Does any body massage session is necessarily erotic?

Erinfan

It all started when one day after a session of haircut in a large salon in the city where I live I walk to the cashier to pay the bill and the young cashier looked at me straight in the eyes and told me that they perform massage here also.

Until then I thought the body massage was directed instead to people who have problems of sprains or fractures in one word to the sick and people of a certain age.

I always associated the physical therapy to massage where the medical staff attempts to rehabilitate a member of the body after physical trauma or to give tone to the muscles before a sporting event.

Finally I agreed out of curiosity or just to say to have an experience of massage.

And (a woman) has began massaging my calves , soles of the feet ,legs and back after.
The most critical phase is when she told me to turn to face the ceiling and she began to massage my belly, chest and head. My wife will forgive me because I enjoyed it.

At the end the questions I ask myself are:
1°)Is it the way massage is performed ?
2°)has she gone too far ?
3°)and finally whether is it is really appropriate for a man to be massaged by a woman or vice versa?

The King of Moo

Erinfan wrote: »

It all started when one day after a session of haircut in a large salon in the city where I live I walk to the cashier to pay the bill and the young cashier looked at me straight in the eyes and told me that they perform massage here also.

Until then I thought the body massage was directed instead to people who have problems of sprains or fractures in one word to the sick and people of a certain age.

I always associated the physical therapy to massage where the medical staff attempts to rehabilitate a member of the body after physical trauma or to give tone to the muscles before a sporting event.

Finally I agreed out of curiosity or just to say to have an experience of massage.

And (a woman) has began massaging my calves , soles of the feet ,legs and back after.
The most critical phase is when she told me to turn to face the ceiling and she began to massage my belly, chest and head. My wife will forgive me because I enjoyed it.

At the end the questions I ask myself are:
1°)Is it the way massage is performed ?
2°)has she gone too far ?
3°)and finally whether is it is really appropriate for a man to be massaged by a woman or vice versa?

Did she?

1. Sounds like a pretty normal massage to me.

2. No, she didn't touch you in an intimate area.

3. Of course it's appropriate in either case, why wouldn't it be? It's just a massage. You didn't have a problem with it or surely you would've refused to have the woman do it.

dxhound2005

I think the head massage resulted in you being unable to write a sensible thread title.

Sindri

Erinfan wrote: »

It all started when one day after a session of haircut in a large salon in the city where I live I walk to the cashier to pay the bill and the young cashier looked at me straight in the eyes and told me that they perform massage here also.

Until then I thought the body massage was directed instead to people who have problems of sprains or fractures in one word to the sick and people of a certain age.

I always associated the physical therapy to massage where the medical staff attempts to rehabilitate a member of the body after physical trauma or to give tone to the muscles before a sporting event.

Finally I agreed out of curiosity or just to say to have an experience of massage.

And (a woman) has began massaging my calves , soles of the feet ,legs and back after.
The most critical phase is when she told me to turn to face the ceiling and she began to massage my belly, chest and head. My wife will forgive me because I enjoyed it.

At the end the questions I ask myself are:
1°)Is it the way massage is performed ?
2°)has she gone too far ?
3°)and finally whether is it is really appropriate for a man to be massaged by a woman or vice versa?

It sounds like you were violated!

Please get in contact with these people. Only they can help you now.

Rape Crisis Network Ireland

Bipolar Joe

Jesus I miss physical contact.

LETHAL LADY

In the words of the great madonna(slag) maybe.

Teyla Emmagan

I find massages sooooooooo creepy.

BluesBerry

Next time use the MAN from Russia OP he specializes in male massage!

starlit

No, but it is relaxing and calming. It releases tension and knots in your muscles!

bodhrandude

The way the thread is titled, I dont know if its a statement or a question

Sindri

Erinfan wrote: »

It all started when one day after a session of haircut in a large salon in the city where I live I walk to the cashier to pay the bill and the young cashier looked at me straight in the eyes and told me that they perform massage here also.

He wants you!

Erinfan wrote: »

Until then I thought the body massage was directed instead to people who have problems of sprains or fractures in one word to the sick and people of a certain age. I always associated the physical therapy to massage where the medical staff attempts to rehabilitate a member of the body after physical trauma or to give tone to the muscles before a sporting event.

Erinfan wrote: »

Finally I agreed out of curiosity or just to say to have an experience of massage.

Good for you OP. Not shackled by normal sexual and social conventions.

Erinfan wrote: »

And (a woman) has began massaging my calves , soles of the feet ,legs and back after.
The most critical phase is when she told me to turn to face the ceiling and she began to massage my belly, chest and head. My wife will forgive me because I enjoyed it.

:D:D:D

Erinfan wrote: »

At the end the questions I ask myself are:
1°)Is it the way massage is performed ?
2°)has she gone too far ?
3°)and finally whether is it is really appropriate for a man to be massaged by a woman or vice versa?

:D:D:D

p.s. Someone with the time please dissect the OP and make fun of all the possible euphemisms and innuendo contained within.:D

Sofaspud

Has anyone really been far as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

Sauve

Sofaspud wrote: »

Has anyone really been far as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

It's always seventeen outside. Always. So what he said is the way to go.

Teyla Emmagan

Sofaspud wrote: »

Has anyone really been far as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

wha'?

why do the young people they love this massage
i do not understand ?! my god your proposal?

stupidusername

bluewolf wrote: »

why do the young people they love this massage
i do not understand ?! my god your proposal?

my sexy sister wear this dress?

Gummy Panda

But where was your prostate massage?

Stinicker

Go to Thailand, your quickly learn the difference between Massage and "Maaasaaaage" < = a ladyboy who wants to jerk you off!!

Sauve

stupidusername wrote: »

my sexy sister wear this dress?

It's funny sister your always rub. Sometimes.

Pete M.

No happy ending so?

:pac:

aujopimur

A guy I know is a bit of a perv, he goes for a massage performed by a nice orientel lady, he gets a stiffy which the lady notices. She says to him "you like ****" to which he replies oh yes, the lady leaves the room and returns about five minutes later and says to him "you finish ****".

Gummy Panda

aujopimur wrote: »

A guy I know is a bit of a perv, he goes for a massage performed by a nice orientel lady, he gets a stiffy which the lady notices. She says to him "you like ****" to which he replies oh yes, the lady leaves the room and returns about five minutes later and says to him "you finish ****".

Lol stinger for him

Caraville

Went for a full body massage last summer, but assumed that didn't mean access to Boob Town... I was wrong! I got such a fright when the girl pulled the towel down, the girl knew I wasn't comfortable anymore so she just stopped. So awkward! I wouldn't mind only it had been lovely till then, felt like a prude but I just really thought a boob massage by a stranger was a bridge too far for me!

mawk

I had a full body massage a while back. it was way more"full body" than op's., but stil wasn't sexual.

massage is a massage.

Where To

Caraville wrote: »

Went for a full body massage last summer, but assumed that didn't mean access to Boob Town... I was wrong! I got such a fright when the girl pulled the towel down, the girl knew I wasn't comfortable anymore so she just stopped. So awkward! I wouldn't mind only it had been lovely till then, felt like a prude but I just really thought a boob massage by a stranger was a bridge too far for me!

*crosses name of 'the special list' :mad:

cocalolaman

Body massage session does not necessarily erotic. But any happens.

policarp

dxhound2005 wrote: »

I think the head massage resulted in you being unable to write a sensible thread title.

It worked. . .
A Labour politition . . .
Endas best hypnotherapy. . .

pickarooney

Grammar nazis picking on the foreign kid. Great job guys.

Ellis Dee

pickarooney wrote: »

Grammar nazis picking on the foreign kid. Great job guys.

Good point, but it looks like the country the kid comes from is one where the people have even more hang-ups about sex than Ireland. Is that possible?:):)

some random drunk

stupidusername wrote: »

my sexy sister wear this dress?

My sister like to massage her brick.

smash

pickarooney wrote: »

Grammar nazis picking on the foreign kid. Great job guys.

Ah it's ok. He wont understand anyway!

adrianna_cerva

A sports or beauty massage is defintiely not erotic! I get ones in a beauticians all the time ..... in saying that though my bfs sister trained as a beautician for a while and did a massage course. One day he says to me 'Sis gives the best massages you should get her to give you one some day down on the house' and I was like 'how do you know?!' and he said oh she was practising on me for the massage course. I was like :eek: total Friends the episode with Rachel/bf with strange relationship with sister moment, i thought it was wierd!!!!!

44leto

You can get a massage with a happy ending, by your post that wasn't one.

Sykk

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

Jesus I miss physical contact.

Now you hate it.

cynder

Got a massage in the doonbeg golf resort spa. My husband booked it for me while he played golf, It was the first time I was massaged by a male therapist, normally it's females. He put a lot more power into it. Very relaxing with the occasional ahhh lookout ooooooh. Try not to make too much noise. Can feel the bones crunch. 2 days later I couldn't move I was in agony, it was a deep tissue massage. All over hot stone massages are great too. Nothing sexual about it....

Kiera

You got off lightly. I got a massage last Friday and the pain from her working on my ass was something else.

pickarooney

Would you give a guy a foot massage?

smash

Last time I got a massage the chick pulled my underwear down to massage the top of my ass. I was certain I'd get a boner but managed to restrain myself before I had to flip over.

Mr. Loverman

Bipolar Joe wrote: »

Jesus I miss physical contact.

For EUR 20 you can pay a manicurist to hold your hand for half an hour.

Frank Black

I got a massage once in a resort in Andorra - you had to change into a special pair of disposable jocks that were in the shape of a thong and seemed to be made of tissue paper.

They weren't big enough to fully accommodate my 'meat and 2 veg' either - had to leave one of my balls hanging out the side.

Masseuse was a young attractive lady as well.

All in all a strange mixture of pleasure and humiliation.

Micky Dolenz

Hang on a sec , what head did she massage?

surime

I don't get idea of massage just for relaxation.. it is too intimate to let a stranger touch your body like that, I would never do that!

--Kaiser--

To answer the OP, yes I think a massage is neccessarily erotic. I would neither massage a man nor want to be massaged by a man

Chuck Stone

I don't like strangers touching me. I'm kinda fussy about my personal space force-field being compromised. A handshake or hug for family or close friends is as far as I would go outside the act of sexytime. And no, I wasn't sexually abused as a child.


Btw OP your English is as good as, if not better than, most of the grammar-tards on AH.

...the claim to be defending language for the sake of clarity almost never, ever holds water. Nor does the idea that following grammatical rules in language demonstrate clarity of thought and intelligence of mind.

Stephen Fry

hondasam

Hot stone massage is so relaxing, don't mind who does it, male or female.

Fluorescence

Apparently spiders give each other massages as part of a mating ritual (Cracked told me so); perhaps it's true for humans too :pac:.

aidan24326

Teyla Emmagan wrote: »

I find massages sooooooooo creepy.

Really? All of them?

Like what about a boyfriend/girlfriend giving you a sexy massage would you find that creepy? Surely not ??

fro9etb8j5qsl2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=paEfzWuaxX4

Nothingbetter2d

Erinfan wrote: »

It all started when one day after a session of haircut in a large salon in the city where I live I walk to the cashier to pay the bill and the young cashier looked at me straight in the eyes and told me that they perform massage here also.

Until then I thought the body massage was directed instead to people who have problems of sprains or fractures in one word to the sick and people of a certain age.

I always associated the physical therapy to massage where the medical staff attempts to rehabilitate a member of the body after physical trauma or to give tone to the muscles before a sporting event.

Finally I agreed out of curiosity or just to say to have an experience of massage.

And (a woman) has began massaging my calves , soles of the feet ,legs and back after.
The most critical phase is when she told me to turn to face the ceiling and she began to massage my belly, chest and head. My wife will forgive me because I enjoyed it.

At the end the questions I ask myself are:
1°)Is it the way massage is performed ?
2°)has she gone too far ?
3°)and finally whether is it is really appropriate for a man to be massaged by a woman or vice versa?

had you paid her another €20 she would have given you a "happy ending"

Mat the trasher

So, now the question, normally underwear is removed, however in Ireland, its almost the viewed as if ya slapped the girl/guy in the face with the wedding tackle, so why is this? Anyone in the business have experiences they want to share?

Chuck Stone

Chuck Stone wrote: »

Btw OP your English is as good as, if not better than, most of the grammar-tards on AH.

God forbid anyone have a sense of humour