I need a womans opinion or any opinion for that matter

corkfellow

Hi, hope I can get some feedback on the situation I’m in. I met this girl on a night out in Dublin back in December. Got on very well from the get go and ended up going back to her place. Ended up with abit of kissing etc but nothing full on which I didn’t mind at all.

I then got her number and gave her a few texts, we seemed to be getting on well so after xmas we met up had a nice dinner had a bit of walk, shared a kiss and then went into town for a few drinks. We got on very well and had a good laugh. she invited me back hers but again abit of kissing and cuddling which again I didn’t mind thinking that the girl has standards and that she didn’t want to rush things. Again which I liked.

We had decided to meet up again the following wknd where we spent the day together afterwards I cooked her dinner watch TV before dropping her home and getting a kiss goodnight. we agreed we would meet up again the following wknd but unfortunately a relative of hers got sick so she couldn’t meet up at the last minute which I totally understand. But then she txt apologising for the late notice of cancellation and said she cant get into anything serious at the moment and take care!

This has left me very confused as to what exactly she wants? she is good looking, a great laugh and we were getting on well but need a woman’s opinion as what to do next??

Kirby

My eyes....the goggles do nothing!

It's called a paragraph buddy.

smash

Too much kissing.... not enough f*cking...

GetWithIt

I think she's saying that she cant get into anything serious at the moment and that you should take care.

keith16

Chicks fùcking love paragraphs. Speak to her in paragraphs next time you meet.

BBDBB

its complicated

Sauve

She doesn't want a relationship OP. Or to see you anymore.
Put her out of your head and move along to the next lucky lady

Welcome to boards

If you haven't read the charter for this forum, I suggest you do so now as you may not want your thread in After Hours - if that's the case, please drop me a PM and I will close it, otherwise prepare to have your query taken less than seriously.

In answer to your question; nothing, sounds she was letting you down gently, that's it. There's nothing left to do I'm afraid.

The King of Moo

Didn't you ask this last year??

Anyway, if you didn't, what she's saying is that she's not really interested in a relationship with you, at least not a serious one.

I'm not a woman, by the way.

BBDBB

Im not a woman and I dont have an opinion



can I get an upgrade?

keith16

The King of Moo wrote: »

Didn't you ask this last year??

Anyway, if you didn't, what she's saying is that she's not really interested in a relationship with you, at least not a serious one.

I'm not a woman, by the way.

The 'Queen of Moo' is a woman

scdublin

It sounds pretty clear to be honest, she's not ready for a relationship and she must have seen it heading in that direction. Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong though.

michellie

This might sound far fetched and all but, you would probably be better off asking her, honestly it could mean anything, no one here knows her and were not mind readers!

ronan45

Text her the following


"just so you know, your not that good looking and i was seeing other moths behind your back, state a ya lmfao"

Followed by this at 3am this saturday

"hii Yu home, text me im outsuide ur place xx"

The King of Moo

keith16 wrote: »

The 'Queen of Moo' is a woman

What woman could only dream of being so lucky?

Anyone

She's playing hard to get so you need to show he how serious you are about her. I suggest you propose to her, texting her should be fine.

SunnyDub1

If she was into you and wanted something more she would make the effort and see you again which she doesn't want to.
What to do next - move on and forget about her.
Sorry to be blunt but that's just how it is.

PS. There is a personal issues forum, you would be best posting there.

The King of Moo

ronan45 wrote: »

Text her the following


"just so you know, your not that good looking and i was seeing other moths behind your back, state a ya lmfao"

Followed by this at 3am this saturday

"hii Yu home, text me im outsuide ur place xx"

Nothing like a bit of bestiality to make a girl jealous.

kneemos

I bet she has a penis.

ilovesleep

Do I need to spell this out for you Corkfellow?

I do not want to see or hear from you again because you're from Cork.

Froyo

It's obvious - she's after a Dub, OP.

ilovesleep

Froyo wrote: »

It's obvious - she's after a Dub, OP.

I am after a Dub, actually.

dr.bollocko

I'd join a club or society if I were you.

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=1174 if you want serious advice dude.

Sounds like she's giving you the cold shoulder.

It's time to move on.... Or consider stamp collecting as an alternative to forming relationships.

mark renton

Put it down as experience bud, next time less kissin and straight in for the kill.

TwoShedsJackson

My opinion is don't use black text in your post, some of us use a black background.

smash

TwoShedsJackson wrote: »

My opinion is don't use black text in your post, some of us use a black background.

But nobody can read this one if they have a white background...

corkfellow

Cheers for the replies it provided entertainment for the last 20 minutes or so.....

wobzilla1

Should have dropped the fist OP.

housetypeb

She was looking for a one stand,she gave you three chances to shag her, but you were being too much of a gentleman,your loss.

corkfellow

Trust me i tried on more than one occasion but no go......

housetypeb

corkfellow wrote: »

Trust me i tried on more than one occasion but no go......

If you couldn't get up-that's your problem right there, she didn't want no limp dick.....

sfwcork

this thread could get entertaining

Better pop to the shop for salted popcorn and coke

ilovesleep

corkfellow wrote: »

Trust me i tried on more than one occasion but no go......

Why would I want a cork man's cock up my hole? Don't make me sick.

Ihatecuddles-old

sfwcork wrote: »

this thread could get entertaining

Better pop to the shop for salted popcorn and coke

Get me buffalo hunky dorys

ronan45

housetypeb wrote: »

She was looking for a one stand,she gave you three chances to shag her, but you were being too much of a gentleman,your loss.

Good looking girl looking for a 1 night stand..... :rolleyes:

That'll be the day.

Ihatecuddles-old

ronan45 wrote: »

Good looking girl looking for a 1 night stand..... :rolleyes:

That'll be the day.

Maybe just not with you :P

lucylu

To me she saying it like it is. a relative more than likely an immediate family member is sick and she is a bit shocked, her life is on hold and has decided all her time is focused on them.

I suggest you text her and tell her you hope that all is OK if she wants to talk or if there was anything you could do to let you know.

homeless student

tell her that by agreeing to a 4th date, that created a verbal contract and to expect a solicitors letter in relation to the matter.

ilovesleep

OP, I was only messing with you. I'm not your girl at all.

mark renton

lucylu wrote: »

To me she saying it like it is. a relative more than likely an immediate family member is sick and she is a bit shocked, her life is on hold and has decided all her time is focused on them.

I suggest you text her and tell her you hope that all is OK if she wants to talk or if there was anything you could do let her know.

Cant believe you fell for that story lucy.

SunnyDub1

lucylu wrote: »

To me she saying it like it is. a relative more than likely an immediate family member is sick and she is a bit of shock, her life is on hold and has decided all her time is focused on them.

I suggest you text her and tell her you hope that all is OK if she wants to talk or if there was anything you could do let her know.

That's great advice if you want to look desperate :rolleyes:


She finished it before it even started, you liked her and thought it would go somewhere, she didn't feel the same - it happends. Better now than months down the line!
So your best just moving on.

Hail 2 Da Chimp

Have you tried turning it off, then turning it back on again?

harney

kneemos wrote: »

I bet she has a penis.

I bet she's had more than one, none of which belonged to the op.

Perhaps she's all shagged out after Christmas op?

iDave

Probably thought she was lesbian, seeing you a few times confirmed it.

Hail 2 Da Chimp

Hail 2 Da Chimp wrote: »

Have you tried turning it off, then turning it back on again?

It was the second bit he had the problem with

Fromthetrees

Maybe she actually did want sexy time op.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4hNaFkbZYU

mark renton

homeless student wrote: »

tell her that by agreeing to a 4th date, that created a verbal contract and to expect a solicitors letter in relation to the matter.

Do this, and also ask for a prenup. Will make her think u have lotsa money.

Duck Soup

Sick relative = concocted excuse.

Doesn't want anything serious right now = not into you.

Hope this helps.

FatherLen

Deleted User wrote: »

It was the second bit he had the problem with

oooooooh guuuuurl no you diden

*clicks fingers*

lucylu

mark renton wrote: »

Cant believe you fell for that story lucy.

ah come on .... despite what you men folk think we are not all vindictive bitches and always plan to come up with stories to dump someone.

sfwcork

did she smell of lesbian?