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Do I have grounds to try get back with her?

  • 24-09-2011 12:26AM
    #1
    recentlybigl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 ✭


    I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years around 2 months ago. She was going to the states for the summer and I fell out of love with her soon after she left.now shes back and we met up lately to "clear the air" and it made me realise that I kinda miss her..
    Would it be wrong to try and get back with her and if i was to how would i approach the situation?:confused:
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  • #2
    Zen65
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,630 ✭✭✭Zen65


    recentlybigl wrote: »
    I kinda miss her..

    I kinda miss Charlie Sheen from the Two and a Half Men series, but it's not keeping me awake at night. Your post sounds a little half-hearted Op, is that a good basis for a relationship?

    Perhaps you need time to get perspective on this. I'd suggest you wait and see how you feel in a month's time.

    Be at peace,

    Z


  • #3
    floorpie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭floorpie


    Zen65 wrote: »
    I kinda miss her

    It sounds like he's using it as a colloquialism or something. Or at least i'd assume he more than 'kinda' liked her after two years. Why did you fall out of love? Was it more eh...offensive or defensive, as in, did you realise that you had more fun without her, or was it insecurity because she was away from you?


  • #4
    recentlybigl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 ✭recentlybigl


    Yeh sorry, thats just the way i talk.. i mean i miss her...full stop. when she went away i think i just felt i was cool without her and got greedy to see new ppl.but now i realised what iv thrown away


  • #5
    floorpie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭floorpie


    recentlybigl wrote: »
    Yeh sorry, thats just the way i talk.. i mean i miss her...full stop. when she went away i think i just felt i was cool without her and got greedy to see new ppl.but now i realised what iv thrown away

    Well maybe i'm just a masochist but i feel that if you're unhappy being single, being in a relationship wont make you any more happy; that is, you should be happy with your situation, and strive to be, before you start thinking of getting with someone. So if you *were* genuinely cool without her, and you could stay that way, without her, then maybe you truly do just miss her. Of course that raises the question of why you didn't miss her straight away, but i don't think we can answer that for you. If you're just having grass-is-greener syndrome then it obviously wouldn't be right. Maybe sleep on it for a few weeks and see how you feel?


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