How to get out of friend zone?

SureYWouldntYa

mattjack wrote: »

If it doesn't work out PM me .

Send me a pic first

Mugatuu wrote: »

Have you asked any of your friends if she has said anything to them about you? If you decide to tell her how you feel you're better off telling her in person that you have feelings for her don't text her!

Yes and she always changes the subject

Eve_Dublin wrote: »

Don't text...whatever you do, don't do it by text. Then you're not only stuck in friendszone but also wimpzone.

If she says no i can say someone took my phone
If she says yes.........

hairyprincess

Send that text, and report back your findings here. Immediately

bleg

Take her out to dinner and ask is this a date, Lyons tea ad style!

hairyprincess

Tesco Massacre wrote: »

Drunk people are a hoot!

I'm not so sure the families in Al-Anon would agree!

Tesco Massacre

hairyprincess wrote: »

Send that text, and report back your findings here. Immediately

Agreed.

I want to know what happens now. I don't want to have to wait until you speak with her face-to-face.

Mugatuu

Mugatuu wrote: »

Have you asked any of your friends if she has said anything to them about you? If you decide to tell her how you feel you're better off telling her in person that you have feelings for her don't text her!

Yes and she always changes the subject



Well if that's the case honestly now OP I wouldn't tell her! Id say she's already aware you have feelings for her and that she just wants to be friends. No point ruining your friendship

mattjack

mattjack wrote: »

If it doesn't work out PM me .

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

Send me a pic first




Here's hoping your a Swedish Lesbian.

SureYWouldntYa

Text sent. **** it. She's slow replying so it could be a while

TheBody

You should lash up a few pics of this bird so the good prople of After Hours can ridicule decide if she is hot enough for you.

The King of Moo

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

Text sent. **** it. She's slow replying so it could be a while

*grabs popcorn*

AboutTwoFiddy

Body to body... Funk to funky....

mattjack

While we're all waiting ,I'd just like to make a few comments.
From September to now I 've had to do a number of college assignments and I managed to to them all while being on boards and do quite well .
So I'd like to take this opportunity to thank you all for keeping me entertained and amused during the long days and nights.
So far, a C ,an A and an A plus.

Also on the Saturday show doesn't Mary Byrne look like Jabba the Hut.

Mugatuu

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

Text sent. **** it. She's slow replying so it could be a while

Can't decide if I want to kick you or commend you on having the balls for sending the text . . :L

hairyprincess

The King of Moo wrote: »

*grabs popcorn*

I've got me jellybabies :P. OP she better hurry up, I'm DYING with man flu and I need to go to bed soon

TheBody

And so the waiting begins. This kinda reminds me of the legendary thread of the kid that thought his grinds teacher fancied him.

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055760092

Herrick

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

Text sent. **** it. She's slow replying so it could be a while

Good luck

SureYWouldntYa

Mugatuu wrote: »

Can't decide if I want to kick you or commend you on having the balls for sending the text . . :L

Not really too ballsy when i have an escape route (my friend done it)
Still no reply

Tesco Massacre

Come on, OP!

Tell her people on the internet are waiting for her response.

Logical Fallacy

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

The dilemma is simple: Girl iv known for 4/5 years, always kinda fancied her, got to know her during last year and find myself madly in love with her. She's probably out of my league to be honest. There is no doubt i am in the friend zone, she even said it while we talking one time. Iv decided i want to let my feelings be known but how do i do it when im so far in the friend zone?

Hate to break it to you, but if you haven't said **** for 5 years then you probably don't feel as strongly about her as you think.

Ask yourself this...how many times have you gotten laid over those 5 years? If it's zero or single digits then your just really want to **** her.

bleg

SureYWouldntYa wrote: »

Not really too ballsy when i have an escape route (my friend done it)

Don't pussy out and say your friend did it, she won't believe you.

TheBody

I recommend burning her house down if she turns you down.

TheBegotten

In my limited experience, it doesn't exist. Just be casually suggestive/ lightly flirty for a while beforehand so it doesn't come out of the blue. Even better, ask her out to someplace as friends, with mutual friends, and slightly imply that you're into her. Or, if in a club, dance, etc :P Just give her the inkling before.

EDIT:

And so the waiting begins. This kinda reminds me of the legendary thread of the kid that thought his grinds teacher fancied him.

loved that xD

Mugatuu

Tesco Massacre wrote: »

Come on, OP!

Tell her people on the internet are waiting for her response.

Yeah and creep the sh*t of her, I'm sure the girl would love that

beco2010

TheBody wrote: »

I recommend burning her house down if she turns you down.

yes i second that, plus you can say your friend did that aswell

Bad Panda

Mugatuu wrote: »

Can't decide if I want to kick you or commend you on having the balls for sending the text . . :L

Balls? Balls would've been speaking to her directly.

You've known her all these years and you send a frackin' text?!

I hope it works out for you!!

flatty

This is very funny.:D

Bad Panda

flatty wrote: »

This is very funny.:D

I love when people's happiness/friendships are at stake for our amusement! :pac:

SureYWouldntYa

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

Hate to break it to you, but if you haven't said **** for 5 years then you probably don't feel as strongly about her as you think.

Ask yourself this...how many times have you gotten laid over those 5 years? If it's zero or single digits then your just really want to **** her.

Strong enough to cry myself to sleep when i seen her with another guy..............

Shryke

This thread is getting refreshed a **** load now. It's on! Best of luck lad.

hairyprincess

Bad Panda wrote: »

I love when people's happiness/friendships are at stake for our amusement! :pac:

It really is gas! If only those poor unsuspecting knew :eek: