Feeling very let down!

Dove123

Where to start..............
Im your friend that organises everything, im the first one to say yes ill go when anyone makes a suggestion of a gig, weekend away, night out etc, im the first to call you when you announce good news, im the first to call over when you have a baby laden down with food, always babysitting, always texting to keep in contact.
so recently I asked a few family members & friends would they like to come to New York shopping for 3 nights first of all i got lots of yes definately but yesterday when it came down to bookin it everyone backed out & honestly thats fine everyone has different financial problems etc BUT my sister who has no kids like me & is on holidays every second week said she wont bother going now either & said sure we will save for next year i told her out straight i might not be able to go next year as please god ill be pregnant im am soooooooooooo p***ed off its unreal ..................i have often done things she wanted to do and the first time I ask for something back just aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

baby and crumble

Well first off, 3 days shopping in NYC is not the equivalent of saying yes to a gig or night out. You're looking at at least €1000 for flights & accommodation, most likely, and then you have expenses.

And why do you do so much for other people, is it because you like being there for people, or because you want some kind of kick back in the end? You being nice, perhaps too nice, does not automatically oblige people to do the same back.

As for your sis- maybe she just doesn't want to go? Personally i'd find 3 days shopping in NYC as a bit of a nightmare, especially if I was going with only 1 other person, it gives you no chance to slink off on your own for a wander.

Maple

The Ladies Lounge is not the appropriate forum for your rant OP.

Thread locked.

Maple