Don't you just find it a nuisance when....

starlit

Don't you just find it a nuisance when you and your friend like likes the same person and if someone likes likes you and your friend!? Isn't it awkward and weird? Difficult triangle!:( (*mods can move this if they wish)

krudler

threesome, problem solved.

starlit

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Not likely to happen! Sorry to disappoint!

hondasam

Sharing is caring. Think on the positive side, ye will have something to talk about.

dr.bollocko

doovdela wrote: »

(*mods can move this if they wish)

I don't wish.

Does like liking involve following them on twitter and not ignoring them on facebook?

Or is it about oral sex and heroin?

You'll have to forgive me for asking.

I'm not down with the kids any more.

m5ex9oqjawdg2i

Get your heart broken?

Confront your mate about it maybe? If you like somebody enough, don't give a fcuk about who else likes her.

Sounds like 14 year olds.

"I like her, so you can't have her"

Fk that sheeet...

starlit

No what I mean is two people who are friends fancying the same person at the same time or one person fancying two people at the same time that happen to be friends/best friends!? Nothing else.

Blondini

doovdela wrote: »

Don't you just find it a nuisance when you and your friend like likes the same person and if someone likes likes you and your friend!?

There's a lotta likes in this sentence

dr.bollocko

Blondini wrote: »

There's a lotta likes in this sentence

Must be from cork.

VenusPlays

It only matters when your young and have a 'code'. When your old (and desperate) its every girl/guy for themselves and if you lose a few mates along the way, so be it.

Seachmall

doovdela wrote: »

Don't you just find it a nuisance when you and your friend like likes the same person and if someone likes likes you and your friend!?

"Likes likes"?!

Isn't it past your bed time?

stoneill

Either shag both of them or stop whining.

lastlaugh

So long as you don't get sloppy seconds you'll be grand.

starbelgrade

It's for situations like these that God invented spit roasting.

The big man thought of everything.

HazDanz

doovdela wrote: »

Don't you just find it a nuisance when you and your friend like likes the same person and if someone likes likes you and your friend!?

It's like my brain has an itch that I can't scratch.

Is it that you and your friend like likes the same person but that same person yous both like like likes you and your friend in a like likes way also??

starlit

Karen Tinkling Telegraph wrote: »

Get your heart broken?

Not necessary but I have been in the middle of it like that. Where a friend and myself like the same guy or that a guy fancies both of us and one of us is second best that sort of thing despite him wanting both of us he could only have of us.

Ok make it a fun thread. No quips or innuendoes or bashing/mocking stuff.

Confront your mate about it maybe? If you like somebody enough, don't give a fcuk about who else likes her.

Have done and not done depends on the friend and the guy in question.

Sounds like 14 year olds.

I'm in my mid 20's!

"I like her, so you can't have her"

Fk that sheeet...

Why has it to be complicated like that arragh! The inspiration for the thread came from Friend's (Ross and Rachael Thing) and Made in Chelsea where there is a similar predicament. Long term friends both fancy each other but don't like it when they see the other with a partner. Their past partners are threatened by the close friendship/relationship which causes a lot of their break ups with their partners. Both have strong feelings for each other but don't pursue it. One confesses their dying love for the other and well nothing happens other than a kiss and one of them ones off. Comes back from their time away and well the tension and flirting strong feelings come back. I am unsure what way it goes yet as its only into the 3rd episode of the second series.

hondasam

doovdela wrote: »

Why has it to be complicated like that arragh! The inspiration for the thread came from Friend's (Ross and Rachael Thing) and Made in Chelsea where there is a similar predicament. Long term friends both fancy each other but don't like it when they see the other with a partner. Their past partners are threatened by the close friendship/relationship which causes a lot of their break ups with their partners. Both have strong feelings for each other but don't pursue it. One confesses their dying love for the other and well nothing happens other than a kiss and one of them ones off. Comes back from their time away and well the tension and flirting strong feelings come back. I am unsure what way it goes yet as its only into the 3rd episode of the second series.

Dela do you want to know how it pans out? I never liked Ross.

starlit

dr.bollocko wrote: »

Must be from cork.

Aha, no but not far from there!

Ok follow the sentence for what you would continue with the sentence 'don't you find it a nuisance when...fill in the rest that is what I meant! So as not to go off track!

Seachmall wrote: »

"Likes likes"?!

Isn't it past your bed time?

No its not I am 12 years older than 14!

I use like a lot my I also use 'like like' as in another way of saying 'fancy' is that so hard to understand no?

stoneill wrote: »

Either shag both of them or stop whining.

Not a chance.

lastlaugh wrote: »

So long as you don't get sloppy seconds you'll be grand.

Unfortunately that has happened that I got sloppy seconds as well as being the sloppy seconds not nice!?

starbelgrade wrote: »

It's for situations like these that God invented spit roasting.

The big man thought of everything.

I don't know what to say to that. I am a lady and I like guys!

HazDanz wrote: »

It's like my brain has an itch that I can't scratch.

Is it that you and your friend like likes the same person but that same person yous both like like likes you and your friend in a like likes way also??

That sort of thing has happened too. But hasn't happened all the time. Might vary from guy to guy that we know and meet on nights out like!
Say one guy me and my friend might both like but only likes one of us, say one guy likes both me and my friend but prefers my friend better or that well sloppy seconds comes into place/2nd best sort of thing. And that a guy likes both of us like fancy both of us but can't decide which of us he wants. Or that we both happen to fancy the same fella at the same time can get awkward.

Seachmall

doovdela wrote: »

Not necessary but I have been in the middle of it like that. Where a friend and myself like the same guy or that a guy fancies both of us and one of us is second best that sort of thing despite him wanting both of us he could only have of us.

Hold on, you're a chick?

Just fucking ride the lad.

Both of ye can have a go, either separately or together. He doesn't care, he just wants the ride and by the sounds of it so do ye.

starlit

hondasam wrote: »

Dela do you want to know how it pans out? I never liked Ross.

I have seen the final episode of friends yes. Rachael goes on a flight to france, ross figures out she still loves him and realises he wants to make a go of things with her despite the rest of the gang's doubts. Anyway, ross runs after rachael in the hope of catching her before her flight. He thinks he missed her to say good bye but rachael gets off the plane! They get together then again I suppose despite already having a baby together! I quiet liked Ross, I liked all the characters on friends. No I am unaware of how the made in chelsea pans out while I do know with 'Friends' yes.

Seachmall

doovdela wrote: »

I have seen the final episode of friends yes. Rachael goes on a flight to france, ross figures out she still loves him and realises he wants to make a go of things with her despite the rest of the gang's doubts. Anyway, ross runs after rachael in the hope of catching her before her flight. He thinks he missed her to say good bye but rachael gets off the plane! They get together then again I suppose despite already having a baby together! I quiet liked Ross, I liked all the characters on friends. No I am unaware of how the made in chelsea pans out while I do know with 'Friends' yes.

What the fuck is going on?

Have ya ridden him yet?

starlit

Seachmall wrote: »

Hold on, you're a chick?

Just fucking ride the lad.

Both of ye can have a go, either separately or together. He doesn't care, he just wants the ride and by the sounds of it so do ye.

Ya I am a chick, I know the username could show either way!

That guy is in the past for a reason. I didn't want our friendship to stand in the way. He fancies her more despite having been with him myself but she didn't want anything to do with him. He is still chasing after her but I don't want him. That's way in the past. She isn't single so she can't do anything about it.

Though a friend of mine did cop off with a lad and they just were friends then months later I meet him and kiss him and we hitted off but feel like I was really the next best thing to him really.

starlit

Seachmall wrote: »

What the fuck is going on?

Have ya ridden him yet?

Who? its not just been one guy that I have had this issue with friends. That situation has happened with countless of fellas. Just a nuisance that it happens at all. Me and them fancy the same fella and a different fella might fancy both of us.

Ronin247

doovdela wrote: »

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Unfortunately that has happened that I got sloppy seconds as well as being the sloppy seconds not nice!?

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I suspect you dont know what was meant by sloppy seconds,also known as stirring someone elses porridge

starlit

Ronin247 wrote: »

I suspect you dont know what was meant by sloppy seconds,also known as stirring someone elses porridge

I understand the concept of sloppy seconds but I view it as 'being second best' or second person chosen and not being someone's first choice. And that someone copped off with and kissed say and then goes off and kisses/cops off with someone else so the second person they are with is the sloppy seconds or that the person that has already been kissed goes and kisses someone else and that person is the sloppy seconder or that the person who has already kissed them and then kisses a different person the same night?

I am getting confused!? Enlighten me ronin!?

TheZohanS

One word: Robbery.


Also if you're really hard up head out in Galway tonight. I hear the annual slut convention is on, they're all gaggin' for it.

Logical Fallacy

If someone likes both you and your friend it actually just means they are horny.

Either one of you will do.

starlit

TheZohan wrote: »

One word: Robbery.


Also if you're really hard up head out in Galway tonight. I hear the annual slut convention is on, they're all gaggin' for it.

Robbery what do you mean by that? I have heard its on but seriously nah they wouldn't be?! no, no way!?

Anyway's I am a good bit away from Galway so won't be venturing up there any time soon.

FYI 'I am not gagging for it as I have nothing to gag about or haven't missed out on that sort of thing cause I have nothing to miss out on when you haven't experienced it'. You don't miss that you don't have or haven't had!

Balfie

this thread gives me a headache its that confusing..

starlit

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

If someone likes both you and your friend it actually just means they are horny.

Either one of you will do.

That isn't always the case they always prefer my friend over me. Though one guy would try it on with me if they failed to try it on with my friend that is more likely to happen but if they didn't fail to try it on with my friend then well I am out. So no I wouldn't do for them as they be a bit too besotted with my friend to care!

TheZohanS

doovdela wrote: »

Robbery what do you mean by that? I have heard its on but seriously nah they wouldn't be?! no, no way!?

Anyway's I am a good bit away from Galway so won't be venturing up there any time soon.

FYI 'I am not gagging for it as I have nothing to gag about or haven't missed out on that sort of thing cause I have nothing to miss out on when you haven't experienced it'. You don't miss that you don't have or haven't had!

A robbery is when you take the girl of your mate. You need to brush up on your game a bit, I suggest you download a documentary called "Jersey Shore", it's very good.

starlit

TheZohan wrote: »

A robbery is when you take the girl of your mate. You need to brush up on your game a bit, I suggest you download a documentary called "Jersey Shore", it's very good.

I am a woman and like men so in this context I take a guy of my mate, I need to brush up my game. I am sick of playing games though, done so in the past and I don't like it.

I have been watching Made in Chelsea so maybe I might watch Jersey Shore so...might give me a few tips. Clean innocent fun but no mind games though I do play my cards close to my chest don't always have my cards on the table too soon.:cool:

Ronin247

doovdela wrote: »

I understand the concept of sloppy seconds but I view it as 'being second best' or second person chosen and not being someone's first choice. And that someone copped off with and kissed say and then goes off and kisses/cops off with someone else so the second person they are with is the sloppy seconds or that the person that has already been kissed goes and kisses someone else and that person is the sloppy seconder or that the person who has already kissed them and then kisses a different person the same night?

I am getting confused!? Enlighten me ronin!?

http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/sloppy_seconds

starlit

Ronin247 wrote: »

http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/sloppy_seconds

Ah, in my world its kissing in terms of sloppy seconds rather than sex I'm afraid, now understand the concept even more so technically I neither been a sloppy second and not have had sloppy seconds then. Technically I a mean.:eek:

the groutch

ever heard of double penetration?

Logical Fallacy

doovdela wrote: »

I am a woman and like men so in this context I take a guy of my mate, I need to brush up my game. I am sick of playing games though, done so in the past and I don't like it.

I have been watching Made in Chelsea so maybe I might watch Jersey Shore so...might give me a few tips. Clean innocent fun but no mind games though I do play my cards close to my chest don't always have my cards on the table too soon.:cool:

At this point it's time to just admit something has gone wrong with your life and rebuild from the ground up.

TheZohanS

doovdela wrote: »

Clean innocent fun but no mind games though I do play my cards close to my chest don't always have my cards on the table too soon.:cool:

Well despite what wimmins think; most men are not mind readers, subtlety is lost on us for the most part.

If you see a guy and you fancy him, go for it. Forget about your female friends, they'll dump you like yesterdays newspaper as soon as they find a man.

Winner takes all.

starlit

the groutch wrote: »

ever heard of double penetration?

No? :eek:

Logical Fallacy wrote: »

At this point it's time to just admit something has gone wrong with your life and rebuild from the ground up.

hmmm maybe that's the case. I don't know.

TheZohan wrote: »

Well despite what wimmins think; most men are not mind readers, subtlety is lost on us for the most part.

If you see a guy and you fancy him, go for it. Forget about your female friends, they'll dump you like yesterdays newspaper as soon as they find a man.

Winner takes all.

That's not always the case my friends seem to think never let a fella get in the way of friendship and I trust that they are right cause that sort of thing has almost close calls where friendship has been nearly ruined over fellas.

It doesn't bother me if a friend of mine have a boyfriend, if anything I try my best to be pally with them too like so as to make them feel included and not leave anyone out though it feels like the third wheel so what I get to spend time with my friend and my friends gets time with their boyfriends. Though it might bother some of my friends if I hang out with a guy more than them depends on the situation and the guy and the friend and her status.

TheZohanS

doovdela wrote: »

It doesn't bother me if a friend of mine have a boyfriend, if anything I try my best to be pally with them too like so as to make them feel included and not leave anyone out though it feels like the third wheel so what I get to spend time with my friend and my friends gets time with their boyfriends. Though it might bother some of my friends if I hang out with a guy more than them depends on the situation and the guy and the friend and her status.

Have you ever been so far even as decided to use go want to look more like?

starlit

TheZohan wrote: »

Have you ever been so far even as decided to use go want to look more like?

Please repeat that again. So you saying is have I portrayed myself or indicated/hinted to someone that I am looking for more as in more than just friends or more than just a kiss?

Or look for more in what way are you talking about? more fish in the sea...what like?

If you are asking me what you are asking me then yes I have wanted more than what ever you are on about but never got to that point except with the odd one or two guys.

starlit

What are you getting at zohan?

TheZohanS

doovdela wrote: »

Please repeat that again. So you saying is have I portrayed myself or indicated/hinted to someone that I am looking for more as in more than just friends or more than just a kiss?

Or look for more in what way are you talking about? more fish in the sea...what like?

If you are asking me what you are asking me then yes I have wanted more than what ever you are on about but never got to that point except with the odd one or two guys.

You’ve got to be kidding me. I’ve been further even more decided to use even go need to do look more as anyone can. Can you really be far even as decided half as much to use go wish for that? My guess is that when one really been far even as decided once to use even go want, it is then that he has really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like. It’s just common sense.

starlit

TheZohan wrote: »

You’ve got to be kidding me. I’ve been further even more decided to use even go need to do look more as anyone can. Can you really be far even as decided half as much to use go wish for that? My guess is that when one really been far even as decided once to use even go want, it is then that he has really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like. It’s just common sense.

I still don't understand you! Is it the need to look for more from a relationship/friendship?

Cillian13

You need to find yourself some uglier friends :rolleyes: simples

Napper Hawkins

doovdela wrote: »

I still don't understand you! Is it the need to look for more from a relationship/friendship?

Fantastic stuff.
Bravo.

stupidusername

Brilliant thread. Despite not being able to understand most of what the op is saying.

So your friend isn't single and doesn't want the guy,he wants her,you've already had him and don't want him again.so what's the problem? Neither of ye want him. Simple stuff really.

--Kaiser--

This thread is like a car crash, I don't want to look but I just can't turn away

FetchTheGin

Either way, that lad is a legend.

starlit

FetchTheGin wrote: »

Either way, that lad is a legend.

Any of those lad's aren't legends but as stupidusername pointed out that's the most recent predicament I was in recently. Any ways, that lad isn't a legend, he just likes to get his cake and eat it as far as I am concerned a bit greedy. Want's women he can't have and still pursues them and still goes with someone who is single but doesn't want. Whom I don't want any more to do with for other reasons other than he too much of a ladies man if you ask me. So time to move on eh! Moving on to someone better that deserves moi!

starlit

Cillian13 wrote: »

You need to find yourself some uglier friends :rolleyes: simples

No don't think that is the case I don't know. Looks was we are similar like. Cute I suppose as others have said but I suppose they be more bubbly than me I suppose so guessing its a personality thing don't know.

Napper Hawkins wrote: »

Fantastic stuff.
Bravo.

Is that what the zohan is on about so I got it right then oh right. ah!? :cool:

In that case sometimes I do and sometimes I don't ask for more from a relationship/friendship. Depends often I don't ask for more.

Seachmall

OP, you from Cork by any chance?