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proposals etc

starrynightsky · 2013-01-05 23:11:46

Married ladies, a quick question - did your men propose to you or was it a mutual decision? If he proposed, did you have any idea he was going to before he popped the question or was it a shock? Did you discuss it beforehand and then finally he did it? Or did you do it? If marriage is on the cards (as in, talked about in…

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06-01-2013 12:11am

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starrynightsky

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Married ladies, a quick question - did your men propose to you or was it a mutual decision? If he proposed, did you have any idea he was going to before he popped the question or was it a shock? Did you discuss it beforehand and then finally he did it? Or did you do it?
If marriage is on the cards (as in, talked about in general rather than as a definite plan), and everything is going great in the relationship...how can I tell if he's considering proposing? Or should I just ask? Am I being old fashioned by not wanting to spoil the surprise if he was to ask?
We do actuallu communicate very well but on this one I'm a bit tongue-tied!

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