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Ex tormenting sons while in his care

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  • #32
    January
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    Thanks for updating us. Hopefully your ex gets the help he needs so your boys can start having a proper relationship with him. It may take some time, and there may be slip ups in the future if he does sort himself out, just take each day as it comes.


  • #33
    Soccer Mom
    Closed Accounts Posts: 33 ✭Soccer Mom


    January wrote: »
    Thanks for updating us. Hopefully your ex gets the help he needs so your boys can start having a proper relationship with him. It may take some time, and there may be slip ups in the future if he does sort himself out, just take each day as it comes.
    I will, and thanks January :)



    I've just received the court paper work in the post, from my appearance in court on Thursday. What was written into it was:

    "Under section 11 of the act on a question affecting the welfare of the infant, so, to wit, Discharge access order" and it was dated.


    I'm ridiculously clueless when it comes to all their terminology :o am I right in saying that it means that I'm moving to revoke his access? I thought it might say something along the lines of 'revision of access order'. It seems like it's giving him a heads up of what I'm doing, given that it's questioning the welfare of a child etc. I didn't want him to know what I'm doing because he will have his slimey solicitor all over this. There will be a backlash of some sort from him.

    I've tried googling it for a better definition, and all Im getting is the same jargon.


  • #34
    Big Bag of Chips
    Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,045 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    I think (but am in no way qualified to say for definite!) that because you applied for a variation of the access order that, in essence means, you are applying to discharge (end) the current order and put a new one in place.

    Again, I am not qualified, but going by what you applied for, that is how I'd read that.


  • #35
    nesf
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,644 ✭✭✭✭nesf


    You'll need to talk to a solicitor about that, people on here can't give legal advice or interpretation.


  • #36
    January
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    I'm sorry Soccer Mom but we cannot give legal advice here... best thing to do would be to contact the FLAC centre or Treoir may be able to give you some advice.

    I'm going to close this thread now, because you've got your court date and the case will be in camera.


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