My mother thinks

Mrs Garth Brooks

Having a penis is a disability.

My brother going to college for the week, the grown man is capable of driving a 5 hour journey to and from college. Has a flat. Comes home friday... to drink for the weekend.

And yet he's not able to mind himself. My mother sending him off with clean bed clothes (he's got a washing machine), food parcels, packed his bags, carried them to his car.

Fking hell, how does he live at all.

(What's worse, my mother has always made it known what a woman's role is, to mind the disabled willys!)

Wafa

Cool xxx

rubberdiddies

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Having a penis is a disability.

My brother going to college for the week, the grown man is capable of driving a 5 hour journey to and from college. Has a flat. Comes home friday... to drink for the weekend.

And yet he's not able to mind himself. My mother sending him off with clean bed clothes (he's got a washing machine), food parcels, packed his bags, carried them to his car.

Fking hell, how does he live at all.

(What's worse, my mother has always made it known what a woman's role is, to mind the disabled willys!)

Anti man thread again......yaaaaaawn

It's your Ma that's the problem

Praetorian Saighdiuir

Sheesh, I'm glad my mother didn't look after my willy.

HondaSami

I don's see anything wrong with a mother looking out for her son or daughter for that matter, it's what most mothers do. I'm sure she spoils you too OP.

racso1975

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Having a penis is a disability.

My brother going to college for the week, the grown man is capable of driving a 5 hour journey to and from college. Has a flat. Comes home friday... to drink for the weekend.

And yet he's not able to mind himself. My mother sending him off with clean bed clothes (he's got a washing machine), food parcels, packed his bags, carried them to his car.

Fking hell, how does he live at all.

(What's worse, my mother has always made it known what a woman's role is, to mind the disabled willys!)

She just has the dis part wrong. It should be mega-ability!!!! With out even using his moisture seeking rocket he got a woman to do all that!!!! It is far from a disability...........bar you get kicked in then it is flucking horrific

Ihatecuddles-old

It's only a disability if you can't do the helicopter with it!!!!

jamesbondings

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Having a penis is a disability.

My brother going to college for the week, the grown man is capable of driving a 5 hour journey to and from college. Has a flat. Comes home friday... to drink for the weekend.

And yet he's not able to mind himself. My mother sending him off with clean bed clothes (he's got a washing machine), food parcels, packed his bags, carried them to his car.

Fking hell, how does he live at all.

(What's worse, my mother has always made it known what a woman's role is, to mind the disabled willys!)

Shes hardly single?

Wafa

You can piss outside easily

corktina

you'll be just the same in few years OP.... and with what YOU have you can have as many of what HE has as you want!

Turtyturd

Wafa wrote: »

You can piss outside easily

Unless it's windy.

It's those two extra ribs that are the disability.

Mrs Garth Brooks

HondaSami wrote: »

I don's see anything wrong with a mother looking out for her son or daughter for that matter, it's what most mothers do. I'm sure she spoils you too OP.

Thats the sad part. She doesn't. I was in the same position last year, going to college, living away from home. And to hell with me. Ive two older brothers also and they were babied too, into their 30s.
She's always made it known she wont do anything for the girls and it shows.

racso1975

Guess that just...hard luck woman

joydivision

Yes op thjs is how women work . They tend to the man and he rewards them with his compliments and makes them feel loved .
Your mother is obviously a good happy wife... and somebody I know will slowly go crazy in a cat filled apartment because she wont play the game to keep a man happy .
In 20 years when this girl and the cats are playing backgammon . She will tell them all about womens lib .

HondaSami

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Thats the sad part. She doesn't. I was in the same position last year, going to college, living away from home. And to hell with me. Ive two older brothers also and they were babied too, into their 30s.
She's always made it known she wont do anything for the girls and it shows.

Are you a daddy's girl? does he do more for you than for your brothers?
All parents are different, some have favorites but all kids should be treated equally.
I understand there are times you do more for one child depending on the circumstances but it would balance out overall.

efb

Sometimes it's hard to be a woman...

senorwipesalot

Your mother sounds like a grand woman.

Ronin247

WOMEN

Wait
On
Mans
Every
Need

Its her job op

jamesbondings

HondaSami wrote: »

Are you a daddy's girl? does he do more for you than for your brothers?
All parents are different, some have favorites but all kids should be treated equally.
I understand there are times you do more for one child depending on the circumstances but it would balance out overall.

all KIDS should be treated equally by the sounds of it they are all adults. If the op needs someone to look after her maybe she would consider hiring someone.

Mrs Garth Brooks

HondaSami wrote: »

Are you a daddy's girl? does he do more for you than for your brothers?
All parents are different, some have favorites but all kids should be treated equally.
I understand there are times you do more for one child depending on the circumstances but it would balance out overall.

What's a daddy? Never had one. He feked off years ago. So thats no excuse for my mothers behaviour.

jamesbondings

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

What's a daddy? Never had one. He feked off years ago. So thats no excuse for my mothers behaviour.

Im sorry but it is......she's scared the boys will feck off too. Hence why she 'spoils' them........

franktheplank

Could you ask her would she do some of my washing?

joydivision

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

What's a daddy? Never had one. He feked off years ago. So thats no excuse for my mothers behaviour.

Maybe your mother learned the ard way that womens lib dont work .
Honestly though maybe this just makes her miss having a man to look after so she does it to the sons . Absolutely nothing wrong with it if it keeps her happy .
Id be more worried about your childish jealousy .

HondaSami

jamesbondings wrote: »

all KIDS should be treated equally by the sounds of it they are all adults. If the op needs someone to look after her maybe she would consider hiring someone.

Kids or adults makes no difference to me, should still be treated equally and besides you don't stop being a parent just because the kids become adults imo.

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

What's a daddy? Never had one. He feked off years ago. So thats no excuse for my mothers behaviour.

Sorry to hear that, no more advice for you really, you will just have to deal with it, she prefers the boys.

HardLuckWoman

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

What's a daddy? Never had one. He feked off years ago. So thats no excuse for my mothers behaviour.

Your mother's behaviour?

If you don't like it, and you get NOTHING out of it, then why are you so often around to see the treatment your brothers are getting? It sounds like your mother must do something for you.

kinkygirl

Shure, we were born to serve the dominant male, see to his every need...or so my hubby told me.
He's due out of hospital in March.

joydivision

true-or-false wrote: »

Your mother's behaviour?

If you don't like it, and you get NOTHING out of it, then why are you so often around to see the treatment your brothers are getting? It sounds like your mother must do something for you.

**** yeah sounds diiirty .

pinky 06

Maybe your mum is being like that because she wants you to be independent and to be strong just like she is. If she raised you herself maybe she doesn't want you to rely on help and wants you to be able to fend for yourself. If so, she sounds like a great mum!

efb

She knows women are self sufficient and men are, essentially helpless

jamesbondings

efb wrote: »

She knows women are self sufficient and men are, essentially helpless

We are not helpless. Clever is what we are. Why would we do anything if you are going to.......

Ps op have you ever spoke to you mam about it......

aujopimur

She sounds like a perfect Irish mammy.

mconigol

OP, men can't win with their mothers.

Ask/expect for all this stuff to be done and you get the usual ear bashing about looking after yourself, tell her to stop and likewise you get an ear bashing about being ungrateful!

Can't win!







although at the end of the day you do win

Truley

mconigol wrote: »

OP, men can't win with their mothers.

Ask/expect for all this stuff to be done and you get the usual ear bashing about looking after yourself, tell her to stop and likewise you get an ear bashing about being ungrateful!

Can't win!

Oh god you just summed up my mammy!

hobochris

Your jealousy is obvious , have you considered growing a penis?

Dolbert

How long have you been bitching about the same problem OP? Move out FFS

franktheplank

hobochris wrote: »

Your jealousy is obvious , have you considered growing a penis?

Or even get a detachable one.

Mrs Garth Brooks

hobochris wrote: »

Your jealousy is obvious , have you considered growing a penis?

Its not jealousy. Its the different treatment I cant stand.

Even as kids. My two older brothers were allowed swimming lessons in school. Myself and my sister weren't. Along came my younger brother and he was allowed swimming lessons. Was it not ok for girls to learn to swim? My mother never knew how, so myself and sister shouldnt either? My dad knew how to swim, so the boys were allowed? Ah sure, what good are swimming lessons, its useless in a kitchen!

Crann na Beatha

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HondaSami

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Its not jealousy. Its the different treatment I cant stand.

Even as kids. My two older brothers were allowed swimming lessons in school. Myself and my sister weren't. Along came my younger brother and he was allowed swimming lessons. Was it not ok for girls to learn to swim? My mother never knew how, so myself and sister shouldnt either? My dad knew how to swim, so the boys were allowed? Ah sure, what good are swimming lessons, its useless in a kitchen!

Thought there was no Dad?

What's the kitchen got to do with it again?

c_man

I send my washing up home, and I bloody love it.

Ihatecuddles-old

I don't really know what you Think this forum is going to do for you...maybe post in personal issues?

Topper Harley

OP, you're mother sounds just like my granny, mother and auntie.

It's not uncommon for mothers to spoil their sons and fathers to spoil their daughters.

It's bit unfortunate for you and I understand why you feel the way you do.

How are your relationships with your brothers? I think they (particularly your older brothers) should be spoiling you and your sister somewhat.

Sofaspud

HardLuckWoman wrote: »

Its not jealousy. Its the different treatment I cant stand.

Even as kids. My two older brothers were allowed swimming lessons in school. Myself and my sister weren't. Along came my younger brother and he was allowed swimming lessons. Was it not ok for girls to learn to swim? My mother never knew how, so myself and sister shouldnt either? My dad knew how to swim, so the boys were allowed? Ah sure, what good are swimming lessons, its useless in a kitchen!

Your mother is sexist, so that makes you assume that men are useless and can't do anything for themselves?

Mr Benevolent

Hard luck, woman.

efb

jamesbondings wrote: »

We are not helpless. Clever is what we are. Why would we do anything if you are going to.......

Ps op have you ever spoke to you mam about it......

shut uuup....

snubbleste

A five hour journey to and from college

Lucena

If Ireland was a civilised country the mammy in question would've found someone else i.e. a boyfriend/2nd husband, to share her life with. This being Catholic Ireland however, it just wouldn't look right.

Hence all the attention being given to the sons.

Chucken

Lucena wrote: »

If Ireland was a civilised country the mammy in question would've found someone else i.e. a boyfriend/2nd husband, to share her life with. This being Catholic Ireland however, it just wouldn't look right.

Hence all the attention being given to the sons.

What

Lucena

Chucken wrote: »

What

No, I'm not implying incest.

ciaran12

Sure the different treatment if that's true hardly matters now though does it? Unless you actually WANT your mother to be cooking your food and everything through college etc.

Just accept that your brother may be in for a bit of a shock when he finally does have to look after himself!

I'm nearly done with college now, and I'd say only about two or three times have I brought washing home, and even then I've done it myself at home (sure I did it myself before college anyway). My brother in contrast was always taking his washing home to mammy (starting to get out of the habit now), I just reckon she's already done enough for us, don't want to give her more work.

dark crystal

Your mother is an old-fashioned sexist and your brother is a baby in a grown-up's body.

Be thankful you're neither and move out on your own.