Would you date an escort?

cafecolour

So, a recent experience has got me thinking. Would you date someone who was working as or had worked as an escort (e.g. a classy-ish prostitute type)?

In theory I was fine with the idea, but practically, it turns out, no.


To make it clear - I mean date like normally bf/gf date. Not pay for.

4zn76tysfajdxp

Was this "recent experience" you sleeping with a hooker?

SteoL

Do tell us about this recent experience you had. And to answer the Q, probably. Doubt it would bother me.

chin_grin

Put it this way. Could you have the evening conversation at the dinner table? Imagine Sasha Grey coming (heh) home and you have a lovely spread (chuckle) and you both tuck in (titter). I doubt you could just turn around and ask...."So........how was your day hon?.........OH where is my mind!? Here gargle this listerine first!"

cafecolour

Larry Swift Treachery wrote: »

Was this "recent experience" you sleeping with a hooker?

Didn't sleep with him. Went on a date. Liked him. Found out his side trade. Didn't want a second date.


And no, I didn't pay for anything.

Immaculate Pasta

cafecolour wrote: »

Didn't sleep with him. Went on a date. Liked him. Found out his side trade. Didn't want a second date.

Are you a guy or a girl?

krudler

cafecolour wrote: »

Didn't sleep with him. Went on a date. Liked him. Found out his side trade. Didn't want a second date.

he'll probably bill you for the first one now

Senna

I dated a Sierra once.

chin_grin

cafecolour wrote: »

Didn't sleep with him. Went on a date. Liked him. Found out his side trade. Didn't want a second date.

Are you a successful business man and want to get this guy cleaned up because you have taken a shine to him. Hmm. This would make a fine movie.

Biggins

No.

Sky King

cafecolour wrote: »

classy-ish prostitute

Does not compute.

cafecolour

Immaculate Pasta wrote: »

Are you a guy or a girl?

No, I'm also a guy. So, sorry, no, I have no contacts to get you into the gigolo business

Immaculate Pasta

cafecolour wrote: »

No, I'm also a guy. So, sorry, no, I have no contacts to get you into the gigolo business

:eek:

John Doe1

A gay on AH, someone get the holy water;)

woodoo

I would probably need Ian Paisley's lungs for this one... NEVER NEVER NEVER

chin_grin

Immaculate Pasta wrote: »

:eek:

Yes. They are called homosexuals. They exist alongside heterosexuals. It's a sexual choice that we as a human race are allowed to make but seemingly some people and groups (cof religion) are so backward that they think it outright wrong when it doesn't interfere at all in their own day to day life.

I mean if two dudes were f*cking on my desk I'd go "Ah here getawayouttaday yis gays! Get a room!". Two women? I'd get some popcorn. Double standards. What was my point?

Micky Dolenz

cafecolour wrote: »

No, I'm also a guy. So, sorry, no, I have no contacts to get you into the gigolo business

Did the rent boy ask you out?

Dravokivich

Oh I love multiple choice polls.

smash

Hi honey, this is my boss... oh you already know him? well this is awkward!

chin_grin

Dravokivich wrote: »

Oh I love multiple choice polls.

I'm sure you do sailor.

I'm going to tick them all. Because they're not radial buttons and I'm a troll. HWAHAWHAWHAWWWWW!

Immaculate Pasta

chin_grin wrote: »

Yes. They are called homosexuals. They exist alongside heterosexuals. It's a sexual choice that we as a human race are allowed to make but seemingly some people and groups (cof religion) are so backward that they think it outright wrong when it doesn't interfere at all in their own day to day life.

I mean if two dudes were f*cking on my desk I'd go "Ah here getawayouttaday yis gays! Get a room!". Two women? I'd get some popcorn. Double standards. What was my point?

I was in fact shocked at the suggestion I join the gigolo business.

So err yeah... *fidgets*

JONJO THE MISER

cafecolour wrote: »

No, I'm also a guy. So, sorry, no, I have no contacts to get you into the gigolo business

:eek: Catholic Ireland is dead and gone:(

Ellis Dee

I went to school with a fellow - an Offaly inter-county footballer - who used to say that he wasn't that interested in "nice" girls, but would prefer "the obliging kind".

On that basis, a practising or former escort would be able to give a fellow a good time.;););)

chin_grin

JONJO THE MISER wrote: »

:eek: Catholic Ireland is dead and gone:(

It's shockin' Joe..............:pac:

pragmatic1

Hell no. Thats nasty.

TeddyTedson

I'd been interested in getting in to this line of work myself. There's lots of ads in the back of FHM advertising for men to become escorts. How would it work. Would I be taking really old people out or is it more women who just want someone to bring to there friends wedding type of thing.
I imagine it's not quite the same type of work as a female escort who is just going to be used for sex.

cafecolour

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

Did the rent boy ask you out?

Yes, though online.

The strangest part was that after I expressed my lack of interest in a second date, he suggested setting me up with his (non-escort) friend. I wasn't exactly sure how they were acquainted (if you get my drift), so I passed.

So, apparently, not only will I not date an escort, I consider all their friends guilty by association. And I used to think I was open-minded once upon a time.

Fratton Fred

It all depends if I could touch the sides or not.

Kevin Duffy

No, I would not. I do not judge anyone involved in voluntary prostitution, but I could not be intimate with somone I knew would be selling the same acts of intimacy to strangers or had ever done so in the past, regardless of the differing emotional contexts of the acts.

parker kent

TeddyTedson wrote: »

I'd been interested in getting in to this line of work myself. There's lots of ads in the back of FHM advertising for men to become escorts. How would it work. Would I be taking really old people out or is it more women who just want someone to bring to there friends wedding type of thing.

I'd say a lot of them have male customers. If you weren't up for that, you might not get much business.

Mr Benevolent

No, but I'd date a Mondeo or Fiesta. Are we talking about the 1.4 or 1.6 Escort here?

psychward

Sexually transmitted diseases would be the biggest worry. After that there could be other issues but the disease aspect could be big enough to stop the relationship from developing sexually as far as I am concerned. The rubber could never be removed ever. I wouldn't judge someone in advance though. That goes against my general principles.

TeddyTedson

parker kent wrote: »

I'd say a lot of them have male customers. If you weren't up for that, you might not get much business.

I watched something about male escorts in England before. The most successful one was a guy who was middle aged and just looked like someones Dad. Just a very ordinary (actually really boring) bloke.
He wouldn't say if he had Sex or not with these woman but I'm sure he did.
He went with them to a lot of parties and things. He made great money from it.

4zn76tysfajdxp

cafecolour wrote: »

Yes, though online.

The strangest part was that after I expressed my lack of interest in a second date, he suggested setting me up with his (non-escort) friend. I wasn't exactly sure how they were acquainted (if you get my drift), so I passed.

So, apparently, not only will I not date an escort, I consider all their friends guilty by association. And I used to think I was open-minded once upon a time.

Next thing you know you'll be homophobic.

The_Thing

JONJO THE MISER wrote: »

:eek: Catholic Ireland is dead and gone:(

Not if Ruhama have their way.

My ex girlfriend.. She was riding so much behind my back sher she may as well charged for it.

LighterGuy

No, hell no.
Be it past or present. An escort is a whore.

Yeah, sure you hear the odd genuine case of someone having to resort to it. Or the unfortunate sex slaves that get brought over. But lets take the average irish escort. Aint doing it out of the aforementioned.

Jen Pigs Fly

I always wondered how someone became an escort ... where are jobs advertised? I'm assuming there are agencies ....

And no I would not date an escort - former or otherwise, I'm a jealous bítch haha, the thoughts of any fellah I'm with being with someone else makes me so jealous it's not even funny! (I try not to dwell on it haha)

LordSutch

I have dated in an Escort, not sure that's what you're talking about though

http://www.free-images.org.uk/cars/ford-escort.jpg

MK1 Of course . . .

budgemook

Out of curiosity, did the guy escort men or women?

I wouldn't anyways.

HavingCrack

TeddyTedson wrote: »

I watched something about male escorts in England before. The most successful one was a guy who was middle aged and just looked like someones Dad. Just a very ordinary (actually really boring) bloke.
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When I was living in New Jersey I used to know this fairly fat, little Columbian fellah who lived a few houses down the street. I'd say he was in his mid 30's or so. Got chatting to him one day about work and turn's out that he was an escort. He was very matter of fact about it. No idea whether he was straight sex only or gay also or whatever but just couldn't believe that's what he did. Most unlikely person ever.

HavingCrack

budgemook wrote: »

Out of curiosity, did the guy escort men or women?

I wouldn't anyways.

If you're a male escort I'd say you probably can't be too picky.

mikeyboy

Not all escorts are hookers. There was a girl in college with me who worked for an agency and they made it clear to the clients that the girls would only provide them with company for dinner, business functions etc. Sleeping with a client was a sacking offence.
They also provided a chaperone who stayed near enough to provide the girls with assistance if the client insisted on "extra services"

Jumpy

Edz87 wrote: »

My ex girlfriend.. She was riding so much behind my back sher she may as well charged for it.

She did.

johnr1

mikeyboy wrote: »

Not all escorts are hookers. There was a girl in college with me who worked for an agency and they made it clear to the clients that the girls would only provide them with company for dinner, business functions etc. Sleeping with a client was a sacking offence.
They also provided a chaperone who stayed near enough to provide the girls with assistance if the client insisted on "extra services"

And you believed that story :rolleyes:

Saila

I would, a few years ago NO CHANCE! now? meh... :eek:

LighterGuy

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

I always wondered how someone became an escort ... where are jobs advertised? I'm assuming there are agencies ....

Well the internet has helped alot of women become an escort these days. Sure there is irish escort sites that for a monthly fee you can be advertised with all your contact info.

But before the internet took off (say late 90s) magazines such as 'In Dublin' famously had escort adverts in last few pages. It got so well known that the magazine was told to stop publishing those adverts from the guards/government.

HavingCrack

mikeyboy wrote: »

Not all escorts are hookers. There was a girl in college with me who worked for an agency and they made it clear to the clients that the girls would only provide them with company for dinner, business functions etc. Sleeping with a client was a sacking offence.
They also provided a chaperone who stayed near enough to provide the girls with assistance if the client insisted on "extra services"

Nearly all "escort" agencies say that all the women are merely providing 'company' for the time specified and anything "else" that goes on is between two consenting adults, aka sex.

Now not every client would need or want sex as you pointed out, some might literally just need a bit of arm candy for the fancy dinner or whatever. But sex is generally always in the picture.

Alibaba

Ya sure. For the crack craic.

gigino

how do ya get a ford fiesta to the top of a florida multi-storey hotel ?

dunno, but Ben Dunne got an escort up there;)

mikeyboy

johnr1 wrote: »

And you believed that story :rolleyes:

Not going to start a debate about it but I knew her and several of the other girls, you didn't!