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As these comments by David Norris true?

  • 28-09-2011 11:23pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭


    Someone posted a quote earlier from David Norris. It cited the Daily Mail as the source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1394458/Sex-abuse-survivor-My-anger-Senator-David-Norris-disturbing-views-paedophilia.html - Now I remember some controversy about Norris a few months back, but I can't remember much of it.

    I wouldn't accept the Daily Mail as a valid source for any comments, so my intention is not to attack David Norris' character. Could someone comment on that article above and confirm whether or not Norris stated the following:
    • On child sexual abuse: ‘Children in some instances are more damaged by the condemnation than the experience’
    • Asked if incest was acceptable, he said there was a case to ban it... but only for girls who might have an ‘undesirable’ pregnancy
    • On paedophilia: ‘There’s a lot of nonsense about paedophilia... I think there is a complete and utter hysteria about this subject’
    • Challenged on whether a child can give ‘informed consent’ to sex: ‘The law should take into account consent rather than age’


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,894 ✭✭✭✭phantom_lord


    I think you're better off reading the full article in context.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    Thanks, will give it a read now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    Having read the full article in context - Here's my thoughts. The incest thing is a taboo topic, but a non-issue for me. What two consenting adults want to do, is their own business regardless of how off I might find it personally. However, as a child cannot give consent - that's where the line should be drawn.

    His comment on the law asserting that consent should be taken into account over age is the difference maker for me. A child cannot give consent - and why he feels this is invalid is beyond me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,378 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    Has the tape recording been released?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,012 ✭✭✭✭thebman


    dlofnep wrote: »
    Has the rape recording been released?

    Rape recording?? The tape the journalist recorded that she said she had but didn't have a player for was never released if that is what your referring to though a suitable player was offered to her though I don't know how others know this for sure TBH.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    Tape recording, sorry. Typo.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 46,938 ✭✭✭✭Nodin


    dlofnep wrote: »
    Has the tape recording been released?

    Through a long saga, in which tapes were lost, found, lost again, players proffered and attics searched, no. 'It must have been thrown out when my roof collapsed' was the end story.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    Strange.....the caption under one of the pics has the quote containing the word paedophelia, whereas most Norris apologists seem to claim that he never said it about paedophelia and was "only" on about "pederastry" or something like that.

    Does the article disprove that claim ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    Did he confirm or deny in particular this quote: ‘The law should take into account consent rather than age’ ?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    dlofnep wrote: »
    Someone posted a quote earlier from David Norris. It cited the Daily Mail as the source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1394458/Sex-abuse-survivor-My-anger-Senator-David-Norris-disturbing-views-paedophilia.html - Now I remember some controversy about Norris a few months back, but I can't remember much of it.

    I wouldn't accept the Daily Mail as a valid source for any comments, so my intention is not to attack David Norris' character. Could someone comment on that article above and confirm whether or not Norris stated the following:
    • On child sexual abuse: ‘Children in some instances are more damaged by the condemnation than the experience’
    • Asked if incest was acceptable, he said there was a case to ban it... but only for girls who might have an ‘undesirable’ pregnancy
    • On paedophilia: ‘There’s a lot of nonsense about paedophilia... I think there is a complete and utter hysteria about this subject’
    • Challenged on whether a child can give ‘informed consent’ to sex: ‘The law should take into account consent rather than age’

    This seems to be a slightly peculiar thread to say the least . You seem to be asking " Could someone comment on that article above and confirm whether or not Norris stated the following:...." As a moderator i assume you are in a fair position to ask Boards.ie to ask these questions of David Norris - after all he has done one interview with Boards.ie already so I assume he would be happy to answer any follow up questions. Will you do that for us ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    anymore wrote: »
    This seems to be a slightly peculiar thread to say the least . You seem to be asking " Could someone comment on that article above and confirm whether or not Norris stated the following:...."

    What's peculiar about creating a thread asking for some points to be clarified? The reason why I asked is because I do not consider the Daily Mail to be a valid source, and was looking for a better source on the comments.
    anymore wrote: »
    As a moderator i assume you are in a fair position to ask Boards.ie to ask these questions of David Norris - after all he has done one interview with Boards.ie already so I assume he would be happy to answer any follow up questions. Will you do that for us ?

    I am not a moderator. I moderate a private forum on boards.ie, that does not make me a boards.ie moderator. I have no intentions of contacting David Norris again, as he did not do me the courtesy of replying to my last e-mail to him a few months back. If boards.ie want to invite him to a question and answer session, I'll be more than happy to ask him then.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    dlofnep wrote: »
    What's peculiar about creating a thread asking for some points to be clarified? The reason why I asked is because I do not consider the Daily Mail to be a valid source, and was looking for a better source on the comments.



    I am not a moderator. I moderate a private forum on boards.ie, that does not make me a boards.ie moderator. I have no intentions of contacting David Norris again, as he did not do me the courtesy of replying to my last e-mail to him a few months back. If boards.ie want to invite him to a question and answer session, I'll be more than happy to ask him then.
    OK I assume you were an actual moderator I didnt know there are different grades or thier significance.. Mr NOrris refusal to answer your email needs to be set against his claim to be the most open candidate in the campaign. It is also not the first reference I have seen to his lack of courtesy.
    AS for the Mail, they proved to be a far better source of information on Bertie Ahern than some of the Irish papers so now I am willing to treat them seriously whereas before I would not even have picked up the paper to have free read in shops.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    anymore wrote: »
    OK I assume you were an actual moderator I didnt know there are different grades or thier significance.. Mr NOrris refusal to answer your email needs to be set against his claim to be the most open candidate in the campaign. It is also not the first reference I have seen to his lack of courtesy.

    Just for clarification - I didn't e-mail him with regards to the above controversy. It was a few months ago at the start of his first presidential campaign. I asked a few various questions and did not receive a reply. I also contacted him on twitter to see if he could respond to my mail, but also did not get a reply.

    anymore wrote: »
    AS for the Mail, they proved to be a far better source of information on Bertie Ahern than some of the Irish papers so now I am willing to treat them seriously whereas before I would not even have picked up the paper to have free read in shops.

    The Daily Mail is a rag, that sensationalises stories. They are well known for taking stuff out of context - Which is why I wanted a bit more of an unbiased view on the comments. All that is left to verify now is whether or not Norris actually said the above.

    From what I can gather, he has stated that he was 'taken out of context'. But has he actually denied making the above comments? Because, there is only so much context you can spin.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 26,567 ✭✭✭✭Fratton Fred


    I think Mr Norris tries to give too intelligent answers at times when he should give simple yes or nos.

    On the child sex issue, if what I have heard him say since is correct, what he was trying to say was that a court should take age and consent into account. For example, two 15 year olds having consensual sex probably doesn't warrant one of them going to prison for five years and being put on the sex offenders register. If there was no consent, then it does.

    I get the impression that David Norris likes to engage in debate rather than simply answer questions


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    dlofnep wrote: »
    Just for clarification - I didn't e-mail him with regards to the above controversy. It was a few months ago at the start of his first presidential campaign. I asked a few various questions and did not receive a reply. I also contacted him on twitter to see if he could respond to my mail, but also did not get a reply.




    The Daily Mail is a rag, that sensationalises stories. They are well known for taking stuff out of context - Which is why I wanted a bit more of an unbiased view on the comments. All that is left to verify now is whether or not Norris actually said the above.

    From what I can gather, he has stated that he was 'taken out of context'. But has he actually denied making the above comments? Because, there is only so much context you can spin.

    Norris has spent so much time spinning now that some of the things he spinned early on are now coming back to contradict other things he has spun more recently !


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    On the child sex issue, if what I have heard him say since is correct, what he was trying to say was that a court should take age and consent into account. For example, two 15 year olds having consensual sex probably doesn't warrant one of them going to prison for five years and being put on the sex offenders register. If there was no consent, then it does.

    That's not the impression I got from reading the article.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,949 ✭✭✭A Primal Nut


    dlofnep wrote: »
    Did he confirm or deny in particular this quote: ‘The law should take into account consent rather than age’ ?

    He said on the Late Late Show that he only wanted consent taking into account rather than age in cases where, for example, the guy was 17 and the girl is 15. It's hard to tell from the article whether that's true or he's just saying that to avoid controversy. I'd be a little wary of the fact that statement and the one regarding incest are isolated lines on their own....and I also wonder if the incest comment was in the context of paedophilia. I still think the incest comment is a bit horrific but there is no context provided unfortunately.

    The "hysteria" comment seems to him referring to the confusion between homosexuality and pedophilia, and also the confusion between "ped" and "paed" which are legitimate concerns. Also every young person fantasises so nothing wrong with him saying he would have liked an older guy to take him under his wing (I'm sure every straight guy here would have loved if an older women took them under their wing when they were younger). However that doesn't make it right and I don't like that he said "there is something to be said for it."

    I don't particularly like his comments and reading the article doesn't make me feel any better about him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,378 ✭✭✭✭nacho libre


    There are just too many iffy comments from him that do nothing to dispell the perception he's ambivalent about sexual relations between adults and minors. I'm not buying the excuse that some of his comments are academic answers that have been taken out of context and sensationalised by a rag that just wants to sell newspapers. You only have to read his comments defending the Irish language poet to see he is ambivalent about the issue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    You only have to read his comments defending the Irish language poet to see he is ambivalent about the issue.

    Since the HLB article is quoted in full above, and is pretty unremarkable, I may as well link Norris's equally non-scandalous remarks in the Seanad about O'Searcaigh.

    Oh, here's the published Nawi letter, while we're at it. No, it's not shocking, either. Feel free to produce those actual iffy quotes from Norris, though.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    " Last weekend, I received an e-mail from a woman, a lesbian, who said that she normally disagrees with me, but not here.
    “Hasn’t anyone been listening?” she asked. “Hasn’t anyone learned anything? The Catholic Church dealt with its scandals by first protecting its own, issuing denials, asking for proof, pointing to the excellent record of accused clerics, minimising the seriousness of the issue, arguing the finer points of clerical law and finally blaming the victim or the messenger. The Norris case is being handled in the very same way by liberals who would roundly criticise a cleric coming out with the same statements. I know because I would be one of them.”"

    The article below is worth reading on the subject. From John Waters
    http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/opinion/2011/0610/1224298690294.html


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    Since the HLB article is quoted in full above, and is pretty unremarkable, I may as well link Norris's equally non-scandalous remarks in the Seanad about O'Searcaigh.

    Oh, here's the published Nawi letter, while we're at it. No, it's not shocking, either. Feel free to produce those actual iffy quotes from Norris, though.

    I notice that at the beginning of the letter to the Judge that Norris describes his boyfriend as a " good, honest, trustworthy person". Except by Norris's own admission that the same man, his long term lover, had been cheating on him with a 15 year old boy. So how exactly can Norris, who has declared how he always tries to tell the truth, describe his cheating boyfriend as " good, honest and trustworthy" ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,283 ✭✭✭✭Scofflaw


    I think we're wandering off the point and into more generalised attacks here - that's particularly you, anymore.

    moderately,
    Scofflaw


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,296 ✭✭✭RandolphEsq


    He said on the Late Late Show that he only wanted consent taking into account rather than age in cases where, for example, the guy was 17 and the girl is 15. It's hard to tell from the article whether that's true or he's just saying that to avoid controversy. I'd be a little wary of the fact that statement and the one regarding incest are isolated lines on their own....and I also wonder if the incest comment was in the context of paedophilia. I still think the incest comment is a bit horrific but there is no context provided unfortunately.

    The "hysteria" comment seems to him referring to the confusion between homosexuality and pedophilia, and also the confusion between "ped" and "paed" which are legitimate concerns. Also every young person fantasises so nothing wrong with him saying he would have liked an older guy to take him under his wing (I'm sure every straight guy here would have loved if an older women took them under their wing when they were younger). However that doesn't make it right and I don't like that he said "there is something to be said for it."

    I don't particularly like his comments and reading the article doesn't make me feel any better about him.
    What don't you like? That he calls for possibly making it legal? I think that comment could also be interpreted in the context of your analogy as 'there is something to be said for it to be understandable from the point of view of the younger person'. Nothing scandalous about saying that.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    I think you're better off reading the full article in context.


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    Having read and re-read this article, I am surprised to find so much in it that is complimentary to David Norris - looking at the various reactions by different commentators and posters on various internet sites, one would imagine that the article was a complete hatchet job and one that was focussed on one thing : that is demonising David Norris. The reality seems to be compeletely different, for example consider the passage where she refers to his passioante campaigns where " the common theme being the protection of the underdog "
    And I have also noticed that the author refers to the first meeting she had with David Norris when he showed her around his house 25 years previousily. Maybe it is time this article was analysed properly and then any or all of the different comments over a wide range of issues can be properly placed in context. And I have to say that many of the comments made by HLB re-inforce comments made both by Mr Norris and his supporters about his human righst campaigning.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,055 ✭✭✭conorhal


    dlofnep wrote: »
    Has the tape recording been released?

    The tapes are a red herring. TWICE Norris was asked, at the time of publication, both by the journalist in question and the editor of Magill if he wished to retract any of the interview (as both were a bit gobsmacked my the nature of some of his comments) or clarify his points. Norris was happy to see that article go to press and it seems unusual that it took him 20yrs and a badly damaged presidential campaign to suddenly decide that he had been 'misquoted'.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,012 ✭✭✭✭thebman


    conorhal wrote: »
    The tapes are a red herring. TWICE Norris was asked, at the time of publication, both by the journalist in question and the editor of Magill if he wished to retract any of the interview (as both were a bit gobsmacked my the nature of some of his comments) or clarify his points. Norris was happy to see that article go to press and it seems unusual that it took him 20yrs and a badly damaged presidential campaign to suddenly decide that he had been 'misquoted'.

    Well why would he bother if they were sitting in an archive somewhere and not causing him any harm?

    I'd expect there to be at least a letter from Norris or his people trying to clarify it at the time though. If nobody even around him was objecting at the time, it would look bad.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    thebman wrote: »
    Well why would he bother if they were sitting in an archive somewhere and not causing him any harm?

    I'd expect there to be at least a letter from Norris or his people trying to clarify it at the time though. If nobody even around him was objecting at the time, it would look bad.

    The comments regarding pederasty can be clarified by looking at Seanad contributions around that time - so no tape would be required for that. It would aslo address the question of 'Context' , i.e it would show whether any conversation around younger/older people were centred around an academic discussion or whether any such conversation had more contemporary relevance.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,299 ✭✭✭✭MadsL


    The comments regarding pederasty can be clarified by looking at Seanad contributions around that time

    Sorry, what? This is off the wall. Could you explain what you mean by this. How do you clarify interview comments by looking at what is said in the Seanad???


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,520 ✭✭✭Duke Leonal Felmet


    dlofnep wrote: »
    • On paedophilia: ‘There’s a lot of nonsense about paedophilia... I think there is a complete and utter hysteria about this subject’

    I completely agree.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    MadsL wrote: »
    Sorry, what? This is off the wall. Could you explain what you mean by this. How do you clarify interview comments by looking at what is said in the Seanad???

    Well I will you what , you pick out anything that Helen LB has directly quoted Mr Norris on and I will see if i can find a a link where Mr Norris has discussed the subject matter somplace else.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    Mr Norris contributed tot he Sex Offenders Bill 2000, Committee stage so his comments may shed light on some of the questions asked here and are of course part of the public record for Seanad eireann My 30, 2001:


    http://debates.oireachtas.ie/seanad/2001/05/30/00006.asp#N14

    ...
    Mr. Norris: <A href="http://www.oireachtas.ie/members-hist/default.asp?housetype=1&HouseNum=23&MemberID=1758"&gt;info.gif <A href="http://debates.oireachtas.ie/seanad/2001/05/30/member1758.asp"&gt;zoom.gif <A name=N29>
    I know Senator Henry mentioned it, but only after I referred to it, and subsequently she retreated to the subject of girls.
    <A name=N30>
    Reference was made to public opinion and society making decisions. Society is a very complex organism. Nobody who listens to the radio or reads the newspaper can be unaware of the fact that young people of 14, 15 and 16 years – schoolgoers – seem to be routinely engaging in sexual activity, not necessarily full sexual activity. I am concerned about any measures that would marginalise young men and women, either by putting them on a list as sex offenders or by subjecting them to terms of imprisonment.
    <A name=N31>
    I am simply sounding an alarm bell warning that the Bill must reflect the reality of society as a whole and not merely consist of the aspirations of an older generation. It must reflect the reality of young people who are sexually active, whether they are heterosexual or homosexual.
    Ms Hanafin: <A href="http://www.oireachtas.ie/members-hist/default.asp?housetype=0&HouseNum=30&MemberID=484"&gt;info.gif <A href="http://debates.oireachtas.ie/seanad/2001/05/30/member484.asp"&gt;zoom.gif <A name=N32>
    I reassure Senator Norris that young men are dealt with in section 3(3)(b), which stipulates that they will be treated in the [1370] same way as young girls aged between 15 and 17 years.
    Mr. Norris: <A href="http://www.oireachtas.ie/members-hist/default.asp?housetype=1&HouseNum=23&MemberID=1758"&gt;info.gif <A href="http://debates.oireachtas.ie/seanad/2001/05/30/member1758.asp"&gt;zoom.gif <A name=N33>
    That is the problem. The experience of young men may be radically different from that of young women. That is why the Minister of State must be in touch with the organisations.
    Ms Hanafin: <A href="http://www.oireachtas.ie/members-hist/default.asp?housetype=0&HouseNum=30&MemberID=484"&gt;info.gif <A href="http://debates.oireachtas.ie/seanad/2001/05/30/member484.asp"&gt;zoom.gif <A name=N34>
    From the point of view of being an offence, which I think is Senator Norris's original question, it is in the Bill. We are not talking about changing the criminal law regarding such offences and a register. The question of consent will be examined when the discussion paper on the law on sexual offences is being considered further. Just as Senator Norris spoke of the appropriate use of words, the message today is that we should have the appropriate use of the register, which is designed to work against paedophiles and sex offenders. I thank Senator Keogh for withdrawing her amendment.
    Mr. Norris: <A href="http://www.oireachtas.ie/members-hist/default.asp?housetype=1&HouseNum=23&MemberID=1758"&gt;info.gif <A href="http://debates.oireachtas.ie/seanad/2001/05/30/member1758.asp"&gt;zoom.gif <A name=N35>
    Would the Minister of State be prepared to give an indication to the House that, in the framing of this kind of legislation, there will be contact with counselling organisations, particularly those for gay men? That would be very helpful.
    Ms Hanafin: <A href="http://www.oireachtas.ie/members-hist/default.asp?housetype=0&HouseNum=30&MemberID=484"&gt;info.gif <A href="http://debates.oireachtas.ie/seanad/2001/05/30/member484.asp"&gt;zoom.gif <A name=N36>
    The legislation is outside my remit, but I will pass on that information to the Minister for Health and Children.
    <A name=N37>Amendment, by leave, withdrawn.
    <A name=N38>Section 3 agreed to.
    <A name=N39>Sections 4 and 5 agreed to.
    <A name=N40>


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    Sorry quoting directly is giving a lot of goggly de goo !
    I am not sure how to avid it !


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    Mr. Norris: I also oppose the amendment for some of the reasons the Minister of State has outlined but those very reasons should give us pause to consider the operation of the Bill in these terms. I have always believed, for example, that a far better way of dealing with these issues is the principle of consent. I am aware that is awkward because it would have to go to a court and a judge, or some kind of panel, would have to determine whether consent actually existed but the Minister of State said it all when she said that any of these lines are arbitrarily drawn, and when these lines are arbitrarily drawn there will be cases where moral injustice or damage is done to young people.

    I notice the Minister of State referred to the girl under 15 years but this is not confined to girls. There is no recognition or understanding of the whole area of gay sexuality in the Bill and my experience of this area, in founding counselling organisations and so on, is that whether society likes it very frequently and, in most cases, viewed positively by the subject, a young gay man's experience is in partnership with somebody who is some years older and seen by the younger person as a secure and reassuring entry into the full expression of sexuality. I do not believe there is any understanding of this fact in the Bill because the Minister of State simply referred to “a girl” and that is the way in which people think. They do not accept the area of gay sexuality at all.

    Even the language in which many of these matters are couched is questionable. The Minister of State spoke about the defilement of a girl. This, presumably, is something that can take place with or without consent because the girl is under a certain age. Is this language we should accept in the 21st century as appropriate to describe a consensual sexual relationship, even though I accept that parents may be concerned because of a difference in age or because they believe their child, young woman or young man, is too young to have any experience of sexuality? There is a whole area therefore that has not been taken into account by those framing the Bill.

    The Government's amendment, No. 18, appears to be in the same area – I am surprised it is not linked but I am sure there is a technical reason for this – where it specifies prison terms for persons found guilty of sexual assault and so [1368] on. If somebody is under the age of 17 years, regardless of whether there is consent, in legal terms it is defined as an assault. No consent can be deemed possible by a person under a certain age so a situation may arise where the relationship is perceived by the two parties engaged in it as consenting, yet the law describes it as assault and defilement and apportions severe penalties in terms of imprisonment or the social stigma of being added to a register.

    I accept the enormous public concern about this issue, especially because so much tragic information has been given to the public in the area of paedophilia. The Minister of State used the word appropriately but unfortunately often in these discussions it is not used appropriately and people assume that certain types of behaviour of which they disapprove are paedophilia when they are not. I am against the idea of arbitrary age considerations and in favour of a principle of consent. Since that appears not to be available I support the Minister of State's view.

    I ask the Minister of State and her advisers to bear in mind this area. I do not ask them to necessarily take what I say as fact but to contact those agencies that deal with young people with troubled sexuality, especially young people in the gay community who are coming to understand their sexuality. I also ask them to listen to what the people who deal with young people in this area have to say. Surprising conclusions may emerge which might affect the way these legislative provisions are framed in the future. I welcome the Minister of State's indication that this may be possible and that in future when such legislation is being framed these kinds of contacts will be made. As it is, a whole area of human sexuality is totally ignored in the consideration of this legislation.

    Learn how to copy and paste properly ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    Apologies for first quote above from Seanad.
    Below is a further commet from Mr Norris which is quite long but lays out some more of his thinking on these issues.
    It would really be better if anyone interested looked at the Seanad page , via the link, itself and got a feel for the vatious questions and answers.
    http://debates.oireachtas.ie/seanad/2001/05/30/00006.asp#N14

    " zoom.gif I also oppose the amendment for some of the reasons the Minister of State has outlined but those very reasons should give us pause to consider the operation of the Bill in these terms. I have always believed, for example, that a far better way of dealing with these issues is the principle of consent. I am aware that is awkward because it would have to go to a court and a judge, or some kind of panel, would have to determine whether consent actually existed but the Minister of State said it all when she said that any of these lines are arbitrarily drawn, and when these lines are arbitrarily drawn there will be cases where moral injustice or damage is done to young people.
    <A name=N15>I notice the Minister of State referred to the girl under 15 years but this is not confined to girls. There is no recognition or understanding of the whole area of gay sexuality in the Bill and my experience of this area, in founding counselling organisations and so on, is that whether society likes it very frequently and, in most cases, viewed positively by the subject, a young gay man's experience is in partnership with somebody who is some years older and seen by the younger person as a secure and reassuring entry into the full expression of sexuality. I do not believe there is any understanding of this fact in the Bill because the Minister of State simply referred to “a girl” and that is the way in which people think. They do not accept the area of gay sexuality at all.
    <A name=N16>Even the language in which many of these matters are couched is questionable. The Minister of State spoke about the defilement of a girl. This, presumably, is something that can take place with or without consent because the girl is under a certain age. Is this language we should accept in the 21st century as appropriate to describe a consensual sexual relationship, even though I accept that parents may be concerned because of a difference in age or because they believe their child, young woman or young man, is too young to have any experience of sexuality? There is a whole area therefore that has not been taken into account by those framing the Bill.
    <A name=N17>The Government's amendment, No. 18, appears to be in the same area – I am surprised it is not linked but I am sure there is a technical reason for this – where it specifies prison terms for persons found guilty of sexual assault and so [1368] on. If somebody is under the age of 17 years, regardless of whether there is consent, in legal terms it is defined as an assault. No consent can be deemed possible by a person under a certain age so a situation may arise where the relationship is perceived by the two parties engaged in it as consenting, yet the law describes it as assault and defilement and apportions severe penalties in terms of imprisonment or the social stigma of being added to a register.
    <A name=N18>I accept the enormous public concern about this issue, especially because so much tragic information has been given to the public in the area of paedophilia. The Minister of State used the word appropriately but unfortunately often in these discussions it is not used appropriately and people assume that certain types of behaviour of which they disapprove are paedophilia when they are not. I am against the idea of arbitrary age considerations and in favour of a principle of consent. Since that appears not to be available I support the Minister of State's view.
    <A name=N19>I ask the Minister of State and her advisers to bear in mind this area. I do not ask them to necessarily take what I say as fact but to contact those agencies that deal with young people with troubled sexuality, especially young people in the gay community who are coming to understand their sexuality. I also ask them to listen to what the people who deal with young people in this area have to say. Surprising conclusions may emerge which might affect the way these legislative provisions are framed in the future. I welcome the Minister of State's indication that this may be possible and that in future when such legislation is being framed these kinds of contacts will be made. As it is, a whole area of human sexuality is totally ignored in the consideration of this legislation. "


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57,358 ✭✭✭✭walshb


    dlofnep wrote: »
    What's peculiar about creating a thread asking for some points to be clarified? The reason why I asked is because I do not consider the Daily Mail to be a valid source, and was looking for a better source on the comments.



    I am not a moderator. I moderate a private forum on boards.ie, that does not make me a boards.ie moderator. I have no intentions of contacting David Norris again, as he did not do me the courtesy of replying to my last e-mail to him a few months back. If boards.ie want to invite him to a question and answer session, I'll be more than happy to ask him then.

    Why post a Daily Mail atricle if you "disbelieve" it? More Daily Mail bashing?

    I am sure the article is not telling lies about what he said. There
    are quite serious repercusssions if they were. They are his quotes/words are they not?

    Anyway, his views are a wee bit disturbing!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    dlofnep wrote: »
    Someone posted a quote earlier from David Norris. It cited the Daily Mail as the source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1394458/Sex-abuse-survivor-My-anger-Senator-David-Norris-disturbing-views-paedophilia.html - Now I remember some controversy about Norris a few months back, but I can't remember much of it.

    I wouldn't accept the Daily Mail as a valid source for any comments, so my intention is not to attack David Norris' character. Could someone comment on that article above and confirm whether or not Norris stated the following:
    • On child sexual abuse: ‘Children in some instances are more damaged by the condemnation than the experience’
    • Asked if incest was acceptable, he said there was a case to ban it... but only for girls who might have an ‘undesirable’ pregnancy
    • On paedophilia: ‘There’s a lot of nonsense about paedophilia... I think there is a complete and utter hysteria about this subject’
    • Challenged on whether a child can give ‘informed consent’ to sex: ‘The law should take into account consent rather than age’
    I dont know if you have time to click on the Seanad link and read through it but it does provide some answers.
    On the question of ' consent , Mr Norris has this to say :

    ".I also oppose the amendment for some of the reasons the Minister of State has outlined but those very reasons should give us pause to consider the operation of the Bill in these terms. I have always believed, for example, that a far better way of dealing with these issues is the principle of consent. I am aware that is awkward because it would have to go to a court and a judge, or some kind of panel, would have to determine whether consent actually existed but the Minister of State said it all when she said that any of these lines are arbitrarily drawn, and when these lines are arbitrarily drawn there will be cases where moral injustice or damage is done to young people...."



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,759 ✭✭✭✭dlofnep


    walshb wrote: »
    Why post a Daily Mail atricle if you "disbelieve" it? More Daily Mail bashing?

    I didn't state whether I believed or did not believe it was true. I was asking for clarification on whether it was true or not. What's so difficult to understand about this?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    dlofnep wrote: »
    I didn't state whether I believed or did not believe it was true. I was asking for clarification on whether it was true or not. What's so difficult to understand about this?

    Just wondering if yiu have looked at that Seanad link ?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6,488 ✭✭✭Denerick


    * He is right about paedophilia hysteria. Much more intense than it was 20 years ago even, its now gotten to the stage that an adult man can't even smile at a child without the worst being assumed.

    * What he said about an older man introducing a younger man into an adult sex life... Its the equivilent of a straight man saying he'd like some sexy older women to ride him when in his mid teens. Effectively the only reason somebody would find this offensive is because they are homophobic. When you actually think about it (And more importantly don't conclude the worst case scenario) its actually a pretty tame thing to say. Imagine it; a 15/16 year old version of you offered the chance to ride Beyonce. Not controversial. But when its a man! Good god no! What a creep! What a pervert! /vomit)

    * The incest thing - if based on consent between two adults, it shouldn't be a crime. I don't believe he was referring to adult/child incest though.

    * The age of consent for sexual acts is 16. He is right to place more emphasis on consent than arbitrary age limits. How is substantially different to have sex with someone aged 15 years 11 months and with someone on their 16th birthday?


    He didn't say anything that would be surprising to anyone who has rubbed shoulders with academic types. Its a pity that he lives in a country with a sick media and a gullible public.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,520 ✭✭✭Duke Leonal Felmet


    Denerick wrote: »
    * He is right about paedophilia hysteria. Much more intense than it was 20 years ago even, its now gotten to the stage that an adult man can't even smile at a child without the worst being assumed.

    Very true. And it is the only topic in western discourse where "rip his balls off and, etc, etc" is a logical and acceptable response.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,218 ✭✭✭beeno67


    Denerick wrote: »
    * What he said about an older man introducing a younger man into an adult sex life... Its the equivilent of a straight man saying he'd like some sexy older women to ride him when in his mid teens. Effectively the only reason somebody would find this offensive is because they are homophobic. When you actually think about it (And more importantly don't conclude the worst case scenario) its actually a pretty tame thing to say. Imagine it; a 15/16 year old version of you offered the chance to ride Beyonce. Not controversial. But when its a man! Good god no! What a creep! What a pervert! /vomit)
    it is the opposite of this. It is fine for a young early teenage boy or girl to fantasise about an older man or woman. It is not fine for the older man or woman to act on these fantasies. A middle aged man or woman having sex with a child is wrong no matter how much the child consents.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6,488 ✭✭✭Denerick


    beeno67 wrote: »
    it is the opposite of this. It is fine for a young early teenage boy or girl to fantasise about an older man or woman. It is not fine for the older man or woman to act on these fantasies. A middle aged man or woman having sex with a child is wrong no matter how much the child consents.

    Norris said 'young person' as far as I'm aware. A 15 year old is not a child. Especially a 15 year old male. All 15 year old males are, at the very least, sexual deviants. I'm not talking about children, but I think what Norris was trying to awkwardly say was that as a young man he wouldn't have minded having someone older to introduce him to sex. Which I think is the equivilent of the 15 year old version of me declaring (controversially) that I wouldn't have minded if Beyonce/Cameron Diaz/Jennifer Anniston had sex with me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,218 ✭✭✭beeno67


    Denerick wrote: »
    Norris said 'young person' as far as I'm aware. A 15 year old is not a child. Especially a 15 year old male. All 15 year old males are, at the very least, sexual deviants. I'm not talking about children, but I think what Norris was trying to awkwardly say was that as a young man he wouldn't have minded having someone older to introduce him to sex. Which I think is the equivilent of the 15 year old version of me declaring (controversially) that I wouldn't have minded if Beyonce/Cameron Diaz/Jennifer Anniston had sex with me.

    15 years old is a child. Children cannot marry, smoke, drink alcohol, vote or stand for election. If convicted of a crime they go to different courts and/or prison. They are even entitled to children's allowance. 15 is still a child. Men or women trying to have sex with children are breaking the law.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    Very true. And it is the only topic in western discourse where "rip his balls off and, etc, etc" is a logical and acceptable response.
    Dont know what part of the world you live in, but where I live we still drop kids off to a variety of sports/ leisure activities etc where adult males will be present some of whom we know some of whom we may not. An adult male smiling at a child is not regarded as a stereotypical pick up.
    Yes organisations are more aware of the need for proper child protection policies and seem to be able to manage without creating ' Adult male free ' zones.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,672 ✭✭✭anymore


    Denerick wrote: »
    * He is right about paedophilia hysteria. Much more intense than it was 20 years ago even, its now gotten to the stage that an adult man can't even smile at a child without the worst being assumed.

    * What he said about an older man introducing a younger man into an adult sex life... Its the equivilent of a straight man saying he'd like some sexy older women to ride him when in his mid teens. Effectively the only reason somebody would find this offensive is because they are homophobic. When you actually think about it (And more importantly don't conclude the worst case scenario) its actually a pretty tame thing to say. Imagine it; a 15/16 year old version of you offered the chance to ride Beyonce. Not controversial. But when its a man! Good god no! What a creep! What a pervert! /vomit)
    * The incest thing - if based on consent between two adults, it shouldn't be a crime. I don't believe he was referring to adult/child incest though.

    * The age of consent for sexual acts is 16. He is right to place more emphasis on consent than arbitrary age limits. How is substantially different to have sex with someone aged 15 years 11 months and with someone on their 16th birthday?


    He didn't say anything that would be surprising to anyone who has rubbed shoulders with academic types. Its a pity that he lives in a country with a sick media and a gullible public.

    Mr Norris also insisted in the seanad that the experinces of young gay males are different from those of other teens ( Nit5 sure if he forgot about lesbains ) He didnt explain if this was genetic or one of his own theories.
    As a parent who knows parents of gay young men, I have to say they didnt agree with him.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 6,488 ✭✭✭Denerick


    beeno67 wrote: »
    15 years old is a child. Children cannot marry, smoke, drink alcohol, vote or stand for election. If convicted of a crime they go to different courts and/or prison. They are even entitled to children's allowance. 15 is still a child. Men or women trying to have sex with children are breaking the law.

    I know its against the law. You're intentionally not seeing the point I'm getting at. A 15 year old is not a child. Its irrelevant whether the law regards them as one or not. Norris was talking from his own perspective, his own view on sexuality, and he was making the point as a young gay adolescent he wouldn't have been traumatised by a sexual encounter with an older man. I was drawing attention to the fact that the only reason this is controversial is because he is gay and he is discussing same sex relationships.

    I am going to say something controversial. If Jennifer Anniston had have had sex with me when I was 14 or 15... I think I might just have been able to get over it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭IrishPolitik


    dlofnep wrote: »
    Someone posted a quote earlier from David Norris. It cited the Daily Mail as the source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1394458/Sex-abuse-survivor-My-anger-Senator-David-Norris-disturbing-views-paedophilia.html - Now I remember some controversy about Norris a few months back, but I can't remember much of it.

    I wouldn't accept the Daily Mail as a valid source for any comments, so my intention is not to attack David Norris' character. Could someone comment on that article above and confirm whether or not Norris stated the following:
    • On child sexual abuse: ‘Children in some instances are more damaged by the condemnation than the experience’
    • Asked if incest was acceptable, he said there was a case to ban it... but only for girls who might have an ‘undesirable’ pregnancy
    • On paedophilia: ‘There’s a lot of nonsense about paedophilia... I think there is a complete and utter hysteria about this subject’
    • Challenged on whether a child can give ‘informed consent’ to sex: ‘The law should take into account consent rather than age’


    Ok firstly the only person that can confirm or deny if Norris actually said the above quotes is the man himself. According to him, they were taken out of context, so as far as we know he did say them. The question I think, should really be, what was do you think the context was.

    My own take on them one by one would be;

    "On child sexual abuse: ‘Children in some instances are more damaged by the condemnation than the experience".
    Children being damaged more by the condemnation is a very valid point. Many victims of abuse/pedophilia often reflect on their experiences with horror both by reporting the abuse aswell as the abuse itself. I think we need to really start addressing this issue and educate ourselves as to how to deal with a report of abuse from a child. Most victims never speak out until their young adults and/or even until much later in life. They are going through a horrific time and find it difficult to get seek support. Of course this is not the case for all victims and in fairness he did say "in some instances".

    Asked if incest was acceptable, he said there was a case to ban it... but only for girls who might have an ‘undesirable’ pregnancy
    Well there's not a lot of other information in relation to his reaction that subject other than that he jumped straight into "undesirable pregnancies" for girls. As we all know, Incest does not necessarily involve the abuse of minors. Incest can involve sexual relations between a brothers/sisters, cousins etc. Now like myself, Norris would class himself as a Liberal, and in my own opinion, if two sisters want to jump into bed together, then whatever. I say this as the younger brother of two sisters and the very thought of a thing would make me puke but if two consenting adults want to do it, well its none of my business. Incest is illegal in Ireland and punishable for imprisonment for up to seven years. And he's right, a child born of a couple with genes so close together is at risk of all kinds of birth defects. Cystic Fibrosis is widespread in the travelling community for example.

    "On paedophilia: ‘There’s a lot of nonsense about paedophilia... I think there is a complete and utter hysteria about this subject’"
    Briefly, I cant help but agree. Sheer utter hysteria. As someone pointed out in another post, you cant even look at a child without the worst being assumed. Thats not say that we should just relax about the subject but a more rational approach and we will succeed much better in the protection of minors.

    "Challenged on whether a child can give ‘informed consent’ to sex: ‘The law should take into account consent rather than age"
    Helen Lucy Burke's editorializing really shone through with that extract. The use of the word 'challenged' insinuates that he endorsing underage sex. The exact quote was "The law in this sphere should take in to account consent rather than age" - she did not even mention what "sphere" she had put the question to him. On many occasions Norris has addressed this issue when dealing with cases when both parties are close in age i.e when its a 16 year old girl and a 17 year old boy, and now in such cases the judge can actually use discretion as to whether a crime has been committed or not.

    My own take on all of the article is that it tries to paint a much more sinister picture that needs to be. If you look at the quotes individually and judge the man by his record and with some rational then it was a discussion about some very tricky subject matters that he should just never have got into discussing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭IrishPolitik


    anymore wrote: »
    Mr Norris also insisted in the seanad that the experinces of young gay males are different from those of other teens ( Nit5 sure if he forgot about lesbains ) He didnt explain if this was genetic or one of his own theories.
    As a parent who knows parents of gay young men, I have to say they didnt agree with him.

    So your a "parent who knows parents of young gay men" are you?

    Well take it from a 24 year old gay man "experinces of young gay males are different from those of other teens" is a very very true statement. Young gay people find it very difficult to relate to their heterosexual friends on a very broad range of issues!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭IrishPolitik


    anymore wrote: »
    I dont know if you have time to click on the Seanad link and read through it but it does provide some answers.
    On the question of ' consent , Mr Norris has this to say :

    ".I also oppose the amendment for some of the reasons the Minister of State has outlined but those very reasons should give us pause to consider the operation of the Bill in these terms. I have always believed, for example, that a far better way of dealing with these issues is the principle of consent. I am aware that is awkward because it would have to go to a court and a judge, or some kind of panel, would have to determine whether consent actually existed but the Minister of State said it all when she said that any of these lines are arbitrarily drawn, and when these lines are arbitrarily drawn there will be cases where moral injustice or damage is done to young people...."


    You seem hell bent on trying to give the impression that Norris has a somewhat laxed view on underage sex. You think that by underlining his quote about a principle of consent - and you say ha, I've got him, he does'nt believe in an age of consent.
    If this is the best that you can come up with, you'll have to try harder!

    Norris opposed the Bill on the exact same basis that the Minister Of Children at the time and future Minister For Education Mary Hannifan opposed it. In that it fails to protect minors from unfair prosecution.

    Principle of Consent was proposed when the people question are very close in age - maybe this quote might give you some more to look into

    "No consent can be deemed possible by a person under a certain age so a situation may arise where the relationship is perceived by the two parties engaged in it as consenting"


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