Have you cheated on a partner?

John Doe1

or have you been cheated on yourself?

dan1895

What about your good self?

davet82

eh no comment and who put you up to this?

cynder

davet82 wrote: »

eh no comment and who put you up to this?

Think custy the clown did, he wants to blackmail cheating boardies.

John Doe1

dan1895 wrote: »

What about your good self?

no im too loyal/damn sexy

Temptamperu

Yeah when I was a kid. I had a girlfriend that really wasnt suited to me, she never drank didnt do drugs never came to parties never wanted to do anything.
At a party I met a girl who like all those things and we went out for 5 years.

Giselle

Never cheated, have been cheated on.

smash

The trick is to only cheat with girls that have the same name as your missus so you never say the wrong name by mistake!

Sindri

Yes I have had me heart ripped asunder by a Jezebel unforgiving to my naive affections...


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thebigbiffo

of course i have, i'm f'ucking human, and that means being a teenager/student at some stage.

ash23

Never cheated on anyone and been cheated on a few times.
:rolleyes:

hooradiation

Have cheated, (probably) haven't been cheated on.


Any other mundane questions you'd like answered?

Pudsy33

thebigbiffo wrote: »

of course i have, i'm f'ucking human, and that means being a teenager/student at some stage.

Not all students or teenagers cheat.

Storminateacup

Yes when I was 17, I was "in a relationship" with what I assume was a closet homo. I think the only reason I liked him was because a girl I was frenemies with was in love with him so it was a challenege, just before we hooked up, he was inappropriate with an ugly cow I was friends with and when we got together, he was flat out with a girl I considered my best friend.

He started turning my stomach around feb, but due to him threathening all kinds of harm on himself, I didn't manage to get rid of him until the middle of his leaving cert, in June.

I cheated on him from about April, with my ex, who I loved. I'm just sorry I wasted being 17 on such a weasle

davet82

anybody wanna confess to any unsolved crimes while they're at it?

cherryghost

Giselle wrote: »

Never cheated, have been cheated on.

But... how do you know? :P

Sindri

davet82 wrote: »

anybody wanna confess to any unsolved crimes while they're at it?

Remember Maddy?

Initiating confession to despicable crime.

She's Selena Gomez.

Me and Walt had the perfect plan. Take a young Caucasian girl and turn her into a Mexican and market her to the Latino market.

It worked my friend.

I'm doing cocaine of her gooch.

Sykk

Storminateacup wrote: »

Yes when I was 17, I was "in a relationship" with what I assume was a closet homo. I think the only reason I liked him was because a girl I was frenemies with was in love with him so it was a challenege, just before we hooked up, he was inappropriate with an ugly cow I was friends with and when we got together, he was flat out with a girl I considered my best friend.

He started turning my stomach around feb, but due to him threathening all kinds of harm on himself, I didn't manage to get rid of him until the middle of his leaving cert, in June.

I cheated on him from about April, with my ex, who I loved. I'm just sorry I wasted being 17 on such a weasle

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvmyTZEqlo8

Chuck Stone

Yeah.

Giselle

cherryghost wrote: »

But... how do you know? :P

Imagine the worst way of finding out.

Yes, thats what happened.

John Doe1

hooradiation wrote: »

Have cheated, (probably) haven't been cheated on.


Any other mundane questions you'd like answered?

did you cheat because you are an unemotional sociopath?

Bad Panda

We were on a break.

Sykk

Storminateacup wrote: »

Yes when I was 17, I was "in a relationship" with what I assume was a closet homo. I think the only reason I liked him was because a girl I was frenemies with was in love with him so it was a challenege, just before we hooked up, he was inappropriate with an ugly cow I was friends with and when we got together, he was flat out with a girl I considered my best friend.

He started turning my stomach around feb, but due to him threathening all kinds of harm on himself, I didn't manage to get rid of him until the middle of his leaving cert, in June.

I cheated on him from about April, with my ex, who I loved. I'm just sorry I wasted being 17 on such a weasle

Karmas a bitch

Storminateacup

Giselle wrote: »

Imagine the worst way of finding out.

Yes, thats what happened.

You got AIDS?

:eek:

Storminateacup

Sykk wrote: »

Karmas a bitch

I think the fat whale did me a favour to be honest!

cynder

Years ago when I was a teen, my fella went off with someone else.

While I was going out with him, I had to fight off advances from a guy I worked with. When me and the fella broke up I hooked up with the guy from work.....

His now my husband


I take my marriage vows seriously as does he....

Giselle

Storminateacup wrote: »

You got AIDS?

:eek:

Must get that checked actually

KTRIC

Had an ex that cheated on me. Never cheated myself.

Evie90

Never cheated, just seems like way to much effort. I was accused of cheating constantly though by the guy I was with in secondary school, then I found out he cheated on me with his ex who also happened to be in my year, that stung ! and having to look at her smug face for the rest of the year was none to pleasant either.

Maximus Alexander

Never cheated, never would. I'd just leave a bitch if she became a hundredth problem. There's no need for cheating, it's a bit cowardly tbh.

whatsamsn

I could get 100 people in a room and ask this question. Only a small percentage of people would honestly say the have. Others would say they havent, while they actually did. No one is perfect. We can all make mistakes. But more so, no one likes to admit to being the bad guy.


I think the question 'have you cheated?' falls in line with asking your average woman "have you had a 1 night stand?"

strobe

Never been cheated on as far as I am aware (but how would you know like? Might have been... not bothered really if I was though).

As far as I am concerned I have never cheated on anybody either. But some people disagree with that... You have to take into account what you consider to be 'cheating' and that other people may have a different definition. Also when you consider someone to actually be your 'partner'... there's a bit of ambiguity involved with both those terms is there not?

stupidusername

I've never cheated, but have been cheated on. i don't get why someone would do it really. it's a whole area i just don't understand.

smash wrote: »

The trick is to only cheat with girls that have the same name as your missus so you never say the wrong name by mistake!

but...my name isn't the same as hers :pac:

Storminateacup wrote: »

Yes when I was 17, I was "in a relationship" with what I assume was a closet homo. I think the only reason I liked him was because a girl I was frenemies with was in love with him so it was a challenege, just before we hooked up, he was inappropriate with an ugly cow I was friends with and when we got together, he was flat out with a girl I considered my best friend.

He started turning my stomach around feb, but due to him threathening all kinds of harm on himself, I didn't manage to get rid of him until the middle of his leaving cert, in June.

I cheated on him from about April, with my ex, who I loved. I'm just sorry I wasted being 17 on such a weasle

wow.

RichieC

I was cheated on by a horrible mess of a girl my mates gave me abuse over being with. I just walked away.

Never cheated meself...

PhlegmyMoses

strobe wrote: »

As far as I am concerned I have never cheated on anybody either. But some people disagree with that... You have to take into account what you consider to be 'cheating' and that other people may have a different definition. Also when you consider someone to actually be your 'partner'... there's a bit of ambiguity involved with both those terms is there not?

We were on a break!

ToxicPaddy

An ex cheated on me constantly, I found out, so cheated on her.. sex was great with the ex so I didnt care, just kept it going..

Eventually I told her I knew she was cheating and with who, she denied it, I provided a witness, she nearly dropped with the fright, didnt know what to do, so then I announced that I was cheating on her for the last few months since I found out but only kept it going with her cause she was handy for sex.

Again, sitting there, completely shocked and didnt know what to say.

The dumped her.. she burst out crying and started claiming she loved me and didn't want me to finish it.. talk about one messed up girl :rolleyes:

Lessons learned, but would rather not go through them again thanks..

stupidusername

ToxicPaddy wrote: »

An ex cheated on me constantly, I found out, so cheated on her.. sex was great with the ex so I didnt care, just kept it going..

jaysus TP I didn't know you had it in ya!

Giselle

ToxicPaddy wrote: »

An ex cheated on me constantly, I found out, so cheated on her.. sex was great with the ex so I didnt care, just kept it going..

Eventually I told her I knew she was cheating and with who, she denied it, I provided a witness, she nearly dropped with the fright, didnt know what to do, so then I announced that I was cheating on her for the last few months since I found out but only kept it going with her cause she was handy for sex.

Again, sitting there, completely shocked and didnt know what to say.

The dumped her.. she burst out crying and started claiming she loved me and didn't want me to finish it.. talk about one messed up girl :rolleyes:

Lessons learned, but would rather not go through them again thanks..

You both sound lovely.

stupidusername

strobe wrote: »

Never been cheated on as far as I am aware (but how would you know like? Might have been... not bothered really if I was though).

As far as I am concerned I have never cheated on anybody either. But some people disagree with that... You have to take into account what you consider to be 'cheating' and that other people may have a different definition. Also when you consider someone to actually be your 'partner'... there's a bit of ambiguity involved with both those terms is there not?

the only real ambiguity I see in terms is at what point you both decide you both don't want to go for anyone else.

I don't think what constitutes as cheating varies for that many people. assuming it's physical we're talking about.

thebigbiffo

Pudsy33 wrote: »

Not all students or teenagers cheat.

jesus h christ on a f'ucking bike what's the world coming to...

Katgurl

whatsamsn wrote: »

I could get 100 people in a room and ask this question. Only a small percentage of people would honestly say the have. Others would say they havent, while they actually did. No one is perfect. We can all make mistakes. But more so, no one likes to admit to being the bad guy.


I think the question 'have you cheated?' falls in line with asking your average woman "have you had a 1 night stand?"

total rubbish

loads of people haven't cheated, projecting your own failings onto everyone is ridiculous.

I have cheated in the past and been cheated on. Both sides are horrible and not worth it in the end.

I've also had more than one ONS, most of my friends would laugh if you asked such a ludicrous question.

ihsb

I have come close a few times but haven't quite crossed that line... I have never been cheated on though.

hooradiation

John Doe1 wrote: »

did you cheat because you are an unemotional sociopath?

sociopaths aren't 'unemotional', do your research.

Jen Pigs Fly

Never cheated, been cheated on quite a lot.

I don't see the point in cheating, if you want to go off with other people then be single don't be in a relationship

Sindri

hooradiation wrote: »

sociopaths aren't 'unemotional', do your research.

Sociopaths can't do research, do your research.

That's just what a sociopath would say.

hooradiation

Sindri wrote: »

Sociopaths can't do research, do your research.

That's just what a sociopath would say.

Did you just have a hard time deciding between these two amazingly witty responses or is this an especially disjointed post?

Alter-Ego

Never cheated and never been cheated on, AFAIK. Nobody can really be 100% that they've never been cheated on, unless they've always been foreveralone.

Sindri

hooradiation wrote: »

Did you just have a hard time deciding between these two amazingly witty responses or is this an especially disjointed post?

Did you just ask me a question?

hooradiation

Sindri wrote: »

Did you just ask me a question?

Given that is the generally accepted purpose of a question mark at the end of a sentence, yes.

strobe

stupidusername wrote: »

the only real ambiguity I see in terms is at what point you both decide you both don't want to go for anyone else.

Well yeah, that's where the ambiguity lies. Sometimes that point is implicit rather than expressly stated and sometimes different people infer it at different times.

I don't think what constitutes as cheating varies for that many people. assuming it's physical we're talking about.

I'm not sure about that. It's come up in threads on here before and apparently there is quite a range.

Although for me someone in tLL put it well before (Ickle Magoo I think) along the lines of "If you wouldn't want your partner to find out about it...")

stupidusername

strobe wrote: »

Well yeah, that's where the ambiguity lies. Sometimes that point is implicit rather than expressly stated and sometimes different people infer it at different times.

I'm not sure about that. It's come up in threads on here before and apparently there is quite a range.

Although for me someone in tLL put it well before (Ickle Magoo I think) along the lines of "If you wouldn't want your partner to find out about it...")

Hmmm.i would've been under the impression that most couples would have some sort of discussion about exclusivity,and so you'd know for sure from that point.

I must search for those threads so,i really can't see how cheating can mean different things. I realise there's different types and levels of cheating but surely any interest in someone else is cheating