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ever go on holidays with parent(s)

  • 29-07-2013 10:30pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,073 ✭✭✭✭


    Have you gone on holidays with your parent(s) while in your twenties and older.
    Did you enjoy it?



    I brought my mother to NEW York for her 50th. It was a great holiday just to get away and to see family.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 309 ✭✭Tim the Enchanter


    Wtf is it with peoples spelling around here lately? All ho's and everys!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    Holiday with family? What am I, some kind of freakishly normal person???


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭The Narrator


    I went on holidays with my parents once, I was 14.

    They never invited me again...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    I stopped going when I was 16. I started going the last couple of years for my sons sake.

    My parents love it, we love it. Not going this year though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,396 ✭✭✭Frosty McSnowballs


    Yep,

    I'm sick of airport security insisting thy can the urn though.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    That's lovely cena. Such a nice gesture but is that not you effectively taking your "parent" on holidays, if anything...

    me I got taken to Aiya Napa.


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    cena wrote: »
    Have you gone on holidays with your parent(s) while in your 20's and older.
    Did you enjoy it?



    I brought my mother to NEW York for her 50th. It was a great holiday just to get away and to see family.

    I bet your mum loved that. :)

    I've been on family holidays and had a good time. It all depends on how well you all get along.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    It doesn't really matter who took who, does it but lovely gesture and I'm glad you had the opportunity. Btw that is a young mother, what age are you to be whisking her off like that


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    I think it depends on the gender TBH. Doesn't seem strange if female, or if there's a few siblings. I don't know what possessed me but I ended up on holiday with my folks in my early 20's (male) definitely felt a "look at that mammy's boy" vibe. Looking back now, I'm glad I spent some quality time with them though... and it was free.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,534 ✭✭✭SV


    Never been on holiday with either parent at any age, done holidays on my own since 16 and kinda glad of it


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,973 ✭✭✭Sh1tbag OToole


    i used to but a fair few years ago i stopped going.

    They never really want to do anything while on holidays except sit around and read a book or sit outside some fancy overpriced restaurant sipping red wine, horrible stuff by the way and it tastes the same no matter how many thousand you spend on the bottle. I dont see the point in going on holidays if you're not going to explore or use the facilities and do things you can just as easily do at home


    It probably costs over 100e a day to go on holidays, better make use of it. Its as if what they want from a holiday is the exact opposite of what i want


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    My friend in his 30s brought his dad to Berlin to see war museums and whatnot (his dad's well interested in WWII) and said it was fantastic. I think once it's not just a hanging-around-the-place holiday it could work well.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    nocoverart wrote: »
    I think it depends on the gender TBH. Doesn't seem strange if female, or if there's a few siblings. I don't know what possessed me but I ended up on holiday with my folks in my early 20's (male) definitely felt a "look at that mammy's boy" vibe. Looking back now, I'm glad I spent some quality time with them though... and it was free.

    My brother is mid 30's and he goes with my parents. He pays his own way. But he lives with them too....weird.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,073 ✭✭✭✭cena


    It doesn't really matter who took who, does it but lovely gesture and I'm glad you had the opportunity. Btw that is a young mother, what age are you to be whisking her off like that

    I was 26 than nearly three years ago now. She hadn't been their in 30 years so a lot of the family had there own kids since she was there last.

    We went last year and I sent her off to see a friend she worked with over 30 years ago. She lost contact with them a long time ago and the brother found her on the internet. Give her spending money and all.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    My brother is mid 30's and he goes with my parents. He pays his own way. But he lives with them too....weird.

    Are you sure you thought that through? What's weird is how the economy went tits up from weirdo bankers, forcing a lot people into that predicament.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,639 ✭✭✭Miss Lockhart


    Yes. I take my mother on holidays every year. Seems like a perfectly normal thing to do to me.


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My friend in his 30s brought his dad to Berlin to see war museums and whatnot (his dad's well interested in WWII) and said it was fantastic. I think once it's not just a hanging-around-the-place holiday it could work well.

    Yeah, my family go on skiing holidays so it's something we all have in common and enjoy together.

    Could never do the lying down on a beach day-in-day-out thing, a day or so is okay, more than that and I'd die of boredom.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    My brother is mid 30's and he goes with my parents. He pays his own way. But he lives with them too....weird.

    Depends where they go, if it were Amsterdam I would say that's pretty fookin cool.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,785 ✭✭✭Ihatecuddles-old


    Are you sure you thought that through? What's weird is how the economy went tits up from weirdo bankers, forcing a lot people into that predicament.

    My brother has no money problems. Trust me on that! he admits himself he's just a lazy mammies boy. She does everything for him sure.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    My brother has no money problems. Trust me on that! he admits himself he's just a lazy mammies boy. She does everything for him sure.

    Ah, right yeah.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    cena wrote: »
    I was 26 than three nearly years ago. She hadn't been there in 30 years so a lot of the family had there own kids since she was there.

    We went last year and I sent her off to see a friend she worked with over 30 years ago. She lost contact with a long time ago and the brother found her on the internet. Give her spending money and all.

    Which made you what; 23? :confused:

    But I fully believe you and I think its fantastic your mother permitted you the capacity to take her to NYC. Real man of the house material instilled in you, fair play.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 499 ✭✭greenflash


    I went away with the in laws last year.

    Never a****ing****tycuntfelchgain.

    Edit: Was expecting a lot more stars


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    My parents live abroad so visiting them is a mini holiday, a sandwich and tea filled holiday.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,073 ✭✭✭✭cena


    Which made you what; 23? :confused:

    But I fully believe you and I think its fantastic your mother permitted you the capacity to take her to NYC. Real man of the house material instilled in you, fair play.

    No I was 26 than. Be 29 in jan.

    Dad is in a home with alzheimer's


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    cena wrote: »
    No I was 26 than. Be 29 in jan

    Ok I believe you so. Just you have a funny way with words, which casts doubts as it appears so insincere but then that's just my grammar nazi-ism!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,257 ✭✭✭Love2love


    Almost all of my holidays are family holidays :) parents, brothers, nieces and nephews ect


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,073 ✭✭✭✭cena


    Ok I believe you so. Just you have a funny way with words, which casts doubts as it appears so insincere but then that's just my grammar nazi-ism!

    My grammer is not the best. I well own up to that. But I hate when people point it out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    Love2love wrote: »
    Almost all of my holidays are family holidays :) parents, brothers, nieces and nephews ect

    Happy Travlun'!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,396 ✭✭✭Frosty McSnowballs


    cena wrote: »
    My grammer is not the best. I well own up to that. But I hate when people point it out.

    Just blame it on auto correct dude....that's what I do.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    Ok I believe you so. Just you have a funny way with words, which casts doubts as it appears so insincere but then that's just my grammar nazi-ism!


    I wonder do grammar Nazis die a little inside when they don't capitalise what they refer to themselves as :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,583 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    cena wrote: »
    No I was 26 than. Be 29 in jan.

    Dad is in a home with alzheimer's

    It's good that you make time for your Mum, people often forget about the families of people with alzheimers. A trip away can do people a lot of good, even better when it's with other family.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    cena wrote: »
    My grammer is not the best. I well own up to that. But I hate when people point it out.

    You were just one letter away from it been very good. I pointed that out, but with very loving and sensitive intentions. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,628 ✭✭✭Femme_Fatale


    nocoverart wrote: »
    been
    Eek. :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,043 ✭✭✭MurdyWurdy


    All the time - my 21st present from my parents was a weekend away with my Dad. I've been on quite a few holidays with them since then with my boyfriend now husband.

    We've two holidays planned with them in the next 6 months too. Really looking forward to them! Handy to have them with the baby as well for so e extra help, more of a break for us.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,073 ✭✭✭✭cena


    nocoverart wrote: »
    You were just one letter away from it been very good. I pointed that out, but with very loving and sensitive intentions. :)

    What letter is missing


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,354 ✭✭✭nocoverart


    Eek. :pac:

    Oops!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,788 ✭✭✭✭krudler


    nocoverart wrote: »
    You were just one letter away from it been being very good. I pointed that out, but with very loving and sensitive intentions. :)

    FYP, annoying ain't it. cena's sentences are perfectly legible.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    krudler wrote: »
    FYP, annoying ain't it. cena's sentences are perfectly legible.

    I dunno, I mean he must have only scraped up the cash and took her there recently because he was only fantasizing about it not so long ago :pac: and probably with a severely cut hand too.

    Could show us a picture of you and your mother at the statue of liberty, cena... or maybe at the WWE merch store


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,073 ✭✭✭✭cena


    I dunno, I mean he must have only scraped up the cash and took her there recently because he was only fantasizing about it not so long ago :pac: and probably with a severely cut hand too.

    Could show us a picture of you and your mother at the statue of liberty, cena... or maybe at the WWE merch store

    Where did you get severely cut hand from. Their is no wwe merch store in new York. I won't be putting any pic up.

    How was I Fanatasizing about a trip


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,801 ✭✭✭Ruudi_Mentari


    Even still, I don't doubt you cena. And I hope that gash healed; tendons are fine and that maybe we can go to a TNA house show together down the line

    and maybe, just maybe I can finally spark a feud with you in order to get a title shot. Gawd knows I'll be the heel


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  • Posts: 3,505 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I haven't been on a holiday with my family since I was 10, but of the few bits I do remember I know it would be a genuinely painful experience, so no!

    You'd swear I'd been raised on a different planet than them, we just have completely different ideas of not only how to have fun but also how to behave. The closest we get to having anything in common is that we're all as moody as each other, which doesn't result in good things.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,733 ✭✭✭✭corktina


    given the choice, even I wouldn't go on hols with my kids parents.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,000 ✭✭✭Stone Deaf 4evr


    My dad died when I was 16, my brothers and sisters ranged from 13 to 5 at the time. My mam managed to raise us all and put us all through college. these days she looks after my daughters while my wife and I are at work. If she doesn't come on holidays with us, I pay for her holiday. Its the least I can do.


    ffs, getting a tear in my eye just thinking about it.


  • Posts: 50,630 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Mod

    Ruudi_Mentari banned for a week for general trolling nonsense


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 991 ✭✭✭SuperGrover


    .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    Loads of times. We all went to France this year and had a great time, lots of sight seeing and good food. And my sister, my Mam and I alwsys do a city break in Europe before Christmas. We enjoy each other's company. Imagine that!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,666 ✭✭✭Rosy Posy


    I stopped going on holiday with my parents when I was 17 but now that I have kids we do. We live very far apart so they tend to come on holidays here or we go there, same with the in-laws. We spend most of the time at home in each others houses but will usually get a week or so away somewhere not too far away. It's nice to be able to all spend some time together when we don't see each other that often. I couldn't see myself going away with just my folks though, although I share a hobby with my mother and we went away for a weekend workshop last year.

    My friend who's in her 30's goes on holiday with her parents every year- they spend a chunk of the summer in a villa somewhere and she usually goes out for a week to get some sun and nice meals. She is chronically broke so she doesn't have an alternative. Also her folks are fairly crumbly and go to bed early so she just hits the town by herself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,073 ✭✭✭✭cena


    My dad died when I was 16, my brothers and sisters ranged from 13 to 5 at the time. My mam managed to raise us all and put us all through college. these days she looks after my daughters while my wife and I are at work. If she doesn't come on holidays with us, I pay for her holiday. Its the least I can do.


    ffs, getting a tear in my eye just thinking about it.

    That is very nice of you


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,925 ✭✭✭✭anncoates


    Haven't been on holiday with my parents since I was 14 but now that I have kids myself, I'd like to go away with my parents/my own family while my parents are still around.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,844 ✭✭✭Honey-ec


    Yep, just back from 2.5 weeks in Florida with my folks, 4 sibs, 2 in-laws, 7 nieces/nephews and an aunt and a cousin.

    We do a big family hol every other year or so.


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