Am I the only one who has...

gsxr1

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

alwaysadub

My friend has been going out with his girfriend since they were 14. They are in early 30's now.
Wouldn't be my cup of tea to be honest. But fair play all the same

RickRoll

You've only ever been with one woman?

Weirdo!

IM0

no, a mate of mine is the same at 40+

there is always swinging and open realtionships to consider

gsxr1

RickRoll wrote: »

You've only ever been with one woman?

Weirdo!

really. does that make one a weirdo

RickRoll

gsxr1 wrote: »

really. does that make one a weirdo

Fraid so. You must be sick looking at your OH at this stage.

Juwwi

gsxr1 wrote: »

really. does that make one a weirdo

No not at all.

Chuck Stone

Couldn't settle with a virgin bride myself tbh.

IM0

gsxr1 wrote: »

really. does that make one a weirdo

course not, but is she an absolute cracker if not then maybe a little

Micky Dolenz

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

it sounds like you are complaining a little bit :P

clappyhappy

Why??, sex is sex,you don't need a different person,just be creative try new things if ye are both up for it,my husband had only been with one woman before me,together now 13 yrs married 11 and we still find ways to spice up our sex life and do different things that we both enjoy,what do you wonder about?

Temptamperu

Chuck Stone wrote: »

Couldn't settle with a virgin bride myself tbh.

Slap on a suicide vest and get 72 then

Babybuff

not weird just lucky op

Dudess

Did you meet her by the gasworks wall OP?

Liam Byrne

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

If you're both happy, then good stuff.

Don't fall for the 'grass is greener' / 'dog trying to get reflected bone' crap either.

Sex with a new person is usually ****e - you need to know someone.

Oh - and don't rely on AH for sensible replies either!

RickRoll

clappyhappy wrote: »

we still find ways to spice up our sex life and do different things that we both enjoy

Go on..

ygolometsipe

I'm a good bit younger than you but I admire your Introspection!

I would love to tell you the answer but I dont know!

For what it counts, I would trade all the girls ive been with to get back with the best one. I only learned how perfect she was when id bet too much!

As for sex, if you can talk to your lady from the heart, you desire is filled!

Hold your chips is my advice

al28283

Fair play OP, most guys here will be thinking of their first love on their deathbed, bedding her is rare. Good man

gurramok

Jesus, if the OP loves his GF now matter what age, fair fuppin play. So flipping what its 34 you found the love of your life, FFS.

Stinjy

you're a lucky man, both still happy after so long also, do you not feel its special that youve not beenwith others, also from a practical side if shes not been withanyone else, you know youre not passing/getting any undesired extras its lovely imo, and something to be proud of!

DEFTLEFTHAND

Your very lucky OP, you've found your true love. I met a girl at a similar age who I was mad about but I made a complete mess of it, I've regretted it ever since.

matt-dublin

This belongs in PI

carfiosaoorl

I think fair dues to you op and feck anyone who says its weird. I would love to have found that. It might be unusual to met young and stay together but it is definitely not wrong. I hope ye grow old together.

charlemont

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

Seems your sorted so, Fair play to you, If your with her that long then ye are meant to be together.

ArphaRima

You're happy because you don't know better. Keep it that way.

pebbles21

There all the same on their on back...

Princess Peach

No I know a few people who started going out in school and have been together since Its lovely!

Sometimes I'd like to say I was only with one guy my whole life but sure can't change that.

And having multiple partners doesn't make you any better in bed. As long as the sex is good then you should be happy!

cloptrop

Princess Peach wrote: »

No I know a few people who started going out in school and have been together since Its lovely!

Sometimes I'd like to say I was only with one guy my whole life but sure can't change that.

And having multiple partners doesn't make you any better in bed. As long as the sex is good then you should be happy!

I reckon the longer you have spent in relationships makes you better in bed, you can have a million one night stands and nobobody would be around the next day to tell ye to do it right

EdenHazard

ive never had a girlfriend and im nearly 20!!

kowloon

Worked with a couple who met in school and were still together, and working together in middle age.
A friend in college was with his girlfriend from secondary school.
Another friend in her mid-twenties is going out with someone from school.

It's not all that rare from what I can see. Some people are able to find and tolerate their other half quicker than others.

Kojak

matt-dublin wrote: »

This belongs in PI

How about in Aardvark?

Red21

Yep, i'd say your the only one op. Everyone else is jockin a differant woman every wkend tis mad crack altogether you should try and get in on some of the action you've no idea what you're missing out in.

later12

charlemont wrote: »

If your with her that long then ye are meant to be together.

18 years and you 'are meant to be together'?

I haven't heard of that rule before.

jimmymal

ah your getting fawned over here OP,
the all american highschool fantasy thing might work for you and best of luck with it!
i personally prefer the idea of having been through my ups and downs. but thats just me.

irelandspurs

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

Its the other men you've been with she should be worried about.

oldyouth

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

17 and 49 for me:)

That's mad. Fair feks to ya.

Quazzie

Most of the stories you hear are bullshít. Stay loyal and be proud you've found something they probably never will.

mattjack

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

Same as myself, met her in school ..I was 14, she was my science teacher aged 31.Things were difficult for a while.

Benicetomonty

mattjack wrote: »

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

Same as myself, met her in school ..I was 14, she was my science teacher aged 31.Things were difficult for a while.

Niice...

Swampy

One Vag to rule them all???

On another note, some ladies are gamier than others. You'll always be thinking "what if".

Your missus is probably thinking the same thing.

GingerFire

My sister met her hubby when she was 16.. never with anyone else, neither was he, they are still happy as... he's almost 40, she's 37...

I on the other hand...

matt-dublin

Kojak wrote: »

matt-dublin wrote: »

This belongs in PI

How about in Aardvark?

Excellent word, I haven't heard anyone use aardvark in such a long time....

You've brought a smile to my face today sir!!

efb

Sex with someone you love is infinitely better than random sex

Table Top Joe

clappyhappy wrote: »

Why??, sex is sex,you don't need a different person

:eek:Strongly disagree with that......theres definitely such thing as sexual compatibility,ive been with about 10 different women,sex with some was amazing...with others it was very average,with one girl in particular it was terrible

smurgen

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

Thats fantastic.its natural to be questioning the relationship,everyone does it.but look at it this way,you don't have to put up with all the mind games and all the other crap that all the rest of us singletons have to put up with in the persuit of what you have.count your blessings

Kevin Duffy

oldyouth wrote: »

17 and 49 for me:)

That age gap is too big :pac:

OP, if you got lucky enough to find the right one for you straight away, that's great and you're not missing out as much as you think. My experience couldn't be more different to yours and I wonder about the same things, just from 180 degrees away.

MrFrisp

IM0 wrote: »

no, a mate of mine is the same at 40+

there is always swinging and open realtionships to consider

Yeah....We done that bit...(Swinging)

Interesting...I must say....



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up for anything

gsxr1 wrote: »

Met his love at 16 and never been with another woman at 34.

Not complaining, I love her with all my heart and that side of things is very good. But when I hear other people talk about sex, it makes me wonder.

That way lies trouble. Stop wondering and get back to real life. Wondering can lead to living in a bedsit and seeing your kids in MacDonalds once a week.

BunShopVoyeur

Op anybody slagging you off is just jealous that they either keep getting used and discarded or can only attract idiots/airheads.

There's not one thing wrong with being single but taking the piss out of someone who happened to find his wife at a young age is pathetic.

Eric Cartman

wouldnt be my cup of tea op, variety is the spice of life