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Age .....

  • 28-08-2012 11:39pm
    #1
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    New to this whole boards.ie, so not so sure if im in the right place or not, but I'll wing it.

    Has age always been a huge thing with women? .. the reason I ask is..

    I was out a few weeks ago and simply got chatting to this girl.. had a bit of a laugh and some banter.. so it came to the point in the night were I was going in for the kill......... and suddenly out of nowhere .... she asks .. "how old are you?"

    I instantly could hear the concern in her voice and decided it was work the risk ( really fancied her ).. and .. ok I lied a little , Responded with "im 31" ( Im 26 .. I look abt 31, if not older )

    So anyway, kissed , exchanged number and played along texting eachother
    for a few days, until i was overcome with guilt .. a little guilt and came clean.

    I have since met her out on a night out... where she porceeded to tell me she wants "a man not a boy!!!" to which im sort of disgusted a little, ive achieved alot at 26, and personally think im very sensible and grounded.

    But anyway.. still ended up kissing her and well ..

    Have text and invited her out to do some activities at the weekend and drinks, to which i recieved little or no reply ...

    Sort of stumped here.... if she is looking for a "man not a boy", by way of being non responsive to texts surely shows a level of imaturity on her part ..??

    Anyway bottom line is, i actually do really like the girl ... but her issue over age seems to be a big factor.

    I sort of understand from an outside perspective that ... ok .. shes 30 and wants to find someone to start a life with ... i could be wrong ... and just a boy

    I'd appreciated the guidence !

    Thanks a lot

    R


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  • #2
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Hey there,

    As per the Ladies Lounge forum charter HERE:
    The Ladies Lounge is not a place for men to come and start threads requesting opinions on X, Y and Z from women. Women aren't of a single mind or opinion.

    If you are looking for advice regarding a relationship issue then the Relationship Issues forum is best place to ask for it...you can find the charter for that forum stickied at the top of the front page.

    All the best. :cool:


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