can you tell if someone's a virgin

Aglomerado · 24-11-2011 01:37PM

BraziliaNZ wrote: »

Used to work in the civil service in Ireland. There were definitely women in there in their 40s, 50s, etc that were virgins. There's no way in hell these women ever went near dick, voluntarily anyway, I would imagine there were a lot of pent up frustrated uncles and priests in whatever hell hole one horse village they grew up in.

And men too. Lads (living at home with elderly Mammy) with chronic dandruff, skin diseases and thousand yard stares (shudder!) with stains on their clothes, which mightn't be changed from one week to the other. Their ability to converse with women=non-existent.
Some of them hadn't learnt basic rules of social decorum: i.e.: they would:
-scratch balls in public
- pick nose in public
- fart loudly in front of others
- adjust their false teeth in the office

Gross! I wouldn't go near them, but maybe another woman would! There's no accounting for taste. There's no definitive way of telling if someone's a virgin or not.

xoxyx · 24-11-2011 01:53PM

I know people that I've thought to be very quiet and straight laced to be absolutely filthy in bed. Conversely, I've found (to my great disappointment

) that some guys who are full of confidence and banter are absolute mice sexually.

There's no way of telling from a person's demeanour what they're like in the sack. Take somebody who is meticulous in work and always makes sure their desk is tidy and they keep the head down and get their work done - maybe they know exactly what they want - and are just as thorough when it comes to sex! The fun loving guy who just wants to party could be completely sloppy.

There's only one way to find out for sure...

CamperMan · 24-11-2011 01:55PM

fryup wrote: »

In a person's characteristics i mean,

There's this woman at work late 40s never married, very nervous, up-tight and hyper-sensitive can't say boo to her..never engages in the "office" banter, and walks away when ever anything sexual is being discussed.

Because of this all the lads reckon she's a virgin..but is that a tell-tale sign? are virgins less worldly less extrovert than others??

that's me.. but I am not a virgin!

there are people out there that might not like the naff office banter, talking about sport and drinking, and there are people that don't spend all day talking and dreaming about sex, they actually get it and don't need to talk about it

aujopimur · 24-11-2011 02:37PM

Pics, upskirt if possible please.

starlit · 25-11-2011 04:09PM

There are typical characteristics that might indicate that someone is but even the most confident person could deter that and could still be one so you can never really tell by personality alone.

You have to ask but you still really can't as some people might have only done it once and be celibate others might never have done it just haven't had the opportunities and then there are people who it eventually, those who try when young due to peer pressure or its the thing to do its natural or its the right time for them they just had the opportunity to and happen to be with someone and so on.

There are people you typically would not be but could turn out to be still. There are people you typically would still be but might turn out not to be so. So you can't really ever tell. If you pick up a vibe off them maybe it can be obvious!?

im invisible · 25-11-2011 04:50PM

Aglomerado wrote: »

And men too. Lads (living at home with elderly Mammy) with chronic dandruff, skin diseases and thousand yard stares (shudder!) with stains on their clothes, which mightn't be changed from one week to the other. Their ability to converse with women=non-existent.
Some of them hadn't learnt basic rules of social decorum: i.e.: they would:
-scratch balls in public
- pick nose in public
- fart loudly in front of others
- adjust their false teeth in the office

Gross! I wouldn't go near them, but maybe another woman would! There's no accounting for taste. There's no definitive way of telling if someone's a virgin or not.

hey, i have all my own teeth i'll have you know...

StupidLikeAFox · 25-11-2011 05:10PM

I have an easy way to tell if someone is a virgin. I developed it one day while staring across the liffey from the boardwalk. I had a pair of binoculars that I used to look at the people on the other side going about their business. I worked out that if they walked into Forbidden Planet they were probably a virgin