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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39 Undiscovered


    oldrnwisr wrote: »
    Well then you should have used the word hostile and no you are not using militant in its correct sense.

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    When you have suicide bombings and abortion doctors being murdered and people picketing funerals with signs saying God Hates Fags, all in the name of some religion, then no, it makes no sense to call anything said on this forum militant. The word conjures up images of actual violence and intolerance which is a form of poisoning the well. It's a bad argument and not conducive to a useful debate. When someone points out that beliefs that you hold which are unsupported by evidence or demonstrably false are ridiculous from their perspective, they are not being militant, merely honest. Perhaps, next time you might pause to think that at least some of these people have studied your beliefs and have good reason to consider them ridiculous. And maybe while you're at it, such a comment might cause you to reflect on your own beliefs and why you hold them, which would avoid knee-jerk reactions like militant and intolerant in the future.

    Sorry I didn't realise the word police were on full patrol in this forum ;) I don't think we have the same understanding of the word militant. If you'll look it up in a dictionary you'll probably find the meaning I was referring to.
    Now that I've found it's such a loaded word I won't be using it again.

    Also if you'd even bothered to read my original post you'd realise that I did not call anyone a militant atheist and I am not a theist myself so these are not my beliefs.


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 19,219 Mod ✭✭✭✭Bannasidhe


    You think the OP is intolerant because when someone says something he finds stupid, he thinks it's stupid? He even makes the point that he would never actually say this to the people saying stupid things. Does this really strike you as being intolerant?

    I think horse racing is retarded, that doesn't mean I'm intolerant of horse racing and it doesn't mean that I think jockeys are mentally retarded.

    I too think this was ironic. I confess - when I hear very religious people talking about their beliefs a part of me does think 'how on Earth can you believe that utter, utter nonsense?'
    I am well aware that many of those same people are thinking that I am on the slippery slope to eternal torment and damnation - not because I am an evil person deserving of punishment, but because I don't share their beliefs. Petty intolerant view IMHO.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,239 ✭✭✭Sonics2k


    Sorry I didn't realise the word police were on full patrol in this forum ;) I don't think we have the same understanding of the word militant. If you'll look it up in a dictionary you'll probably find the meaning I was referring to.
    Now that I've found it's such a loaded word I won't be using it again.

    http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/militant

    Nope.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39 Undiscovered


    Anyway lately I've been noticing (more than usual) religious people in different areas of my life (work, social settings, family, media, etc) - people I would (or should) usually respect, speaking about their religious beliefs and the only thing running through my head while they are talking is - "what an absolute f**king retard, what is gone wrong with this persons brain"

    You don't consider these type of thought patterns hostile?


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,558 Mod ✭✭✭✭Dades


    That's fair enough, I lost nearly all my family early in life so it's just something I like to believe in but I keep my beliefs to myself mostly and wouldn't push them on anyone else.
    I respect the honesty behind your reasons to believe and you know what, it sounds like you a good a reason to want to believe as anyone.

    I would have left it there, tbh, but i guess others like to tread where I wouldn't.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 7,771 ✭✭✭Mark Hamill


    What difference does it make to you what I believe in?

    Do you vote?


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,578 ✭✭✭✭Turtwig


    oldrnwisr wrote: »
    Well then you should have used the word hostile and no you are not using militant in its correct sense.

    When you have suicide bombings and abortion doctors being murdered and people picketing funerals with signs saying God Hates Fags, all in the name of some religion, then no, it makes no sense to call anything said on this forum militant. The word conjures up images of actual violence and intolerance which is a form of poisoning the well. It's a bad argument and not conducive to a useful debate. When someone points out that beliefs that you hold which are unsupported by evidence or demonstrably false are ridiculous from their perspective, they are not being militant, merely honest. Perhaps, next time you might pause to think that at least some of these people have studied your beliefs and have good reason to consider them ridiculous. And maybe while you're at it, such a comment might cause you to reflect on your own beliefs and why you hold them, which would avoid knee-jerk reactions like militant and intolerant in the future.

    I'm not normally one to disagree with you but (it was obvious there was going to be a 'but' :)) here I do. Undiscovered used the word in a proper context. (Although s/he did like many other misunderstand the OP.) Not one everyone here is overly familiar with, but still he used the appropriate word. It's a bit like using the word 'ignorant' in Ireland. For some bizarre reason the word has so many negative connotations associated with it that telling someone they're ignorant of something is seen as an insult. Depending on the audience, I use ignorant in the proper sense of the word. Just like I would militant. Connotations associated with words unless they're wholly negative and derogatory like '******' should never be assumed instead the context of the post, which I understood immediately (bragging rights, hehe :p) , should be sought. :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,239 ✭✭✭Sonics2k


    Jernal wrote: »
    I'm not normally one to disagree with you but (it was obvious there was going to be a 'but' :)) here I do. Undiscovered used the word in a proper context. Not one everyone here is overly familiar with, but still he used the appropriate word. It's a bit like using the word 'ignorant' in Ireland. For some bizarre reason the word has so many negative connotations associated with it that telling someone they're ignorant of something is seen as an insult. Depending on the audience, I use ignorant in the proper sense of the word. Just like I would militant. Connotations associated with words unless they're wholly negative and derogatory like '******' should never be assumed instead the context of the post, which I understood immediately (bragging rights, hehe :p) , should be sought. :)

    Nothing in the OP's post is militant by any definition though. Quite literally nothing.

    He just thinks some peoples absolute faith in X religion is nonsensical and stupid. That's not militant.

    Militant would be standing outside the Church with picket signs, and shouting in peoples faces.


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,578 ✭✭✭✭Turtwig


    Sonics2k wrote: »
    Nothing in the OP's post is militant by any definition though. Quite literally nothing.

    He just thinks some peoples absolute faith in X religion is nonsensical and stupid. That's not militant.

    Militant would be standing outside the Church with picket signs, and shouting in peoples faces.

    Ahh God curses you. I'd just edited my post :p

    Lots of posters have interpreted the OP as being the kind to actively want shout in people's faces and be intolerant of them. The vibe I got from Undiscovered was that he thought the OP was vocal about their atheism and condescending towards the opposing view. So even though he misunderstood the OP, he still used the appropriate word. :p


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,239 ✭✭✭Sonics2k


    Jernal wrote: »
    Ahh God curses you. I'd just edited my post :p

    Lots of posters have interpreted the OP as being the kind to actively want shout in people's faces and be intolerant of them. The vibe I got from Undiscovered was that he thought the OP was vocal about their atheism and a condescending towards the opposing view. So even though he misunderstood the OP, he still used the appropriate word. :p

    The only way the word Militant could accurately be used to describe the OP's comments is if it actually was.

    But when you consider he says this line

    (I would never say that in public to or about a specific person, out of respect and probable personal consequences of insulting people - e.g. losing my job, fighting with family , etc)

    That basically shows the OP keeps this to himself, seems quite apologetic for it and so the word Militant is completely and utterly useless when describing the OP's post.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 26,578 ✭✭✭✭Turtwig


    But the point is lots of folks thought the OP was being militant.

    And more so though being the pedant my disagreement was with Oldrnwisr. The word militant may conjure images of violence but violence isn't the sole meaning that should be associated with that word. Dawkins is a militant atheist. I see no reason why I shouldn't describe him as other to you guys If my audience was a little bit more ignorant, then yes I wouldn't use the term militant but here I'd expect you guys to understand what I mean if I describe Dawkins as ignorant (I don't think he is) or a militant. Neither are meant as an insult at him.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,594 ✭✭✭oldrnwisr


    Jernal wrote: »
    I'm not normally one to disagree with you but (it was obvious there was going to be a 'but' :)) here I do. Undiscovered used the word in a proper context. (Although s/he did like many other misunderstand the OP.) Not one everyone here is overly familiar with, but still he used the appropriate word. It's a bit like using the word 'ignorant' in Ireland. For some bizarre reason the word has so many negative connotations associated with it that telling someone they're ignorant of something is seen as an insult. Depending on the audience, I use ignorant in the proper sense of the word. Just like I would militant. Connotations associated with words unless they're wholly negative and derogatory like '******' should never be assumed instead the context of the post, which I understood immediately (bragging rights, hehe :p) , should be sought. :)

    I think Sonics has already explained the point concisely.

    As you have said the only way in which Undiscovered's use of the word militant can be considered correct is by completely misinterpreting the intent of the OP. Since the OP is at pains to point out that this attitude is part of his thought process and not something he either acts on or intends to act on, I can't really see how anyone could interpret it in this way. So like I said, describing the OP's stance as militant is stretching the definition beyond breaking point.

    Anyway, minor semantic differences aside, I take your point about not everyone being familiar with the context in which words get used.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,239 ✭✭✭Sonics2k


    Jernal wrote: »
    But the point is lots of folks thought the OP was being militant.

    And more so though being the pedant my disagreement was with Oldrnwisr. The word militant may conjure images of violence but violence isn't the sole meaning that should be associated with that word. Dawkins is a militant atheist. I see no reason why I shouldn't describe him as other to you guys If my audience was a little bit more ignorant, then yes I wouldn't use the term militant but here I'd expect you guys to understand what I mean if I describe Dawkins as ignorant (I don't think he is) or a militant. Neither are meant as an insult at him.

    If they thought that, then they simply didn't read it. There is nothing militant in the OP.

    There's a bit of pity and sympathy, but nothing militant. He even goes so far as to say 'I would never say this to them'. That is the -opposite- of militant.

    So unless you perhaps skip over an entire section of a paragraph (which would defeat the purpose of reading in the first place), then you won't find anything militant, aggressive or hostile.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39 Undiscovered


    Just to clear things up, this is the meaning of militant that I was getting at:
    Militant can refer to individuals or groups displaying aggressive behavior or attitudes.


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,578 ✭✭✭✭Turtwig


    oldrnwisr wrote: »
    I think Sonics has already explained the point concisely.

    As you have said the only way in which Undiscovered's use of the word militant can be considered correct is by completely misinterpreting the intent of the OP. Since the OP is at pains to point out that this attitude is part of his thought process and not something he either acts on or intends to act on, I can't really see how anyone could interpret it in this way. So like I said, describing the OP's stance as militant is stretching the definition beyond breaking point.

    Anyway, minor semantic differences aside, I take your point about not everyone being familiar with the context in which words get used.

    I think you're still missing the point. The OPs post, was bound to be misunderstood, these posts always are. I still don't have my old laptop (a boardsie here will hopefully fix that :)) but it's a phenomenon called conservation blindness and I only just realised that the word 'militant', your post, is also an example of it. Yes, he completely misunderstood the OP. Loads of other posters did, but you in return misunderstood his post. You saw the word the 'militant' and immediately objected to its use without really understanding the context of it. Other posters here saw the OP, read his thoughts, got a negative image in their head and then completely misunderstood his post. Not to the extent that you did. But the process with 'militant' is somewhat similar. We see it here on this forum time and time again where a poster posts something only for it be completely and bizarrely misunderstood. The only way to be come less prone to falling into that trap ourselves is to keep to the correct details. In this case, avoiding the use of the word militant is a bad idea. I hope that makes sense. If it doesn't feel free to tear this post apart. :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,239 ✭✭✭Sonics2k


    Just to clear things up, this is the meaning of militant that I was getting at:

    Now please. Show me exactly how the OP is displaying an aggressive attitude?

    And try to do so without cutting out large sections of the OP.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    Jaysus, militant is repeated on this page 57 times (now 58).

    I think it's time we moved on.

    edit: Make that 59.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,747 ✭✭✭fisgon


    So if we were chatting in person would you tell me that what I believe in makes no sense or believing in it doesn't make it true, there's a fine line between debating a difference in opinion/belief and saying something that people might take personally.

    First of all, we're not chatting in person. This is an internet forum. It's a very different setting.

    Secondly, if you choose to take something personally, that is your choice. I was simply commenting on your expression of belief, not on you as a person, which I couldn't do as I have never met you. Taking things said on internet forums personally is not a healthy response, in my experience.

    Thirdly, you do realise that you are on an Atheism and Agnosticism forum, right? Do you really expect people to tiptoe around your expression of a religious belief and not question it, in case your feelings might be hurt? Are you kidding me?


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,578 ✭✭✭✭Turtwig


    Jaysus, militant is repeated on this page 57 times (now 58).

    I think it's time we moved on.

    edit: Make that 59.

    Yeah but almost half of those are inside quotation bubbles. :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39 Undiscovered


    Anyway lately I've been noticing (more than usual) religious people in different areas of my life (work, social settings, family, media, etc) - people I would (or should) usually respect, speaking about their religious beliefs and the only thing running through my head while they are talking is - "what an absolute f**king retard, what is gone wrong with this persons brain", (I would never say that in public to or about a specific person, out of respect and probable personal consequences of insulting people - e.g. losing my job, fighting with family , etc)

    I interpreted this part as aggressive. Although I'm prepared to accept I was probably mistaken and took his post the wrong way.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,239 ✭✭✭Sonics2k


    I interpreted this part as aggressive. Although I'm prepared to accept I was probably mistaken and took his post the wrong way.

    You should prepare to accept that you were wrong, because you ignored the part in brackets entirely


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,594 ✭✭✭oldrnwisr


    Jernal wrote: »
    I think you're still missing the point. The OPs post, was bound to be misunderstood, these posts always are. I still don't have my old laptop (a boardsie here will hopefully fix that :)) but it's a phenomenon called conservation blindness and I only just realised that the word 'militant', your post, is also an example of it. Yes, he completely misunderstood the OP. Loads of other posters did, but you in return misunderstood his post. You saw the word the 'militant' and immediately objected to its use without really understanding the context of it. Other posters here saw the OP, read his thoughts, got a negative image in their head and then completely misunderstood his post. Not to the extent that you did. But the process with 'militant' is somewhat similar. We see it here on this forum time and time again where a poster posts something only for it be completely and bizarrely misunderstood. The only way to be come less prone to falling into that trap ourselves is to keep to the correct details. In this case, avoiding the use of the word militant is a bad idea. I hope that makes sense. If it doesn't feel free to tear this post apart. :)

    Sorry, but the long and the short of it for me comes back to a misinterpretation of the OP. Undiscovered, among other posters, misinterpreted the OP. He thought, given what he had read that militant was an appropriate term. However, when you actually read the OP, aside from one instance of some rather brusk language which may have coloured the interpretations which followed, there is nothing in the OP's attitude to suggest that he either acts aggressively or more importantly bears an attittude towards believers which is born out of aggression or malice. As he concludes he actually feels some measure of sympathy towards these people. I don't think that could be considered aggressive or militant.

    Secondly, I disagree about the 'avoiding the use of the word militant' idea. Not that it's a matter of right and wrong but from a personal preference perspective, I would much rather avoid words which may be open to misinterpretation such as militant and use something (for example in describing Richard Dawkins) like strident instead. Intent can be difficult to convey in a medium such as this and I feel that using words which are more rigid in their definitions can minimise this.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8 webeida


    Dear OP,

    I understand completely where you are coming from. I'm saying this as a person who used to be a "fundamentalist christian" (FC). The only benefit I got from being a FC is that I got to read and understand the bible.

    Now what am I? I'm a cynic.

    I sit on the fence:
    I try to understand the religious zealots and why they believe what they believe and how they manage to fill in the blanks or why they jump into a fierce rage or make throw away comments when their faith is challenged.

    Conversely, I try to understand the athiests and why its so easy for them to accept that there is no god of any sort, why its better to accept unfounded scientific thought about where life came from or why they too can jump into a fierce rage or make throw away comments when scientific thought is challenged.

    Until the holy grail of "where life originated from" is found, we are all susceptible to ridicule, athiests and theists alike. One is no more right than the other. If there is one thing you should accept, it's that. But you can go right ahead and accept nothing else.

    As Albert Einstein once said, "There are only two things which are infinite: The universe and human stupidity. And I'm not sure about the former."


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,540 ✭✭✭Giselle


    webeida wrote: »
    Conversely, I try to understand the athiests and why its so easy for them to accept that there is no god of any sort, why its better to accept unfounded scientific thought about where life came from or why they too can jump into a fierce rage or make throw away comments when scientific thought is challenged.

    "..unfounded scientific thought.."

    Thats where you lost me.


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,578 ✭✭✭✭Turtwig


    oldrnwisr wrote: »
    Sorry, but the long and the short of it for me comes back to a misinterpretation of the OP. Undiscovered, among other posters, misinterpreted the OP. He thought, given what he had read that militant was an appropriate term. However, when you actually read the OP, aside from one instance of some rather brusk language which may have coloured the interpretations which followed, there is nothing in the OP's attitude to suggest that he either acts aggressively or more importantly bears an attittude towards believers which is born out of aggression or malice. As he concludes he actually feels some measure of sympathy towards these people. I don't think that could be considered aggressive or militant.

    Secondly, I disagree about the 'avoiding the use of the word militant' idea. Not that it's a matter of right and wrong but from a personal preference perspective, I would much rather avoid words which may be open to misinterpretation such as militant and use something (for example in describing Richard Dawkins) like strident instead. Intent can be difficult to convey in a medium such as this and I feel that using words which are more rigid in their definitions can minimise this.

    Hmm, ok, still not getting my intending meaning. :)

    If possible can we forget the OP.

    You're associating the word militant with malice. If my audience, was Ryan's Turbridy's Late Late Show, then I wouldn't use the word. However, to you I would. Likewise, I wouldn't immediately identify myself as an atheist. But here I use the word atheist all the time. Then depending on to whom I addressing I might use the word militant or ignorant. However, to you I'll always use those words and hopefully I can get you to understand why.

    Why is that there is often a thread posted here that is completely and bizarrely misunderstood? Sometimes dishonesty plays a role here but most of time the people who read and misunderstand the post aren't dumb or dishonest they just genuinely misunderstand the post. Perhaps, the posts could be expressed better but ask yourself what is the best way for the OP of this thread to write his post so that it's least likely to be misunderstood? In my opinion there is no best way. He'll always be misunderstood. It's not what he says, not how he says, it's simply what people think he's saying. They see religion, they see him querying it and automatically, as they have been culturally indoctrinated to do, go on the defensive and assume the worst of what the poster means. This is a bias we all have. The only reason we don't experience this for the OP is because for some reason or another we're not attached to religion. It doesn't make us sentimental.

    Militancy may imply violence, suicide bombers and the like but the point is if you let connotations of words associate the meaning then you'll also fill in the meaning for yourself and very often this will conflict with meaning intended. The associated connotation always wins out. In other words, all other things being equal if you disagree with the use of the militant then you are more likely to misunderstand someone's post if they draw upon that word than someone who doesn't have reservations about that word.

    I hope that makes sense.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,747 ✭✭✭fisgon


    webeida wrote: »
    I try to understand the religious zealots and why they believe what they believe and how they manage to fill in the blanks or why they jump into a fierce rage or make throw away comments when their faith is challenged.

    Conversely, I try to understand the athiests and why its so easy for them to accept that there is no god of any sort, why its better to accept unfounded scientific thought about where life came from or why they too can jump into a fierce rage or make throw away comments when scientific thought is challenged.

    You are equating fundamentalist religion with an acceptance of science. They are not equivalent. One is based on holy books, the other is based on demonstrable physical evidence.


  • Registered Users Posts: 26,578 ✭✭✭✭Turtwig


    Giselle wrote: »
    "..unfounded scientific thought.."

    Thats where you lost me.

    Scientific ideas in the past have been completely bogus and unfounded. There's no reason to suggest that todays is any better. So not sure how exactly you lost him/her.

    I do think Webeidia could do with reading up on Origin of Life research though. There's a pretty comprehensive picture there. :)


  • Registered Users Posts: 8 webeida


    fisgon wrote: »
    You are equating fundamentalist religion with an acceptance of science. They are not equivalent. One is based on holy books, the other is based on demonstrable physical evidence.

    I think I'm misunderstood. No, I'm not comparing religion to science. I'm comparing the religious to the non-religious. Where many of the former accept ridiculous religious ideas, many of the latter accept ridiculous scientific ideas.

    I have no problem with demonstrable physical evidence within science, nor have I a problem with historical accuracy that may be contained within holy books.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8 webeida


    Jernal wrote: »
    I do think Webeidia could do with reading up on Origin of Life research though. There's a pretty comprehensive picture there. :)
    Thanks. I'll do some research :)


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,594 ✭✭✭oldrnwisr


    Jernal wrote: »
    Hmm, ok, still not getting my intending meaning. :)

    If possible can we forget the OP.

    You're associating the word militant with malice. If my audience, was Ryan's Turbridy's Late Late Show, then I wouldn't use the word. However, to you I would. Likewise, I wouldn't immediately identify myself as an atheist. But here I use the word atheist all the time. Then depending on to whom I addressing I might use the word militant or ignorant. However, to you I'll always use those words and hopefully I can get you to understand why.

    Why is that there is often a thread posted here that is completely and bizarrely misunderstood? Sometimes dishonesty plays a role here but most of time the people who read and misunderstand the post aren't dumb or dishonest they just genuinely misunderstand the post. Perhaps, the posts could be expressed better but ask yourself what is the best way for the OP of this thread to write his post so that it's least likely to be misunderstood? In my opinion there is no best way. He'll always be misunderstood. It's not what he says, not how he says, it's simply what people think he's saying. They see religion, they see him querying it and automatically, as they have been culturally indoctrinated to do, go on the defensive and assume the worst of what the poster means. This is a bias we all have. The only reason we don't experience this for the OP is because for some reason or another we're not attached to religion. It doesn't make us sentimental.

    Militancy may imply violence, suicide bombers and the like but the point is if you let connotations of words associate the meaning then you'll also fill in the meaning for yourself and very often this will conflict with meaning intended. The associated connotation always wins out. In other words, all other things being equal if you disagree with the use of the militant then you are more likely to misunderstand someone's post if they draw upon that word than someone who doesn't have reservations about that word.

    I hope that makes sense.

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    OK, I see where you're coming from now. You're right, I guess that we all have certain biases that makes us read a certain attitude into words that may not have been intended by the author. I think it's something that we develop to short-circuit the process by which we attempt to distill the author's overall comment into soundbyte size. It's something I will have to be more conscious of in the future. I think that maybe a more holistic approach to reading the posts might be needed rather than seizing on a particular word and projecting a meaning on to it that isn't necessarily supported.

    I remember one St. Patrick's Day I found myself in the US and I was getting this green milkshake at some fast food restaurant whose name I can't remember. Anyway, in my head I thought surely green milkshake = lime. Boy did I get the shock of my life when it turned out to be mint. All because of a preconceived notion.


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