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New baby essentials
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06-03-2012 9:43am#1
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A Tummy Tub! Everyone thinks I'm mad with my 'bucket' but it makes bath times so easy. You fill the 'bucket' up to the line, pop the baby in it and they can kick away, while you sit on the toilet (erm as a chair I mean
) so you're not breaking your back. Plus when they get older the bottom transforms into a step for reaching the sink etc when getting washed.
The buggy! If you're on your first have a real think about the buggy. The last thing you want is in a couple of years to have to get rid of the pram/buggy you only got one use of. Ones like the Phil and Teds that can be easily converted into a double buggy (especially if you can get a second hand one on line) are worth their weight in gold!0 -
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I definitely couldn't do without the co-sleeper bed (baby-bay, on loan from a friend) or the changing table (back problems, if I had to bend over to change the monster on the bed or couch, I'd be in constant agony...)
Moses basket is dead-handy too for naps in the living room - but we got ours as a present, wouldn't go out and buy one either.
We've only just bought the baby monitor, defo didnt need it up to now (baby is 14 weeks old).
Muslin cloths are essential though
Also a mattress protector sheet comes in handy if you want to reuse the mattress again at some point. 0 -
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We got a gift of a preloved changing table recently- love it, saving my back!
Monitor,
Car seat,
Moses basket if you get a gift of one is great,
Bedside/ co-sleeping cot- this is a must for me! If your planning on breastfeeding it's so handy to have baby so close,
7/10 vests (long/ short sleeve depending when baby is due...) and babygrows,
A few cellular blankets,
I stocked up on different size nappies when I saw them on offer (bought 2 packs of size 1 and ended up giving one of them away), it was great, didn't need to buy nappies for weeks!
Muslin clothes,
A good sling (I'm only realising now how much easier life would have been if I'd had one in the early days!)
Really all you need is a few clothes, nappies, and either bottles/ steriliser/ formula if formula feeding, or breastpads, nursing bra, lanolin if breastfeeding.
Everything else is just whatever makes like a bit easier 0 -
tummy tub FTW! loved it. used one for all 3 of mine, when the older one was in the bath i put the tummy tub and younger one in with them, great times. only think is i only got about 6/7 mths out of it each time as they got too big and wanted to stand up.
If you are planning more then one, i would invest in a tripp trapp highchair - expensive, but takes up no space, grows with the child(ren), can be used for adults afterwards, and helps, IMO, with their back strength.
I would also invest in a phil and teds from day one if I were to do over, a second hand one is fine, but will be used again and again and again - the one i have I have used for the past 3 yrs, and it was 3 yrs old when i got it, battered but in perfect working order and so versatile.
Digital thermometer - unfortunately essential
Other then that, a few vests, a few nappies, some cotton wool, a few baby grows and a cardigan.
Boobs, nipple cream and a carrier.
some good tea, biccies and pre-made dinners also useful.
Cot, probably, but again if i were to start again, i would not bother until they are older and just co-sleep, sooooo much easier in the short and mid term will get back to you on the long-term. and a proven way for mom to get more sleep.
Yay! Go the tummy tub!
We have a trip trap chair. I'm not convinced by it. They are handy, but I'm not sure they're worth the money. I'm also not sure do we buy another for the second guy or use the same one?
If I was starting from scratch I would definitely go for a new Phil and teds. I was so against them initially because u thought it was cruel on the one sitting lower and thought they were a bit of a 'statement' more than anything....but they are the most useful practical buggy I have ever cone across. I got one second hand because of the second guy. I got rain gear with it, the second seat, a cocoon for the infant...all for 180 euro! It's seen better days, but its a work horse of a thing!0 -
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littleredspot wrote: »Sleep suits are great for keeping them warm even if they kick off blankets.
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Yeah these are great, or Gro-bags.. I found these great cause our little guy used to kick his blankets off from birth.. wouldn't let us swaddle him either, he was like a little magician clambering out of the blankets 0 -
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Wow - thank you so much!
Hubby and I love the idea of the tummy tub, so it's definitely on the 'to buy' list. I'm really finding this thread so useful, I'm going to share it with all the other girls due in July - we've a lot of first timers in there!
Tummy tub is good, or you could just use a baby bath, which lasts much longer. I was away when he was a few months old and used a mop bucket instead of the tummy tub - worked just as well ! 0 -
Tummy tub is good, or you could just use a baby bath, which lasts much longer. I was away when he was a few months old and used a mop bucket instead of the tummy tub - worked just as well !
Funny that you should say that, I showed the Tummy Tub to my friend yesterday, and she said "I hate to break it to you Kash, but that... well, it's just a bucket" 0 -
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Tummy tub is good, or you could just use a baby bath, which lasts much longer. I was away when he was a few months old and used a mop bucket instead of the tummy tub - worked just as well !
Funny that you should say that, I showed the Tummy Tub to my friend yesterday, and she said "I hate to break it to you Kash, but that... well, it's just a bucket"
Lol, if you're going to brave a tummy tub, you have to be ready for the jokes. They really are great. And when they're too big for it you can get a bath for e5 in IKEA.
Has anyone mentioned a bouncy chair yet? If not....a bouncy chair! 0 -
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Thanks Hannibal - the tub and stool were at my parents (my mum is a bit crazy, and doesn't want baby stuff in my house in case I jinx something) so I asked her to double check it as it was way too wobbly when Dad and I tried it... she said with a bit of brute force the tub part clipped into the flower part.
She said it's now so secure that she can't get it back off
Nanny to be is now satisfied that it is safe, and if it passes her discerning judgement, it will pass anyones.
EDIT: If anyone wants to see how to put it together with the amount of force required to clip it in place (plus a super cute baby) this video is great: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F7n7o5Lwy800 -
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From a very new dad and mom, and mostly aimed at the ward and the first few days:So, new mums, tell me... if you were to start it all from scratch again, what wouldn't you do without? What was nice to have, but not essential? And what was a complete waste of time and space?- Pump-action spray bottle filled with filtered water. Used on mom during the birth if she got too hot, and on her calves which were constantly itchy because of the hormones, and on dad's face and mom's face in the delivery ward after the birth because the hospital air is so dry, and when filled with warm water, on baby's backside for changing time. Nice multitasker. Bought mine in the cooking section of hsw.ie of all places, but they sell them in lots of places and on ebay, and they should be quite cheap. Get a smallish one though, no point bringing a litre sized thing when you only want about 200ml at most.
- Cellular blankets. We only got two and we're getting more asap - they're just the business as blankets, as ad hoc sleep positioners, as ad hoc sunscreens, and so on.
- Neurofen/Panadol/Hedex/whatever for dad. You're not the patient, so the hospital can't give you any form of pain meds, and mommy shouldn't take your neurofen because they need to know what she's on, but on the day after the birth you're likely to have a monster headache because of the stress, and because you probably didn't eat and drink properly the day before And since all you want to do is focus on baby's face a few inches from yours, the headache's a bummer and chemicals are your friend...
- Slippers for both mom and dad. Everyone tells mom to bring slippers for the ward because the floor is cold - that's not why you really bring them though. You really bring slippers because it's a hospital and they're careful, but there's still a risk of sharps on the floor. And since dad shouldn't walk in off the street and put boots on the bed while sitting in the chair holding baby (because what if you put him on the bed afterwards to change him or check the nappy or whatever - you've no idea what you've walked through...), having slippers for wearing just in the ward is useful.
- Hand sanitiser. Yeah, maybe I'm being paranoid, but for the first month I'm allowed, so every guest gets a squirt of hand sanitizer into their hands before picking up baby. I've no idea what they've had on their hands that day!
- A small bag inside your ward bag (we bought a mothercare set of baby lotions that came in its own zippered case with a handle; we left the lotions in the bathroom and used the case). It's handy to keep the little things like lip balm and such together in the delivery room bag too, but it really shines after the birth when you put all the nappy-changing stuff into it, and when you have to change baby, you just grab that and take him down the hall to the changing room, instead of trying to juggle him, nappy bags, nappies, vaseline, spray bottle and so on.
- Smartphones. Camera, phone, MP3 player, radio, all in one device. Also:
- Facebook app. Gets photos up and family off your back quickly and lets you deal with hospital stuff faster than calling the few people you have time to call and then having the "Why did you call X and not me???" conversations.
- Contraction timer apps. Utterly useless to us in the end, I'm afraid.
- BabyESP (EatSleepPoop) app. Used it to track feeding times and nappy changes in the hospital, using it still. Lets you sync a single baby's data over multiple devices which is handy. Android only though it seems. But there are many apps like this on every platform. It sounds like overkill, but we're finding it makes things a lot easier. And you can show hard data to the PHN if you're worried about something.
- Podcasts. At a few points on the ward, mommy was sleeping and baby was sleeping on my chest and we'd be there for two or three hours at a stretch. Sometimes you'd blink and the time was over; other times, especially when I was tired, I stuck an earbud in one ear, left the other free to keep watch on the two of them and listened to the friday night comedy podcast, to material world, to IT conversations, to Science in Action, and so on.
- Takeaway menus. Seriously, by the end of the day we came home, we were so tired we couldn't even face the effort of microwaving something to eat, so we just ordered pizza. I seriously wouldn't recommend it as a habit though
- Robinsons barley water. Mommy has to keep hydrated, and that stuff makes it a lot easier to chug pints of water.
- The hoover. We brought baby home on the first day and he went nuts. Wouldn't settle, wouldn't stop crying any time we stopped talking to him. We finally figured out (we were a bit slow on the uptake with this one) that he'd had nine months in the womb where it's really noisy, then birth which is very noisy, then three days on the delivery ward which goes from really loud and noisy to kindof relaxed but still with background noises, to the car ride home which was noisy, to the living room and silence. Poor thing must have though he'd suddenly gone deaf. Turned on the hoover and just left it run, it calmed him right down. After an hour of that, we managed to wean him onto the radio, and over the last few days, he's gotten more and more used to the quiet. But the hoover earned its wages that first day
- Along with the towels for mommy to shower with and so forth, bring another dark towel to change baby on. Holles St. has a changing room with changing units in it, but they don't have mats on them (it's a hard wooden surface) and they ask you to use your own towel rather than the blue towels they use for the cots and swaddling. You might also want to have your own bag of cotton wool balls, because they keep them in the changing room but occasionally they run out and inevitably you're there with everything laid out and prepped when you realise you've nothing to clean his bum with. And they're kept in a cupboard down the hall, not in one in the changing room so you have to go find a nurse to get more if you don't have your own stash.
- Men's Pyjamas for mommy in dark colours, because they're easy to doff for examinations or feeding, they're more comfy than nightdresses and they have a pocket for things (btw, what idiot designs womens clothing so that mom's clothing has no pockets when she needs to carry fifty things all the time?)
- Shirts for daddy, in soft cotton or flannel, with some sort of alternating high-contrast pattern (plaid. Yay.) which open with buttons in front like normal. Babys calm fast when they hear a heartbeat, so open your shirt, lose the 1970s medallion, put his ear over your heart and trade dignity for peace and quiet
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That's where I was washed as a child. That or the bathroom sink (and hey, can we spell E.Coli or Neonatal Meningitis?)
You do clean your kitchen sink regularly, right?
My mother is microbiologist and no need to tell me about bacteria... and that's why I am shocked, sure I do wash my sink every day with cif and often fill it with water and milton, but still it it not a place bath your baby!0 -
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This is probably too simple to note, but I'd have liked to have seen this beforehand and didn't, so - our changing station:
The whole thing is on the cot bed, which has the mattress up at the highest level (and which is still too low - but by the time he moves from moses basket to cot bed in a few weeks, we'll have had time to sort something out and the changes won't be as frequent. Maybe ). The cot bed looks fancy btw, but it was a sale in mothercare and was probably overpriced still. It's meant to last him till he's around four, but I think it might not be up to it...
Anyway, left to right, we have the fresh nappies on the 'clean' side of the changing wedge (which has washable covers). There's also a muslin on the wedge, just to catch the worst of it if he goes mid-change, which has happened once or twice. There's a nappy pail on the floor with water and dettol in it - the muslin and cover go in there if soiled, until we get them into a wash.
On the 'dirty' side of the wedge, you have:- Cotton cleaning pads (which are so much easier than the cotton balls to use when cleaning up the normal nappy-related mess, but we keep the balls around for things like cleaning the cord and naval and so on). Some left out in a small stack before the change, the rest in the bag.
- Jumbo sized tub of vaseline to use as a barrier cream once he's cleaned
- Cotton buds and liquid talc in case he had a particularly wet nappy, but we usually don't use it. Incidentally, both the vaseline and liquid talc are on the wrong side - I wanted there to be a 'clean' and a 'dirty' side to the changing wedge, with one side ('dirty') used only for the cleaning up of the poop, and the other side ('clean') used after that for putting on stuff that would stay on till the next change.
- Hand sanitizer. Use once before beginning the change and once after having cleaned him up and before putting on the stuff that'll be on him until the next change, like vaseline or liquid talc.
- The mothercare case that was our nappy bag on the ward. Right now it just holds the small plastic bags we use to bundle up all the debris from a change.
- Tommee Tippee nappy bin, which has an antibacterial nappy bag setup internally, which is really nifty and keeps bad smells locked away. Even with all the sun of late, there's no odour in the nursery. We don't quite fill this in a week, at least so far. Handy little thing.
There's a tallboy out of frame to the right, over the changer's shoulder and within arm's reach and there are more bags of nappies, pads and cotton balls on the top of it and more supplies in the top drawer, all within arms reach.
The toys occasionally help distract during the change, but mostly, it's just somewhere to store them until he's old enough to find them interesting. The white webcam is our baby monitor, mounted to the cot itself.
Like I said, it's pretty basic stuff and probably not news to anyone, but what the heck. Anyone see anything useful that's missing?0 -
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How Strange wrote: »
I'm actually suprised that you're so shocked surime.
That's because I never heard of it before -sorry! 0 -
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