Girl from Dating Site Turned Out To Be Prostitute

creeper1

Which is quite strange because on her profile it said something like "looking for marriage."

Like a lot of the girls on CLL, which I used to be a member of, I added her to my instant messenger as we got to know each other.

I arranged to meet her in a busy area. We had dinner at at nearby Thai place.

It was a real effort to try to make conversation with her at the dinner table. She ordered liberally and the total bill came to around 20 pounds. I paid it as it is customary that a man pays for first date.

Then we went to a bar and had a few drinks. However I think when I said I wanted to go somewhere the drinks were cheap it really offended her.

She relaxed a little more when we got drinking a bit. She told me about her ex who was a German and the fact she liked white people (the girl is Chinese)

The date ends and I only get to give her a little peck on the cheek.

In trying to arrange the next date I came up against some major difficulties. She kept saying "you want cheap place right?" and " I don't want no poor man"

Over a period of time she used the phrase "you just want free sex" more than once. She indeed seemed argumentative. I asked if she was angry because someone used her.

She said "no, I just know most men want free sex"

Sensing that this girl was maybe just after money I asked "how much?"

She said "100 pounds"

SO there you go a girl claiming to be looking for marriage is, in fact, nothing more than a prostitute.

In fact now that I come to think of it 2 other girls I met form the site asked me for "loans." I didn't bite and they didn't get a penny.

Online dating seems to be a bit of a minefield.

BTW the girl is hot and yes I have considered taking up her on her offer.

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creeper1 wrote: »

Which is quite strange because on her profile it said something like "looking for marriage."

Like a lot of the girls on CLL, which I used to be a member of, I added her to my instant messenger as we got to know each other.

I arranged to meet her in a busy area. We had dinner at at nearby Thai place.

It was a real effort to try to make conversation with her at the dinner table. She ordered liberally and the total bill came to around 20 pounds. I paid it as it is customary that a man pays for first date.

Then we went to a bar and had a few drinks. However I think when I said I wanted to go somewhere the drinks were cheap it really offended her.

She relaxed a little more when we got drinking a bit. She told me about her ex who was a German and the fact she liked white people (the girl is Chinese)

The date ends and I only get to give her a little peck on the cheek.

In trying to arrange the next date I came up against some major difficulties. She kept saying "you want cheap place right?" and " I don't want no poor man"

Over a period of time she used the phrase "you just want free sex" more than once. She indeed seemed argumentative. I asked if she was angry because someone used her.

She said "no, I just know most men want free sex"

Sensing that this girl was maybe just after money I asked "how much?"

She said "100 pounds"

SO there you go a girl claiming to be looking for marriage is, in fact, nothing more than a prostitute.

In fact now that I come to think of it 2 other girls I met form the site asked me for "loans." I didn't bite and they didn't get a penny.

Online dating seems to be a bit of a minefield.

BTW the girl is hot and yes I have considered taking up her on her offer.

You asked her how much?:eek:

You're the one in trouble buddy, you propositioned her.

*I know this from watching TV, not personal experience.

IceFjoem

She hot?

kryogen

Have a link to her profile there chief?

Shryke

Getting with a hooker on Christmas day. Don't know if you're living the life or circling the drain. Who knows, you could fall madly in love.

DrumSteve

Apt username is apt.

corktina

Chinese eh? I've a yen for that sort of thing.

B.A._Baracus

Alot of escorts use dating sites. Its just another means for them to tout for business. Which is messed up. Stick to escorting sites you cunts. There's plenty of them.

But it also has to be said that there are, well ... to be direct ... some die hard sluts who have no issue with getting a 100 euro off some bloke they contacted on a dating site for a shag. They aint 'escorts' per se. Just they see no issue in doing so. Which is even more messed up

kjl

Eh, so you slept with a gold digger and decided to pay for it.

I think you are taking the word prostitute very liberally there, she was just looking for someone who can take care of her. I dated a girl like that for a while and she was always trying to get my money and for me to help her with rent and all. I call them money grubbers and I can see them coming a mile away now, you can tell because they're are always asking about your money situation in their very not so subtle way. They tend to be foreigners, but I know a few Irish girls who are guility of it too. Now I just play along, give them real bull**** crap like I feel a connection with them or they might be the one, have a bit of fun with them for a while and then and give them the old heave-ho

But in terms of internet dating my motto is, if it's too goo to be true, it usually is. I lived in New York for a while, and being new in the city my friend recommended I try internet dating. I created a new account with a proper picture and all, wrote a little blurb about myself. I got loads of messages from very unattractive girls but got talking to a few hot ones, like really hot. Yeah every single hot one was a Nigerian scammer trying to get me to wire money to them. I messed around with one of them, even rang him, yes I said him, a few times. He would answer pretending to be a girl, it was so obvious, I would always say I was wiring money, but tried to get him to talk dirty. I was literally in stitches laughing on the phone and the stupid idiot thought he had one on the line.

Anyway, sorry you got scammed dude, but lets face it, you are obviously a bit of an idiot when it comes to girls.

up for anything

B.A._Baracus wrote: »

But it also has to be said that there are, well ... to be direct ... some die hard sluts who have no issue with getting a 100 euro off some bloke they contacted on a dating site for a shag. They aint 'escorts' per se. Just they see no issue in doing so. Which is even more messed up

Do you not even begin to see your double standards?

creeper1

Hold up. Hold up. I have been scammed before but not by this girl.

To set the record straight, I haven't slept with her and I haven't paid any money to sleep with her.

RUSTEDCORE

creeper1 wrote: »

Which is quite strange because on her profile it said something like "looking for marriage."

Like a lot of the girls on CLL, which I used to be a member of, I added her to my instant messenger as we got to know each other.

I arranged to meet her in a busy area. We had dinner at at nearby Thai place.

It was a real effort to try to make conversation with her at the dinner table. She ordered liberally and the total bill came to around 20 pounds. I paid it as it is customary that a man pays for first date.

Then we went to a bar and had a few drinks. However I think when I said I wanted to go somewhere the drinks were cheap it really offended her.

She relaxed a little more when we got drinking a bit. She told me about her ex who was a German and the fact she liked white people (the girl is Chinese)

The date ends and I only get to give her a little peck on the cheek.

In trying to arrange the next date I came up against some major difficulties. She kept saying "you want cheap place right?" and " I don't want no poor man"

Over a period of time she used the phrase "you just want free sex" more than once. She indeed seemed argumentative. I asked if she was angry because someone used her.

She said "no, I just know most men want free sex"

Sensing that this girl was maybe just after money I asked "how much?"

She said "100 pounds"

SO there you go a girl claiming to be looking for marriage is, in fact, nothing more than a prostitute.

In fact now that I come to think of it 2 other girls I met form the site asked me for "loans." I didn't bite and they didn't get a penny.

Online dating seems to be a bit of a minefield.

BTW the girl is hot and yes I have considered taking up her on her offer.

I dont mean to offend you but I am curious
Do you consider yourself weird or lacking social skills?

kneemos

Did you in fact expect free sex?

B.A._Baracus

up for anything wrote: »

Do you not even begin to see your double standards?

Double standards? ... Or are you just arguing with me for the sake of it? ... what because I used the word "slut" perhaps?

Or perhaps you should open your eyes and ears

creeper1

creeper1 wrote: »

Then we went to a bar and had a few drinks. However I think when I said I wanted to go somewhere the drinks were cheap it really offended her.

LOL Even if she wasn't an escort, this is no way to land a foreign girl, on so many levels.

Thespoofer

I think some of you guys are a little too hard on the OP. He only asked her how much to confirm his suspicions and all that....

Oh yes and OP, pics or gtfo..

Gummy Panda

Learn to haggle

"100 for that you must be mad"

cafecolour

Don't stick your dick in crazy.

chughes

corktina wrote: »

Chinese eh? I've a yen for that sort of thing.

Without sounding like Sheldon, you have a yuan for Chinese girls, you have a yen for Japanese girls.....

blacklilly

Just like lunches, there's no such thing as free sex

kuldeep121

What a luck btw which site is that? haha

leggo

She probably is looking for a fella and isn't a prostitute.

Probably didn't like you because you think 20 quid is expensive for a meal (you'd get Burger King for around that) and on the first date went looking for the cheapest bar around.

So she said she'd cut her losses and try make some money.

Next!

Littlehorny

100 pound, did she promise to "love you long time"?

juan.kerr

kneemos wrote: »

Did you in fact expect free sex?

In fairness, he did shell out 20 quid for a fancy dinner...Sterling, mind you.

3DataModem

creeper1 wrote: »

She ordered liberally and the total bill came to around 20 pounds.

I said I wanted to go somewhere the drinks were cheap it really offended her.

You are quite the catch.

juan.kerr

leggo wrote: »

She probably is looking for a fella and isn't a prostitute.

Probably didn't like you because you think 20 quid is expensive for a meal (you'd get Burger King for around that) and on the first date went looking for the cheapest bar around.

So she said she'd cut her losses and try make some money.

Next!

I should report you for dissing Burger King.

harvester of sorrow

Rofl!!:D
Christmas just got better,fooking thread is epic lol:pac:

IM0

so the moral of the story is dont date girls they are all prostitutes

housetypeb

Going by the thread title, she naturally assumed you were a man with capital to spread around.

Actually answering 100 quid to the OPs request of 'how much?' was probably a clever way of ending the date on her part. I think she'd have fallen off her chair if he did actually pull it out... the money, i mean.

GhostInTheRuins

I don't think she was a prostitute, she just wanted to cut her losses and she knew that you'd never pay 100 pounds for anything seeing as you sound a bit cheap.

corktina

chughes wrote: »

Without sounding like Sheldon, you have a yuan for Chinese girls, you have a yen for Japanese girls.....

i don't fancy Japanese girls at all....too much pixelation

mikemac1

You went to a restaurant which also had a bar.
So this wasn't some dive of a place.

And you got a dinner for two for 20 sterling

Tbh, you got a good deal, that sounds like a restaurant worth recommending

You do sound a bit cheap if you find that pricy

Scanlas The 2nd

Free sex is the best sex where it's out of mutual attraction and desire rather than one party giving something in return for sex.

squod

Down with this sort of thing.


Carefull now

juan.kerr

mikemac1 wrote: »

You went to a restaurant which also had a bar.
So this wasn't some dive of a place.

And you got a dinner for two for 20 sterling

Tbh, you got a good deal, that sounds like a restaurant worth recommending

You do sound a bit cheap if you find that pricy

Everyone is overlooking the fact it is 20 sterling, not 20 euros. BIG difference.

Birneybau

juan.kerr wrote: »

Everyone is overlooking the fact it is 20 sterling, not 20 euros. BIG difference.

Not that bloody big!

Birneybau

harvester of sorrow wrote: »

Rofl!!:D
Christmas just got better,fooking thread is epic lol:pac:

That's the spirit!

from_atozinc

Quote: creeper1
She ordered liberally and the total bill came to around 20 pounds.

I said I wanted to go somewhere the drinks were cheap it really offended her.
.

This all just sounds weird

Fr_Dougal

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKE_pfovjl4

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IM0

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

Free sex is the best sex where it's out of mutual attraction and desire rather than one party giving something in return for sex.

and in 97% of cases it still isnt 'free'

biko

sfwcork

Rofl.sure maybe you should have brought a nagen of cheap russian vodka and asked her to sneak into the jacks to drink it.You could have nicked cordial from the bar.

Tin Foil Hat

Can anyone explain why, when a guy buys everything on a night out, and the girl doesn't so much as open her purse, then it's the guy who's open to accusations of being a cheapskate?

Never quite got that one

moneymad

what site was it ? CLL ?:D

coldcake

Tin Foil Hat wrote: »

Can anyone explain why, when a guy buys everything on a night out, and the girl doesn't so much as open her purse, then it's the guy who's open to accusations of being a cheapskate?

Never quite got that one

She was willing to open her purse for 100 pound

creeper1

Well I need to make some things clear.

First off I don't want to put pics up of her. I don't that is cool.

Secondly I teach English as a foreign language in China. It is much easier to convert to sterling than euros since you just drop a zero.

200 yuan for the dinner is about 20 pounds. When you consider how cheap things are in China then 20 pounds is kinda expensive actually.

1000 Yuan for sex is about 100 pounds.

CLL stands for Chinese Love Links.

Hope that clears the questions up.

pauldla

You're in China!?!?

I'd say she's semi-pro. Yes, she's looking for marriage, but if she can make a few dollars in the meantime, she'll do so. She is profiling for a foreign husband (otherwise she'd be using QQ for dating), is probably completely mercenary, and I'd run a mile from her, no matter how hot she is. Bad craziness may ensue otherwise.

mf240

You should have opened with how much.

Grayson

It is abit funny how everyone thought the OP was cheap. Wonder if there will be any apologies?

Hogata

Just tell me straight - you wanted sex but she says NO ?!
Even for money ... :D