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Would you kiss someone with HIV/hepatitis?

  • 02-09-2012 10:04am
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    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    I recently learned of a friends uncle who has hepatitis, he is in a relationship with a woman hepatitis free and it made me wonder how she could do it. I have a mild case of OCD so there is no way I could do it.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    Do you ask everyone to have a test before you kiss them?

    Chances are people do without knowing, but HIV/Hep B and C are not spread through kissing.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    Do you ask everyone to have a test before you kiss them?

    Chances are people do without knowing, but HIV/Hep B and C are not spread through kissing.

    Obviously it's if you know they have it, plus it's theoretically possible to transmit HIV or hepatitis through kissing if both parties have cuts.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    Obviously it's if you know they have it, plus it's theoretically possible to transmit HIV or hepatitis through kissing if both parties have cuts.
    If you know in advance you would have the opportunity to research the risks and look at preventing cross infection. I'm sure the lady in question is not putting herself at risk. If they were spread that easily through kissing a lot of people would be infected after every weekend.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,489 ✭✭✭Yamanoto


    I wouldn't kiss someone with a mild case of OCD.

    Don't wanna spend the rest of my life avoiding the cracks on paving stones.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭keith16


    *puts on fonzy accent

    Only if it's hepatitis Aaaaa!!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,264 ✭✭✭fran17


    Do you ask everyone to have a test before you kiss them?

    Chances are people do without knowing, but HIV/Hep B and C are not spread through kissing.
    not sure thats the advice the medical community would give...aint HIV present in saliva?


  • Site Banned Posts: 1,678 ✭✭✭Andy!!


    I have a mild case of OCD so

    Whats that got to do with it, I've no OCD and I wouldn't like the idea of it either.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    Andy!! wrote: »
    I have a mild case of OCD so

    Whats that got to do with it, I've no OCD and I wouldn't like the idea of it either.

    Ok


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    fran17 wrote: »
    not sure thats the advice the medical community would give...aint HIV present in saliva?
    Yes, it's present in all body fluids, but the viral load in saliva is too low to allow transmission. You never see AIDS/HEP prevention recommending you not to kiss anyone. You also can't contract these from sharing eating utensils etc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,933 ✭✭✭holystungun9


    Not without a condom.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    Not without a condom.
    You kiss with a condom:confused:?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,264 ✭✭✭fran17


    Yes, it's present in all body fluids, but the viral load in saliva is too low to allow transmission. You never see AIDS/HEP prevention recommending you not to kiss anyone. You also can't contract these from sharing eating utensils etc.
    how about if its a really sloppy kiss:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭LETHAL LADY


    A girl I went to school with contracted HIV in her twenties. She has since gotten married and had a child and now works as a healthcare professional in this country. Would I kiss her, no I am not a lesbian.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,255 ✭✭✭✭The_Minister


    Yes, it's present in all body fluids, but the viral load in saliva is too low to allow transmission. You never see AIDS/HEP prevention recommending you not to kiss anyone. You also can't contract these from sharing eating utensils etc.

    The CDC says you're wrong: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/transmission.htm

    Can HIV be transmitted by kissing?

    It depends on the type of kissing. There is no risk from closed-mouth kissing.

    There are extremely rare cases of HIV being transmitted via deep “French” kissing but in each case, infected blood was exchanged due to bleeding gums or sores in the mouth. Because of this remote risk, it is recommended that individuals who are HIV-infected avoid deep, open-mouth “French” kissing with a non-infected partner, as there is a potential risk of transferring infected blood. Summary:

    There is no risk of transmission closed-mouth kissing.
    There is a remote risk from deep, open-mouth kissing if there are sores or bleeding gums and blood is exchanged. Therefore, persons living with HIV should avoid this behavior with a non-infected partner.


    So there is a very low risk of HIV transmission.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    fran17 wrote: »
    how about if its a really sloppy kiss:D

    In that case I suggest you try to perfect your technique and warn your kissing partner not to ....eh..... swallow :D;)!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,933 ✭✭✭holystungun9


    Not without a condom.
    You kiss with a condom:confused:?

    Yes, yes I do. (Who's the weirdo now???) I got my sex education from Naked Gun. (I think; porn has ruined my attention span and memory)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    The CDC says you're wrong: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/transmission.htm

    Can HIV be transmitted by kissing?

    It depends on the type of kissing. There is no risk from closed-mouth kissing.

    There are extremely rare cases of HIV being transmitted via deep “French” kissing but in each case, infected blood was exchanged due to bleeding gums or sores in the mouth. Because of this remote risk, it is recommended that individuals who are HIV-infected avoid deep, open-mouth “French” kissing with a non-infected partner, as there is a potential risk of transferring infected blood. Summary:

    There is no risk of transmission closed-mouth kissing.
    There is a remote risk from deep, open-mouth kissing if there are sores or bleeding gums and blood is exchanged. Therefore, persons living with HIV should avoid this behavior with a non-infected partner.


    So there is a very low risk of HIV transmission.

    What sort of gob****e goes around sucking the tonsils off someone with a mouth full of bleeding sores though? Those sort of statistics should come with the caveat that they only apply to the very stupid.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    The CDC says you're wrong: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/transmission.htm

    Can HIV be transmitted by kissing?

    It depends on the type of kissing. There is no risk from closed-mouth kissing.

    There are extremely rare cases of HIV being transmitted via deep “French” kissing but in each case, infected blood was exchanged due to bleeding gums or sores in the mouth. Because of this remote risk, it is recommended that individuals who are HIV-infected avoid deep, open-mouth “French” kissing with a non-infected partner, as there is a potential risk of transferring infected blood. Summary:

    There is no risk of transmission closed-mouth kissing.
    There is a remote risk from deep, open-mouth kissing if there are sores or bleeding gums and blood is exchanged. Therefore, persons living with HIV should avoid this behavior with a non-infected partner.


    So there is a very low risk of HIV transmission.

    The low risk is present in the case of open sores or bleeding as I think the OP pointed out. It is not spread from saliva. The advice is given to those already infected, not the general population.

    Obvious problem with this is that some people aren't yet aware that they are infected or may not disclose it. There is never any advice given to non-infected people to avoid kissing those whose infection status is unknown.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,458 ✭✭✭senorwipesalot


    Blue Waffle.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 763 ✭✭✭alfa beta


    "Would you kiss someone with HIV/hepatitis?"



    Course I would - I just wouldn't tell em I had it

    Boom Boom!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 63 ✭✭Dockington


    Not a hope in hell if i knew the person had it. Might be closed minded of me but i couldn't care less that sh1t scares me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,080 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    Depends how hot they are.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,472 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    Yes I would, but not on their privates


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 944 ✭✭✭xDramaxQueenx


    No I wouldn't. Recently found out that an asian girl that was in my class with me since 1st year had hep. That freaks me out, even being near her. I would most definately not kiss someone with it.

    HIV freaks me out to the point I done my thesis on it, researched it in minute detail, so as I wouldn't catch it. You know that squatting a mosquito thats bitten someone with HIV actually can cause you to get it, if you have a cut? I watched a tv programme once where someone picked up a petrol pump, and there was a needle taped to the inside, and they were spiked with it. Its why I pull my sleeve over my hand when Im filling petrol, although I know theres like .00001% of a chance it happening.

    While doing the research for my thesis, I found what was called "gift giving", that made me not sleep for ages thinking about it. Its where gay men hold a gift giving party, there is 1 HIV positive male there, and all the men have unprotected sex with different men, nobody knowing who is actually the positive one. All in the hopes of catching it. Its sick. Its called "pozzing".

    Some men see it as a "gift", they might be dating a hiv positive guy, and feel like they're receiving something special. Its very disturbing and they should all be locked up, never to be let out again.

    I would rather be mugged with a gun, and have my head blown off, than be mugged with a syringe and have to live with that terrible disease for the rest of my life, i would no joke kill myself if i caught it. There would be nothing worse. Nothing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    Yes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 837 ✭✭✭blackwave


    No I wouldn't. Recently found out that an asian girl that was in my class with me since 1st year had hep. That freaks me out, even being near her. I would most definately not kiss someone with it.

    HIV freaks me out to the point I done my thesis on it, researched it in minute detail, so as I wouldn't catch it. You know that squatting a mosquito thats bitten someone with HIV actually can cause you to get it, if you have a cut? I watched a tv programme once where someone picked up a petrol pump, and there was a needle taped to the inside, and they were spiked with it. Its why I pull my sleeve over my hand when Im filling petrol, although I know theres like .00001% of a chance it happening.

    While doing the research for my thesis, I found what was called "gift giving", that made me not sleep for ages thinking about it. Its where gay men hold a gift giving party, there is 1 HIV positive male there, and all the men have unprotected sex with different men, nobody knowing who is actually the positive one. All in the hopes of catching it. Its sick. Its called "pozzing".

    Some men see it as a "gift", they might be dating a hiv positive guy, and feel like they're receiving something special. Its very disturbing and they should all be locked up, never to be let out again.

    I would rather be mugged with a gun, and have my head blown off, than be mugged with a syringe and have to live with that terrible disease for the rest of my life, i would no joke kill myself if i caught it. There would be nothing worse. Nothing.

    Your username is rather apt i think :rolleyes:

    Anyway it wouldn't bother me kissing someone with if I knew them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 944 ✭✭✭xDramaxQueenx


    blackwave wrote: »
    Your username is rather apt i think :rolleyes:
    Yeah sorry, my bad.
    Apologies for not wanting to catch a deadly disease.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    No I wouldn't. Recently found out that an asian girl that was in my class with me since 1st year had hep. That freaks me out, even being near her. I would most definately not kiss someone with it.

    HIV freaks me out to the point I done my thesis on it, researched it in minute detail, so as I wouldn't catch it. You know that squatting a mosquito thats bitten someone with HIV actually can cause you to get it, if you have a cut? I watched a tv programme once where someone picked up a petrol pump, and there was a needle taped to the inside, and they were spiked with it. Its why I pull my sleeve over my hand when Im filling petrol, although I know theres like .00001% of a chance it happening.

    While doing the research for my thesis, I found what was called "gift giving", that made me not sleep for ages thinking about it. Its where gay men hold a gift giving party, there is 1 HIV positive male there, and all the men have unprotected sex with different men, nobody knowing who is actually the positive one. All in the hopes of catching it. Its sick. Its called "pozzing".

    Some men see it as a "gift", they might be dating a hiv positive guy, and feel like they're receiving something special. Its very disturbing and they should all be locked up, never to be let out again.

    I would rather be mugged with a gun, and have my head blown off, than be mugged with a syringe and have to live with that terrible disease for the rest of my life, i would no joke kill myself if i caught it. There would be nothing worse. Nothing.

    Did you actually say in your thesis that you can contract HIV from a mosquito ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 944 ✭✭✭xDramaxQueenx


    mattjack wrote: »
    Did you actually say in your thesis that you can contract HIV from a mosquito ?
    No! I stuck to the facts, not the warnings.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    You still drive even though you fear dying?

    Much higher mortality rate in Irl atm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 221 ✭✭MrTsSnickers


    No I wouldn't. Recently found out that an asian girl that was in my class with me since 1st year had hep. That freaks me out, even being near her. I would most definately not kiss someone with it.

    HIV freaks me out to the point I done my thesis on it, researched it in minute detail, so as I wouldn't catch it. You know that squatting a mosquito thats bitten someone with HIV actually can cause you to get it, if you have a cut? I watched a tv programme once where someone picked up a petrol pump, and there was a needle taped to the inside, and they were spiked with it. Its why I pull my sleeve over my hand when Im filling petrol, although I know theres like .00001% of a chance it happening.

    While doing the research for my thesis, I found what was called "gift giving", that made me not sleep for ages thinking about it. Its where gay men hold a gift giving party, there is 1 HIV positive male there, and all the men have unprotected sex with different men, nobody knowing who is actually the positive one. All in the hopes of catching it. Its sick. Its called "pozzing".

    Some men see it as a "gift", they might be dating a hiv positive guy, and feel like they're receiving something special. Its very disturbing and they should all be locked up, never to be let out again.

    I would rather be mugged with a gun, and have my head blown off, than be mugged with a syringe and have to live with that terrible disease for the rest of my life, i would no joke kill myself if i caught it. There would be nothing worse. Nothing.

    Good grief, this is like a daily mail "article".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 944 ✭✭✭xDramaxQueenx


    I don't fear dying at all. I couldn't care less about dying. What I fear is having a virus run rife through your body, for years and years, something that you have no control over, while it slowly kills you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    Yeah sorry, my bad.
    Apologies for not wanting to catch a deadly disease.
    It is now believed that 70% of those infected with HIV will have a normal life expectancy and will die of a condition unrelated to their HIV status as long as they receive the correct medical treatment.

    The worst thing about having HIV would be the social stigma associated with the condition, This is mainly due to a lack of understanding about the condition. It is no longer a death sentence and there are far more serious and deadly diseases out there.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    No I wouldn't. Recently found out that an asian girl that was in my class with me since 1st year had hep. That freaks me out, even being near her. I would most definately not kiss someone with it.

    HIV freaks me out to the point I done my thesis on it, researched it in minute detail, so as I wouldn't catch it. You know that squatting a mosquito thats bitten someone with HIV actually can cause you to get it, if you have a cut? I watched a tv programme once where someone picked up a petrol pump, and there was a needle taped to the inside, and they were spiked with it. Its why I pull my sleeve over my hand when Im filling petrol, although I know theres like .00001% of a chance it happening.

    While doing the research for my thesis, I found what was called "gift giving", that made me not sleep for ages thinking about it. Its where gay men hold a gift giving party, there is 1 HIV positive male there, and all the men have unprotected sex with different men, nobody knowing who is actually the positive one. All in the hopes of catching it. Its sick. Its called "pozzing".

    Some men see it as a "gift", they might be dating a hiv positive guy, and feel like they're receiving something special. Its very disturbing and they should all be locked up, never to be let out again.

    I would rather be mugged with a gun, and have my head blown off, than be mugged with a syringe and have to live with that terrible disease for the rest of my life, i would no joke kill myself if i caught it. There would be nothing worse. Nothing.

    Get a grip. People live long and healthy lives with both HIV and Hepatitis. Talk about hysterics.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    I don't fear dying at all. I couldn't care less about dying. What I fear is having a virus run rife through your body, for years and years, something that you have no control over, while it slowly kills you.

    you could be mangled for life in a car accident


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 944 ✭✭✭xDramaxQueenx


    efb wrote: »
    you could be mangled for life in a car accident

    At least its not AIDS.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,565 ✭✭✭losthorizon


    I'm a man so I wouldnt kiss him anyway but considering his name I would defo give him a miss

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seymour_Cocks


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    At least its not AIDS.

    So its a social issue you have, not a medical one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,389 ✭✭✭mattjack


    I don't fear dying at all. I couldn't care less about dying. What I fear is having a virus run rife through your body, for years and years, something that you have no control over, while it slowly kills you.

    There is treatment now with ARV's and HAART that can prolong life.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 944 ✭✭✭xDramaxQueenx


    Its all the issues. I don't want it. Social, medical, whatever else. Being dramatic? Its mostly careless people who end up getting it. Won't be me. And like I said, god forbid if I did have it, I wouldn't be around long enough to care about medicines to prolong my life. You have it and nothing will ever get rid of it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,080 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    Something very familiar going on here.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    No I wouldn't. Recently found out that an asian girl that was in my class with me since 1st year had hep. That freaks me out, even being near her. I would most definately not kiss someone with it.

    HIV freaks me out to the point I done my thesis on it, researched it in minute detail, so as I wouldn't catch it. You know that squatting a mosquito thats bitten someone with HIV actually can cause you to get it, if you have a cut? I watched a tv programme once where someone picked up a petrol pump, and there was a needle taped to the inside, and they were spiked with it. Its why I pull my sleeve over my hand when Im filling petrol, although I know theres like .00001% of a chance it happening.

    While doing the research for my thesis, I found what was called "gift giving", that made me not sleep for ages thinking about it. Its where gay men hold a gift giving party, there is 1 HIV positive male there, and all the men have unprotected sex with different men, nobody knowing who is actually the positive one. All in the hopes of catching it. Its sick. Its called "pozzing".

    Some men see it as a "gift", they might be dating a hiv positive guy, and feel like they're receiving something special. Its very disturbing and they should all be locked up, never to be let out again.

    I would rather be mugged with a gun, and have my head blown off, than be mugged with a syringe and have to live with that terrible disease for the rest of my life, i would no joke kill myself if i caught it. There would be nothing worse. Nothing.

    What was your reference material? "The Irish Catholic" and pamphlets from The Iona institute???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,033 ✭✭✭✭Richard Hillman


    Would i kiss Pamela Anderson? Yes


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 947 ✭✭✭zef


    I have a horrible fear of being buried alive, but I wouldn't do my thesis on it...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 63 ✭✭Dockington


    efb wrote: »
    What was your reference material? "The Irish Catholic" and pamphlets from The Iona institute???

    Whats your problem with someone wanting to avoid getting a disease...I admit dramaqueen seems to have a bit of an odd obsession with the disease but still its logical to take precautions to avoid it...avoiding unprotected sex etc.

    You seem to be taking offence to this person not wanting to contract it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,128 ✭✭✭✭Oranage2


    No. I've my reasons, not wanting hiv being the biggest one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    And Deborah Jack, chief executive of the National AIDS Trust said: "There is very little evidence of people trying to get infected with HIV.- BBC Article

    The video was ref the article.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    Dockington wrote: »
    Whats your problem with someone wanting to avoid getting a disease...I admit dramaqueen seems to have a bit of an odd obsession with the disease but still its logical to take precautions to avoid it...avoiding unprotected sex etc.

    You seem to be taking offence to this person not wanting to contract it.

    I was seeing how rational it was- which essentially seemed to reveal the poster's obsession with one specific disease, not a disease.

    Rational is important for me.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,916 ✭✭✭shopaholic01


    I watched a tv programme once where someone picked up a petrol pump, and there was a needle taped to the inside, and they were spiked with it. Its why I pull my sleeve over my hand when Im filling petrol, although I know theres like .00001% of a chance it happening
    Do you wear a coat of armour? I'm pretty sure a needle would pass through your sleeve and pierce your skin anyway in this unlikey scenario. You're much more likely to be killed in a road traffic accident, so you should consider not driving, or being a passenger in another vehicle, or even being a pedestrian.


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