchy enough. You'd almost think he had a financial interest in the company and was trying to send a bit of business their way.
    Check out the company in cro.ie and see if he's listed in the company. Sounds like a sure way to gain money. If he is listed, see if you can report his business. Would I be wrong calling this name & shaming to get people to pay this "voluntary" funding as extortion?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,102 ✭✭✭✭Del2005


    kieran. wrote: »
    €350 per year is mad money for a 60 house estate unless there is a formal/ornamental garden. Our Estate is 46 houses and cost approx 2500-3000 per year for grass cutting, maintaining the planted areas and painting fences etc...... Naming you for non payment at meetings, I cant see anything wrong there as he is just reporting the facts

    If it was a management company or their management agent naming and shaming I'd have no issues, but the law would. This is a residents committee which has decided to do something which the OP doesn't want to do, as they are capable of doing it themselves. The residents committee has no power to take money off anyone never mind hassle then.

    OP if he won't leave you alone attend the next meeting and as already said explain your reasons. Also ask to see the books of the residents committee and ask about the grass cutters insurance etc. make it as much a hassle for them as they are for you. If he still hassles you straight to the cop shop and report him, keep a record of contacts from now on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,879 ✭✭✭D3PO


    kieran. wrote: »
    If this is a residents association/committee and not a legal formed management company the have no rights to force you to pay anything. The company cutting the grass has no right to enter your propertyand is basically trespassing when they do so.

    However I'm guessing the estate still needs to be maintained and the residents association is only doing what they think is right for the estate. The best solution in my opinion is not to send legal letters but instead attend the next meeting and make the point that it is unacceptable for the committee to be forcing people to accept the current situation and that an alternative must be sought.

    I have been a member of my own estates management company and now residents association, if your not there to raise and argue your case at the meetings then you cant give out about the decisions been made at them. After all it is YOUR resident assocation.

    Why should the OP go to the meeting ? They don't have to have any interest in a residents association or care what the decisions they make are. They also do not have to pay a cent to them or any other organization on a power trip.

    Nobody has the right to intimidate or try and force somebody to pay money they don't legally have to and they should not have to tell the association more than once they are not willing to pay.

    OP go to the gardai lodge a complaint, drop a letter in the door of this idiots house and advise you have made a formal complaint to the gardai about harassment and that if he comes to your door regarding money again or mentions your name for non payment at any meeting that you will be getting a solicitor to take a case against him for slander / libel (depending on how your good name is tarnished)

    don't let this little boll0x try and bully you.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,430 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    I never heard of hiring a contractor in to cut every lawn in an estate..... What ever happened to the young entrepreneurs going around offering to cut the grass for a fiver?

    The only time I heard of contractors being hired is for common areas. I have never heard of them going into individual houses.

    You don't see people going house to house mowing lawns anymore do you? Or window cleaners. They used to be very common, you would think they would have made a return due to all the unemployment about


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,480 ✭✭✭wexie


    Just tell them you have no intention of paying the 350 to get someone to cut your grass for you, but that you're happy to cut 1/60th of the common green spaces.

    Which will obviously be objected to as it would be too hard to administrate for the poor landscaper. In which case you say : fine I'll just cut my own then :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,027 ✭✭✭Lantus


    This doesn't make sense. Lawns by definition are typically 'private' property. I have a front lawn and no one can cut it and then extort me for money in much the same way you cannot just wash a car and then hold out your hand.

    The OP has been specific that lawns are been cut. How???

    Are there any large common areas being dealt with? Please clarify.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,272 ✭✭✭bazza1


    Twice a year our residents group have an estate clean up. Everyone gets out and cuts grass in common areas, clears drains, tidies trees checks for graffiti etc. This costs nothing and grows community spirit. We have had community BBQs and street parties after the clean ups. We get the kids invoved also. Could you not suggest this at the next meeting?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,411 ✭✭✭ABajaninCork


    bazza1 wrote: »
    Twice a year our residents group have an estate clean up. Everyone gets out and cuts grass in common areas, clears drains, tidies trees checks for graffiti etc. This costs nothing and grows community spirit. We have had community BBQs and street parties after the clean ups. We get the kids invoved also. Could you not suggest this at the next meeting?

    There's something similar on our estate, although we don't have street parties/BBQ's! The residents pay for the green to be cut, but clean-ups are taken care of by themselves.

    I think it's a great idea, and well worth suggesting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,390 ✭✭✭markpb


    bazza1 wrote: »
    Twice a year our residents group have an estate clean up. Everyone gets out and cuts grass in common areas

    If the grass in your estate is only cut twice a year, you either have no grass or a little piece of rainforest where the grass used to be.


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