Keeping in touch with exs?

TeddyTedson

Do boardsies do it?
Through mutual friends or via facebook perhaps?
I do it, although I'm starting to think it's a bad idea.
In my case I've got a very hot ex girlfriend who is now in a relationship, yet keeps posting stunning looking photos of herself...sometimes with 'him'.
I think it might be best for me to just delete her and stop fapping over her pics?

Seachmall

I try to keep in touch but the basement freaks me the fuck out.

At night you can hear whimpers from down there!

*shudders*


And never, EVER stop fapping over them. If you let them take away your fapping they've won.

Kylo Ren

Go home Muhammad Ali, you're drunk.

Banjo String

TeddyTedson wrote: »

I think it might be best for me to just delete her and stop fapping over her pics?

Whoa right there Ted, let's not do anything too hasty.

Pm me these 'hot pics' and I'll get back to you asap, ref the fap-ability of her.

The Pheasant

It can be dodgy enough, I've inadvertently pulled my ex...twice

TeddyTedson

The Pheasant wrote: »

It can be dodgy enough, I've inadvertently pulled my ex...twice

Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

The Backwards Man

Never ever ever look back,

Or in my case, never look forwards.

Ruudi_Mentari

You can't fondle a phone number ted.

actually, of course you can. cripes he's probably at it now.......

Witchie

Dont see the problem with it myself. Am in direct contact with quite a few exes and really good friends with them!

Boombastic

exs is an anagram of sex :eek:

The Pheasant

TeddyTedson wrote: »

Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

Hmm seemed like a good idea at the time...my friends went mental at me though because they dont like her at all haha

admiralofthefleet

The Pheasant wrote: »

It can be dodgy enough, I've inadvertently pulled my ex...twice

i did too, years ago.

Ruudi_Mentari

You could email her a happy birthday, and if she replies then you're in....

your email account, Reading a reply.

Notorious97

Im good friends with one ex, have a good friendship and im fine if she dates others and all that stuff.

Other ex is a lunatic so no i stayed clear of that

subaru scooby

What's in the past stays in past. Delete her too!! less u know off her the better.

Praetorian Saighdiuir

Im friends with a few exes, theres a few others I steer clear of because they are feckin mental. Sure, isn't it the same for everyone.

Iwasfrozen

Can't believe it hasn't come yet.... "Thinly veiled I have a hot ex thread."

Gatling

Just masturbate over her pictures ,or at least chance your arm and ask her for some proper hot pictures to masturbate over

Mr Benevolent

Fuck no. Literally and metaphorically.

old hippy

Some of them are good friends, we see each other on occasion. Some just via email/social networks.

One or two, I'd rather sandpaper my knackers for all eternity than run into them ever again.

That said, I'm sure they'd feel similar sentiments about me.

We all make mistakes. We've all gone out with a "wrong 'un".

Would I change any of it? Not for a moment. It's all a learning curve

Skuxx

I'm still in contact with a couple of my exs, one in particular is now by far my best friend! We broke up about 2 years ago, both have been with other people since then! There's no relationship feelings there between us, but I love her like I love my mother and would literally do anything for her! No one realy understands how we can be such good friends after having a break up!

RidleyRider

I used to talk to my exs then they all turned into weirdo's/phyco's. One was still 'in love' with me after 3 years :O I couldn't shake her till last summer :pac:

Praetorian Saighdiuir

RidleyRider wrote: »

I used to talk to my exs then they all turned into weirdo's/phyco's. One was still 'in love' with me after 3 years :O I couldn't shake her till last summer :pac:

I know what you did last summer.....RidlerRodeher

Ihatecuddles-old

I'm friends with most of my ex boyfriends.

Never been a problem!

RidleyRider

Praetorian Saighdiuir wrote: »

I know what you did last summer.....RidlerRodeher

Clever:pac:

old hippy

alan1990 wrote: »

I'm still in contact with a couple of my exs, one in particular is now by far my best friend! We broke up about 2 years ago, both have been with other people since then! There's no relationship feelings there between us, but I love her like I love my mother and would literally do anything for her! No one realy understands how we can be such good friends after having a break up!

Might want to rephrase a bit?

Nabber

Yeah I keep touching my exes. Don't we all?

Rabies

I'm still friends with all my ex's over here. Even the one that I had a bad break up with, that took a year before she would speak to me or be in the same room. All good now though. The rest are all fine.
Current g/f has met most of my ex's through work and social events. No probs with it.

BillyMitchel

chicks I dated for a few months and just drifted apart are forgotten about the next day.

Serious relationships I've been in (3) I'm till quite friendly and would chat on a weekly basis and we would still be reasonably close. We never mention or its never asked if we are with other people.

I'm a cool kinda guy.

0ph0rce0

I Tried, Until The Police Arrived

Sensual Cucumber

Its a tough one really, for me some exes were more clingy than others making it hard to be friends..clingy in the sense of possibly trying to get back together. This can be dangerous, they are the ones ye gotta cut loose in my experience.

Ruudi_Mentari

Nabber wrote: »

Yeah I keep touching my exes. Don't we all?

x.

xx..

x, x, x,xxxxxxxx ted you're already "friends" with her. granted you have the urge to delete so what gives?!! Isn't it enough that she tolerates your frapage.

I don't know if this campaign is against 'facebook' or pretty girls puttin themselves up there.... same difference? What if they withdraw!

thebaz

facebook and girlfriends don't go - past or present

old hippy

thebaz wrote: »

facebook and girlfriends don't go - past or present

I disagree. Depends on how past your past is, if you follow?

thebaz

old hippy wrote: »

I disagree. Depends on how past your past is, if you follow?

I've been single so long , my past is very long - I think I'm the wrong person to advice on relationships :mad:

old hippy

thebaz wrote: »

I've been single so long , my past is very long - I think I'm the wrong person to advice on relationships :mad:

Oops. Ok, well, sometimes being in a relationship isn't all that.

I think I'd better throw the towel in before I say something stupid (if I haven't done so already)

Peace out, y'all xx

tomboylady

'Friends' on FB but that's it. I have blocked all mention from my newsfeed though. Definitely not friends, in any way, shape or form.

Ruudi_Mentari

she may be more willing to communicate with you on here, ted..

ted.......

1ZRed

I'm still on friendly terms with the girls I've gone out with but we don't keep in touch, we're all doing our own thing, but we're able to have a laugh when we do run into each other.

One guy I was hanging around with for a while though; thank fuk you're all the way over there in New Zealand where you should live out the rest of your days you absolute fuking headwreck of a lad!

CianRyan

I have an ex, if you could call her that, that tries to contact me every 6 months or so, every time I just ignore her and forget about it but she never seems to get the idea.
It's just weird and it makes me feel uncomfortable, I don't like it.

So no, I don't keep in touch with my ex's and if you do, they probably think you're creepy.

Awesomeness

Most of the girls I date I meet abroad and have stayed friends with all of them. Have met up with a few of them when we have been in the same areas.

Only part that can be tricky is when current girlfriend knows your staying with ex. But I am always up front about it and its always been fine

CathyMoran

Would have some contact (the odd email from one and occasional social media from another one) - in all cases they are happily married (as am I) so there is no problem and they would know my husband as friends independently of me.

Gummy Panda

Ruudi_Mentari wrote: »

You could email her a happy birthday, and if she replies then you're in....

your email account, Reading a reply.

I had an ex all of a sudden do that before. Not just one mail but a few bedore my birthday. I consulted with the lads and they thought she was starting to play games. I asked her what was going on and why she was contacted me.

Got abusive email back calling me a weirdo and was looking into things too much

My exs is still a great friend. Not just to me but to the girls I am currently going out with. I understand it is an issue for some people but so far it has never been an issue for me or us.

Pherekydes

Despite being married to her for 7 years, I wouldn't have anything to do with her. She's an ex for a reason.

SunnyDub1

Personally I can't see how anyone can remain close Friends with their ex's, no matter how or why the relationship ended. they are "ex's" for a reason but I am only speaking from my own experience.

Finished on good terms with my last ex, said we would remain friends etc etc but really don't have any interest in who's he's seeing now, how great he looks, how crap he looks, what car he is driving etc etc.

I guess much of it comes down to what that "reason" or "reasons" are. For many people - like myself - the reasons are just that this was not the person I wanted to spend that part of my life with. I did not see my path in life being one I wanted to dedicate solely to that person and share it with.

But just because it was not the type of relationship I wanted with her - does not mean there was NO type of relationship I wanted with her and what we did have together was good material for a close friendship.

While you can not see how anyone could remain friends with an ex therefore - I similarly can not see why anyone would have an "all or nothing" approach to their relationships. Only a sith deals in absolutes after all

Legs.Eleven

Not close friends with any exes. 2 of them are friends on Facebook and we have the odd chat but that's it. Wouldn't call them friends as such, more mementos from the past.

The guy who I had the second most serious relationship I've been after this one is very good friends with all my friends who he met through me but as I ended it and live in different countries, it's no problem. He's a great person and I wish him all the best. Not friends with any who ended it with me though and that's grand as I've no interest in their lives. Only one ended badly years ago but besides from him, I parted with the others on good terms and the relationships just ran their course. Don't really care how they are though tbh. Funny how someone so close to you can become a stranger again.

beertons

Do you mean keep in touch with your cock or the talk? The latter was probably why you broke up in the first place.

desertcircus

Have a couple of exes as friends on Facebook, but interaction is limited. There's one ex who deleted me straight away, and she was probably right to. Haven't heard from her in years.

hoodwinked

I am friends with one or two of my exs and for one of them i'm glad we kept in touch as he introduced me to my now husband.

we are still good friends too (he is also good friends with my husband since he was in his class at college) and we'd head to gigs and nights out together, sometimes just the two of us, him and my husband are into this warps gaming thing so they'd hang out doing that.

i'm also friends with his girlfriend she's lovely and much better suited to him than i was.